2. INTRODUCTION:
Part of school learning is learning how to get
along with different kinds of classmates and others as
well.
The teacher, whether teaching GMRC or other
subjects, has a major role to play as children observe
and internalize what they see in the teacher. S/he has
to be a role model in her/his intra and inter-personal
relationship. S/he walks what s/he talks in terms of
the manners, virtues and values demonstrated.
Children are very observant and notice only
difference but more so how adults respond to and value
these differences.
It is in this respect that the teacher should
instill an appreciation for diversity from the start.
3. Table of
Contents!
A. Respect
Latin word respectus
which means attention,
regard or consideration.
C. Tolerance
Understood as a necesarry
component of a
functioning democracy and
stable world order.
B. Courtesy and Politeness
Courtesy a polite
behavior that reflects
good manners, respect and
kidness to others.
D. Fairness
Treating all people the
same and giving everyone
fair chance.
5. ● Is a basic moral value or
need that makes us aware
that we are human beings
and is related to
productivity, happiness
and success.
● Treating people with
respect and dignity as an
equal, not someone below
the individual.
Introduction
6. A. Respect for self- Ability to respect the self,to value and
appreciate oneself.
B. Respect for others- The act of tolerating, accepting and
considering other person inspite of differences.
C. Respect for social Norms- Ability to respect all norms
that govern society.
D. Respect for nature- Covers appreciation of the
environment.
E. Respect for family- Being able to understand and respect
each other within the family
F. Respect for values- Ability to honor our own principles.
G. Respect for culture- Ability to recognize that there are
other beliefs and be able to respect them.
H. Respect for national symbols- Ability to value and
appreciate the symbol of nation.
I. Respect for human beings- Ability to comply with legal
norms, respect law, church dogmas and beliefs.
Respect comes in different types:
7. ● You feel safe being around
each other
● You know it’s okay for you
and others to express who
you are
● When you disagree, you
listen to each other and
demonstrate patience
● You don’t yell or talk
over the top of each other
● You are not controlling
other person’s choices
● You can talk openly about
your needs and wants
● You allow your friends and
others the space they need
● You can admit to others if
you have made a mistake
Following Indicators
of respect are
present:
Respect is something that we
need to learn, it doesn’t
come naturally.
8. Covey the meaning of respect
by modeling and teaching it.
Borba (2002) suggest trying
this following tips:
Treat children as a very
important person in the
world, in the classroom
Give love with no string
attached
Listen attentively and
respectfully
Build positive self-concept
Parents need to tell their
children why they love and
cherish them as well as make
their children their priority
Respectful rules can be
instilled at home and in
the classroom.
Don’t engage when
treated disrespectfully
Teach new behaviors to
replace inappropriate
ones
Encourage respectful
behavior through
reinforcement of good
being done.
10. ● It means avoiding sarcasm
and overbearing behavior.
● Behaving courteously and
politely can be a way of
life and not just be
showcased during special
occasions or events.
Introduction
11. A. You First- The parents is always the first and foremost
teacher. When the child is in school, the teacher becomes the
second parent assuming the loco parentis role.
B. Turn up the tolerance- When your child or learner
observes that you can tolerate and respect individual
differences you clearly convey the message that you accept
diversity.
C. Read the signs- Help children learn how to read people’s
emotional signs.
D. Mind your manners- Please, thank you, good morning and
good afternoon greetings never go out of style.
E. Lend a helping hand- It’s good to encourage children to
assist people, especially those in need.
F. Lesson integration- The learning of a manner/ value can be
integrated in a lesson.
Helpful tips to help teach our children and
learners courtesy and politeness:
13. ● Tolerance is respect,
acceptance and
appreciation of the rich
diversity of our worlds
culture, our forms of
expression and ways of
human… Tolerance is
harmony in difference
● Tolerance is a virtue. If
we want to be treated
decently, we need to
treat them decently as
well.
Introduction
14. The specific concepts of tolerance
that can be introduced,
concretized and internalized
according to the following age
groups include:
Age group: 3-7 years
• We are all unique and
have something valuable
to offer and share.
Tolerance is accepting
others and appreciating
differences.
• Tolerance is accepting
myself, even when I make
mistakes. Tolerance is
accepting others even
when they make mistakes.
Age group: 8-14years
• Peace is the goal;
tolerance is the method
• Tolerance is being open and
receptive to the beauty of
differences
• Tolerance is respecting and
appreciating the culture of
others
• Tolerance is mutual respect
through manual
understanding
• The seeds of intolerance
are fear and ignorance
• The seed of tolerance,
love, is watered by
compassion and care
15. Age group: 12-14 years
• Those who know how to
appreciate the good
in people and
situations have
tolerance
• Tolerance is an act
of humanity, which we
must nurture and
erect each in our
lives everyday
• Tolerance is the
ability to face
difficult situations
• To tolerate life’s
inconveniences is
to let go, be
light, make others
light, and move on.
• Tolerance
recognizes
individuality and
diversity while
removing divisive
masks and defusing
tension created by
ignorance
16. Parents can try these steps:
• Set a good example- Kids learn from observing your
interactions with others
• Expose your child to different cultures- The
friendship your child has can have lasting effect
• Bring the message home- When your child make
insensitive remarks, remind him/her of how s/he feels
when s/he isn’t treated well by friends.
• Treat your youngsters with respect- If the child
feels good about herself and is confident about her place
in the world, she will be less likely to be fearful of
people who are different from her.
17. Teacher can create haven tolerance by engaging in these
steps:
• Let your bulletin board “speak”- The class bulletin
board can display positive messages encouraging diversity,
tolerance, acceptance and making your classroom a safe space.
• Acknowledge Learner and Teacher- Emotions. There are
events in life of the learner or the teacher which are
emotionally charged
• Explain Terms and Concepts related to current events-
Parents and teacher can explain what the pandemic is all
about and how people can be kind to each other and not
discriminate especially the frontliner
• Foster a sense of empathy in the classroom- Many
teachers consider, empathy as the antidote to bullying, and
there’s data to back that up
• Lead by Example- Time and time again by lead example is
emphasized.
19. ● Marked by impartiality
and honesty; conforming
with the established
rules
● Fairness has to do with
giving everyone what he
or she needs and
deserves.
Introduction
20. To make fairness more
understandable for young
children the following
strategies can be tried:
1. Have children brainstorm
and play solutions such as
trading toys, sharing and
playing together
2. Be attuned to children’s
interactions and be ready
to respond immediately to
incidents of unfairness
3. Identify and point out
fair and unfair behaviors
4. Encourage a safe and
secure atmosphere in which
children feel free to
express their feelings and
ask questions.
5. Praise fairness. Take a
moment to recognize and
verbalize when your child
is acting out of fairness
6. Make the idea of fairness
concrete. Use images to
inspire conversations
about fairness
21. Rodabaugh gave a typology of
learners’ perceived fairness
which include 3 components
A. International fairness
B. Procedural Fairness
C. Outcomes fairness
22. Teachers can benefit by
remembering these steps on
how to be fair and ethical
inside the classroom.
Teachers ought to show:
Impartiality- learners
expect their teachers to
treat everyone in the class
equally; that has no
favorites.
Respect- Respect involves
treating learners politely.
Concern for students-
Students expect their
teachers to care about
them and their academic
performance.
Integrity- Means being
consistent and truthful
ad explaining your
policies, procedures and
decisions and why they
are necessary.
Propriety- Means acting
in a socially acceptable
manner that does not
offend students’
sensibilities.