Based on Book :Dawae Shafi by Imam Qayyam Ibn Al jawzi

1. Dawae Shafi
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser
Chapter 34-47

2. 114 chapters

3. Time to Halt on
Sins
Beyond Comprehension Loss

5. Our Own Earning
َ‫أ‬ ْ‫ت‬َ‫ب‬َ‫س‬َ‫ك‬ ‫ا‬َ‫م‬ِ‫ب‬َ‫ف‬ ٍ‫ة‬َ‫ب‬‫ي‬ ِ
‫ص‬ُّ‫م‬ ‫ن‬ِِّ‫م‬ ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬َ‫ب‬‫ا‬َ‫ص‬َ‫أ‬ ‫ا‬َ‫م‬ َ‫و‬
ٍ
ٍ ‫ي‬َِِ‫ك‬ ‫ن‬ََ ‫و‬َُُْْ‫ي‬ َ‫و‬ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬‫ِي‬ِْ‫ي‬
Whatever misfortune happens to you, is because on the things
your hands have wrought, and for many (of them) He grants
forgiveness.(Ash-Shura:30)
ً‫ة‬َ‫م‬ِِّْْ‫ن‬ ‫ا‬ًٍ ِِّ‫ي‬َ‫غ‬ُ‫م‬ ُ‫ك‬َ‫ي‬ ْ‫م‬َ‫ل‬ َ َّ
‫َّللا‬ َّ‫ن‬َ‫أ‬ِ‫ب‬ َ‫ك‬ِ‫ل‬ََٰ‫ذ‬
َ‫غ‬ُ‫ي‬ َٰ
‫ى‬َّ‫ت‬َ‫ح‬ ٍ‫م‬ ْ‫و‬َ‫ق‬ َٰ
‫ى‬َ‫ل‬ََ ‫ا‬َ‫ه‬َ‫م‬َْْ‫ن‬َ‫أ‬
ْ‫م‬ِ‫ه‬ِ‫س‬ُُ‫ن‬َ‫أ‬ِ‫ب‬ ‫ا‬َ‫م‬ ‫وا‬ٍُ ِِّ‫ي‬
ۙ
ٌ‫م‬‫ي‬ِ‫ل‬ََ ٌ‫ع‬‫ي‬ِ‫م‬َ‫س‬ َ َّ
‫َّللا‬ َّ‫ن‬َ‫أ‬ َ‫و‬
"Because Allah will never change the grace which He has
bestowed on a people until they change what is in their (own)
souls: and verily Allah is He Who hears and knows (all things).”
(Al-Anfaal:53)

6. Ali bin Abi Talib (RA) said: "No affliction
comes down except due to a sin, and it is
not removed except with repentance”

7. Submission
to Allah is
Strong
Fortress!

8. Disobedient Person…
• Fear of people and society
• Anxiety
• Restless
• Isolation in heart
• Bitterness in life
• Remoteness from Allah

9. Sickness in heart
• Sins are ailments of heart
• No cure but to give up sins
ٍ‫يم‬َِْ‫ن‬ ‫ي‬َُِ‫ل‬ ٍَ ‫ا‬ٍَ ْ‫ب‬َ ْ
‫اْل‬ َّ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬
As for the Righteous, they will be in bliss;
ٍ‫يم‬ ِ‫ح‬َ‫ج‬ ‫ي‬َُِ‫ل‬ ٍَ ‫ا‬َّ‫ج‬ُُْ‫ال‬ َّ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬ َ‫و‬
And the Wicked - they will be in the Fire,
(Al-Infitaar:13-14)

12. Torture of any worldly Love
Struggle to gain love
Insecurity for retaining love
Final loss of love

13. Destination of Barzakh
‫ف ٍاق‬ ‫الم‬
،‫نْيم‬ ،‫فوت‬
‫َظيم‬
‫حجاب‬ ‫الم‬
‫حس ٍت‬ ‫الم‬ ‫َذاب‬ ‫الم‬

14. Time to make wiser choices
Look
forward
Happy
Time to
meet Allah
Content Reward

15. Value
Yourself
On
Your
Default

16. When Imam Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, saw
signs of remarkable knowledge in Imam Shafi'i, he told
him: "I see that Allah has cast a light upon you, so do not
extinguish it with the darkness of disobedience to Him
(by committing a misdeed)."

17. Our Nafs
Disgrace of Self

18. ‫ا‬َ‫ه‬‫ا‬َّ‫ك‬َ‫ز‬ ‫ن‬َ‫م‬ َ‫ح‬َ‫ل‬ْ‫ف‬َ‫أ‬ َِْ‫ق‬
‫ا‬َ‫ه‬‫ا‬َّ‫س‬َِ ‫ن‬َ‫م‬ َ‫َاب‬‫خ‬ َِْ‫ق‬ َ‫و‬
He has succeeded who purifies it,
And he has failed who instills it [with corruption].
(Ash-Shams:9-10)

19. Devil; Lifetime Imprisonment
• Understand desires
• Fixing temptations
• Petty issue control
• Connection to Allah

20. Distance from Allah
Carelessness
and
negligence
Serious sin
Innovation in
deen
Hypocrisy Shirk
Losing one's status before Allah and before His Creation
Life of disgrace, worry and sadness

21. Imprints we leave behind
َ‫ين‬ ِ
ٍ ِ‫خ‬ ْ
‫اْل‬ ‫ي‬ِ‫ف‬ ٍ‫ق‬ِْ ِ
‫ص‬ َ‫ان‬َ‫س‬ِ‫ل‬ ‫ي‬ِِّ‫ل‬ ‫ل‬َْْ‫اج‬ َ‫و‬
"Grant me honourable mention on the tongue of
truth among the latest (generations); (Ahs Shura:84)
َ‫ك‬ ٍَ ْ‫ك‬ِ‫ذ‬ َ‫ك‬َ‫ل‬ ‫َا‬‫ن‬َْْ‫ف‬ٍَ َ‫و‬
And raised high the esteem (in which) thou (art
held)? (Ash Sharah:4)

22. Tittles according to deeds
Believer
Dutiful
Reverent
Pious
Obedient
Truthful
Responsible
Disobedient
Opponent
Insolent
Corrupt
Evil & Cursed
Adulterer
Thief, killer, liar, traitor
Homosexual, trouble maker

23. Impact on Intellect
• One who is obedient to Allah: Intellect is
better, sounder, and closer to the truth
… ِ‫ب‬‫ا‬َ‫ب‬ْ‫ل‬َ ْ
‫اْل‬ ‫و‬ُ‫ل‬‫و‬ُ‫أ‬ ٍُ َّ‫ك‬َ‫ذ‬َ‫ت‬َ‫ي‬ ‫ا‬َ‫م‬َّ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬
…It is those who are endued with understanding
that receive admonition.
(Az-Zumar:9)

24. Evidence for low intellect
• Disobeys Allah in Allah's World, knowing that He is
watching over him?
• He commits a sin, knowing that he cannot conceal
himself from Allah's Sight
• Ignoring the fact that he is inviting the Curse of Allah
• Knows that his sinful activities drive him away from
Allah's Pleasure and Allah's Protection
• Knows that he would be denied looking at Allah's Face
on the Day of Judgment, and would be in the company
of those who had earned Allah's Anger

25. It is not difficult for a
reasonable person to
realize that attaining real
pleasure, happiness and
delight in this life and
the Hereafter requires that
one pleases the Lord, and
does not earn His Anger
nor His Curse.

26. Connectivity with
Allah
Damaged, Severed, Ruptured

28. "You see a man caught between( obeying) Allah and (
obeying) Satan; if he refuses to adhere to Allah's
Commands, Satan would overpower him and take
control of his lost mind.” (Scholar)

29. … ‫ُو‬ََِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬َ‫ل‬ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ه‬ َ‫و‬
َ‫ين‬ِ‫م‬ِ‫ل‬‫ا‬َّ‫لظ‬ِ‫ل‬ َ‫س‬ْ‫ئ‬ِ‫ب‬ ۙ
ً
‫ًل‬ََِ‫ب‬
…And they are enemies to you! Evil would be the exchange
for the wrong-doers!
(Al-Kahf:50)

30. Loss of Barakah
Blessings in life
Blessing of livelihood
Blessing of knowledge
Blessing of work
Blessing of obedience to Allah

31. If the people of the towns had but believed and feared Allah, We
should indeed have opened out to them (All kinds of) blessings
from heaven and earth; but they rejected (the truth), and We
brought them to book for their misdeeds.
(Al A’raaf:96)

32. Allah said, reported by the Prophet ‫ﷺ‬:"I am Allah. There is
no god but Me. If I am pleased, I bestow My Grace upon
My Servant, and there is no limit to My Blessings. When I
am Angry, I Curse, and My Curse reaches the seventh
offspring of a person.”
(Musnad Ahmed: 182)

33. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "This world is cursed and so are all
the things in it, except the remembrance of Allah, those
things which He likes, scholars and students.”
(Tirmidhi:2322)

34. From Highest to
Lowest
Exalted or Degraded

35. Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: “A Servant of Allah may utter a word,
without thinking whether it is right or wrong; he may
fall down into the Fire a distance equal to that between
the east and west.”
(Bukhari:6477)

36. Falling is inevitable
State of
carelessness
Come
around
Quickly
return to
high level
Sharpness of
their
wakefulness
A pure and
truthful
repentance

37. Highs and
Lows
• Degree of
perfection
• Repentance
• Feeling of
disgrace
• Submission and
fear of Allah

38. Soooo What?
Give me Break?
You only live once?
Daikha jaee ga!!
These religious sermons…

39. It is Allah Who sustains the heavens and the earth, lest they cease
(to function): and if they should fail, there is none - not one - can
sustain them thereafter: Verily He is Most Forbearing, Oft-
Forgiving.
(Faatir:41)

40. How could I do it?
Need to repent
Improve for future
Ignore reactions of people
Can’t take Allah’s mercy for
granted

41. AGONY OF SINS IN FORM OF
ISSUES AFTER ISSUES

42. Low
Immunity
No Help from
Allah

43. What to Understand
Is it Love or Addiction?

44. What is Love Addiction?
• Lesser known addiction
• Unhealthy dependence on other person
• You have withdrawal symptoms if not in touch
• Can survive consciously but unconsciously
seek approval as all these concepts sound
perfect to unconscious mind

45. How Love Addiction gets Started?
• Infant attachment with parents
• Unmet needs
• When we grow up, we feel threatened
• We forget that as adults, we can take care of our
lives by problem solving
• We can postpone our needs till resources are
available by simply meeting what resources we
have
• We try to solve our problems same infant way by
clinging desperately to the person

47. To get in touch…..
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser/ Hamaray Bachchay
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser @ HamarayBachchay
hbheadoffice@gmail.com