To have a good career is a dream seen by all eyes. But to get to the dreams is not that easy. Certain factors are required for this, One among them to have SELF CONFIDENCE.
4. But everyone feels insecurity
consciously and subconsciously ,
this will start mainly with self-doubt
on your ability or weakness.
So knowing your strengths &
weaknesses is important.
Valuing your skill is also very
important.
5. The finest way to build confidence in a given area is
to devote energy in it and work hard at it.
If you are unsure about your ability to do something
– speak in front of large meeting.
List your strengths and weaknesses & where your
are good at & not good in.
Individually, rate yourself on each skill listed in the
sheet.
& identify where you need to put efforts.
6. Confident people aren’t only prepared to
practice , they’re also prepared to acknowledge
that they don’t - & can’t – know the whole lot.
Instead of agonizing about what others might
think of your work, concentrate on the unique
perspective you bring.
7. Asking someone who cares about your
development as well as the quality of your
performance to tell you what he/she thinks. Be
sure to pick people whose feedback will be
entirely truthful.
Also remember some people need more
support than others, so don’t be shy about
asking for it.
8. Try things you don’t think you can do.
faliure can be useful for building confidence.
Don’t assume you should feel good at all time. In
fact, stressing yourself can be the to grow.
9. We can build our self confidence by making sure
we:
Know & value our strengths
Are comfortable in our own skills
Know where we are going & what we are
doing.
Recognize faliure as a learning opportunity.
Practise making positive image.
10. Learn to take compliments graciously
Give up “toxic worrying”
Let any guilt go
Never go to “if only……..” land
Always ask for help
11. Find a mentor
Set your goals
Do something out of your comfort zone
Convince yourself that it’s OK to make mistake
Take responsibilities of your own success and
faliure
Be determined,self-reflective,be relaxed.