A Journey of Recovery in the Context of Domestic Violence, Injury to a Young Baby and Professional Development
1. A Journey of Recovery in the
Context of Domestic Violence,
Injury to a Young Baby and
Professional Development
Kim Sindel and Sue Foley
Presented by Jenny Rose and Martina Rich
2. Presentation overview
• This presentation will use a reflective, dialogic and
ethnographic approach to analysing the journey of a
parent whose child was shaken, in the context of
domestic violence.
• The parent is now a professional involved with children,
young people and families. The journey and trajectory of
the parent story will be told by the mother, and a social
worker who has recently begun to travel with the parent
on the journey towards advocacy, capacity building and
justice
3. This Presentation
• Kim’s daughter “Jane” was injured as a very young baby.
• Despite medical and police investigations, no one was charged.
• Kim and Sue connected when her daughter was in need of surgery.
• In this meeting it became apparent to Sue that Kim and her former
husband had been in a domestic violence dominated relationship.
• Kim’s subsequent journey of personal and professional growth and
recovery from a trauma journey is the subject of this presentation.
• Neither Kim or Sue can be here so – we made a movie to tell you
the story.
5. Sue’s story
• It was Sue’s interaction with Jane’s father that led her to
identify his disrespect for others and the way in which he
saw himself as needing to be “served” by Kim.
• This seemed to be the first opportunity for Kim to
identify that she had been experiencing DV.
• She used:
• An EMDR type of intervention
• Advocacy with hospital staff
• Case management which Kim was very able to undertake.
6. Three Stages of Trauma Recovery
Adapted from Herman 1992
• Stage 1: Safety and Stabilization: Overcoming
Dysregulation.
• Stage 2: Coming to terms with traumatic memories
and past or current events.
• Stage 3: Integration and Moving On.
7. Discussion Questions
• What is your reaction to Kim’s account of how the
professionals interacted with the parents?
• Do you think changes should be made to assessment
and investigation strategies?
8. References
• Judith Herman Trauma and Recovery (1992) New
York: W.W. Norton.
• MacKinnon, L. (2014), Deactivating the Buttons:
Integrating Radical Exposure Tapping with a Family
Therapy Framework. Australian and New Zealand
Journal of Family Therapy, 35: 244–260.
doi: 10.1002/anzf.1070
To give some context:
At the time that Jane was injured she was 2 months old.
She lived with her parents in a rural location, several hours out of Sydney.
Kim had worked in professional roles since leaving school, but was now home with her baby. She had limited access to her social support network. Her partner disconnected her from her family.
EMDR- to address Kim’s distress
Case management- helping to recognise the past and present distress, move through the crisis and engage Kim with the Shaken Baby Prevention Project where she was respected and her voice began to be heard.
Stage 1 The goal of this stage is the creation of a safe and stable ‘here and now’. Allowing memory without ‘re-living’.
Stage 2 Not avoiding!
Stage 3 A health present and a healed self. Able to advocate for self and others.