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1. The Myth Of
Female
Desire

2. What do women want?

3. All you've got to do is figure this out,
and you'll be in good shape, right?

4. Maybe.

5. First, remember that attraction, deep
physical and emotional attraction is an
instinct.

6. Sure, the longer you're in a
relationship with somebody, and the
more you get to know each other, and
the more you learn to respect and
support each other, you can certainly
"grow to love them."

7. And certainly this is the way
relationships were built for most of
human history.

8. That instant lust that we all sometimes
confuse for love wasn't there in the
beginning.

9. It was a long, slow process.

10. But these days, you'd need to belong
to some crazy religious cult or
seriously consider one of those mail
order bride websites to get together
with somebody you barely know.

11. Which means in order to create a
decent relationship, you've got to be
able to create real attraction.

12. And once again, keep in mind this is an
instinct.

13. Consider another instinct.

14. Hunger.

15. If you are hungry, you might not be
sure what you want.

16. You certainly can't predict what you
would like.

17. Sure you might try and scan your
memory to some of the things you've
eaten in the recent past, or maybe
imagine a few restaurants in your
neighborhood.

18. But this is only an approximation.

19. A conscious guess of how your
unconscious will respond to a certain
stimuli.

20. You could not even know you're
hungry, and then suddenly somebody
puts a plate of food in front of you that
you've never seen, and suddenly it's
your favorite dish!

21. This is an instinct, and we simply can't
predict how we'll respond to certain
stimuli unless it's in front of us.

22. When creating attraction in women,
this presents a few problems.

23. No woman is going to know how she'll
feel about any guy until she interacts
with him.

24. Pictures won't do it.

25. A copy of his resume won't do it.

26. Even his ultra polite behavior on a first
date won't do it.

27. So asking her what kind guy she likes is
kind of pointless.

28. Or even dangerous if you listen to her
answer and assume it's actually true.

29. This would be like you saying you'd like
to eat a cheeseburger, and then
suddenly wolfing down a plate of
chicken wings.

30. You weren't lying, you were only
guessing.

31. But somebody who was busily cooking
you a cheeseburger based on what
you said wouldn't really understand.

32. So trying to figure out what women
want, and then trying to figure out
how to turn yourself into that person
is not a great strategy.

33. So what is?

34. Just talk to as many woman as you
can.

35. Find the one that is turned on by the
natural you. And who spurs the natural
desire in you for her.

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