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GradSchools.com
Kiss
of
Death
Grad School
Application
These mistakes could give your application the
Kiss
of
Death!
A revealing survey of psychology
graduate admissions committee chairs!
Faculty look for
students who are:
Faculty look for
students who are:
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
Faculty look for
students who are:
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
Faculty look for
students who are:
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
• Bright
Faculty look for
students who are:
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
• Bright
• Motivated
Faculty look for
students who are:
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
• Bright
• Motivated
• Well-suited
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
• Bright
• Motivated
• Well-suited
• Eager
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
• Bright
• Motivated
• Well-suited
• Eager
• Pleasant
Faculty look for
students who are:
• Gifted
• Creative
• Bright
• Motivated
• Well-suited
• Eager
• Pleasant
• Responsible
Kisses
of
Death:
Kisses
of
Death:
1. Damaging personal statements
Kisses
of
Death:
1. Damaging personal statements
2. Harmful letters of recommendation
Kisses
of
Death:
1. Damaging personal statements
2. Harmful letters of recommendation
3. Lack of program information
Kisses
of
Death:
1. Damaging personal statements
2. Harmful letters of recommendation
3. Lack of program information
4. Poor writing skills
Kisses
of
Death:
1. Damaging personal statements
2. Harmful letters of recommendation
3. Lack of program information
4. Poor writing skills
5. Misfired attempts to impress
Don’t talk about:
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
• Excessive religious references
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
• Excessive religious references
• Overcoming odds
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
• Excessive religious references
• Overcoming odds
Have a reference tell your story!
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
• Excessive religious references
• Overcoming odds
Have a reference tell your story!
“Everybody wants to help people.
That’s assumed.
Don’t say the reason you want to
go into clinical psychology is to
help people.”
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
• Excessive religious references
• Overcoming odds
No being ‘cutesy!’
Don’t talk about:
• Mental health problems
• Excessive religious references
• Overcoming odds
No being ‘cutesy!’
You should seem like the perfect student!
You should seem like the perfect student!
Get letters from:
You should seem like the perfect student!
Professors
Educators
Relatives
Employees
Get letters from:
Research the program’s focus
FIRST
Research the program’s focus
Compare your research interest
with faculty’s activities
THEN
FIRST
IMMEDIATE
Kiss
of
Death
IMMEDIATE
Kiss
of
Death
Spelling & grammar errors =
IMMEDIATE
Kiss
of
Death
Spelling & grammar errors =
Weak & poorly written =
• Don’t blame others
• Don’t blame others
• Research the program, mentors, and advisors
• Don’t blame others
• Research the program, mentors, and advisors
• Be authentic
• Don’t blame others
• Research the program, mentors, and advisors
• Name dropping doesn’t work!
• Be authentic
• Don’t blame others
• Research the program, mentors, and advisors
• Name dropping doesn’t work!
• Be authentic
“Admissions committees care
about you, NOT who you know.”
So how can I
avoid the
Kiss of
Death?!
Seek:
Seek:
• Mentoring
Seek:
• Mentoring
• Academic advising
Seek:
• Mentoring
• Academic advising
• Graduate school prep classes
Seek:
• Mentoring
• Academic advising
• Graduate school prep classes
Some universities offer for free!
• Participate in faculty research
• Participate in faculty research
• Make connections
• Participate in faculty research
• Make connections
“Effective mentoring can help attain
the research and classroom
experiences that facilitate strong
letters of recommendation,
compelling personal statements,
and proficient writing skills”
Advisors can help:
Advisors can help:
• Establish a realistic timeline
Advisors can help:
• Establish a realistic timeline
• Organize applications
Advisors can help:
• Establish a realistic timeline
• Organize applications
• Prepare for exams
Advisors can help:
• Establish a realistic timeline
• Organize applications
• Prepare for exams
• Select a recommender
Advisors can help:
• Establish a realistic timeline
• Organize applications
• Prepare for exams
• Select a recommender
One-on-one advising may not be available
Academic advising class designed to teach:
Academic advising class designed to teach:
‐ “The info needed to apply to graduate programs”
Academic advising class designed to teach:
‐ “The info needed to apply to graduate programs”
‐ “How to apply to graduate school”
Academic advising class designed to teach:
‐ “The info needed to apply to graduate programs”
‐ “How to apply to graduate school”
‐ “The value of letters of ”
Check out GradSchools.com’s resources!
Check out GradSchools.com’s resources!
• GRE Overview
Check out GradSchools.com’s resources!
• GRE Overview
• Rock Star Recommendation Letters
Check out GradSchools.com’s resources!
• GRE Overview
• Rock Star Recommendation Letters
• 7 Deadly Sins for Applicants
Check out GradSchools.com’s resources!
• GRE Overview
• Rock Star Recommendation Letters
• 7 Deadly Sins for Applicants
• 10 Tips to Ace the Application Process
Check out GradSchools.com’s resources!
• GRE Overview
• Rock Star Recommendation Letters
• 7 Deadly Sins for Applicants
• 10 Tips to Ace the Application Process
Appleby, D. & Appleby, K. (2006) Kisses of
Death in the Graduate School
Application Process. Retrieved from
www.psychology.unl.edu
Slideshow by Sam Bressler of the GradSchools.com team

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