Gentleness in behaviour and steps to practice it

2. • The first and foremost thing in habits is “Narmi” or
Gentleness!

4. ‫ق‬ ‫ف‬ ‫ر‬
To give
advantage to
someone
‫فق‬ ِ‫ر‬
Used for
whom help is
required for
advantage
Soft, easy,
Gentle
behavior
‫فقه‬ ِ‫ر‬
Group of
friends,
Friends are
made when
you are
gentle
‫رفيقه‬
Gentle
behavior
‫رفيق‬
Friend

5. ‫ق‬ ‫ف‬ ‫ر‬
‫يق‬ِ‫ف‬َ‫ر‬
Friend
Friend is always
gentle to his
friend
Always show
good behavior
‫ق‬َ‫ف‬‫ر‬ِ‫م‬
Elbow
‫قا‬َ‫ف‬‫ر‬ِ‫م‬
Small pillow
used while
sleeping to put
up under cheeks
‫قا‬َ‫ف‬َ‫ت‬‫ر‬ُ‫م‬
The place where
pillow is placed
Jannat
(Hasunat
Murtafaka)
‫مرتفقا‬ ‫حسنت‬
Jahanam
(Sa’ar Murtafaka)
‫مرتفقا‬ ‫ساءت‬

6. The people who
show gentleness
The place
where
there is
gentleness

7. • Excellent morals
• Kind behavior
• Polite and appropriate speach

8. Jarir (R.A) narrated: Allah’s messenger (SAW) said, “He who
is deprived of gentleness is deprived of goodness.”

9. • How can I be gentle always?
• It’s so difficult!

10. VS

11. • If you know who you are, there’s
no need to try and convince
another person who you are and
what you stand for.
• Know that your ego is every bit as
abusive as another damaging
individual.
• Your ego loves to trick you into
thinking that you can win the
argument, that you can convince
it and resolve the issue, and that
you'll receive peace after having
this struggle with yourself.

12. Our ego is the part of our personality that
loves manufacturing ‘less than’ experiences.
Our ego feeds on fear, doubt and pain.
The more we attach ourselves to our ego
thoughts, the further we move away from
our soul truth.

14. • Re-Hash past experience
• Replay it
• Makes believe drama
• Judges matters ownself
• Takes matters very personally.

16. Hazrat Aisha (RA) wife of Hazrat Muhammad
(SAW)narrated, Allah messenger said:
“Whenever gentleness is added to something, it adorns it
and when ever it is withdrawn from something , it leaves it defective”

17. • We don’t move on!
• We don’t create new positive experiences!
• End up back at square one!
• Our ego clings to injustice and creating injustices!

18. • Inflated Ego does not allow person to be gentle

20. • kindly; amiable: a gentle manner.
• not severe, rough, or violent; mild: a gentle wind; a gentle
tap on the shoulder.
• to tame; render tractable.
• to mollify; calm; pacify.
• to make gentle.
• to stroke; soothe by petting.
• to ennoble; dignify.

22. Allah is giving advise to Muhammad (SAW) to be kind
to children so there is a lesson for us

23. • In Qur’an the ability of Sahaba Karam
is shown that they are gentle to
elders, youngers and children as well

25. • Be gentle to elders as
well as youngers

26. • Meekness
• Door Mat

27. • Gets people's
attention.
• It's radical.
• Our untapped
power and
potential under
Allah's control.

28. In the matters of
Allah!
Remain firm, fix in your own matters.
Show gentleness to others!

29. To get
success in
life
To make
life easy
To awaken
some
body’s
qualities

30. Hazrat Aisha (RA) wife of Hazrat Muhammad
(SAW)narrated,The prophet (SAW) said: “O Aisha! Indeed Allah is
gentle and He loves gentleness and He gives due to gentleness and
He does not give due to harshness, and he does not give upon any
thing else besides it.”

31. • Abdullah Bin Masud (RA) narrated: Allah’smessenger
said: “Shall I not to infrom you who is forbidden upon the
(Hell) Fire and whom the fire is forbidden upon? Aman
who is always accessible, gentle and easy going.”

32. • P – Personality (character traits)
• O – Outlook (attitude and action towards people)
• W – Words (tame the tongue)
• E – Expectations (judgmental)
• R – Response (proactive or reactive)

34. • Gentleness is a strong hand
with a soft touch.
• It is a tender,
compassionate approach
toward others' weaknesses
and limitations.
• A gentle person still speaks
truth, sometimes even
painful truth, but in doing so
guards his tone so the truth
can be well received.