2. Disclaimer
• The information discussed
are my views and opinions
and mine alone.
• Much like the title of this
talk, citations are needed
and provided at the end of
this deck.
6. Talk introduction
• Attempt to define “social engineer”
• What we really mean when we hear the term
“social engineer”
• History of manipulation and deception
• Persuasion techniques that work
• Neuro Linguistic Programming
7. so·cial
adjective ˈsō-shəl: relating to or
involving activities in which
people spend time talking to each
other or doing enjoyable things
with each other
: liking to be with and talk to
people : happy to be with people
: of or relating to people or
society in general
Definition of “social” and “engineer”
8. Definition of “social” and “engineer”
en·gi·neer
noun ˌen-jə-ˈnir: a person who has
scientific training and who designs
and builds complicated products,
machines, systems, or structures : a
person who specializes in a branch of
engineering
: a person who runs or is in charge of
an engine in an airplane, a ship, etc.
: a person who runs a train
9. engineering
noun (Concise Encyclopedia)
Professional art of applying science to
the optimum conversion of the
resources of nature to the uses of
humankind. Engineering is based
principally on physics, chemistry, and
mathematics and their extensions into
materials science, solid and
fluid mechanics, thermodynamics,
transfer and rate processes, and
systems analysis. A great body of special
knowledge is associated with
engineering; preparation for
professional practice involves extensive
training in the application of that
knowledge.
Definition of “social” and “engineer”
10. How does it happen in
information security?
• Phishing
• Phone calls
• Dumpster Diving
• Doxxing
• OSINT
Call it what it is… manipulation
11. history of manipulation and deception
• Adam and Eve
• False weights
• Clothing, make-up,
smells
12. history of manipulation and deception
• We are told to tell the truth at a young age, yet told to
be polite, have manners, feign respect for elderly,
refrain from telling someone their breath stinks, if you
have nothing good to say about a person…it is
mandatory in society to be deceptive as to our true
feelings and nature
• Santa Claus and Easter Bunny
13. techniques that work
• Reciprocation
• Golden rule
• Hare Krishna
• Street performers asking for
donations
• Free samples, instead of a
person giving them samples
invited them to take as much
as they wanted
• -olive bar in NYC
• Failed reciprocity
14. techniques that work
Commitment and
consistency
• Race track betters more
likely to stand by their
horse after they bet
• Abused spouses
• Sales of toys during
Christmas are in short
supply in order to keep
sales going afterwards
• Parents want to show
children consistency
15. nlp
Pacing and Matching
• Similar to method acting
• Matching another person’s
body language and speech in
order to build rapport
• Not mirroring, rather
integrate elements of their
personality into your own
• Bring vocabulary in line with
the other person
16. nlp
Mirroring
• Behavioral Mirroring
• Symbolic Mirroring
• Exchanged matches
• Not mirroring exactly,
but substituting part of
the body for another
• Using hands to control
breathing
17. nlp
Building and Maintaining
Rapport
• Positive connection
between you and
another person or group
• Conscious application
not a gift
• Use sensory acuity to
find out about a persons
disposition
18. speech
• Pause or delay
• Stress level of voice
• Dry mouth can show
anxiety or alarm
• Accent
• Not only where they
are from, but also
their vocabulary tells
the educational level
19. body language
Notice body changes for clues as
to how to proceed
• Stress levels can change in
an instant, facial
expressions, tension, rigid
body language, withdrawing
in apprehension
• Look for signs of change in
sympathetic nervous system
• Pupil dilation, thinning
lips
20. body language
Calibration
• Using sensory acuity to
gauge the state the
person is in, this allows
you to understand
more about their inner
state
• Once you understand
their state, you
cultivate the state in
yourself
21. body language
Posture
• Adopt the other person’s stance
or sitting position
Movement
• Gesturing, how fast or slow,
how often, and how open or
closed are the movements
Breathing
• Harder to master, but matched
breathing is used in hypnosis.
Helps to match the timing of
your verbal statements
22. Wrap Up
• Mindset of “social engineering” needs to change
• Learn what to look for in the human element, not the
technical
• Understanding these tenets will assist us in protecting
all aspects of our lives
Questions?
23. References
Philip Houston, Michael Floyd, Susan Carnicero, DonTennant - Spy the Lie: Former
CIA OfficersTeachYou How to Detect Deception Published: 2012-07-17 | ISBN:
125000585X | EPUB
Influence:The Psychology of Persuasion, Revised Edition Paperback – December
26, 2006
Robert B. Cialdini (Author)
ISBN-13: 978-0061241895 ISBN-10: 006124189X Edition: Revised
The Big Book of NLP, Expanded: 350+Techniques, Patterns & Strategies of Neuro
Linguistic Programming Paperback – August 2, 2010
ShlomoVaknin (Author), Marina Schwarts (Contributor)
ISBN-10: 9657489083 ISBN-13: 978-965748908
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so·cial
adjective \ˈsō-shəl\: relating to or involving activities in which people spend time talking to each other or doing enjoyable things with each other
: liking to be with and talk to people : happy to be with people
: of or relating to people or society in general
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Full Definition of SOCIAL
1
: involving allies or confederates <the Social War between the Athenians and their allies>
2
a : marked by or passed in pleasant companionship with friends or associates <an active social life>
b : sociable
c : of, relating to, or designed for sociability <a socialclub>
3
: of or relating to human society, the interaction of the individual and the group, or the welfare of human beings as members of society <social institutions>
4
a : tending to form cooperative and interdependent relationships with others
b : living and breeding in more or less organized communities <social insects>
c of a plant : tending to grow in groups or masses so as to form a pure stand
5
a : of, relating to, or based on rank or status in a particular society <a member of our social set>
b : of, relating to, or characteristic of the upper classes
c : formal
6
: being such in social situations <a social drinker>
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engineering
noun (Concise Encyclopedia)
Professional art of applying science to the optimum conversion of the resources of nature to the uses of humankind. Engineering is based principally on physics, chemistry, and mathematics and their extensions into materials science, solid and fluid mechanics, thermodynamics, transfer and rate processes, and systems analysis. A great body of special knowledge is associated with engineering; preparation for professional practice involves extensive training in the application of that knowledge. Engineers employ two types of natural resources, materials and energy. Materials acquire uses that reflect their properties: their strength, ease of fabrication, lightness, or durability; their ability to insulate or conduct; and their chemical, electrical, or acoustical properties. Important sources of energy include fossil fuels (coal, petroleum, gas), wind, sunlight, falling water, and nuclear fission. See also aerospace engineering, civil engineering, chemical engineering. genetic engineering, mechanical engineering, military engineering.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/engineering
1en·gi·neer
noun \ˌen-jə-ˈnir\: a person who has scientific training and who designs and builds complicated products, machines, systems, or structures : a person who specializes in a branch of engineering
: a person who runs or is in charge of an engine in an airplane, a ship, etc.
: a person who runs a train
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Full Definition of ENGINEER
1
: a member of a military group devoted to engineering work
2
obsolete : a crafty schemer : plotter
3
a : a designer or builder of engines
b : a person who is trained in or follows as a profession a branch of engineering
c : a person who carries through an enterprise by skillful or artful contrivance
4
: a person who runs or supervises an engine or an apparatus
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Examples of ENGINEER
Design engineers are working on ways to make the cars run more efficiently.
The engineer stopped the train.
Army engineers were called in to construct the canal.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/engineering
Much the same can be said of blatantly deceptive cosmetic devices such as hairpieces and dyes, age-concealing makeup, and hair removal, all of which are used to falsely suggest the promise and excitement of youth. The magic of cosmetics and dress is no modern innovation. Archeological evidence reveals that at least 70,000 years ago our ancestors adorned their bodies with ochre, a red powder which has been used continuously for that purpose ever since. Pleistocene women may have initially used this forerunner of rouge to deceive males by simulating menstruation, or perhaps to simulate the subtle blush that accompanies ovulation.12 Ancient Egyptian women applied a green paste, rather like modern-day eye shadow, to define their features, darkened their eyebrows with kohl, colored their eyelids to make their eyes appear larger, and bedecked their heads with elaborate wigs. Their Mesopotamian sisters adorned themselves with paint to exaggerate the color and fullness of their lips, while fashionable Greek and Roman ladies dyed their hair blond, applied makeup to cover blemishes, lightened their skin, and used pumice to remove unwanted body hair.13
We have to go back a bit find the pagan legend and myth associated with Santa. One of the first places to start is with the Germanic people and the Norse God Odin.
At Yule, Odin leads a great hunting party through the sky in celebration. This story gives rise to comparisons of Santa and his 8 reindeer flying through the sky.
Ancient pagan deities such as Befana (a gift-giving Roman goddess); the Holly King (a Celtic Winter god); and Thor and Tomte (Norse gods who, respectively, rode across the sky in a chariots drawn by goats and gave presents to children at the end of the year) have all fed into the Santa legend
Ēostre or Ostara (Old English: Ēastre, Northumbrian dialect Ēostre; Old High German: *Ôstara) is a Germanic divinity who, by way of the Germanic month bearing her name (Northumbrian: Ēosturmōnaþ; West Saxon:Ēastermōnaþ; Old High German: Ôstarmânoth), is the namesake of the festival of Easter.
Ostara, Eástre seems therefore to have been the divinity of the radiant dawn, of upspringing light, a spectacle that brings joy and blessing, whose meaning could be easily adapted by the resurrection-day of the Christian's God. Bonfires were lighted at Easter and according to popular belief of long standing, the moment the sun rises on Easter Sunday morning, he gives three joyful leaps, he dances for joy ... Water drawn on the Easter morning is, like that at Christmas, holy and healing ... here also heathen notions seems to have grafted themselves on great Christian festivals. Maidens clothed in white, who at Easter, at the season of returning spring, show themselves in clefts of the rock and on mountains, are suggestive of the ancient goddess.[8]
Pacing is not mirroring, which we will talk about next. You are integrating parts of their style into your own. Example of doctor who spoke gibberish to autistic girl and she only wanted to speak to him afterwards.
Behavioral
Match behaviors that have a symbolic meaning. For example when a man talks to a women many tend to use a higher voice? Many people mirror without realizing it. Mirroring is engraned since it contributes to building relationships that have assisted in survival.
Symbolic
Wardrobe. For example when I moved to Texas I never thought I would wear a stetson hat and boots for any reason. They I found wearing clothes similar to the people I was working with did wonders for not only my career but my friendships. I had never owned a gun before Texas, now I enjoy the several that I have.
Writing. For a liberal person to be able to become more persuasive to conservatives, he wrote a piece that expressed his liberal ideas but used the same language as conservatives. The result was some angry liberals, because the conservative language was more powerful than the words themselves.
Drug commercials. Notice how the section of the commercial they mention the side effects, the music, acting, body language, colors, and other aspects change to make them less memorable.
Exchanged matches
Motion, instead of matching breathing as we will talk about is a more difficult technique to master, we can use finger taps to match the other persons breath rhythm. In this case you are exchanging body parts, bit you are matching rythem or other mirroring aspects.
Have you ever seen someone approach an angry person and motion with their hands to calm down, it is okay, we will find a solution to the problem.
Showing interest in the other persons doesn’t nessasarly build rapport. If a person is shy and reserved they would be overwhelmed. If you think speaking your heart and vison builds rapport, think of those that defend with sarcasm and cynism.
Bulding rapport is not something that is a natural gift, you have to practice and work at it to be good. Why do you think recluse people have a harder time communicating, or that isolated home school kids have a hard time in college and the real world?
You start building this skill by using sensory acuity. This includes watching body language, eyes, and some of the other aspects we have discussed. Everything a person does is a message we can use to build rapport. Have you ever been in a room and felt immediately unconfortable with another person but didn’t know why? Using sensory acuity you can pick up and describe what signals were being telegraphed.
A good cardiolgoist will tell you when they started listening to peoples hearts it was a basic lub dub but with practice they were able to hear other things like prolapsed valves, heart murmers, and much more. It takes practice to hone your senses to pick up on those things.
BEHAVIORAL PAUSE OR DELAY. You ask a person a question and you initially get nothing. After a delay, he begins to respond. How long does a delay have to be before it’s meaningful, before you would consider it a deceptive indicator? Well, it depends.
Try this exercise on a friend: Ask her the question, “On this date seven years ago, what were you doing that day?” The person will invariably pause before responding, because it’s not a question that naturally evokes an immediately response—the person has to think about it, and likely still won’t be able to offer a meaningful response. Now ask her, “On this date seven years ago, did you rob a gas station?” If your friend pauses before responding, you probably need to choose your friends more carefully. Much more likely, there will be no pause—your friend will immediately respond, “No!” or “Of course not!” It’s a simple exercise, but it drives home the point that the delay needs to be considered in the context of whether it’s appropriate for the question.
A second variable is whether the delay is appropriate for the person. In the course of an interview, for example, a pattern will naturally develop that gives you a sense of how much time elapses before the person responds to your questions. If we see something that falls outside of that established pattern, then we have a concern.
A final way of throwing a predator into a tizzy is to behave in a bizarre, erratic, or seemingly random manner.
VERBAL/NONVERBAL DISCONNECT. Our brains are wired in a way that causes our verbal and nonverbal behaviors to naturally match up. So when there’s a disconnect, we consider that a potential deceptive indicator.
A common verbal/nonverbal disconnect to watch out for occurs when a person nods affirmatively while saying, “No,” or turns his head from side to side while saying, “Yes.” As an exercise, if you were to perform that mismatch in response to a question, you’d find that you really have to force yourself through the motion. Yet, a deceptive person will potentially do it without even thinking about it.
There are a couple of caveats associated with this particular indicator. First, this indicator is only applicable in a narrative response, not in a one-word or short-phrase response. Consider, for example, that a person’s head might make a sharp nodding motion when he says “No!” That’s not a disconnect; it’s simple emphasis. Second, it’s important to keep in mind that in some cultures, a nodding motion doesn’t mean “yes,” and a side-to-side head motion doesn’t mean “no.” So, you need to ensure you’re familiar with the cultural patterns of the person who’s being questioned.
HIDING THE MOUTH OR EYES. A deceptive person will often hide her mouth or eyes when she’s being untruthful. There is a natural tendency to want to cover over a lie, so if a person’s hand goes in front of her mouth while she’s responding to a question, that’s significant. Similarly, there’s a natural inclination to shield oneself from the reaction of those who are being lied to. If a person shields her eyes while she’s responding to a question, what she might well be indicating, on a subconscious level, is that she can’t bear to see the reaction to the whopper she’s telling. This shielding may be accomplished with a hand, or the person might even close her eyes. We’re not referring to blinking here, but if a person closes her eyes while responding to a question that does not require reflection to answer, we consider that a means of hiding the eyes, and a likely deceptive indicator.
A final way of throwing a predator into a tizzy is to behave in a bizarre, erratic, or seemingly random manner.
VERBAL/NONVERBAL DISCONNECT. Our brains are wired in a way that causes our verbal and nonverbal behaviors to naturally match up. So when there’s a disconnect, we consider that a potential deceptive indicator.
A common verbal/nonverbal disconnect to watch out for occurs when a person nods affirmatively while saying, “No,” or turns his head from side to side while saying, “Yes.” As an exercise, if you were to perform that mismatch in response to a question, you’d find that you really have to force yourself through the motion. Yet, a deceptive person will potentially do it without even thinking about it.
There are a couple of caveats associated with this particular indicator. First, this indicator is only applicable in a narrative response, not in a one-word or short-phrase response. Consider, for example, that a person’s head might make a sharp nodding motion when he says “No!” That’s not a disconnect; it’s simple emphasis. Second, it’s important to keep in mind that in some cultures, a nodding motion doesn’t mean “yes,” and a side-to-side head motion doesn’t mean “no.” So, you need to ensure you’re familiar with the cultural patterns of the person who’s being questioned.
HIDING THE MOUTH OR EYES. A deceptive person will often hide her mouth or eyes when she’s being untruthful. There is a natural tendency to want to cover over a lie, so if a person’s hand goes in front of her mouth while she’s responding to a question, that’s significant. Similarly, there’s a natural inclination to shield oneself from the reaction of those who are being lied to. If a person shields her eyes while she’s responding to a question, what she might well be indicating, on a subconscious level, is that she can’t bear to see the reaction to the whopper she’s telling. This shielding may be accomplished with a hand, or the person might even close her eyes. We’re not referring to blinking here, but if a person closes her eyes while responding to a question that does not require reflection to answer, we consider that a means of hiding the eyes, and a likely deceptive indicator.
We need to change the way we think of using manipulation and deception in information security since we are missing other opportunities to protect ourselves, customers, companies, etc. from not only cyber criminals but sales people, vendors, douche bags, and dare I say executives. People give away information everyday about themselves, understanding manipulation helps us know who and what information to disclose and who to walk away from (or call the authorities). Questions?