We need to learn when to be content and when to contend. Saint Francis said it this way; we need the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can and the wisdom to know the difference. What is healthy contentment versus fake contentment? What is health contending for the right things versus fake contending for the wrong reasons/things? Everybody's season/journey is so different so we should not judge whether someone else should be content or contending.