In this qualitative research study, Kristen Martinez, M.Ed., Ed.S., LMHCA, NCC, an LGBT+ affirmative therapist at Pacific NorthWell, interviewed five self-identified gay men about their experiences coming out and staying out.
This document discusses gender differences in communication in the workplace. It argues that workplace environments are typically constructed along masculine norms of communication, placing women at a disadvantage. Gendered communication styles are socially constructed, with research showing women socialized to value collaboration while men focus on status and goals. These differences can influence women's occupational outcomes. The document advocates increasing awareness of gendered communication to reduce misunderstandings and promote equality.
International Journal of Humanities and Social Science Invention (IJHSSI)inventionjournals
International Journal of Humanities and Social Science Invention (IJHSSI) is an international journal intended for professionals and researchers in all fields of Humanities and Social Science. IJHSSI publishes research articles and reviews within the whole field Humanities and Social Science, new teaching methods, assessment, validation and the impact of new technologies and it will continue to provide information on the latest trends and developments in this ever-expanding subject. The publications of papers are selected through double peer reviewed to ensure originality, relevance, and readability. The articles published in our journal can be accessed online
Social construction of race and gender, patriarchy and prejudice and discrimi...Service_supportAssignment
Social construct may be defined as the social mechanism or a category which has been created by the society. It may either be a perception which is created by an individual, a group or an idea which is constructed because of a culture. The present society has created a large number of constructs which are not good. In this research paper, the discussion will be done on the social construction of race and gender and the problems associated with the same. In addition to this, how can social construct forms to be the basis for discrimination and prejudice? Further, racism and sexism will be discussed with examples and the role of power in the same. To end, patriarchy will be discussed and its role in racism and sexism will be added
This document discusses gender differences and similarities in same-sex and cross-sex friendships. It argues that while same-sex friendships appear different for men and women based on gender stereotypes, there are also many similarities in what each gender desires from friendships. Cross-sex friendships face additional complexity due to societal expectations of romantic intent between men and women. Gender plays an influential role in shaping friendship norms but may not reflect the realities of how men and women engage in actual friendships.
This document summarizes a research paper about the negative effects of age stereotyping. It discusses how negative aging stereotypes are commonly held in society and internalized by older individuals, leading to negative self-stereotyping. Negative self-stereotyping is shown to have physiological impacts and can become a self-fulfilling prophecy, imposing unnecessary limitations. The paper examines ageism and negative stereotypes of elders in the media, among children, and in the medical field. It discusses the concept of self-stereotyping and the harmful effects of negative self-stereotypes on elders' health based on previous research studies. The purpose is to show how acceptance of positive aging stereotypes can benefit elders' physical and mental health.
This document analyzes the effects of age stereotyping. It discusses how negative aging stereotypes are prevalent in society and internalized by older adults, leading to a cycle where stereotypes influence treatment and self-perception. The stereotypes impose unnecessary limitations and negatively impact health. While some stereotypes are harmless, widespread acceptance can lead to ageism. The paper examines how positive stereotypes may extend life and proposes recognizing and addressing ageism to improve quality of life for older populations.
This document discusses the differences between sex and gender. It notes that while sex is a biological concept referring to chromosomes and anatomy, gender describes the social and cultural roles associated with being masculine or feminine. These gender roles can vary significantly across cultures. The document also examines theories that gender is socially constructed through socialization and cultural norms, rather than inherently biological. It explores how this social construction of gender roles can negatively impact individuals, especially transgender people, by restricting their freedom and increasing risks of discrimination, mental health issues, and suicide.
Gender Communication Stereotypes: A Depiction of the Mass Mediaiosrjce
This document summarizes research on gender communication stereotypes as depicted in mass media. It discusses how gender stereotypes are developed and reinforced from childhood through social and cultural influences. Common stereotypes include views of women as weaker, emotional, and focused on family/home, while men are seen as strong, unemotional providers. The document also examines how these stereotypes influence perceptions and roles in the workplace, with women facing discrimination and assumptions about priorities. While stereotypes can function psychologically, they often fail to reflect diversity and can limit opportunities when applied broadly.
This document discusses gender differences in communication in the workplace. It argues that workplace environments are typically constructed along masculine norms of communication, placing women at a disadvantage. Gendered communication styles are socially constructed, with research showing women socialized to value collaboration while men focus on status and goals. These differences can influence women's occupational outcomes. The document advocates increasing awareness of gendered communication to reduce misunderstandings and promote equality.
International Journal of Humanities and Social Science Invention (IJHSSI)inventionjournals
International Journal of Humanities and Social Science Invention (IJHSSI) is an international journal intended for professionals and researchers in all fields of Humanities and Social Science. IJHSSI publishes research articles and reviews within the whole field Humanities and Social Science, new teaching methods, assessment, validation and the impact of new technologies and it will continue to provide information on the latest trends and developments in this ever-expanding subject. The publications of papers are selected through double peer reviewed to ensure originality, relevance, and readability. The articles published in our journal can be accessed online
Social construction of race and gender, patriarchy and prejudice and discrimi...Service_supportAssignment
Social construct may be defined as the social mechanism or a category which has been created by the society. It may either be a perception which is created by an individual, a group or an idea which is constructed because of a culture. The present society has created a large number of constructs which are not good. In this research paper, the discussion will be done on the social construction of race and gender and the problems associated with the same. In addition to this, how can social construct forms to be the basis for discrimination and prejudice? Further, racism and sexism will be discussed with examples and the role of power in the same. To end, patriarchy will be discussed and its role in racism and sexism will be added
This document discusses gender differences and similarities in same-sex and cross-sex friendships. It argues that while same-sex friendships appear different for men and women based on gender stereotypes, there are also many similarities in what each gender desires from friendships. Cross-sex friendships face additional complexity due to societal expectations of romantic intent between men and women. Gender plays an influential role in shaping friendship norms but may not reflect the realities of how men and women engage in actual friendships.
This document summarizes a research paper about the negative effects of age stereotyping. It discusses how negative aging stereotypes are commonly held in society and internalized by older individuals, leading to negative self-stereotyping. Negative self-stereotyping is shown to have physiological impacts and can become a self-fulfilling prophecy, imposing unnecessary limitations. The paper examines ageism and negative stereotypes of elders in the media, among children, and in the medical field. It discusses the concept of self-stereotyping and the harmful effects of negative self-stereotypes on elders' health based on previous research studies. The purpose is to show how acceptance of positive aging stereotypes can benefit elders' physical and mental health.
This document analyzes the effects of age stereotyping. It discusses how negative aging stereotypes are prevalent in society and internalized by older adults, leading to a cycle where stereotypes influence treatment and self-perception. The stereotypes impose unnecessary limitations and negatively impact health. While some stereotypes are harmless, widespread acceptance can lead to ageism. The paper examines how positive stereotypes may extend life and proposes recognizing and addressing ageism to improve quality of life for older populations.
This document discusses the differences between sex and gender. It notes that while sex is a biological concept referring to chromosomes and anatomy, gender describes the social and cultural roles associated with being masculine or feminine. These gender roles can vary significantly across cultures. The document also examines theories that gender is socially constructed through socialization and cultural norms, rather than inherently biological. It explores how this social construction of gender roles can negatively impact individuals, especially transgender people, by restricting their freedom and increasing risks of discrimination, mental health issues, and suicide.
Gender Communication Stereotypes: A Depiction of the Mass Mediaiosrjce
This document summarizes research on gender communication stereotypes as depicted in mass media. It discusses how gender stereotypes are developed and reinforced from childhood through social and cultural influences. Common stereotypes include views of women as weaker, emotional, and focused on family/home, while men are seen as strong, unemotional providers. The document also examines how these stereotypes influence perceptions and roles in the workplace, with women facing discrimination and assumptions about priorities. While stereotypes can function psychologically, they often fail to reflect diversity and can limit opportunities when applied broadly.
Towards The Social Categorisation Of Sexualitiesrichienyhus
This document discusses how viewing sexuality through the lens of natural categories versus social construction can have negative consequences. Viewing sexuality as naturally occurring categories promotes stereotypes, marginalizes some groups, and can justify oppressive social norms. In contrast, understanding sexuality as socially constructed allows for greater cultural understanding, reduces stigma and stereotyping, and promotes safer sexual practices and equitable treatment of all groups.
Prof.dr. halit hami öz sociology-chapter 12-gender, sex, and sexualityProf. Dr. Halit Hami Öz
This document discusses gender, sex, and sexuality. It begins by differentiating between sex, which refers to biological characteristics, and gender, which refers to social or cultural distinctions between masculine and feminine. It then discusses gender identity and the concepts of transgender, transsexual, and homosexual identities. It provides examples of gender roles and socialization in American culture. It also discusses the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation.
This document discusses the concept of a "crisis of masculinity" brought on by advances in women's empowerment and gender equality. It argues that traditional social constructs of masculinity, which emphasize strength, emotional detachment and male dominance, have been challenged by changing gender roles. This has led to insecurity and anxiety in some men over their status. However, not all men have responded with violence. Overall, the document calls for educating men and boys to accept women's equality in a way that does not threaten masculinity or perpetuate a sense of male entitlement and privilege over women.
This document is an outline for an essay on women's inequality. It discusses perspectives from several feminist activists and researchers on the issue. Betty Friedan argues that society teaches women to accept inferior roles and status. Bell Hooks discusses how black women faced unequal treatment as well. Research by Carol Dweck and others finds that gender socialization from a young age impacts perceptions of inequality. Studies also show ongoing wage gaps between men and women in fields like medicine despite equal qualifications. The essay will examine the slow progress toward gender equality.
A first blush, it probably seems easy to define what we're talking about when we talk about gender. It's just men and women, and the differences between them, right? But things are not so simple, and explaining what actually constitutes gender is surprisingly difficult.
A Feast of Difference: "Gender Issues" and "Sexuality in Continuity and Change"Gregorio III Caliguia
A Feast of Difference: "Gender Issues" and "Sexuality in Continuity and Change"
A presentation by
Gregorio R. Caliguia III
MA in Philippine Studies*
(Society and Culture)
Prof. Rolando Talampas
(PS 202: Theories and Perspectives)
Asian Center
University of the Philippines - Diliman
9 September 2014
This document summarizes research on discrimination faced by transgender youth in the juvenile justice system. It finds that transgender youth are more likely to experience family conflict, homelessness, and involvement in the juvenile system due to higher rates of rejection by families. Once in the system, they face discrimination from adults and peers, including failure to provide adequate treatment or protect their rights. Authoritative adults have conscious and unconscious biases that hinder rehabilitation and perpetuate mistreatment of transgender youth.
Matt maycock understanding masculinity 26th jan 2016Matthew Maycock
The document summarizes a presentation on theories of masculinity given by Dr. Matt Maycock. It discusses hegemonic masculinity as proposed by Raewyn Connell, which describes the dominant form of masculinity in a society that establishes norms and subordinates other forms. It also discusses inclusive masculinity proposed by Eric Anderson, which suggests masculinity is becoming more egalitarian with declining homophobia. Examples are given of applying these theories in research on masculinity and bonded labour in Nepal and Scottish prisons. Ethnographic research is said to have illustrated the cultural variability of masculinities.
This document discusses models of bisexual identity development. It describes D'Augelli's interactive model which views identity development as involving exiting one's heterosexual identity, developing a personal bisexual identity, developing social and community identities, and developing intimacy. It also discusses Weinberg's 4 stage model involving initial confusion, finding and applying the label, settling into the identity, and continued uncertainty. The layercake model describes 5 stages from socializing heterosexually to identifying as bisexual. The models are meant to broadly understand identity development, though every person's experience is unique based on factors like ethnicity, gender, and culture. A therapist can provide a safe space for clients to explore and reconstruct their identity and understand the nature
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The document discusses gender differences and inequalities in American society. It argues that society uses social constructs to teach gender roles from a young age. Boys and girls are socialized differently, with girls expected to behave formally and boys informally. These differences are reinforced in preschools through policies on clothing, behavior, and interactions. As adults, these inequalities persist, with women earning less and facing barriers to advancement. The patriarchal social structure views masculinity as powerful and femininity as subordinate. The document concludes that socialization of gender roles and differences leads to inequalities faced by women in workplaces, homes, and institutions.
This document provides a summary of a lecture on masculinity and femininity. It discusses:
1) Where gender studies has been, from the study of women to theories of gender. It also discusses the sex/gender distinction and gender socialization.
2) The content of the current lecture, including where gender systems come from, unpacking gender systems through examining beliefs and practices, and examples of gender systems and their changing nature over time.
3) Examples of how gender beliefs can affect evaluations of people's skills and products, and an example of how economic crisis in Russia marginalized men both in and out of the home.
Masculinity in America: Men Judging MenAmy Goodloe
Student presentation for WRTG 3020, Spring 2011. The presentation contains a synopsis of key findings from Michael S. Kimmel's article, "Masculinity as Homophobia: Fear, Shame, and Silence in the Construction of Gender Identity."
Gender refers to the psychological sense of maleness or femaleness related to one's culture or society, whereas sex refers to biological attributes. Gender development involves learning gender roles and stereotypes from a young age through socialization. Gender identity forms between ages 2-3 and involves identifying as male or female, while gender constancy develops at ages 6-7 with the understanding that gender is permanent. Gender stereotyping can be positive or negative, but is inherently harmful as it reduces individuals to narrow roles and leads to making assumptions about people based on their gender.
The document discusses three dimensions of the social that shape understandings of gender, sexuality, and heterosexuality. The structural dimension refers to patterned social relations that shape the social order through institutionalizing gender hierarchy and heterosexuality via mechanisms like law and the state. It legitimizes specific relationship forms. Everyday social practices also reproduce heteronormativity. While change is possible, heteronormativity continues to privilege monogamous coupledom and marginalize non-heterosexual relationships.
This document defines key terms around gender and sexuality, including sex, gender, gender identity, and sexual orientation. It discusses that while the traditional model views gender as binary and linked to sexuality, models like the Authentic Gender Model see these as more complex with multiple possibilities that may not match sex or sexuality. It addresses issues like transgender identity and experiences, as well as challenges like bullying faced by LGBT youth and efforts to create greater acceptance and support.
Analysis Of LGBT Identity Development Models And Implications For PracticeMartha Brown
This summary provides an overview of LGBT identity development models:
- Stage models from the 1970s focused on resolving internal conflicts around gay/lesbian identities and the "coming out" process, though they were limited by primarily studying white men.
- More recent research examines identities of bisexuals, people of color, women, and the influence of other social identities. This highlights the diversity within LGBT communities.
- Alternatives to stage models take a life span approach and consider broader social contexts rather than narrow stages, allowing for more fluid and varied experiences.
Analysis of LGBT Identity Development Models and Implications for PracticeIim Ibrahim
This summary provides an overview of LGBT identity development models:
- Stage models from the 1970s focused on resolving internal conflicts around gay/lesbian identities and the "coming out" process, though they were limited by only studying small samples of men.
- More recent research recognizes greater diversity in bisexual and transgender identities and how race, culture, gender, and other identities intersect with sexuality.
- Alternative models take a more fluid, lifespan approach rather than rigid stages, recognizing social contexts and a wider range of experiences.
This document discusses heterosexual society's negative views of bisexuality. It identifies three primary reasons for discrimination against bisexuals: seeing them as promiscuous, feeling threatened by open sexuality, and assuming sexuality is dichotomous rather than a continuum. Negative attitudes were exacerbated by the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s and 90s. Men tend to be more biphobic than women as a way to affirm their masculinity by rejecting what is seen as unmanly. While some bisexual activity arises from desire, others engage in it due to comfort, necessity, or opportunity without intimacy. Overall, resentment toward bisexuals stems from cultural influences, beliefs, and ignorance of stereotypes.
Sexuality and Identity: Scientific Findings
Paul R. McHugh, MD
Aaron Kheriaty, MD
Executive Summary of “Living the Truth in Love”
An international conference and resource event to address pastoral approaches toward men and women with homosexual tendencies
October 2, 2015
Pontifical University of St. Thomas Rome, Italy
Today, terms like “homosexual persons” and “sexual orientation” are used as if they had a univocal meaning and described objective, even obvious realities existing in the world. But phrases like “homosexual persons” and “sexual orientation” can be misleading, and words like “homosexual” and “homosexuality” are ambiguous.
Insisting on language better suited to scientific and anthropological realities will help clarify the truth about our identity as human persons and the true basis of our dignity, for those within and beyond our religious communities.
Towards The Social Categorisation Of Sexualitiesrichienyhus
This document discusses how viewing sexuality through the lens of natural categories versus social construction can have negative consequences. Viewing sexuality as naturally occurring categories promotes stereotypes, marginalizes some groups, and can justify oppressive social norms. In contrast, understanding sexuality as socially constructed allows for greater cultural understanding, reduces stigma and stereotyping, and promotes safer sexual practices and equitable treatment of all groups.
Prof.dr. halit hami öz sociology-chapter 12-gender, sex, and sexualityProf. Dr. Halit Hami Öz
This document discusses gender, sex, and sexuality. It begins by differentiating between sex, which refers to biological characteristics, and gender, which refers to social or cultural distinctions between masculine and feminine. It then discusses gender identity and the concepts of transgender, transsexual, and homosexual identities. It provides examples of gender roles and socialization in American culture. It also discusses the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation.
This document discusses the concept of a "crisis of masculinity" brought on by advances in women's empowerment and gender equality. It argues that traditional social constructs of masculinity, which emphasize strength, emotional detachment and male dominance, have been challenged by changing gender roles. This has led to insecurity and anxiety in some men over their status. However, not all men have responded with violence. Overall, the document calls for educating men and boys to accept women's equality in a way that does not threaten masculinity or perpetuate a sense of male entitlement and privilege over women.
This document is an outline for an essay on women's inequality. It discusses perspectives from several feminist activists and researchers on the issue. Betty Friedan argues that society teaches women to accept inferior roles and status. Bell Hooks discusses how black women faced unequal treatment as well. Research by Carol Dweck and others finds that gender socialization from a young age impacts perceptions of inequality. Studies also show ongoing wage gaps between men and women in fields like medicine despite equal qualifications. The essay will examine the slow progress toward gender equality.
A first blush, it probably seems easy to define what we're talking about when we talk about gender. It's just men and women, and the differences between them, right? But things are not so simple, and explaining what actually constitutes gender is surprisingly difficult.
A Feast of Difference: "Gender Issues" and "Sexuality in Continuity and Change"Gregorio III Caliguia
A Feast of Difference: "Gender Issues" and "Sexuality in Continuity and Change"
A presentation by
Gregorio R. Caliguia III
MA in Philippine Studies*
(Society and Culture)
Prof. Rolando Talampas
(PS 202: Theories and Perspectives)
Asian Center
University of the Philippines - Diliman
9 September 2014
This document summarizes research on discrimination faced by transgender youth in the juvenile justice system. It finds that transgender youth are more likely to experience family conflict, homelessness, and involvement in the juvenile system due to higher rates of rejection by families. Once in the system, they face discrimination from adults and peers, including failure to provide adequate treatment or protect their rights. Authoritative adults have conscious and unconscious biases that hinder rehabilitation and perpetuate mistreatment of transgender youth.
Matt maycock understanding masculinity 26th jan 2016Matthew Maycock
The document summarizes a presentation on theories of masculinity given by Dr. Matt Maycock. It discusses hegemonic masculinity as proposed by Raewyn Connell, which describes the dominant form of masculinity in a society that establishes norms and subordinates other forms. It also discusses inclusive masculinity proposed by Eric Anderson, which suggests masculinity is becoming more egalitarian with declining homophobia. Examples are given of applying these theories in research on masculinity and bonded labour in Nepal and Scottish prisons. Ethnographic research is said to have illustrated the cultural variability of masculinities.
This document discusses models of bisexual identity development. It describes D'Augelli's interactive model which views identity development as involving exiting one's heterosexual identity, developing a personal bisexual identity, developing social and community identities, and developing intimacy. It also discusses Weinberg's 4 stage model involving initial confusion, finding and applying the label, settling into the identity, and continued uncertainty. The layercake model describes 5 stages from socializing heterosexually to identifying as bisexual. The models are meant to broadly understand identity development, though every person's experience is unique based on factors like ethnicity, gender, and culture. A therapist can provide a safe space for clients to explore and reconstruct their identity and understand the nature
This is the most exciting presentation on Women Empowerment.
I hope everyone can go through it.
All the very best to every one.
Wish you best of luck for your Presentation.
I advise to all please add your body language when you give your presentation.
The document discusses gender differences and inequalities in American society. It argues that society uses social constructs to teach gender roles from a young age. Boys and girls are socialized differently, with girls expected to behave formally and boys informally. These differences are reinforced in preschools through policies on clothing, behavior, and interactions. As adults, these inequalities persist, with women earning less and facing barriers to advancement. The patriarchal social structure views masculinity as powerful and femininity as subordinate. The document concludes that socialization of gender roles and differences leads to inequalities faced by women in workplaces, homes, and institutions.
This document provides a summary of a lecture on masculinity and femininity. It discusses:
1) Where gender studies has been, from the study of women to theories of gender. It also discusses the sex/gender distinction and gender socialization.
2) The content of the current lecture, including where gender systems come from, unpacking gender systems through examining beliefs and practices, and examples of gender systems and their changing nature over time.
3) Examples of how gender beliefs can affect evaluations of people's skills and products, and an example of how economic crisis in Russia marginalized men both in and out of the home.
Masculinity in America: Men Judging MenAmy Goodloe
Student presentation for WRTG 3020, Spring 2011. The presentation contains a synopsis of key findings from Michael S. Kimmel's article, "Masculinity as Homophobia: Fear, Shame, and Silence in the Construction of Gender Identity."
Gender refers to the psychological sense of maleness or femaleness related to one's culture or society, whereas sex refers to biological attributes. Gender development involves learning gender roles and stereotypes from a young age through socialization. Gender identity forms between ages 2-3 and involves identifying as male or female, while gender constancy develops at ages 6-7 with the understanding that gender is permanent. Gender stereotyping can be positive or negative, but is inherently harmful as it reduces individuals to narrow roles and leads to making assumptions about people based on their gender.
The document discusses three dimensions of the social that shape understandings of gender, sexuality, and heterosexuality. The structural dimension refers to patterned social relations that shape the social order through institutionalizing gender hierarchy and heterosexuality via mechanisms like law and the state. It legitimizes specific relationship forms. Everyday social practices also reproduce heteronormativity. While change is possible, heteronormativity continues to privilege monogamous coupledom and marginalize non-heterosexual relationships.
This document defines key terms around gender and sexuality, including sex, gender, gender identity, and sexual orientation. It discusses that while the traditional model views gender as binary and linked to sexuality, models like the Authentic Gender Model see these as more complex with multiple possibilities that may not match sex or sexuality. It addresses issues like transgender identity and experiences, as well as challenges like bullying faced by LGBT youth and efforts to create greater acceptance and support.
Analysis Of LGBT Identity Development Models And Implications For PracticeMartha Brown
This summary provides an overview of LGBT identity development models:
- Stage models from the 1970s focused on resolving internal conflicts around gay/lesbian identities and the "coming out" process, though they were limited by primarily studying white men.
- More recent research examines identities of bisexuals, people of color, women, and the influence of other social identities. This highlights the diversity within LGBT communities.
- Alternatives to stage models take a life span approach and consider broader social contexts rather than narrow stages, allowing for more fluid and varied experiences.
Analysis of LGBT Identity Development Models and Implications for PracticeIim Ibrahim
This summary provides an overview of LGBT identity development models:
- Stage models from the 1970s focused on resolving internal conflicts around gay/lesbian identities and the "coming out" process, though they were limited by only studying small samples of men.
- More recent research recognizes greater diversity in bisexual and transgender identities and how race, culture, gender, and other identities intersect with sexuality.
- Alternative models take a more fluid, lifespan approach rather than rigid stages, recognizing social contexts and a wider range of experiences.
This document discusses heterosexual society's negative views of bisexuality. It identifies three primary reasons for discrimination against bisexuals: seeing them as promiscuous, feeling threatened by open sexuality, and assuming sexuality is dichotomous rather than a continuum. Negative attitudes were exacerbated by the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s and 90s. Men tend to be more biphobic than women as a way to affirm their masculinity by rejecting what is seen as unmanly. While some bisexual activity arises from desire, others engage in it due to comfort, necessity, or opportunity without intimacy. Overall, resentment toward bisexuals stems from cultural influences, beliefs, and ignorance of stereotypes.
Sexuality and Identity: Scientific Findings
Paul R. McHugh, MD
Aaron Kheriaty, MD
Executive Summary of “Living the Truth in Love”
An international conference and resource event to address pastoral approaches toward men and women with homosexual tendencies
October 2, 2015
Pontifical University of St. Thomas Rome, Italy
Today, terms like “homosexual persons” and “sexual orientation” are used as if they had a univocal meaning and described objective, even obvious realities existing in the world. But phrases like “homosexual persons” and “sexual orientation” can be misleading, and words like “homosexual” and “homosexuality” are ambiguous.
Insisting on language better suited to scientific and anthropological realities will help clarify the truth about our identity as human persons and the true basis of our dignity, for those within and beyond our religious communities.
Homosexuality refers to romantic or sexual attraction between members of the same sex. It is one of three main categories of sexual orientation, along with bisexuality and heterosexuality. Most major psychological and health organizations state that homosexuality is a normal variation of human sexuality. While some religious groups teach that homosexual activity is sinful, homosexual relationships have been both accepted and condemned in different cultures throughout history.
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Hypertension, also known as high blood pressure, is a serious medical condition that occurs when blood pressure in the body's arteries is consistently too high. Blood pressure is the force of blood pushing against the walls of blood vessels as the heart pumps it. Hypertension can increase the risk of heart disease, brain disease, kidney disease, and premature death.
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Here are some key objectives of communication with children:
Build Trust and Security:
Establish a safe and supportive environment where children feel comfortable expressing themselves.
Encourage Expression:
Enable children to articulate their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
Promote Emotional Understanding:
Help children identify and understand their own emotions and the emotions of others.
Enhance Listening Skills:
Develop children’s ability to listen attentively and respond appropriately.
Foster Positive Relationships:
Strengthen the bond between children and caregivers, peers, and other adults.
Support Learning and Development:
Aid cognitive and language development through engaging and meaningful conversations.
Teach Social Skills:
Encourage polite, respectful, and empathetic interactions with others.
Resolve Conflicts:
Provide tools and guidance for children to handle disagreements constructively.
Encourage Independence:
Support children in making decisions and solving problems on their own.
Provide Reassurance and Comfort:
Offer comfort and understanding during times of distress or uncertainty.
Reinforce Positive Behavior:
Acknowledge and encourage positive actions and behaviors.
Guide and Educate:
Offer clear instructions and explanations to help children understand expectations and learn new concepts.
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What It's Like to Come Out as Gay
1. Running head: SOCIAL DIMENSIONS OF GAY MEN 1
“I’m Not Gonna Go Tell the Cashier at Publix, ‘Oh, I’m Gay!’”: Social Dimensions of Gay Men
Through the Life Course
Kristen Martinez
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“As my partner would say, ‘Everyone loves a good coming out story!’” - Hans
Introduction
As societal changes continue to shape and shift American cultural norms, the realms of
sexuality and sexual orientation are beginning to become more understood as variable and are
thus gaining greater acceptance. Underscoring this progress, however, is the need for people who
are not heterosexual or ‘straight’ in their sexual orientations to announce this sexual minority
identity to the important others in their lives. This process of coming out is unique to persons
with sexual minority identities since the American world of patriarchal hegemonic
heteronormativity purports, similar to the legal phrase that people are ‘innocent until proven
guilty’, that people are straight until proven otherwise. Though there is still conflict as to where
and how nontraditional or alternative sexual identities come about, it is becoming more
commonplace for sexual minority persons to come out. One of these sexual minority groups is
men who self-identify as gay.
Gay boys and men are finding it easier to come out in the modern world, which is
becoming more tolerant or even accepting or embracing of diversity within sexual orientations
and gender identities. The gay rights movement has made grand progress in the cultural
landscape for gay people. However, there is much more work yet to be done, and in the lives of
gay boys and men, who still are not guaranteed rights in certain fundamental areas of their lives,
certain situations can get tricky. Family isn’t always accepting of a gay member (Armesto &
Weisman, 2001) and friends aren’t, either. Schools and workplaces can be hostile and
treacherous arenas for gay boys and men.
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The situation for gay men can become even more interesting and intriguing when it is
understood that American culture is founded on patriarchal norms. In this way, though gay men
may possess a stigmatized sexual orientation identity, they still reap the benefits of a patriarchal
society in that they possess masculine capital and male privilege. Furthermore, coming out as a
gay man can be seen as beneficial or harmful depending on the context and position of prestige
specific to that context. For example, a gay man may be willing and able to ‘pass’ as straight in
order to gain the reward of straight privilege. In a different context, though, his sexual orientation
may not be salient at all and so it may make no difference at all. In yet another context, though, a
gay man’s sexual orientation identity salience may actually prove to be beneficial to him.
Coming out is not all there is to the life of a gay man. Once he has come out, he needs to
maintain and negotiate that identity within every context of his life as he engages in being out,
going back in the closet, or some other facet of the continuum of the social identities he will
possess throughout his life.
Literature Review
A review of the literature highlights important understandings of gay male identity and
the sociological life course perspective. Since gay identity implies a different trajectory from the
normative straight identity within a sociocultural context, many typical identity models that may
explain the experiences of straight men do not fit the experiences of gay men. Floyd and
Bakeman (2006) emphasize that “[t]he life course perspective has focused attention on both
maturational and historical circumstances that influence the process of sexual orientation identity
development for gays … and cause wide variations in the content, timing, and sequencing of
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relevant milestone events” (p. 288). Peacock (2000) underscores this point, stating that “a gay
life course will start at different ages for different people, based on when identity acceptance
begins” (p. 14). This diversity of the experience of being a gay male, when viewed through the
life course perspective, implies a respect for “multiplicity in human development, whether that
multiplicity emerges between or within cohorts” (Cohler & Hammack, 2007, p. 56). Thus, the
experiences of gay men can have differential impacts on, within, and throughout their specific
life courses. Further, it is useful and important not to generalize a specific lifeway, as this ignores
the diversity of experiences inherent to the process.
Just as an individual gay man’s life course can be diverse and nontraditional in its
milestones, the gay man’s identity itself is changing across his life and throughout different
contexts. Galatzer-Levy and Cohler (2002) underscore the idea that a person’s identity is
“dynamic.” In their eyes, there exists “the possibility of continuing change in identity across the
life course. This view of identity … is profoundly salient to the study of sexual orientation” (p.
264). While it can be easy to explain identity as an ever-constant entity, in reality this is an
oversimplification of a person’s very subtle and refined experiences of maintaining and
negotiating an identity within a society.
Though it is understood that a gay identity - or any identity, for that matter - can and
should be viewed as dynamic, it is also understood that possessing a gay identity requires first
and foremost an announcement of this identity to the person’s larger social world, which is of
course what we refer to as coming out. After all, “[i]t is only through the process of coming out
… that acceptance into gay culture occurs, and with this new cultural frame of reference, a new
set of symbolic meanings, rituals, and social interactions” which exist independently from the
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larger hegemonic culture (Cohler & Hammack, 2007, p. 52). Once the gay male in question has
come out, this particular facet of his identity is given much weight and may be the most salient
of all his identities for a time (Kertzner, 2001). Indeed, it may be reasoned that the years up until
the middle twenties serve as a cornerstone for creating an identity (Drasin, Beals, Elliott, Lever,
Klein, & Schuster, 2008). This interacts with the supposed median age for coming out as gay,
estimated by some to be nineteen years old (Grierson & Smith, 2005). Cohler and Hammack
(2007) speculate that this may occur due to the fact that the American cultural landscape is such
that it “privileges identity development as a fundamental process of the life course” (p. 48). That
is, identity development may be central to the life course perspective as we know it, but it may
indeed be a Western bias centering on individuation of the self.
Once a gay man has come out, the dynamic process of his gay identity requires
negotiation in every context throughout his life. As Galatzer-Levy and Cohler (2002) put it: “It is
said that one never stops coming out. In each business or personal situation, gay and lesbian
people are always confronted anew with the question of whether to ‘tell’ and whether telling in
that situation is warranted” (p. 280). Gay identity maintenance requires a savvy understanding of
the context at hand, including the pros and cons of being out in each specific context, but it also
involves a “freedom to choose” which implies agency residing within the individual (Clarke,
2007, p. 71). The process of gay identity maintenance involves a gay man’s usage of an internal
locus of control within which to chart his life course.
Sociohistorical contexts have helped to pave a different life course for modern gay males
than for those in older cohorts. As well as the influence of the gay rights movement mentioned
earlier, gay males of today are navigating a post-HIV/AIDS world (Grierson & Smith, 2005).
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These factors may interrelate to shift forward the “milestones such as coming out to oneself,
coming out to others, and same-gender sexual debut” (Grov, Bimbi, Nanín, & Parsons, 2006, p.
115). In turn, technological advances may push these milestones forward, as online
communication and the internet can serve as forums with which to discover a gay identity and
negotiate it in interactions with others, all within the anonymity and safety of the online world
(Galatzer-Levy & Cohler, 2002). Clearly, gay boys and men today are growing up in a
completely different world than the cohorts of gay males before them did.
This research study seeks to explore the ways in which young gay men navigate their
social worlds after initially coming out. Specifically, how do gay men negotiate the coming out
process and how does this affect their being out in subsequent contexts throughout the life
course? Cohler and Hammack (2007) explicitly highlight the rationale for increased research in
this area: “there remains very limited recognition of the significance of a life-course perspective
in the study of sexual identity either in youth or adulthood” (p. 55). I am curious as to how the
facilitation of a gay identity impacts future social experiences of gay men as they decide to be
out in a certain context and to which degree, or gain a social reward and ‘pass’ as straight. I am
interested in the social dimensions of living that are specific to gay men. The life course
perspective seems to be a fitting lens through which to explore these experiences.
Sample Description
This study used a sample of five men who self-identify as gay. These men are all in their
twenties, the youngest being 24 years old and the oldest being 29 years old. Each of these men
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was selected as I know them personally. Four of these men are of American nationality, and one
is of Dutch nationality. Three of the men identify ethnically as white or Caucasian, one identifies
as Mexican-Filipino, and one identifies as Latin/Latino. Every one of these men has attended the
University of Florida in Gainesville, Florida, at one point in his educational trajectory. All have
received bachelor’s degrees, one has completed an MBA, and three out of the five are currently
attending post-graduate educational institutions. Four of the men currently live in Florida, and
one resides in New York. Two of the participants are actually in relationships with two other
participants, although I made it a point to interview each man separately.
The interviews were semi-structured in format, and interviews ranged from about thirty
minutes to one hour in length. Interviews were conducted in my home, the participant’s home, or
via Skype. All participants agreed to be audio-recorded during the interview, and all were given
pseudonyms in order to uphold confidentiality. Interviews were transcribed and investigated to
search for themes that emerged. Memos were completed immediately following each interview
so as to create an audit trail.
Analysis
Throughout the interviews, a number of themes emerged from the participants’
experiences of initially coming out and then navigating their social worlds throughout their
individual life courses. Each specific theme will now be elaborated on in depth.
I Don’t Care Enough About You to Come Out to You
Several of my participants underscore the intimate notion inherent to coming out to
another. This sensitive information is only given to people who have a close relationship to the
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gay man. Coming out to someone implies that there is enough trust and comfort within the
relationship that this type of self-disclosure is seemingly warranted or desired in order to
strengthen the relationship. If this relationship doesn’t exist in the first place, the idea of coming
out is viewed as absurd, out of the question, or bizarre. Simon, who is 24 years old, white, and in
graduate school, humorously likens the process of coming out to a distant family member to a
more mundane chore: “Like I’m not gonna call my aunt if I buy a new car and say, ‘Oh, guess
what? I bought a new car.’ If they happen to see it at Christmas, they happen to see my new car
at Christmas.” Simon doesn’t go out of his way to share this personal information with the
distant people in his life, but it is implied that he doesn’t hide this information, either.
Many of the participants alluded to this theme in our interviews. George, a 24-year-old
white male in graduate school and working full-time, explains, “it’s not something that I’m
gonna go up and shake somebody’s hand and say, ‘I’m gay’.” Later, he mentions that his gay
identity is “not something that I just openly am babbling about.” Carlos, 24 years old, in graduate
school, and Mexican-Filipino, is more explicit when he explains that he “didn’t feel the need to
come out to [his late grandfather].” Simon, again, utilizes humor to shine a light on the
sometimes ludicrous nature of gay identity maintenance within certain contexts: “I don’t go out
and, you know, shout out my personal life to my professors … Just like I’m not gonna go tell the
cashier at Publix, ‘Oh, I’m gay!’” These experiences highlight that within some contexts inherent
to the life course, such as family, work, school, or simply existing in a social world, a person’s
sexuality or sexual orientation identity is neither relevant for the conversation to transpire nor
appropriate to the intimacy delegated by the relationship.
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George explains the reasoning for this privacy as pertaining to his general demeanor in all
aspects of his life: “I feel like personally I’m somebody who is not an open book to begin with.”
Perhaps this is the case, although perhaps too this type of explanation acts as a rationalization
and a safe method for a gay man’s survival within an oppressive heterosexist patriarchal culture.
If a gay man is careful about who he lets into his social circle and to what extent, he ensures that
the people surrounding him are safe resources for him to engage more intimately with, open up
to, and let his guard down - the guard that, to some extent, he must wear in most, if not all,
contexts of his life.
However, Mario, a 29-year-old Latino who works full-time, has a different take on this
issue, highlighting to me that the most oppressive characteristic of it all entails feeling that you
cannot come out or aren’t out in a particular context, therefore you cannot be genuine or open.
He explains to me quite vividly, “When you’re not out, people have power over you. They hold
it over you like a sword.” In this way, it is almost as if everyone around the gay man already
knows of his gay identity, but these people use this knowledge to their own advantage and in a
threatening way. Though Mario may not care enough about these people to the extent that he
wants to intimately and personally come out to them, he does want to reclaim the power that is
rightly his that has been manipulated from him. It seems that this distinction has to do with the
variable of personal agency or internal locus of control. It is within a gay man’s control whether
to come out, to what extent, or not, to people in his life, but if that control is taken away, so is the
power inherent within the act of coming out. It is only in coming out that this process can be
negotiated.
Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell
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Somewhat related to the first theme is the theme of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell.’ This theme differs
from the previous theme in that some participants explicitly mentioned this phrase in their
explanations of specific social contexts, usually work or family. A characteristic of this theme
entails that a gay man perceives or picks up on that his sexual orientation identity is tolerated
within the specific context, but it is not accepted per se. In this way, his sexual orientation has
been acknowledged as a fact (or in some cases opinion), but that is the extent to which the ‘issue’
is brought up. George says that one side of his family is far less accepting of his sexuality than
the other: “I think with them, it’s more of a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ mentality. Like, ‘we’re okay
with it, but we just don’t need to talk about it’ sort of thing.” Similarly, Hans, who is 26, white,
and works full-time, expresses the same sentiment about his work environment, citing as a
reason Florida’s somewhat conservative makeup of citizens: “I think that a lot of people have
enough sensibility to … not go in there and ask that question or go into detail about their private
life. It’s kind of a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ type mentality.”
It is interesting that the phrase ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ gets thrown around so casually,
considering the fact that it represents a particularly appalling and oppressive policy of - up until
recently - the United States military. However, I can see that it provides for a gay man a useful
working understanding of how to navigate the heteronormative features of our sociohistorical
environs. Hans goes on to divulge the sophisticated ways that he picks up on coworkers’
acceptance of his sexual identity as integrated within the other aspects of his identity, where he
can truly be himself. He speaks of an experience with a female coworker where he became more
comfortable with himself through gauging her reactions to his comments:
Like, I had this girl the other day, we were talking about concerts, and how she wants to
go to concerts, and I said, ‘Oh yeah, I love concerts too. I just booked tickets for Cher.’
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And then she said, ‘Oh, wow, I’d love to go see Cher.’ And then I told her that I had been
to one of Tina Turner’s concerts, and I’m a huge fan of Tina Turner, and she started
laughing and she said, ‘Oh my God! I’ve got all these rainbows firing at me right now!’
While Hans did not explicitly come out to his coworker, he subtly estimated her comfort level
toward him being himself in conversation with her, and was able to accurately feel out that she
seemed approving.
Mario describes the atmosphere peculiar to ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ that exists within his
family context, but doesn’t name it specifically. Moreover, he explains that this strained
atmosphere has hindered the relationship between his sisters and himself. Now, his sisters have
repealed their local policy of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell.’ They are suddenly asking him to open up to
them, whereas for so much of his life this subject was off the proverbial table. Vividly, he says,
“You can’t expect to beat a dog for a point of time and expect it not to bite. You know, it’s the
same thing! How do you change a lifetime of conditioning?” It seems that ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’
alters relationships in a way that makes them more difficult to repair, even after the policy is
repealed.
While several of the participants literally used the phrase ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ to
describe certain situations in which the extent to which they were out became ambiguous, I
wonder how much this type of description will play out through their life courses. As the United
States military has recently repealed this policy, this phrase was popular for many years of my
participants’ lives to describe a certain way of living or succeeding in a specific context. As the
sociocultural tides continue to change, I wonder if this phrase will take on a derogatory tone or
will fade away from vernacular usage altogether throughout my participants’ life courses.
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Closeted Until College
This theme deals specifically with each participant’s life course, as every one of them
explained to me that, for various reasons, they did not decide to officially come out until they
were out of their parents’ homes, in college, or financially independent. Though much literature
supports the idea that gay males are coming out earlier and earlier due to supportive contexts, I
did not experience this type of conversation with my participants. This may be viewed as
particular to the life courses of my participants, due to their families’ involvements with strict
religious or spiritual beliefs and/or upbringing in rural or conservative areas. This could also be
seen as a cohort effect in which my participants’ parents have more traditional or conservative
views. More generally, this theme speaks to the stereotype of sexual experimentation that is
allowed or emphasized to be expressed in college, a much freer environment than that of the
home of parents or family.
Carlos, who grew up in a strict religious and conservative family, expresses quite
honestly the feelings he felt after he came to the realization that he was gay when he was twenty
years old: “I felt scared … as to what my parents would do if they ever found out, if they would
cut me off financially or disown me.” The physical effects of passing through the milestone of
coming out at that point in Carlos’s life course are quite severe and may actually outweigh the
intrapsychic pain he may have been feeling being in the closet.
Simon echoes these cautious sentiments after he realized he was gay at twenty-one: “I
was in school, and didn’t have a real job that I could really support myself, and I hadn’t built the
life that I wanted to lead yet.” While Carlos’s fear stems from physical or financial consequences
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of engaging in the milestone of coming out, there is no denying that Simon doesn’t share that
fear too. However, Simon’s fear of reaching this milestone during that particular point in his life
course also speaks to the understanding that if he does acquire this new identity as gay, a
veritable stigmatized minority status, this new label could actually detract from his scholarly
reputation and successes: “[I]f there was any struggle in dental school, I didn’t want [my parents]
to be like, ‘Well of course you’re only struggling because you’re gay.’” Through Simon’s
thought process regarding whether he should disclose his sexual orientation identity or not at this
particular point in his life course, he sees that he is adopting a stigmatized identity in the eyes of
his family and, to a larger extent, his culture. Thus, he decides to hold off on this milestone in
order to build up his reputation as a successful son and a successful student.
Mario and George situate the college experience within their respective life courses
within a more positive light. These experiences are viewed as freeing and opening up their minds
to new perspectives, as contrasted with their previous strict religious and conservative home
contexts in which they felt restricted to some degree. In this new, unthreatening, welcoming
context, these young men can engage in the individuation process that sometimes goes hand-in-
hand with the acquiring and facilitation of a gay identity. Interestingly, Mario feels comfortable
when he leaves the physical location where he grew up, while George feels comfortable when he
enters that same physical location - Miami. Mario describes his college experience as such: “I
was allowed to completely be whoever I wanted to be. So I really liked that. I mean, I felt really
free.” George’s college experience is viewed similarly: “I think that just really being outside of
[town where he grew up] was what made me see that I don’t have to live there for the rest of my
life … I can go beyond that and be happy.” Again, this theme speaks to the personal agency and
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internal locus of control that situates participants within their specific circumstances, and thus,
their life courses.
Gay Is Not All I Am
The primacy of the sexual identity as a gay man does not show up in every context. My
participants were clear about that. Furthermore, participants were adamant in pointing out that
their sexual identity is simply one facet of the rest of their complex identities, ever-changing in
scope, size, and importance throughout contexts and throughout the life course. Since all of my
participants had come out as gay relatively late as situated within their specific life courses, I was
honestly surprised that the primacy of this identity was not as salient as perhaps some research
has stated that it may be. This goes to show that these men have begun the sophisticated process,
which will undoubtedly continue throughout the life course, of negotiating every one of their
aspects of identity in different social interactions or contexts.
Mario is quick to point out that his gay identity is not all-encompassing to his master
identity as a fellow human being: “[I]t’s not all I am. It’s an enormous part of who I am … but it
has no bearing on, you know, how I do something very mundane or being with casual
acquaintances and stuff.” George says, quite eloquently: “your sexuality really has nothing to do
with your character.” Carlos gives a nuanced response, integrating the milestone of coming out
within the larger framework he has for himself as authentic and genuine within his supportive
context of working, going to school, and living in New York City: “I don’t even consider it being
out, I’m just myself.” This theme ties into what Simon spoke about earlier regarding his fear of
being seen as one facet of his identity. These men are astute to point out that I, as a straight
person, perhaps have a bias toward illuminating the gay identity through every context of their
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lives, when in reality this identity may have no salience and no relation to many things that they
do within and throughout their life courses.
Coming Out To One Group Influencing Another Group
This theme involves the way the milestone of coming out to others may be prioritized by
group based on reactions assumed or suspected. The coming out experience to a particular group
may shift a gay man’s life course away from that group or, indeed, closer toward that group,
depending of course on the reaction actually given to the identity disclosure.
George elaborates on why he came out to his dad last of all people in his life: “I had no
idea how [coming out to my dad] was gonna go. And I didn’t want that to scar my experience
with sharing it with other people who were close to me who I figured would be okay with that.”
Support is central to his reasoning: “[I] had the backing of all the people in front of him.” Carlos
gives a more explicit reason for his delay in his identity disclosure to his parents: “They were the
last to find out, because of the religious thing.” These men identified a supportive network with
which to surround themselves during the coming out process, and saved disclosure to the
seemingly least supportive people for last.
This theme also reflects the opposite type of experience - what I like to think of as a
‘domino effect’ of acceptance of the gay man’s sexual orientation identity. Once the first person
is told, the others fall into place. Simon says, “Once you tell one, it’s a lot easier to tell the
others, so it progressively became not a big deal.” It seems that it was the most difficult for
Simon to come out to the first person, but since the first person he told gave him a welcoming
and accepting response, it became gradually easier to tell other valued people in his life, as he
had this supportive experience to back him up. Hans has a different take on his coming out
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experience with the groups of people in his life. Speaking about the reasoning he gave for
coming out to his father, he says, “I had already come out to my friends, so this was almost like a
formality.” It seems that, at least in Hans’s case, the primary group that he shared his identity
disclosure with was the most central to his support network, and the disclosures that came after
that were not as important or central to him per se.
Forward- or Backward-Thinking
The final theme describes how participants imagine the ways in which their experiences
or developmental turning points may have been different if they were situated differently within
their life course. This theme also covers how participants define differences in local cultures as
accepting or not accepting of being gay, and imagine themselves situated differently within these
social or physical locations. There is a lot of speculation as to how a gay man’s life would have
turned out if particular variables were changed in one way or another.
Talking to me about how he is no longer as bothered as he used to be about people’s
sometimes hostile opinions about sexuality or sexual orientation, George tells me, “Let’s
backtrack five years. It’s probably something that would’ve hurt me more than what it does now.
I think because now I have a great support system.” George identifies that five years ago, when
he was 19 years old and just going through the process of coming out, he didn’t surround himself
with as supportive relationships as he currently does. These relationships act as a buffer against
the intolerant sociocultural climate that so often is a reality for gay men.
Mario speaks to this harsh social climate and the buffers that exist presently, but laments
that they did not exist when he was younger and could have used them: “It’s good that people
today have a sort of source where they can turn to, because I didn’t have that source when I was
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ten years old, and that was very sad.” In a similar vein, Mario recognizes that kids these days are
coming out at earlier ages. He speculates the repercussions that could have come to him if he had
come out earlier: “[M]y parents threatened [to kick me out of the house]. I wonder what
would’ve happened if I was fifteen years old and I had just fuckin’ come out.” The
developmental milestone of coming out, situated for Mario at 15 versus 19, could have wholly
changed his life course.
Both Mario and George recognize that the larger sociocultural climate is changing,
hopefully in their favor and in the way toward increased tolerance and acceptance of varied
sexual orientation identities. They also point out that the factor of developmental age, and the
milestones inherent to it which are experienced at differing ages, is so crucial to the life course.
Again, George imagines himself to be situated differently to the experience of growing up gay,
in a younger cohort and an earlier stage of his life course: “[L]et’s say I was in sixth grade
nowadays, I would say there are many more models on TV about what it’s like to be gay and not
be one extreme or the other.” More diverse models of gay identity - not solely stereotypes - could
have been beneficial to George and helped him pave the way to developing his own gay identity
(especially at such a young age), but alas, he did not have this experience and thus had to figure
it out for himself.
Physical location, even within the larger sociocultural context, can prove to be an asset or
a liability when discussing attitudes toward gay identity, which can set the scene for coming out.
George explains, “[I]t probably would’ve been quite different if I had grown up in New York
City or something like that, ‘cause [where I grew up] is very conservative.” The physical
locations within which these men grew up played some part in determining their life courses.
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While the surrounding sociocultural context may be changing in that it may be more
accepting of younger gay males coming out, Mario brings up an intriguing point that some push
for coming out earlier in the life course may indeed have some root within the gay community. It
is clear that he voices some mixed feelings for this forward push:
They say you should never force somebody to come out, but I feel like the gay society
almost does … and maybe that is kind of shaping a lot of people’s coming out processes.
And in the grand scheme of shaping who they are. Because when you experience certain
things at earlier stages of your life than most people might have … it’s gonna affect you
differently. I don’t know if I would’ve turned out the same way as I am today had I come
out much earlier. I don’t think so.
Conclusion
This research illustrates the diversity of experiences that affect gay men after the
developmental milestone of their initial coming out disclosure is reached. In a variety of social
dimensions, these men have to navigate the waters of acceptance and openness, tolerance and
hush-hush conversation, blatant intolerance and hostility, or a combination of these at any given
moment without notice or warning. These men illuminate their experiences of toning their gay
identities down, pumping them up, or excluding them altogether as dependent on the social
context. Coming out is the first step in negotiating a gay identity within society, but, as
acknowledged earlier, it is a process that continues throughout the life course.
Furthermore, these participants’ experiences shine light on the complicated situation of
coming out and being out. While perhaps the sociocultural context is slowly becoming more
accepting of gay identity disclosure, it is worth wondering what effects young gay males may
feel if the future climate changes so much that they only come out because they are ‘supposed
to’, not that they genuinely feel ready to disclose at that specific point within the life course.
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