my observations on changed mood of the society

1. 02 / My Observations on Changed Mood of the Society
(List is not in any specific order of importance.)
1 Value system in the society is changing very fast.
2 What was correct and good yesterday has become old fashioned and rejected by
younger generation
3 Every body is right in his way but your right should not be at the cost of others.
The dispute of two generations is mainly because of this new mentality. Our
behaviour should be such that minimum inconvenience is caused to others.
4 Means of transport have increased but communication network between two
individuals has generally become weak. Empathy reading, respect for elders,
communication with elders, what is sacrifice etc. is fast vanishing as in the divided
family, the younger generation is deprived of in house training of these concepts.
The day is not far if you come across any educational institution imparting this
training. 
5 Success is now defined as meeting our dreams by hook or crook. No body has
time to love what you have got in life. The other side is always seen as more green.
6 There is no time to enjoy work. Today’s goal is to work all 24 hours, earn more
and more money by whatever method possible and to purchase material
pleasures. No body realizes the problems of a dragged family in this process. Time
can not be given for the family and attempt is made to compensate them by costly
gifts and one holiday per year.
7 The Love is more related to physical and material possessions. But sacrifice
being the back bone of true love has been conveniently forgotten.
8 There is growing tendency to throw the ladder (all service providers) on reaching
to the top.
9 Selfish thinking is on the rise. Necessicity is not felt for thinking of others.
The tendency of my right will always be at the cost of your right, is call of the day.
10 Generation gap is widening day by day. Such gap is seen even between parents
and school going kids.
11 Joint Families have become extinct. Parents are loved provided they continue
their uphill and thankless job of service providers to new generation.
The movement their usefulness is dropped, the relationship turns into burden.
12 Families are getting separated due to occupation, education, small
accommodation, requirement of more ‘space’ by new generation.
13 The word education is being interpreted more and more narrowly in all fields.

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14 More faith is placed on documentation (disregard to right, wrong, essential)
15 Communication gap between persons is witnessed.
16 Relationship is becoming more and more impersonal.
17 Fortunately the society still gets united in case of natural calamity.
18 Definition of Happiness has changed.
19 Parameters of Love such for whom, extent has seen radical change.
20 The good qualities such as honesty, sincerity, devotion are fast becoming words
to be searched in the dictionary.
21 There is general wide spread feeling that your happiness depends on wealth and
possessions.
22 Growing tendency to spend on Luxuries.
23 A person gets so much carried away after his career and occupation, that he
hardly gets time for his family and for his health, hobbies.
24 Time management needs to be taught to younger generation.
25 Educational institutions teach at micro level, more on academic front rather than
overall development of the kid/student.
26 Excessive importance is given to money. Money is a means to an end and not an
end in itself.
27 A man works untiringly to earn money at the cost of health. In later part of Life he
spends the same money to get back his health.
28 Happiness is sought in the destination and not in the journey itself. (Take macro
meaning of the word journey.)
29 Optimism displayed by young generation has no back up.
30 Only persons with Professional qualification are considered Professional without
confirming their professional attitude and approach. A person with professional
attitude and approach may not be professionally qualified.
31 Eating in the hotel was considered as below dignity. Now hostelling is a prestige
symbol.
32 Society had not accepted eating bread or deputing cook in the house. Now bread
occupies main item on dining table. Employing cook is very common.
33 One had to purchase biscuits, cakes, eggs secretly those days. It was considered as
against the religion. The current scenario is totally different.
34 Attending coaching class was considered as declaring that you have below
average intelligence to the world at large. Now most intelligent students enroll for
the coaching class.

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