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What Are Different Stressors That Can Lead to Violence &
Abuse?
Stress
• Family Stress – a real or imagined imbalance between the
demands of the family & the family’s ability to meet those
demands
• Crisis – an unstable condition in which there is a lack
of sufficient resources to manage the situation
• Cope – manage & confront stress
• Types of Stressors
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Stressors from Outside the Family
• Include things like difficult economic times, disasters, school
bullying, & violence in the community
• Managing Stress
• Resiliency
– The ability of an individual or family to function within
familiar patterns or to create new patterns in the face of
adversity or crisis
– Elasticity – the ability to recover from trauma or crisis
– Buoyancy – the ability of a family to keep afloat during
adversity
– Recovery Factors – qualities or characteristics of a family
that assist recuperation from stress or a crisis
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• Managing Stress Continued
• Be Productive
– Hayhoe’s 5 R’s
○ Rethink goals
○ Reorganize priorities
○ Reduce the number of activities
○ Release through physical activity
○ Relax
• Theories of Stress & Coping
– Hill’s ABC-X Model
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What Are Violence & Abuse?
• Family Violence – intentional abusive behavior against a family
member that includes intimidation & physical & sexual assault
• Domestic Violence – intentional abusive behavior against an
intimate partner that includes intimidation & physical & sexual
assault
• Is a continual cycle of violence
– Tension leads to Battering leads to Apology
• Why do victims stay?
– Love, Fear, Threats, Lack of Resources, Learned
Helplessness
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Types of Violence & Abuse
• Intimate Partner Violence
• Intentional physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, or
intimidation via threats of physical or sexual abuse,
typically between partners or spouses, but including
other intimate family relations
• Dominance & Control are defining characteristics of
these relationships
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• Intimate Partner Violence Continued
• Female Victims
– More likely to be the victims
– Wife Rape – forced sex on a female spouse by a
male spouse
• Male Victims
– More Likely to be the victims in dating violence
• Abuse in Homosexual Couples
• Rate is similar to that in heterosexual relationships
• Dominance & Control is again the defining
characteristics of the relationships
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• Abuse in Homosexual Couples Continued
• Cycle Patterns are similar, though some differences
– Threats can including “outing” the victim
– Generally is not mutual
• Lesbian-to-Lesbian Abuse & Violence
– Abusers tend to have similar personality traits as
heterosexual male abusers
– Fusion makes abuse more likely
○ Fusion – extreme emotional connection &
interdependence between intimate partners
• Gay-to-Gay Abuse & Violence
– Same predictors as in heterosexual relationships
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• Sibling-To-Sibling Abuse
• Distinct from Sibling Rivalry
• Decisive factors include parental instability, favoritism,
& inequality in household fairness
• Linked to families with economic issues
• Children’s personality tends to be a greater factor than
anything else
• Parental disciplinary processes & loss of temper also
predict
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Sibling-To-Sibling Sexual Abuse
• Most common sexual abuse in families
• Families with heightened or suppressive attitudes toward sex show
an increase in sibling-to-sibling sexual abuse
• Parent-To-Child Abuse & Violence
• Children experience more long-term effects of abuse &
violence
• Social Learning Theory – violence & abusive behavior is
learned
• Social Cognition Theory – a child’s interpretation of a certain
situation may not be as hostile or aggressive as he/she may
perceive
– Changing children’s impressions may help them overcome
abusive situations
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• Parent-To-Child Abuse & Violence Continued
• Family Systems Theory – different traits & coping
mechanisms are passed through generation to generation
within a family
• Trauma Theory – how a traumatic event is handled
determines the extent of trauma that a victim experiences
• Parent-to-Child Sexual Abuse & Violence
– Female perpetrators tend to be primary caregivers
– Male perpetrators tend to not be primary caregivers
– Somatization – the manifestation of physical symptoms
from psychological problems
– Personal Resilience – an individual’s ability to cope with &
manage stress or a crisis
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• Child-To-Parent Violence & Abuse
• Small percentage
• Childhood violence patterns put adolescents at risk to
commit acts of aggression toward their fathers &
mothers
• Children are more likely to commit acts of child-to-
parent aggression
• The higher in “parent demandingness” toward a child,
the more likely the child is to commit an act of
domestic violence toward the parent
• Adolescent violence toward the parent is often a
survival response
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• Elder Abuse
• Can be physical, emotional, or sexual
• Neglect or denying basic care & freedom are also
considered forms of elder abuse
• Often takes place at the hands of a caregiver or
service provider in an institutional setting
• Majority of perpetrators are related to the victim
• Limited conclusive research to date
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• Teen Dating Violence & Abuse
• Can be physical, emotional, or sexual
• 25% of teens dating have experienced some form of
dating violence
– 10% of this is physical
• Perpetrators most likely suffers from low self-esteem
& depression
– Tend to resolve conflict through violence, lacks
anger management & communication skills
– Often lacks parental supervision & is either the
witness, victim, or perpetrator of abuse at home
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Managing & Preventing Violence & Abuse
• Protecting Yourself
• Create a personal safety plan
• If abuser attempts to victimize you at work, notify appropriate
people & request confidentiality
• Seek support (crisis intervention, legal assistance, medical
personnel)
• If planning to leave make sure you develop a safety plan before
leaving with money & a designated physically safe place
• If possible, urge abuser to seek help
• Seek help from appropriate law enforcement authorities, doctors,
hospitals, legal representation or advocacy groups
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What Are Some Theories That Can Explain Violence & Abuse?
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How Can Subjectivity Enhance Data Collection on Domestic
Violence?
• Researcher Menon found that being attuned to certain
non-objective aspects of research was helpful in
gathering valuable information
• This kind of subjective information can help
contextualize the participants’ experience

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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Chapter 11: Stress, Violence, & Abuse in Marriages & Families
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic What Are Different Stressors That Can Lead to Violence & Abuse? Stress • Family Stress – a real or imagined imbalance between the demands of the family & the family’s ability to meet those demands • Crisis – an unstable condition in which there is a lack of sufficient resources to manage the situation • Cope – manage & confront stress • Types of Stressors
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic Stressors from Outside the Family • Include things like difficult economic times, disasters, school bullying, & violence in the community • Managing Stress • Resiliency – The ability of an individual or family to function within familiar patterns or to create new patterns in the face of adversity or crisis – Elasticity – the ability to recover from trauma or crisis – Buoyancy – the ability of a family to keep afloat during adversity – Recovery Factors – qualities or characteristics of a family that assist recuperation from stress or a crisis
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Managing Stress Continued • Be Productive – Hayhoe’s 5 R’s ○ Rethink goals ○ Reorganize priorities ○ Reduce the number of activities ○ Release through physical activity ○ Relax • Theories of Stress & Coping – Hill’s ABC-X Model
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic What Are Violence & Abuse? • Family Violence – intentional abusive behavior against a family member that includes intimidation & physical & sexual assault • Domestic Violence – intentional abusive behavior against an intimate partner that includes intimidation & physical & sexual assault • Is a continual cycle of violence – Tension leads to Battering leads to Apology • Why do victims stay? – Love, Fear, Threats, Lack of Resources, Learned Helplessness
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic Types of Violence & Abuse • Intimate Partner Violence • Intentional physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, or intimidation via threats of physical or sexual abuse, typically between partners or spouses, but including other intimate family relations • Dominance & Control are defining characteristics of these relationships
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Intimate Partner Violence Continued • Female Victims – More likely to be the victims – Wife Rape – forced sex on a female spouse by a male spouse • Male Victims – More Likely to be the victims in dating violence • Abuse in Homosexual Couples • Rate is similar to that in heterosexual relationships • Dominance & Control is again the defining characteristics of the relationships
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Abuse in Homosexual Couples Continued • Cycle Patterns are similar, though some differences – Threats can including “outing” the victim – Generally is not mutual • Lesbian-to-Lesbian Abuse & Violence – Abusers tend to have similar personality traits as heterosexual male abusers – Fusion makes abuse more likely ○ Fusion – extreme emotional connection & interdependence between intimate partners • Gay-to-Gay Abuse & Violence – Same predictors as in heterosexual relationships
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Sibling-To-Sibling Abuse • Distinct from Sibling Rivalry • Decisive factors include parental instability, favoritism, & inequality in household fairness • Linked to families with economic issues • Children’s personality tends to be a greater factor than anything else • Parental disciplinary processes & loss of temper also predict
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic Sibling-To-Sibling Sexual Abuse • Most common sexual abuse in families • Families with heightened or suppressive attitudes toward sex show an increase in sibling-to-sibling sexual abuse • Parent-To-Child Abuse & Violence • Children experience more long-term effects of abuse & violence • Social Learning Theory – violence & abusive behavior is learned • Social Cognition Theory – a child’s interpretation of a certain situation may not be as hostile or aggressive as he/she may perceive – Changing children’s impressions may help them overcome abusive situations
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Parent-To-Child Abuse & Violence Continued • Family Systems Theory – different traits & coping mechanisms are passed through generation to generation within a family • Trauma Theory – how a traumatic event is handled determines the extent of trauma that a victim experiences • Parent-to-Child Sexual Abuse & Violence – Female perpetrators tend to be primary caregivers – Male perpetrators tend to not be primary caregivers – Somatization – the manifestation of physical symptoms from psychological problems – Personal Resilience – an individual’s ability to cope with & manage stress or a crisis
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Child-To-Parent Violence & Abuse • Small percentage • Childhood violence patterns put adolescents at risk to commit acts of aggression toward their fathers & mothers • Children are more likely to commit acts of child-to- parent aggression • The higher in “parent demandingness” toward a child, the more likely the child is to commit an act of domestic violence toward the parent • Adolescent violence toward the parent is often a survival response
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Elder Abuse • Can be physical, emotional, or sexual • Neglect or denying basic care & freedom are also considered forms of elder abuse • Often takes place at the hands of a caregiver or service provider in an institutional setting • Majority of perpetrators are related to the victim • Limited conclusive research to date
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic • Teen Dating Violence & Abuse • Can be physical, emotional, or sexual • 25% of teens dating have experienced some form of dating violence – 10% of this is physical • Perpetrators most likely suffers from low self-esteem & depression – Tend to resolve conflict through violence, lacks anger management & communication skills – Often lacks parental supervision & is either the witness, victim, or perpetrator of abuse at home
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Get the Topic Managing & Preventing Violence & Abuse • Protecting Yourself • Create a personal safety plan • If abuser attempts to victimize you at work, notify appropriate people & request confidentiality • Seek support (crisis intervention, legal assistance, medical personnel) • If planning to leave make sure you develop a safety plan before leaving with money & a designated physically safe place • If possible, urge abuser to seek help • Seek help from appropriate law enforcement authorities, doctors, hospitals, legal representation or advocacy groups
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Think Marriages & Families What Are Some Theories That Can Explain Violence & Abuse?
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    Copyright 2013 PearsonAll Rights Reserved. Discover Marriages & Families in Action How Can Subjectivity Enhance Data Collection on Domestic Violence? • Researcher Menon found that being attuned to certain non-objective aspects of research was helpful in gathering valuable information • This kind of subjective information can help contextualize the participants’ experience