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The Very Real Dangers
of Executive Coaching
by Steven Berglas, Harvard Business Review, June 2002


Over the past 15 years, it has become more and more popular to hire coaches for
promising executives. Although some of these coaches hail from the world of
psychology, a greater share are former athletes, lawyers, business academics and
consultants. No doubt these people help executives improve their performance in many
areas. But I want to tell a different story. I believe that in an alarming number if
situations, executive coaches who lack the rigorous psychological training do more harm
than good. By dint of their backgrounds and biases, they downplay or simply ignore
deep-s t pyhl i lrb m te dn udrad E e m rcne i ,
       e e s o g apol shy o’ ne t . vn oe ocr n
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whe a eeuv’pol st f mudt t o i oe pyhl i l
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difficulties, coaching can actually make a bad situation worse. In my view, the solution
most often lies in addressing unconscious conflict when the symptoms plaguing an
executive are stubborn or severe.

Consider Rob Bernstein. (In the interests of confidentiality, I use pseudonyms
throughout this article.) He was an executive vice president of sales at an automotive
parts distributor. According to the CEO, Bernstein caused trouble inside the company
but was worth his weight in gold with clients. The situation reached the breaking point
when Bernstein publicly humiliated a mail clerk who had interrupted a meeting to get
someone to sign for a parcel. After that incident, the CEO assigned Tom Davis to coach
Brs ifrorer B t s a o ep r g e s is ar t et fh
  e tn o fu ya . u i t d fxl i Br tn m le m n o t
   ne                   s     ne             on        n e ’ ta                  e
spottf ait gt i t hi e fr m ng gh l lpol – the most
 uprs f D v a h h e n uso “ aai t i e ep ” in
           a, s u            m c q                      n et      t        e
Machiavellian sense. The problem was that, while the coaching appeared to score some
impressive successes, whenever Bernstein overcame one difficulty, he inevitably found
another to take its place.

R uh s m n sf r e s iad aif i e w r n t e e B rs is
  ogl i ot aeB r tn n D v is d ok go t r e tn
        yx        h t        ne              s nh             i gh , ne’
immediate boss left the business, and he was tapped to fill the position. True to his
history, Bernstein was soon embroiled in controversy. This time, rather than alienating
subordinates, Bernstein was suspected of embezzlement. When confronted, he asked to
work with his coach again. Fortunately for Bernstein, The CEO suspected something
deeper was wrong, and instead of calling Davis, he turned to me for help.

After just a few weeks of working with Bernstein, I realised that he had a serious
narcissistic personality disorder. His behaviour was symptomatic of a sense of
entitlement to run amok. It is not at all uncommon to find narcissists at the top of
workplace hierarchies; before their character flaws prove to be their undoing, they can be
very productive. Narcissists are driven to achieve, yet because they are so grandiose, they
often end up negating all the good they accomplish. Not only do narcissists devalue
those they feel are beneath them, but such self-involved individuals also readily disregard
rules they are contemptuous of.

N a on o eeuv cah g olhv aeie Brs is i re N rss
  o m ut fxcte oci cu ae lv t e tn d odr a iis
                      i        n       d        l a d n e ’ s . cst
rarely change their behaviour unless they experience extraordinary psychological pain –
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typically a blow to their self-e em T e a dx f e s isircumstance was that
                               s e . h pr o o B r tn c
                                t             a         ne’
working with his executive coach had only served to shield him from pain and enhance his
s so g ni i,seet it f lg“ms ipr n t th bspifr
 e e fr d syar l e n h e i ,I om ot th t os a o a
  n         a ot           fc d       e en ’                 a a e              d
sei cah o e m . E euv cah gut rrdd e s is e om ne
 pc loc t hl e xcte oci fr ee e B r tn pr r ac,
     a               p ”           i          n   h o             ne’ f
as often occurs when narcissists avoid the truth.

My misgivings about executive coaching are not a clarion call for psychotherapy or
psychoanalysis. Psychoanalysis, in particular, does not – never will – everybody.
                                                           and              suit
Nor is it up to corporate leaders to ensure that all employees deal with their personal
demons. My goal, as someone with a doctorate in psychology who also serves as an
eeuv cahit hi t a a nso te ie ne e en “rb m
 xcte oc, o e h n w r e fh d f ec bt e a pol
      i           s       ge         e s             fr         w              e
excte w o a b ti d o uco e ete ad n eeuv wt a rb m
  euv” h cn ern t fntn f cvl n a “xcte i pol ”
      i                   ae            i f iy                         i      h       e
who can best be helped by psychotherapy.

The issue is threefold. First, many executive coaches, especially those who draw their
inspiration form sports, sell themselves as purveyors of simple answers and quick results.
Scn,vn oce w o cethtn xcte pol s a r u eieo
 eodee cahs h acp taa eeuv’ rb m m ye i t t        is         e           qr m
address still tend to rely solely on behavioural solutions. Finally, executive coaches
unschooled in the dynamics of psychotherapy often exploit the powerful hold they
develop over their clients. Sadly, misguided coaching ignores – even creates –
                                                                   and                 deep-
rooted psychological problems that often only psychotherapy can fix.

The Lure of Easy Answers

The popularity of executive coaching owes much to the modern craze for easy answers.
Businesspeople in general – American ones in particular –
                               and                                  constantly look for new
ways to change as quickly and as painlessly as possible. Self-help manuals abound.
Success is defined in 12 simple steps or seven effective habits. In this environment of
quick fixes, psychotherapy has become marginalized. And executive coaches have
stepped in to fill the gap, offering a kind of instant alternative. As management guru
Warren Bennis observes,Al o eeuv cah gsel a acpalfr o
                            “ o fxcte oci ir l n cet eom f
                                  t          i          n       ay            b
pyhte p. t slog t s , ’ gi t s m t r i’Is kyo a,
  s ohr y Ist tuh o a ‘ o go e yh a s. t oa t s
   c        a       ’ i  l            yI   m n            e       e pt ’                 y
‘ gtn cuslgrmm cah”
 I ei onei f
  ’ tg
  m                  l n o y oc.           ’

To achieve fast results, many popular executive coaches model their interventions after
those used by sports coaches, employing techniques that reject out if hand any
irsete rcstacn aeie n cue prys y nli”T edaht
 n opcv poe hta t t ad as“a lib aa s. h i ta
  t       i         s           k m                   as            ys          e
an executive coach can help employees improve performance quickly is a great selling
point to CEOs, who put the bottom line first. Yet that approach tends to gloss over any
unconscious conflict the employee might have. This can have disastrous consequences
for the company in the long term and can exacerbate the psychological damage to the
person targeted for help.

Consider Jim Mirabella, an executive earmarked for leadership at an electronic games
manufacturer. Ever since the CEO had promoted him to head of marketing, Mirabella
had become impossible to work with. Colleagues complained that he hoarded
information about company strategy, market indicators, sales forecasts and the like. The
t oy iu t ghog t g pv e at t r ea a w so eknui
 h rccli t uh h r ei w sh Mibl’ i at w ae j o
  e     r an r              e a n             a a ls m                             nr
eeuvsaiyo aenomed contributions during interdivisional strategic-
 xcte bi t m k i r
      i ’ l    t            f
planning sessions. He was assigned an executive coach.


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university he had attended, McNulty always knew he was too small for professional
sports and not studious enough for medicine or law. But realising he had charisma to
spare, McNulty decided, while an undergraduate business major minoring in sports
psychology, that he would pursue a career in executive coaching. After earning an MBA
from a leading university, McNulty soon became known in the business community as a
man who could polish the managerial skills of even the ugliest of ducklings.

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   N l’ adt at sao r ea 47 o al anee t esrta
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he would grow into his position. From the start of their relationship, McNulty and
Mirabella had two private meetings a day during which McNulty analysed Miraea    bl’ls
behaviour and role played effective styles for mastering interpersonal situations that
Mirabella did not handle well. True to his jock background, McNulty reacted to
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demands of his preordained role within the company.

B d t f N l’fr of personality or indefatigability, Mirabella stopped fighting
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change, he told the CEO that Mirabella was not up to the job. But within a week of
ending his meetings with McNulty, Mirabella became severely depressed. At that point
he turned to me for help.

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ahead. In fact, he felt he was moving ahead too fast. Mirabella was convinced that he
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Mibl blvd ht e an ere h sce bt a im oe o him because
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fl m bs demt ke te o pn it hns fti s h dmanded.
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  n vn oem ot to pnn o Mibl’ m t nlt gl t uhw s i
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morbid fear of failure. He obsessed that the leadership style he had developed belonged
to his coach – to him – he dreaded being exposed as a fake.
              not           and

Had Mibl’cah ene sotdi n or better versed in interpersonal
        r ea oc be lspr r e –
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psychology – could have anticipated that all the learned bravado in the world could
              he
never prepare Mirabella for the role he was assigned to fill. Mirabella needed someone
who would listen to his fears and analyse their origins. In the end Mirabella could
function effectively only if his advancement was predicated on his own desires and
leadership style – o o sm oe l’ O e e aalt dawt h i ecnlt
                  nt n o en ee. n h w sb o el i i n rof s
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The Snare of Behaviourism

Even when coaches adopt a more empirically validated approach than McNulty did, they
still tend to fall into the trap of treating the symptoms rather than th d odr T as
                                                                        e i re ht
                                                                          s .      ’
because they typically derive their treatments from behavioural psychology. Of course,

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behaviourism has been a great been to psychiatry in recent years. Findings from this
discipline have helped people enormously in controlling specific behaviours and learning
to cope in particular situations. But treatments derived form behavioural psychology are
sm t e t l id o dr sh pol sht iutxcte aiyo
 o em so i t t ade t rb m tad rp eeuv’ bi t
      i       om e               s e        e          s          is l     t
function.

One of the most popular behaviourist solutions is assertiveness training. This technique
is most often used to help individuals cope with situations that evoke intense negative
feelings – o ea p ,e i du ad tt “ ss n”o e pao. xcte
            frxm l hln rg diso j ta o t t ti E euv
                      e pg                c        u y              m tn            i
coaches use assertiveness training in a number of contexts. For instance, many coaches
working with executives who appear to be lacking confidence employ the technique in
order to perform better. Unfortunately, learning effective responses to stressors often
fails to help corporate executives deal with their intrapsychic pressures.

Take Jennifer Mansfield, vice president of training and development at a large software
manufacturer. An acknowledged workaholic, Mansfield had followed a traditional path
within her corporation, rising through the ranks by fulfilling every assignment with stellar
r us Whn h w s rm t t a aaeapsi ,o ee Mase ’sf
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confidence began to slip. As a boss, she found it hard to delegate. Accustomed to
delivering110%, she was loath to cede control to her direct reports. She also found it
impossible to give negative feedback. As a consequence, her work and that of her
subordinates started to suffer and she was missing deadlines.

Her boss presumed Mansfield was having an assertiveness problem, so he hired a coach
form a consulting firm that specialised in behavioural treatments to work with her. The
coach assumed Mansfield needed to learn to set limits, to constructively criticise her
subordinates and to avoid the trap of doing othepols ok o t m Wiito
                                                 r ep ’w r frh . tn w
                                                         e             e         h
months of what her coach deemed successful training, Mansfield began to lose weight,
grow irritable and display signs of exhaustion. At the time, I happened to be coaching
t sf a cm ay C Oad e se m t tko e Id n t eogo e
 h ot r o pn’ O n h a d eo a t hr t i ’ a l t s
  e w e                s                 k           l         . dtk n                 e
how assertiveness training had unearthed a problem Mansfield had managed to keep
under wraps for years.

Companies have a very tough time dealing with workaholics like Mansfield. Such
individuals tend to sacrifice social and avocational pursuits in favour of work and
bs e evl t ipouti. t hr t r lehths polhv suk
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she harboured a tremendous fear of intimacy. Although she was young attractive and
lal hr a nsd oc ad em tesus un e ooasf r g
 i b ,epr t i r n hr o r sbe etm t nluf i
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 c m n a d o nfl s a m n r a a ”lt ef f o fr i
  o         ce             id         l      e td e                 au            g
intimate relationships with men. Those were easy for her to avoid when she managed
discrete projects by putting in 80-hour work-weeks. But Mansfield could no longer do
so when she became the manager of 11 professionals, seven of whom were men. For
the first time in her career, males were showering her with attention and the
consequences were extremely disruptive.

Mansfield could neither comprehend nor cope with the attention she received once
promoted to the role of boss. While most managers would view the schmoozing and
lobbying for attention that her reports engaged in as office politics, Mansfield saw these
attempts to currying favour as trial balloons that might lead to dating. She was not being
sexually harassed; Mansfield was merely experiencing interpersonal advances that

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threatened the protective fortress she had erected against feelings of intimacy. The better
Mansfield managed the men in her division – the more her constructive feedback
                                               and
improved their work – more intimate they appeared to become as a natural outcome
                       the
of their appreciation.

I passed this diagnosis along to the executive vice president of human resources, and he
cnur . nflsoci ca d n aehr osn Iodc d cr uy
 ocr d Mase ’cah g es ad f r ebsad cnut a a fl
        e          id           n      e        t                         e       e l
crafted intervention, she agreed to seek out psychotherapy. Several years later, Mansfield
was thriving as a manager and she had developed a more fulfilling personal life.

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  o a eeuv cahsr sn f r ts nfls at udri
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psychological disturbances. But those oversights are common when coaches focus on
problems rather than people. Such coaches tend to define the problems plaguing an
executive in the terms they understand best. If all you have is a hammer, everything
looks like a nail.

The Trap of Influence

Executive coachesrate m sdne u w e t y ite E ’er T ipt
                    a thi ot agr s hn h wn h C Osa h u
                      e       r            o            e                     . s s
them in a position to wield great power over an entire organisation, a scenario that
occurs with disturbing frequency. Since many executive coaches were corporate types in
prior lives, they connect with CEOs far more readily than most psychotherapists do.
They are fluent in business patois and they move easily from discussions of improving an
i idas e om neo odcn i e etn tacn e ete ui sui
 n v ul pr r ac t cnut gn r ni shta hl n rbs e n s
  di ’ f                             i tv o                       p i          ns t
capture or retain market share. Unless these executive coaches have been trained in the
dynamics of interpersonal relations, however, they may abuse their power –   often
without meaning to. Indeed, many coaches gain a Svengali-like hold over both the
executives they train and the CEOs they report to, sometimes with disastrous
consequences.

Take Rich Garvin, The CEO of an athletic shoe manufacturing company with sales in
ecso $0 ml n ya D si h cm ay seG rihd eeh e a
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      s            li         . pe s                  sz       v               r
coach for any of his direct reports. He knew that his HR director used trainers and
coaches, but Garvin was a finance guy first and foremost. And since the athletic shoe
industry was flying high, he left personnel matters to those who were paid to worry about
thm B t t le 90, e a efrtlisos oas . n a is ol
  e u i h a 19st m r to a ec he clpe I G rn w r ,
            n et              h       k       ht              l d           v’       d
the most immediate casualty was his COO, who snapped under the strain of failing to
meet sales estimates for three consecutive quarters. The COO began venting his
frustration on store managers, buyers and suppliers.

Garvin was under the gun during this difficult time, so he skipped the usual steps and
sought the services of an executive coach on his own. He picked someone he knew well:
Karl Nelson, whom Garvin had worked with at a major consulting firm when they were
both starting their careers as freshly minted MBAs. Garvin thought he could trust
N l n o e m ng h C Osnead o etr i truh h s r . e l
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    s         p            s                               m            eo             s
le teon o N l n cah g
 i d h sud f eo’ oci approach. It was based on a profiling system that
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inventory, with many of the psycho g t baa Mao ’sf
                                      l i A r m s wse-actualisation principles
                                       os       h       l       l
thrown in. Garvin believed that Nelson and his system could help the COO.


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Within six months of taking the assignment, nelson claimed that the once-raging COO
was calm and capable of fulfilling his duties. While this successful outcome was aided in
lg prb te tliso i ut ’r oe , a iw s ee hlsm r s
a e a yh a echen sy e vr G r n anvr e sipe e
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During the next year, Nelson suggested a number of personnel changes. Since those
cm wt t C Os ak gt H d etrcet t m n qe i sse.
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         h e                 n h           r o          d e            tn k
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  eas se aa a o ukh E ’handpicked adviser, the personnel director
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exclusive reliance on his profiling system. For example, in recommending the promotion
of one East Coast store manager to regional director of West Coast sales, Nelson ignored
t m n uf i ry i teei ad h polh w spo t t m ng. o
 h a’ na l i wt h r o n te ep e aapie o aae N t
  e      s mit h    a               gn                e             nd
surprisingly, that move – n m n o N l n ohrl
                          ad ay f eo’ tei   s s         l
                                                        -conceived selections – bombed.
To compound the problem, word of Nel n s t ad iot hrf
                                          s ’ tu n h fn ori
                                           os as            s e        i c
recommendations circulated through the company like wildfire, leading many to both
fear and resent his undue influence over Garvin. The negative emotions Nelson
generated were so intense that under-performing, newly promoted managers became
targets of an undeclared, but uniformly embraced, pattern of passive-aggressive
behaviour by the rank and file. Such behaviours ranged from not attending meetings to
botching orders to failing to stock goods in a timely manner.

Psycirtw o e t i t Ve a Waa a to a i r i tsye f ot
     h ts h’ s d d h inm rr lo f l wt h t o hsl
       ais         v ue e t                        el          mi h i p
                                                                  a                       ie
reaction to ineffective leaders. Lieutenants fresh from ROTC training were hazed,
sometimes even killed, by veteran troops who resented what they perceived to be an
ilgia ae p b t “-i N wG y (N )o xrs Mia pyh ts
 l i t tm t yh F n e u”F G t ee i. l r s irt
  et e t
      m                    e      g                             ce i y c ais
                                                                         t
soon realised that these FNG lieutenants, clueless about the laws that governed life on
the front lines, had been pulling rank in an effort to assert authority. The troopers did
not take to this well. In their view, the new lieutenants did not stack up to their
predecessors, who had learned to let their hair down. To address the FNG syndrome,
the military cautioned lieutenants to take it easy until the troopers accepted that they had
developed field credentials.

When Garvin was confronted by a second decline in sales, this one precipitated by the
F Gs do eh hd odaht eo’ati s a cue t pol . n at
 N y rm ,e a n i t N l n cvi hd as h rb m I f ,
         n                     e a s s it            e            d e        e        c
because he believed that Nelson was expert in all matters of personnel functioning and
efficiency, Garvin increased h ri c o h fed cus. e a bcm a ii
                              i ea e n i rn’ one H hd eo e v t
                              s ln        si s               l                     cm
o w a it l gae f s h t , cld t nf ec” a dynamic that gave
 f htn h a ug o py ir i ae “ as r e –
        , en                   c ay s l r e n
Nelson extraordinary psychological power over Garvin.

Mot ep udrad r s r c a“ l gni ” i oe t r i. i t s
   spol ne t tnf e e s fl ile wt n’ h a s Wheh
           e       sn a e n                ai n      v        h s e pt               l i
can be a manifestation, it paints an incomplete picture of the phenomenon.
Transference can be positive or negative. Essentially, it is a powerful feeling for
someone whose traits mirror those of a significant person –    typically a parent –from
oe ps G rn om d psi t nf ec tw r N l n w o s e” i
 n’ a . a ifr e a oi er s r eo a eo (h “a d h
    s t        v                   t a en
                                    v                     d s                  v      s
COO). That placed Garvin in the role of an information-dependent child vis-à-vis an
expert parent. Garvin relied on his coach to come up with best practice for handling
problem executives. CEOs often form these sorts of relationships with their coaches.

Not all CEOs experience transference. Even so, coaches can easily expand their
influence –from training to all-purpose advising – eas C O dn leooeae
                                                  bcue E s o’i t l f .
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Company leaders understand what coaches do and often feel personally responsible for
selecting them. As a result, they feel more accountable for thicahssce e o
                                                              e oce ucs s r
                                                                r         ’       s
failures than they would if a psychotherapist were assigned to the case. In the same vein,
when the CEO personally endorses a business plan, a number of psychological factors
conspire to make it difficult to abandon that plan. Garvin was confronted with that
situation when he authorised system-wd ue f eo’pr nedvl m n
                                        i s o N l n e onlee p et
                                         e            s s s                o
procedures.

G rist y a a ap ed g E et l,e apr ae t bi ia osl g
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firm to address the problems besetting his cm ay O te osln’
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all CEOs are that lucky.

The Importance of Expertise

To best help their executives, companies need to draw on the expertise of both
psychotherapists and executive coaches with legitimate skills. At a minimum, every
executive slated to receive coaching should first receive a psychological evaluation. By
screening out employees not psychologically prepared or predisposed to benefit from the
process, companies avoid putting executives in deeply uncomfortable –     even damaging
positions. Equally important, companies should hire independent mental health
professionals to review coaching outcomes. This helps ensure that coaches are not
ignoring underlying problems or creating new ones, as Nelson did.

Psychological assessment and treatment are no silver bullet – can in fact be
                                                               and
gratuitous. For instance, a coach who trains executives to enhance their strategic –
planning abilities need not be a psycirtB t o’ s m taa eeuvs h
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have planning problems lack the necessary skills. Can a psychological disorder interfere
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depression, which is known to bl k n’aiyo naen osutega
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behaviour. Without safeguards to prevent coaches from training those whose problems
stem not from a lack of skills but from psychological problems, the executives being
coached and the companies they work for will suffer.




                                             7
The Economics of Executive Coaching

Executive coaching is a major growth industry. At least 10,000 coaches work for
businesses today, up from 2,000 in 1996. And that figure is expected to exceed 50,000 in
the next five years. Executive coaching is also highly profitable; employers are now
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psychotherapist could even dream of charging. Why are companies willing to pay so
much more for their coaches?

The answer is simple: Executive coaches offer seemingly quick and easy solutions.
CEOs tell me that what they fear most about psychotherapy is not the coat in dollars but
the cost in time. A coaching engagement typically lasts no more than six months.
Psychotherapy, by contrast, is seen as a long-term treatment; people joke that it takes six
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The very-real-dangers of executive coaching

  • 1. The Very Real Dangers of Executive Coaching by Steven Berglas, Harvard Business Review, June 2002 Over the past 15 years, it has become more and more popular to hire coaches for promising executives. Although some of these coaches hail from the world of psychology, a greater share are former athletes, lawyers, business academics and consultants. No doubt these people help executives improve their performance in many areas. But I want to tell a different story. I believe that in an alarming number if situations, executive coaches who lack the rigorous psychological training do more harm than good. By dint of their backgrounds and biases, they downplay or simply ignore deep-s t pyhl i lrb m te dn udrad E e m rcne i , e e s o g apol shy o’ ne t . vn oe ocr n ad c o c e t sn ng whe a eeuv’pol st f mudt t o i oe pyhl i l n n xcte rb m s m r ne c d rg r s o g a is e e o ee n d c oc difficulties, coaching can actually make a bad situation worse. In my view, the solution most often lies in addressing unconscious conflict when the symptoms plaguing an executive are stubborn or severe. Consider Rob Bernstein. (In the interests of confidentiality, I use pseudonyms throughout this article.) He was an executive vice president of sales at an automotive parts distributor. According to the CEO, Bernstein caused trouble inside the company but was worth his weight in gold with clients. The situation reached the breaking point when Bernstein publicly humiliated a mail clerk who had interrupted a meeting to get someone to sign for a parcel. After that incident, the CEO assigned Tom Davis to coach Brs ifrorer B t s a o ep r g e s is ar t et fh e tn o fu ya . u i t d fxl i Br tn m le m n o t ne s ne on n e ’ ta e spottf ait gt i t hi e fr m ng gh l lpol – the most uprs f D v a h h e n uso “ aai t i e ep ” in a, s u m c q n et t e Machiavellian sense. The problem was that, while the coaching appeared to score some impressive successes, whenever Bernstein overcame one difficulty, he inevitably found another to take its place. R uh s m n sf r e s iad aif i e w r n t e e B rs is ogl i ot aeB r tn n D v is d ok go t r e tn yx h t ne s nh i gh , ne’ immediate boss left the business, and he was tapped to fill the position. True to his history, Bernstein was soon embroiled in controversy. This time, rather than alienating subordinates, Bernstein was suspected of embezzlement. When confronted, he asked to work with his coach again. Fortunately for Bernstein, The CEO suspected something deeper was wrong, and instead of calling Davis, he turned to me for help. After just a few weeks of working with Bernstein, I realised that he had a serious narcissistic personality disorder. His behaviour was symptomatic of a sense of entitlement to run amok. It is not at all uncommon to find narcissists at the top of workplace hierarchies; before their character flaws prove to be their undoing, they can be very productive. Narcissists are driven to achieve, yet because they are so grandiose, they often end up negating all the good they accomplish. Not only do narcissists devalue those they feel are beneath them, but such self-involved individuals also readily disregard rules they are contemptuous of. N a on o eeuv cah g olhv aeie Brs is i re N rss o m ut fxcte oci cu ae lv t e tn d odr a iis i n d l a d n e ’ s . cst rarely change their behaviour unless they experience extraordinary psychological pain – 1
  • 2. typically a blow to their self-e em T e a dx f e s isircumstance was that s e . h pr o o B r tn c t a ne’ working with his executive coach had only served to shield him from pain and enhance his s so g ni i,seet it f lg“ms ipr n t th bspifr e e fr d syar l e n h e i ,I om ot th t os a o a n a ot fc d e en ’ a a e d sei cah o e m . E euv cah gut rrdd e s is e om ne pc loc t hl e xcte oci fr ee e B r tn pr r ac, a p ” i n h o ne’ f as often occurs when narcissists avoid the truth. My misgivings about executive coaching are not a clarion call for psychotherapy or psychoanalysis. Psychoanalysis, in particular, does not – never will – everybody. and suit Nor is it up to corporate leaders to ensure that all employees deal with their personal demons. My goal, as someone with a doctorate in psychology who also serves as an eeuv cahit hi t a a nso te ie ne e en “rb m xcte oc, o e h n w r e fh d f ec bt e a pol i s ge e s fr w e excte w o a b ti d o uco e ete ad n eeuv wt a rb m euv” h cn ern t fntn f cvl n a “xcte i pol ” i ae i f iy i h e who can best be helped by psychotherapy. The issue is threefold. First, many executive coaches, especially those who draw their inspiration form sports, sell themselves as purveyors of simple answers and quick results. Scn,vn oce w o cethtn xcte pol s a r u eieo eodee cahs h acp taa eeuv’ rb m m ye i t t is e qr m address still tend to rely solely on behavioural solutions. Finally, executive coaches unschooled in the dynamics of psychotherapy often exploit the powerful hold they develop over their clients. Sadly, misguided coaching ignores – even creates – and deep- rooted psychological problems that often only psychotherapy can fix. The Lure of Easy Answers The popularity of executive coaching owes much to the modern craze for easy answers. Businesspeople in general – American ones in particular – and constantly look for new ways to change as quickly and as painlessly as possible. Self-help manuals abound. Success is defined in 12 simple steps or seven effective habits. In this environment of quick fixes, psychotherapy has become marginalized. And executive coaches have stepped in to fill the gap, offering a kind of instant alternative. As management guru Warren Bennis observes,Al o eeuv cah gsel a acpalfr o “ o fxcte oci ir l n cet eom f t i n ay b pyhte p. t slog t s , ’ gi t s m t r i’Is kyo a, s ohr y Ist tuh o a ‘ o go e yh a s. t oa t s c a ’ i l yI m n e e pt ’ y ‘ gtn cuslgrmm cah” I ei onei f ’ tg m l n o y oc. ’ To achieve fast results, many popular executive coaches model their interventions after those used by sports coaches, employing techniques that reject out if hand any irsete rcstacn aeie n cue prys y nli”T edaht n opcv poe hta t t ad as“a lib aa s. h i ta t i s k m as ys e an executive coach can help employees improve performance quickly is a great selling point to CEOs, who put the bottom line first. Yet that approach tends to gloss over any unconscious conflict the employee might have. This can have disastrous consequences for the company in the long term and can exacerbate the psychological damage to the person targeted for help. Consider Jim Mirabella, an executive earmarked for leadership at an electronic games manufacturer. Ever since the CEO had promoted him to head of marketing, Mirabella had become impossible to work with. Colleagues complained that he hoarded information about company strategy, market indicators, sales forecasts and the like. The t oy iu t ghog t g pv e at t r ea a w so eknui h rccli t uh h r ei w sh Mibl’ i at w ae j o e r an r e a n a a ls m nr eeuvsaiyo aenomed contributions during interdivisional strategic- xcte bi t m k i r i ’ l t f planning sessions. He was assigned an executive coach. 2
  • 3. A fsm en,oc Sa Mc uy aipe i . e a a oyudr pyqe tit etgcah en N l w sm r s e H hd bdbies hs u r i t sv l ’ i ad m dl f e At uh e a be c-captain of the football team at the Big Ten n a oesa . l og h hd en o ’ c h university he had attended, McNulty always knew he was too small for professional sports and not studious enough for medicine or law. But realising he had charisma to spare, McNulty decided, while an undergraduate business major minoring in sports psychology, that he would pursue a career in executive coaching. After earning an MBA from a leading university, McNulty soon became known in the business community as a man who could polish the managerial skills of even the ugliest of ducklings. Mc uy m na w so hdwMibl 2/ frsog s edd o nueht N l’ adt at sao r ea 47 o al anee t esrta ts e a l n he would grow into his position. From the start of their relationship, McNulty and Mirabella had two private meetings a day during which McNulty analysed Miraea bl’ls behaviour and role played effective styles for mastering interpersonal situations that Mirabella did not handle well. True to his jock background, McNulty reacted to Mibl’ao a o i pid ad niy i ehr tn,Q ie nvr and r ea vw l f etue n ax twt xoti s“ ut s eewin, a ls s n t e h ao tr wne nvr u” aaaore o m n o h ,u at e Mc uy olao i r eeqi w s f ui cm et f i btti s N l w u l ns t v t s m t ds ci Mibl fr e g “ ekn” h nee t “cle m n t dawt h e r eao bi a w alg w o edd o atk a a”o el i d a l n i i h demands of his preordained role within the company. B d t f N l’fr of personality or indefatigability, Mirabella stopped fighting y i o Mc uy oc n ts e h cah e ott t ge h u. o l u a apa ne Mibl bgn i oc’ f r o o hn i p T a ot r per cs r ea ea s sf s u m l w d a , a l atgi t a e i eeuv h w s’ O c Mc uy a Mibl’bhv u cn leh s rv xcte e a t ne N l s i k e s te i n. t w r ea eai r a ls o change, he told the CEO that Mirabella was not up to the job. But within a week of ending his meetings with McNulty, Mirabella became severely depressed. At that point he turned to me for help. Ion ele t t r ea a ’ rn t s o g h clausn reto get so r id h Mibl w s t y go a t e i oege iodr as a a l n t i ba s l ahead. In fact, he felt he was moving ahead too fast. Mirabella was convinced that he hd n be po o d eas leh cm ay C O h w sn ti -American. a ol en rm t bcue i t o pn’ E ,e aa I ln y e ,k e s aa Mibl blvd ht e an ere h sce bt a im oe o him because r ea eee t h hd’ a d i ucs u hdt ps n a l i a t n s s i d o t C Os i frn prpie e t tehoe A ae lMibl ft fh E ’ws o a aporthi o h t n. s r u, r eae e h a r r st a l l eom ulax u ad nr “ yhu I eocd o vr h v j to cn nr os ni sn ag . Wh sol b fr t oe ci eu s Ia y o y d e a e s fl m bs demt ke te o pn it hns fti s h dmanded. u i y os r o ep h cm ayn h ad o I ln? e e f l ’ a e aa ” A ee m ripr n cm oet f r ea e oi asug , og, ah n vn oem ot to pnn o Mibl’ m t nlt gl t uhw s i a a ls o r eh s morbid fear of failure. He obsessed that the leadership style he had developed belonged to his coach – to him – he dreaded being exposed as a fake. not and Had Mibl’cah ene sotdi n or better versed in interpersonal r ea oc be lspr r e – a ls s s v psychology – could have anticipated that all the learned bravado in the world could he never prepare Mirabella for the role he was assigned to fill. Mirabella needed someone who would listen to his fears and analyse their origins. In the end Mirabella could function effectively only if his advancement was predicated on his own desires and leadership style – o o sm oe l’ O e e aalt dawt h i ecnlt nt n o en ee. n h w sb o el i i n rof s ss e h sn ic ra d o hs iusMibl’cr r rcee wtot c et e t t toes e r ea a epoedd i ui i n. le s , a ls e h nd The Snare of Behaviourism Even when coaches adopt a more empirically validated approach than McNulty did, they still tend to fall into the trap of treating the symptoms rather than th d odr T as e i re ht s . ’ because they typically derive their treatments from behavioural psychology. Of course, 3
  • 4. behaviourism has been a great been to psychiatry in recent years. Findings from this discipline have helped people enormously in controlling specific behaviours and learning to cope in particular situations. But treatments derived form behavioural psychology are sm t e t l id o dr sh pol sht iutxcte aiyo o em so i t t ade t rb m tad rp eeuv’ bi t i om e s e e s is l t function. One of the most popular behaviourist solutions is assertiveness training. This technique is most often used to help individuals cope with situations that evoke intense negative feelings – o ea p ,e i du ad tt “ ss n”o e pao. xcte frxm l hln rg diso j ta o t t ti E euv e pg c u y m tn i coaches use assertiveness training in a number of contexts. For instance, many coaches working with executives who appear to be lacking confidence employ the technique in order to perform better. Unfortunately, learning effective responses to stressors often fails to help corporate executives deal with their intrapsychic pressures. Take Jennifer Mansfield, vice president of training and development at a large software manufacturer. An acknowledged workaholic, Mansfield had followed a traditional path within her corporation, rising through the ranks by fulfilling every assignment with stellar r us Whn h w s rm t t a aaeapsi ,o ee Mase ’sf e l. e se apo o d o m ngrloi nhw vr nflse- st e i to , id l confidence began to slip. As a boss, she found it hard to delegate. Accustomed to delivering110%, she was loath to cede control to her direct reports. She also found it impossible to give negative feedback. As a consequence, her work and that of her subordinates started to suffer and she was missing deadlines. Her boss presumed Mansfield was having an assertiveness problem, so he hired a coach form a consulting firm that specialised in behavioural treatments to work with her. The coach assumed Mansfield needed to learn to set limits, to constructively criticise her subordinates and to avoid the trap of doing othepols ok o t m Wiito r ep ’w r frh . tn w e e h months of what her coach deemed successful training, Mansfield began to lose weight, grow irritable and display signs of exhaustion. At the time, I happened to be coaching t sf a cm ay C Oad e se m t tko e Id n t eogo e h ot r o pn’ O n h a d eo a t hr t i ’ a l t s e w e s k l . dtk n e how assertiveness training had unearthed a problem Mansfield had managed to keep under wraps for years. Companies have a very tough time dealing with workaholics like Mansfield. Such individuals tend to sacrifice social and avocational pursuits in favour of work and bs e evl t ipouti. t hr t r lehths polhv suk ui s s a eh r rdcvy Is a o e i tate ep aet c a ns u e it ’ d as e e r Futn a a : ai sce fr “f . nflbcm a okhl bcue asa br i td g ucs o a l ” Mase ea e w raoc eas i gn r n s ie id i she harboured a tremendous fear of intimacy. Although she was young attractive and lal hr a nsd oc ad em tesus un e ooasf r g i b ,epr t i r n hr o r sbe etm t nluf i k e e ’v e h’ q i en ( m ui t t Mase a“l e a bs rs) fhrer lfomn c m n a d o nfl s a m n r a a ”lt ef f o fr i o ce id l e td e au g intimate relationships with men. Those were easy for her to avoid when she managed discrete projects by putting in 80-hour work-weeks. But Mansfield could no longer do so when she became the manager of 11 professionals, seven of whom were men. For the first time in her career, males were showering her with attention and the consequences were extremely disruptive. Mansfield could neither comprehend nor cope with the attention she received once promoted to the role of boss. While most managers would view the schmoozing and lobbying for attention that her reports engaged in as office politics, Mansfield saw these attempts to currying favour as trial balloons that might lead to dating. She was not being sexually harassed; Mansfield was merely experiencing interpersonal advances that 4
  • 5. threatened the protective fortress she had erected against feelings of intimacy. The better Mansfield managed the men in her division – the more her constructive feedback and improved their work – more intimate they appeared to become as a natural outcome the of their appreciation. I passed this diagnosis along to the executive vice president of human resources, and he cnur . nflsoci ca d n aehr osn Iodc d cr uy ocr d Mase ’cah g es ad f r ebsad cnut a a fl e id n e t e e l crafted intervention, she agreed to seek out psychotherapy. Several years later, Mansfield was thriving as a manager and she had developed a more fulfilling personal life. N tl xcte ocea ai ie n aMase ’w so ney g o a eeuv cahsr sn f r ts nfls at udri l i e df e id ln psychological disturbances. But those oversights are common when coaches focus on problems rather than people. Such coaches tend to define the problems plaguing an executive in the terms they understand best. If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. The Trap of Influence Executive coachesrate m sdne u w e t y ite E ’er T ipt a thi ot agr s hn h wn h C Osa h u e r o e . s s them in a position to wield great power over an entire organisation, a scenario that occurs with disturbing frequency. Since many executive coaches were corporate types in prior lives, they connect with CEOs far more readily than most psychotherapists do. They are fluent in business patois and they move easily from discussions of improving an i idas e om neo odcn i e etn tacn e ete ui sui n v ul pr r ac t cnut gn r ni shta hl n rbs e n s di ’ f i tv o p i ns t capture or retain market share. Unless these executive coaches have been trained in the dynamics of interpersonal relations, however, they may abuse their power – often without meaning to. Indeed, many coaches gain a Svengali-like hold over both the executives they train and the CEOs they report to, sometimes with disastrous consequences. Take Rich Garvin, The CEO of an athletic shoe manufacturing company with sales in ecso $0 ml n ya D si h cm ay seG rihd eeh e a xe f10 io a er e t i o pn’ i , a n a nvr id s li . pe s sz v r coach for any of his direct reports. He knew that his HR director used trainers and coaches, but Garvin was a finance guy first and foremost. And since the athletic shoe industry was flying high, he left personnel matters to those who were paid to worry about thm B t t le 90, e a efrtlisos oas . n a is ol e u i h a 19st m r to a ec he clpe I G rn w r , n et h k ht l d v’ d the most immediate casualty was his COO, who snapped under the strain of failing to meet sales estimates for three consecutive quarters. The COO began venting his frustration on store managers, buyers and suppliers. Garvin was under the gun during this difficult time, so he skipped the usual steps and sought the services of an executive coach on his own. He picked someone he knew well: Karl Nelson, whom Garvin had worked with at a major consulting firm when they were both starting their careers as freshly minted MBAs. Garvin thought he could trust N l n o e m ng h C Osnead o etr i truh h s r . e l eo t hl aae i O ’agrn t m no h hog t t m H ao s p s m eo s le teon o N l n cah g i d h sud f eo’ oci approach. It was based on a profiling system that k s s n d goe m ngr seg sn w ans sn ca e cr rr k taw u i ns aaest nt ad eke e ad hr d a etcsht ol a d ’ r h s t e a d ot i i idam ngr pouti. h s t w siiro h Myr pi s n v ul aaes rdcvy T i y e as l t te e -Briggs m e di ’ it s sm ma s inventory, with many of the psycho g t baa Mao ’sf l i A r m s wse-actualisation principles os h l l thrown in. Garvin believed that Nelson and his system could help the COO. 5
  • 6. Within six months of taking the assignment, nelson claimed that the once-raging COO was calm and capable of fulfilling his duties. While this successful outcome was aided in lg prb te tliso i ut ’r oe , a iw s ee hlsm r s a e a yh a echen sy e vr G r n anvr e sipe e r t ht d rs c y v t e sd wt h fed acm lh et Whn eo sge e t t e plt poi g i i rn’ co psm n . e N l n ugs d h h ap h rfn h si s i s s t a y e l i s t t a t cm ay ky xcte G rid n g et s od huh. y e o lh o pn’ e eeuvs a n i ’ i i e n togt sm le s i , v dtv a c During the next year, Nelson suggested a number of personnel changes. Since those cm wt t C Os ak gt H d etrcet t m n qe i sse. a e i h E ’bci , e R ic acpe h ,o uso a d h e n h r o d e tn k Bcue h w sf it bc t C Os eas se aa a o ukh E ’handpicked adviser, the personnel director rd e ao a ntn aoth pol shtnud T e s m e fr nl n l sd oh g bute rb m taese. hs t m d om eo’ s i i e ee s s exclusive reliance on his profiling system. For example, in recommending the promotion of one East Coast store manager to regional director of West Coast sales, Nelson ignored t m n uf i ry i teei ad h polh w spo t t m ng. o h a’ na l i wt h r o n te ep e aapie o aae N t e s mit h a gn e nd surprisingly, that move – n m n o N l n ohrl ad ay f eo’ tei s s l -conceived selections – bombed. To compound the problem, word of Nel n s t ad iot hrf s ’ tu n h fn ori os as s e i c recommendations circulated through the company like wildfire, leading many to both fear and resent his undue influence over Garvin. The negative emotions Nelson generated were so intense that under-performing, newly promoted managers became targets of an undeclared, but uniformly embraced, pattern of passive-aggressive behaviour by the rank and file. Such behaviours ranged from not attending meetings to botching orders to failing to stock goods in a timely manner. Psycirtw o e t i t Ve a Waa a to a i r i tsye f ot h ts h’ s d d h inm rr lo f l wt h t o hsl ais v ue e t el mi h i p a ie reaction to ineffective leaders. Lieutenants fresh from ROTC training were hazed, sometimes even killed, by veteran troops who resented what they perceived to be an ilgia ae p b t “-i N wG y (N )o xrs Mia pyh ts l i t tm t yh F n e u”F G t ee i. l r s irt et e t m e g ce i y c ais t soon realised that these FNG lieutenants, clueless about the laws that governed life on the front lines, had been pulling rank in an effort to assert authority. The troopers did not take to this well. In their view, the new lieutenants did not stack up to their predecessors, who had learned to let their hair down. To address the FNG syndrome, the military cautioned lieutenants to take it easy until the troopers accepted that they had developed field credentials. When Garvin was confronted by a second decline in sales, this one precipitated by the F Gs do eh hd odaht eo’ati s a cue t pol . n at N y rm ,e a n i t N l n cvi hd as h rb m I f , n e a s s it e d e e c because he believed that Nelson was expert in all matters of personnel functioning and efficiency, Garvin increased h ri c o h fed cus. e a bcm a ii i ea e n i rn’ one H hd eo e v t s ln si s l cm o w a it l gae f s h t , cld t nf ec” a dynamic that gave f htn h a ug o py ir i ae “ as r e – , en c ay s l r e n Nelson extraordinary psychological power over Garvin. Mot ep udrad r s r c a“ l gni ” i oe t r i. i t s spol ne t tnf e e s fl ile wt n’ h a s Wheh e sn a e n ai n v h s e pt l i can be a manifestation, it paints an incomplete picture of the phenomenon. Transference can be positive or negative. Essentially, it is a powerful feeling for someone whose traits mirror those of a significant person – typically a parent –from oe ps G rn om d psi t nf ec tw r N l n w o s e” i n’ a . a ifr e a oi er s r eo a eo (h “a d h s t v t a en v d s v s COO). That placed Garvin in the role of an information-dependent child vis-à-vis an expert parent. Garvin relied on his coach to come up with best practice for handling problem executives. CEOs often form these sorts of relationships with their coaches. Not all CEOs experience transference. Even so, coaches can easily expand their influence –from training to all-purpose advising – eas C O dn leooeae bcue E s o’i t l f . tk s c 6
  • 7. Company leaders understand what coaches do and often feel personally responsible for selecting them. As a result, they feel more accountable for thicahssce e o e oce ucs s r r ’ s failures than they would if a psychotherapist were assigned to the case. In the same vein, when the CEO personally endorses a business plan, a number of psychological factors conspire to make it difficult to abandon that plan. Garvin was confronted with that situation when he authorised system-wd ue f eo’pr nedvl m n i s o N l n e onlee p et e s s s o procedures. G rist y a a ap ed g E et l,e apr ae t bi ia osl g a n s rhd hpy ni . vnu l h w s e udd o r gn cnui v’ o n ay s n tn firm to address the problems besetting his cm ay O te osln’ o pn. n h cnuat t s r o m nao,ee i t N l n cnr tn te N s do e es . o e m edt nh t mn e eo’ otcad h F G y rm ca d N t c i r ad s s a n e all CEOs are that lucky. The Importance of Expertise To best help their executives, companies need to draw on the expertise of both psychotherapists and executive coaches with legitimate skills. At a minimum, every executive slated to receive coaching should first receive a psychological evaluation. By screening out employees not psychologically prepared or predisposed to benefit from the process, companies avoid putting executives in deeply uncomfortable – even damaging positions. Equally important, companies should hire independent mental health professionals to review coaching outcomes. This helps ensure that coaches are not ignoring underlying problems or creating new ones, as Nelson did. Psychological assessment and treatment are no silver bullet – can in fact be and gratuitous. For instance, a coach who trains executives to enhance their strategic – planning abilities need not be a psycirtB t o’ s m taa eeuvs h h ts u dn a u ehtl xcte w o a i. ts l i have planning problems lack the necessary skills. Can a psychological disorder interfere with developing a business plan? Absolutely, if the client suffers from clinical depression, which is known to bl k n’aiyo naen osutega o oe bi t egg icnt cv,ol c s l t r i -oriented behaviour. Without safeguards to prevent coaches from training those whose problems stem not from a lack of skills but from psychological problems, the executives being coached and the companies they work for will suffer. 7
  • 8. The Economics of Executive Coaching Executive coaching is a major growth industry. At least 10,000 coaches work for businesses today, up from 2,000 in 1996. And that figure is expected to exceed 50,000 in the next five years. Executive coaching is also highly profitable; employers are now wl go a f sag grm$, 0o 1, 0 dy T as l m rta ay in t pye r i f li e n n o 1 0 t $5 0 a a. ht ao oehn n 5 0 ’ t psychotherapist could even dream of charging. Why are companies willing to pay so much more for their coaches? The answer is simple: Executive coaches offer seemingly quick and easy solutions. CEOs tell me that what they fear most about psychotherapy is not the coat in dollars but the cost in time. A coaching engagement typically lasts no more than six months. Psychotherapy, by contrast, is seen as a long-term treatment; people joke that it takes six m nh frhr i ad aetouta hl. as oete p r u ea ot o t a s n ptn t j s eo Wht m r hr ye is s e pt i s y l ’ , a qr greater time commitment than the standard 50-minute sessions; it also involves travel to ad rmt t r i’ofet i ee m rt e w yrmw r. n f h h a ss fc, k g vn oei a a f o e e pt i an m o ok If coaching fails to cure a problem in six months, it can become very expensive indeed. Take the case of Tom Davis, the coach who worked with Rob Bernstein, the executive V o seaa at oi pr d tbtr Lt a u e aica e ae te P fa stn u m te as ir u . ess m D v hr d ravl l o v t si o ’ s s g li y low per diem of $1,500. Over the four years of his engagement – which ultimately did nto e e s is rb m – would have picked up at least $45,000 in fees. That o sl B r tn pol s he v ne’ e sum would have purchased 450 hours with a competent therapist – bu t ya ’ aote er n s worth of weekly sessions. CFM Consulting Limited is a bespoke consultancy specialising in coaching, personal learning and corporate development. We provide the following services: Executive coaching Personal development 20 Bruce Avenue, Personal generic benchmarking Dunblane, Leadership coaching FK15 9JB. Risk assessments Phone/fax: 01786 821272 Health & Safety Workshops Email: peter.hill2@btinternet.com NLP training www.coachingformore.co.uk Facilitation training CFM and the Chinese device is the trademark of CFM Consulting Limited. © CFM Consulting Limited 2002 8