How digital technology matters in the lives of Australian couples? The impact of the internet, mobile phones and social media on couple relationships. Important or emerging issue for many couples and as a Marriage and Relationship Educator.
100Mbps, TV show download in 16 seconds
3,156,779,573
Internet Users in the world
¼ are in China 641M (46%), India 243M (19%); US 280M (87%)
Broadband = 256kbps or greater: nbn will offer speeds of up to 100Mbps
Mobile date download up 36% increase from the three months ended 30 June 2014
Digital Subscriber Line (DSL) connections increased by 6% between June 2013 and June 2014 from 4.8 to 5.1 million connections
For the 20.6 million mobile handset subscribers, this equates to 0.6 GB of data downloaded per subscriber per month
Exactly five years ago, for the three months ended June 2009, we were just about to hit 100,000 terabytes of downloads, so today's result makes a tenfold increase in just five years.
Argentina/Phillipines 4.3hrs/day
http://www.internetlivestats.com/internet-users-by-country/
Internet users in 2011 >2 billion (30% of the global population), Facebook has > 1 billion users.
2011 Indicators Survey Background
The 2011 Relationships Indicators Survey is a joint initiative of Relationships Australia and CUA
based on data collected, analysed and reported by Woolcott Research.
It provides an opportunity to increase Australians’ understanding of relationships in Australia -
intimate relationships, family relationships and connection with community.
This year’s survey gathered results, comprising 1,204 interviews among the general Australian
population aged 18 and above. Fieldwork for the survey was conducted between 27 February
and 8 March 2011, combining telephone interviews and a new online component.
The objective of the research was to provide a statistically sound representative sample of
feelings, attitudes and opinions about relationships within the Australian population.
The 2011 research focused on the following areas: connection with significant people in the
lives of Australians; partnering and marriage; sexual relationships; finances and its impact on
partner relationships; social networking and relationships; community involvement; loneliness;
and accessing help.
Facebook:1.23 billion monthly active usersvia FacebookYouTubeover 1 billion monthly unique usersvia YouTubeTwitter:255 million monthly active usersvia VentureBeatQzone:599 million monthly active usersvia TechCrunchSina Weibo:over 500 million usersvia The Next WebRenren:over 170 million usersvia iResearch iUser TrackerVK:over 230 million registered accountsvia VKLinkedIn:300 million membersvia LinkedInGoogle Plus:343 million monthly active usersvia GlobalWebIndexTumblr:188 million blogsvia TumblrInstagram:200 million usersvia InstagramVine:40 million registered usersvia VineTagged:20 million unique monthly usersvia TaggedFoursquare:45 million usersvia TechCrunchPinterest:70 million usersvia The Next WebReddit:109 million monthly unique visitorsvia RedditWhatsApp:500 million usersvia WhatsAppMessenger:200 million usersvia re/codeSnapChat: ????via TechCrunch
11. Tinder – 1,500,000
11. Yelp – 1,500,00012. Snapchat - 1,070,000 Active Australian Users (see calculation).13. Flickr – 680,00014. Pinterest – 340,00015. Reddit – 155,00016. MySpace – 110,00017. Google Plus – approx 60,000 monthly active Australian users (my estimation *revised*)18. StumbleUpon – 48,00019. Foursquare – 25,00020. Digg – 18,00021. Delicious – 16,000
This represents a great opportunity to ‘connect’ with our target market/ audience.
iOS:57.89%Android:39.41%Windows Phone:1.86%
2011: 48% of 18-34 year olds check facebook when they wake up
28% check before going to bed
57% of people talk to people more online than they do in real life
Recommendations for services and programs to facilitate older people’s use of new communication technologies:
Start with simple, meaningful activities like using email
Have regular meetings, especially when first learning
Use a self-directed and work-at-your-own-pace approach
Keep group size small – around three learners per tutor
Group learning provides a range of benefits, such as social interaction and learning from peers
Benefits of one-on-one learning at home include learning ‘in situ’ where the device will most often be used
They are well and truly online. The baby boomer and our favourite cohort the ‘New Age Retiree’ have been using the Internet as long as you and I. Why is it that we constantly stereotype older people as technically incompetent?
Their uptake and engagement on social media is extraordinary – perhaps more significant than your own. Starts at 60 reaches more than 500,000 unique people online every month and 1.8 million page-views. Facebook tells us publicly that they have 1.7 million people online in Australia and New Zealand.
They are massive users of mobile devices. 80% of our readership accesses the site through a tablet or mobile phone. A shiny sign of how technologically capable this generation is.
They are healthy. When we surveyed 3500 over 60s online, 95% considered themselves healthy.
They own property… lots of it! 75% of 60-to-69-year-olds surveyed said they had completely paid off their home, and 90% of 70-to-79-year-olds too, and that means they have no need to spend their incomes on their mortgage weekly or monthly.
They really want to travel. 40% of people plan to travel overseas in the next year, and this desire didn’t slow down with age… 40% plan to travel among 60-to-69 and 70-to-79 year olds.
26% of 60-to-69-year-olds in our community say they shop online every month and 23% of 70-to-79-year-olds.
They have very little superannuation. With all their money tied up in property and other asset classes, 86% of New Age Retirees (60-to-69-year-olds) have less than $100,000 in their individual superannuation portfolios and 79% of 70-to-75-year-olds.
Welfare dependence of those over 60 online is much lower than the average with only 35% of those online surveyed accessing the pension, rather than the much higher numbers we might see in previous generations or offline environments.
Only 50% of online over 60s are retired, with 35% still in their core career, 5% in an encore career and the rest saying they are facing discrimination in finding work.
70% eat out at least monthly, with 40% eating out at least fortnightly.
More than 90% of online over-60s think that Australian companies are not listening to them. And this, folks, is only statistic you need.
This is one of the results from a survey conducted by Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) in 2011. The national survey sought to reveal more about the ways social media and technology are changing people’s relationships with each other. It involved separate surveys of Relationships Australia practitioners and members of the community.
Small connections, crucial mini-moments
Bidding for each others attention
In vitalised relationships couples tend to deal with these issues with good humour. They don’t let these issues overwhelm their relationship. Some challenges are inevitable
Marriages are successful to the extent that problems you choose are ones you can cope with.
In conflicted or devitalised relationships (married only) perpetual problems eventually kill relationships. Couples get gridlocked: They have the same conversations and never resolve or reconcile their differences.
The four horseman are ever present: Criticism; Defensiveness; Contempt and Stonewalling
Social media is a part of many people’s everyday lives.
Marriage and family therapists are aware of their influential positions with respect to clients, and they avoid exploiting the trust and dependency of such persons. Therapists, therefore, make every effort to avoid conditions and multiple relationships with clients that could impair professional judgment or increase the risk of exploitation. Such relationships include, but are not limited to, business or close personal relationships with a client or the client’s immediate family. When the risk of impairment or exploitation exists due to conditions or multiple roles, therapists document the appropriate precautions taken.