- 10 insights and 10 practical tips to coach at your very best
- Which insecurities and what else stand in your way of being the best coach you can be ? - ‘trouble shooting’ discussion
- Live coaching session demonstrating a deep, holistic coaching presence
- Exercises, tips, experience sharing and discussion about deepening your coaching presence
- Optimize the way you contract with your client at the start of a session
- Demonstration
- Practice 1-on-1 and debrief
- Expand your coachee’s ‘world of possibilities’
- Exercises and tips to adopt inspiration’, ‘stillness’ and ‘fearlessness’ in your coach’s way of being
- Coda: illuminate your coaching practice with artistry
Insights and Energy for Leaders in Crisis Time Webinar - Episode 7
The Art and Tao of Coaching beyond Mastery
1. The Art and Tao of Coaching
beyond Mastery level
蒞臨與超越大師級教練的藝與道
Jean-Francois Cousin, MCC
27th July 2023
2. What will happen… if we discard the ‘doing’ of coaching
and choose to believe just 3 things?
當我們放下「做」教練這一回事,而單單相信三件事時,會發生什麼事?
1. The client aspires to grow clearer and stronger
眼前的客戶渴望朝更清晰與更強壯的狀態邁進
3. ‘At the center of your being, you have the answer, you know who you are and you know
what you want’ 關於你是誰及你所想為何的答案,都在你的內核中。
2. ‘To the still mind, the whole universe surrenders’
至虛极,守静笃 (當思緒寂定,整個宇宙都向其臣服)
9. What are features of ‘being the coach’
that can hugely expand
our impact in sessions?
究竟哪些「當」教練的精髓可以大幅度的擴展我們在談話中的影響力?
10. 3 features of ‘Being the Coach’
that help 10X the impact of our sessions
讓教練影響力提升十倍的三個關鍵
✓ Be Fearless in stretching clients 無懼的去擴張
客戶
❖ Be Inspired by clients 讓自己被客戶啟發
o Be Still 靜駐 然後..
And then…
11. ❑ Unleash our benevolent ‘Personal
Power’, to radiate love & inspiration
釋放我們充滿仁慈善意的「個人力量」
去散發愛和靈感
3 workouts enabling us to ‘Be the Coach’
三個成就我們成為理想教練的練習
12. The greatest piece of advice that I have ever received?
“If you don’t have any shadows, you are not standing in the light.”
我收過最棒的建議是:
當你不佇立在光中時,
周圍是不會有任何影子/陰影的
13. “I encourage people to look into the darkness, into places you wouldn’t normally look,
to find uniqueness and specialness, because that is where the diamonds are hiding.”
我鼓勵大家都去黑暗中尋找,
到那些不尋常的角落探究,
去找出那些獨特且特別的。
因為那裡才是鑽石的藏身處!
14. • Work with our ‘shadows’, and then
work with our clients’ shadows
處理自己的陰影;進而,再去處理客戶的陰影。
o Expand ‘the size of our world’,
so that it can host our clients’ world
擴張我們的世界,進而去容納接待客戶的世界。
3 workouts enabling us to ‘Be the Coach’
三個成就我們成為理想教練的練習
❑ Unleash our benevolent ‘Personal
Power’, to radiate love & inspiration
釋放我們充滿仁慈善意的「個人力量」 去散發愛和靈感
15. THE SIZE OF OUR WORLD,
AS A COACH, NEEDS TO
BE LARGER THAN
THE SIZE OF THE WORLD
CLIENTS LIVE IN ...
FOR US TO BE THEIR COACH.
身為教練,若要去支持客戶,我
們所處之處必須比客戶的世界來
得更廣大
16. Such a way of Being will facilitate the emergence of
your ‘Artistry’ in Coaching
這樣的教練狀態,將促進你在談話中的“藝術性”浮現
17. To ‘Be’ the Coach & make your Coaching a fine Art…
Be a white canvas
要成為教練 將教練藝術化 就要當一張空白畫布
Give ALL the space to your
client
給客戶極致的空間
“What is your inspiration for
our session?”
本次談話你的啟發是?
“What would you love to
create today?”
今天你渴望創造什麼?
Invite your client to draw
outside ‘the canvas’ too!
也邀請你的客戶突破框架的來
創造。
We learn and
coach at our
best when we
don’t know
當我們面對未知
時,我們的教練
及學習狀態是最
好的!
18. Drawings by Pablo Picasso
畢卡索的畫作
Be a minimalist 做一位極簡主義者
To ‘Be’ the Coach & make your Coaching a fine Art…
要成為教練 將教練藝術化
• Let your eyes ask the questions 讓你的雙眼來提問
• Ask the simplest questions you can 提出最簡單的問題
• Invite your client to simplify their ideas to their essence
邀起客戶將他們的想法簡化成代表自己的精華
19. Disrespect the codes 挑戰既有的狀態
To ‘Be’ the Coach & make your Coaching a fine Art…
要成為教練 將教練藝術化
• Challenge with questions to which clients’ culture, education or knowledge
don’t provide a ready-made answer 透過提問挑戰客戶去找到自己的文化、教育、
知識以外的可能性
• Invite clients to imagine different lenses through which to look at the topic they
reflect about 邀請客戶透國不同的視角去想像自己帶進來反思的議題
• Ask permission to provoke and do it fearlessly 在獲得客戶准許後,無懼的去挑戰他。
20. …that's how the light gets in.”
萬物都存有裂痕,讓光線得以照入
加拿大歌手/音樂家 Leonard Cohen
“There is a crack in everything…
21. Search for the ‘light’ behind the fine cracks 找到裂痕後方的亮光
To ‘Be’ the Coach & make your Coaching a fine Art…
要成為教練 將教練藝術化
‘Fine cracks’ are integral to our clients’ wholeness.
Often, they make the whole more beautiful.
Invite those cracks to teach clients what will make
them even stronger. 細微的缺口是我們客戶完整性
的一部分,很多時
候,正是那些缺口們讓整個人
更美好。邀請那些缺口,
來教導客戶看見,那些讓自己
更強壯的元素。
金繕
22. Coach as if you are
seeing your coachee
for the last time ever
以見客戶最後一面的心態去教練
Be loving 做一個充滿愛的人
To ‘Be’ the Coach & make your Coaching a fine Art…
要成為教練 將教練藝術化
23. Be The Coach, first and foremost, so that
your clients can fully ‘Be’ with you.
第一步,就是成為,
那個讓客戶可以完整與你同在的教練。
The ‘doing’ of coaching will take care
of itself!
剩下來需要「做」的事情,都會自然的發生。
And that will help you co-create far
greater value with your clients than they
could ever imagine!
這樣就能幫助你,和客戶共創出,
他們想都想不到的卓越價值。