13. 3 Factors Interfering with Self Confidence
1. Doubt and Fear
2. Guilt and Unworthiness
3. Inferiority and Feeling of Undeserveness
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20. “Cancer was the best
thing that ever happened
to me…”
Lance Edward Armstrong
In October 1996 he was diagnosed as having testicular cancer with a tumor that had
metastasized to his brain and lungs. His cancer treatments included brain and testicular surgery
and extensive chemotherapy, and his prognosis was originally poor. He went on to win the Tour
de France each year from 1999 to 2005, and is the only person to win seven times having
broken the previous record of five wins shared by Miguel Indurain, Bernard Hinault, Eddy
Merckx, and Jacques Anquetil.
In 1999, he was named the ABC Wide World of Sports Athlete of the Year. In 2000 he won the
Prince of Asturias Award in Sports. In 2002, Sports Illustrated magazine named him Sportsman
of the Year. He was also named Associated Press Male Athlete of the Year for the years 2002–
2005. He received ESPN's ESPY Award for Best Male Athlete in 2003, 2004, 2005, and 2006, and
won the BBC Sports Personality of the Year Overseas Personality Award in 2003. Armstrong
announced his retirement from racing on July 24, 2005, at the end of the 2005 Tour de France
but returned to competitive cycling in January 2009 and finished third in the 2009 Tour de
France….. Returned to triathlon in the inaugural Ironman Panama race, on February 12, 2012
21. “I’m going to go on and I’m
going to beat it,” he said.
“And I’m going to have fun.”
Earvin "Magic" Johnson Jr.
After a physical before the 1991–92 NBA season, Johnson discovered that he had tested positive for
HIV. In a press conference held on November 7, 1991, Johnson made a public announcement that he
would retire immediately.
He has lived for more than 20 years with the virus. He is robust, runs a thriving business empire and is
leading a group bidding to buy the Los Angeles Dodgers. His immune system is indistinguishable from a
normal person’s, his doctor says. Science caught up to the public optimism that made Johnson sound
daft or in deep denial on the day of his announcement.
ESPN Documentary airs on March 11, 2012.
22. Joey’s catalogue of unforgettable hit
songs include Tell Me, I Remember
the Boy, Ikaw Lang ang
Mamahalin, Points of
View, Kumukutikutitap, Sa Iyo
Lamang, Iisa Pa Lamang, and Million
Miles Away.
Joey Albert's meteoric rise as a gifted musical artist was interrupted by serious illnesses. After surviving
cervical cancer in 1995, Albert was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2003. She underwent a successful
surgery in July 2003 and recovered after a series of chemotherapy. By October 2003, she was besieged
with offers to sing again. But Albert had to complete rounds of chemotherapy until March 2004.
Since she migrated to Canada in 1994, Albert has been living in Vancouver, British Columbia with her
husband Vicente Pacis III and daughters Trixie and Margarita. Between her professional commitments as
a performer, she also owns and administers a pre-school daycare center in Vancouver as well as hosts
the Joey Albert Show on Filipino--Canadian television.
Latest Concert: Up Close & Personal: Joey Albert and David Pomeranze, February 25, 2012, Irwindale,
CA 91706
23. 3 Factors Interfering with Self Confidence
1. Doubt and Fear
2. Guilt and Unworthiness
3. Inferiority and Feeling of Undeserveness
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26. Law of Cause and Effect
“Your thoughts are the cause of
your present condition (effect)…”
“Everything that has happened in
your life has a reason... But, the
best is yet to come…”
30. “Because of your Faith, it will happen.”
(Matthew 9:29)
"'If you can'?" said Jesus. "Everything is
possible for him who believes.“ (Mark 9:23)
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32. Law of Expectation
“Whatever you expect with confidence becomes
your self-fulfilling prophecy…”
“Always Expect the Best…”
“Never sell yourself short… You probably have
more abilities than you can dream of…”
33. Law of Attraction
“Each person is a living magnet…”
“Your thoughts create a force field that vibrates and resonates with the
things and the people around you…”
“A thought impelled by an emotion creates an energy field that attracts
resources necessary to achieve the thought...”
“Whatever you think becomes your reality”
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36. Law of Correspondence
“What is within you, will manifests outside…”
“The world around you is like mirror that
reflects your dominant thoughts…”
“You see yourself reflected back to you,
wherever you look…”
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38. Law of Subconscious Activity
“Your subconscious mind makes all your words
and actions consistent with your thoughts...”
“So keep reprogramming your subconscious mind
to make it consistent with being happy and
joyous…”
41. Law of Habit
“Whatever you do repeatedly, over and over again,
becomes a new habit…So you can develop an
emotional habit of confidence, optimism, joy, and
positive expectancy by simply repeating certain
thoughts over and over again…”
“You become what you think about most of the
time...”
“The only way to change your life is by changing your
thinking…”
42. ~Self Concept~
-The sum of all your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, learnings, and experiences that
come together to make you the kind of person you are today…
-Your self concept determines your level of effectiveness…
-If you change your thinking… you change your life…
a. -ConsistsIdeal principles, ideals, goals, hopes, dreams…
Self of your values,
b. Self Image
-The way you see and think about yourself…
c. Self Esteem
-The emotional part of you’re your self concept…
-Determines how much you like yourself…
43. “I like My Self!” / “I’m the best!”
The more you like yourself, the more you like other people, and the more you
like other people, the more they like you back…
c. Self Esteem
-Determines how much you like yourself…
46. Children are born without any negative emotions,
except for the fear of falling and fears of loud noises…
47. Children are totally:
1. Uninhibited – “I can do anything…”
2. Spontaneous – “I don’t have to do anything…”
Later in Life, because of bad parenting and their
environment, they develop negative habit patterns:
1. Inhibited – “I Can’t…” (Fear of Failure)
2. Compulsive – “I have to…” (Fear of rejection, and
fear of disapproval, fear of not being loved)
49. Law of Forgiveness
“You are a healthy person to the degree to which you can freely forgive and forget
offenses against you…”
“A person who cannot forgive is totally destroyed psychologically and
emotionally…”
“You become a truly superior person when you start to forgive and like
everybody…”
Start to Forgive 100%…
1. Forgive your Parents…
2. Forgive any relationship that didn’t work out…
3. Forgive everyone that has hurt you in anyway…
4. Forgive yourself…
57. Law of Super Conscious Activity
"The super conscious mind puts you in tune with the universe –everything past,
present, and future… every idea and possibility and comes to you through
intuition and coincidences…"
"Because of the super conscious mind, any thought, plan, goal, or idea held
continuously in the conscious mind must be brought into reality by the super
conscious mind…"
58. As you feel yourself moving towards something that is important to you, your
self-confidence and self-esteem go up… you feel happy, powerful, strong, and you
feel a surge of energy and elation… you become more creative… all of your best
qualities emerge…
The best way to blot out all negative experiences in your life is to keep thinking
and working on your goal… Always swing your mind away from negative thoughts…
When you keep thinking of your goals, all the negative things just fall away…
When you turn towards the sunshine, all the shadows fall behind you…
59. Writing goals activates the three learning modalities visual,
auditory, and kinaesthetic… Write it and the super-conscious
mind will work its magic 24/7…
60. 1. Decide exactly what you want
a. Business – Career goals (what)
b. Personal – Family Goals (why)
c. Self-Improvement Goals (how)
61. 2. Write it down, make it specific, and set a
deadline by adding “by” after each goal
Law of Accelerating Acceleration
“When you start towards your goal, your goal start towards you at a rapid rate, and the
faster you move towards your goal, the faster the goal moves towards you…”
“The greater clarity you have towards your goal, the faster you move towards it and the
faster it moves toward you…”
62. 3. Identify the obstacles you will have to overcome to
achieve your goal…
“Eighty percent (80%) of your obstacles are within yourself, only twenty percent (20%) are
external...”
“Ask: What is it in me?”
63. 4. Identify additional knowledge you will require to
achieve your goal…
There is usually one skill that’s keeping you away from your goal…
Ask yourself, “what one skill If I was excellent at it, would help me the most?”
Any skill is learnable…
You are probably one skill away from your goal…
64. 5. Identify people whose help and cooperation will be
required
When approaching people for help, always ask, “what’s in it for them?” (WIIF)
Do the deliberate extreme –to work longer hours to achieve your goal and tell your
family “I’ll make it up to you…”
65. 6. Make a plan of action
Make list of your goals according to sequence and priority… Which goals have the
greatest impact?
67. 7. Do something every day…
All you need to do to raise your self-confidence, self-esteem, and level of attainment is to
have an absolutely crystal-clear goal and to work on it every single day…
68. Homework:
1. Write 10 goals for the year like it already happened… Give it a positive tone…
In writing goals, use the format “I + action verb…”
2. Which goal would have the greatest possible impact…?
Your top goal becomes your Major Definite Purpose… It becomes your Life Focus…
When you know your Definite Purpose, you know that You Are Unstoppable…
I am Unstoppable!
There is nothing that you can’t do when you put your mind to it…
69. You have Unlimited God-Given Potential…
The only limit to what you can achieve is your mind…
Pledge:
I am the best...
I am the best in everyway everyday...
I am in charge...
I am in charge of my success…
I can do it! Yes I can do it!
I am unstoppable!
I am unstoppable and I am getting closer and closer to my goals…
And yes, I can do it!
Yes I can! Yes I can! Yes I can!
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