A close look at the benefits of connection and camaraderie that can come from pooled resources and group sharing.

1. Splitty Connection &
Camaraderie

2. You know, back in the day, daily life was tough.
However, people relied on each other for support.
They all benefited from hunting, gathering, and cooking
camaraderie!

3. They shared the work,
Warli painting - Traditional Cooking Techniques I #warlipainting
ANUP ART May 24, 2018 Screen grab from YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch/?v=bvQF8t5z2Pc

4. https://sandiegofreepress.org/2014/05/a-history-of-neighborhood-house-in-
logan-heights-the-construction-of-a-community-oven/#.Xbc68ZNKjOQ
Source: San Diego Free Press, a post in a series by Maria E. Garcia, “The
History of Neighborhood House in Logan Heights : The Construction of a
Community Oven”
In the 1930’s, some houses in Logan Heights, San Diego
did not have ovens, so women would gather at the
community oven at the Neighborhood House to bake and
socialize twice per week. When the community was done
baking, some women were allowed to put beans or meat in
the oven to cook overnight.
and found ways to share limited cooking
resources.
McKeesport Community Oven in Pennsylvania provided
daily bread to 65 men, women, and children. circa 1933
Pittsburgh Sun-Telegraph, March 21, 1933, page 17

5. And generally, beyond food and cooking,
people got through many of life’s difficulties and
challenges
TOGETHER,
WITH THE HELP OF OTHERS
in order to survive poverty, geographic
remoteness, or scarce resources.

6. TODAY, there are a few places in the world
where these shared cooking and eating
experiences are still the norm, and a part of
daily life.
Sri Harmandir Sahib (the Golden Temple) in Amritsar, Punjab, India
runs one of the largest free kitchens in the world, serving on average
100,000 people daily. The meal consists of flat bread and lentil soup.

7. But, for the most part, things are a bit
different in the world today.

8. Thanks to many modern conveniences such as
grocery stores and well-equipped kitchens, life is a
little easier, but when it comes to shopping for and
cooking our food, we tend to be all alone in our
efforts!
Cook AloneCook Alone
Shop Alone
Shop Alone

9. And this reflects something happening on a
much broader scale. The world has become a
place where independence and self-sufficiency
are valued, and where individual achievement
and accumulation are emphasized.

10. We are blessed with so much in our modern world.
Social Media
Internet
Online Friends
Online Games
Smart Phones
Modern Conveniences
Abundant Consumer Products
Apps
Texting Email
Modern Cities
Devices
Instant Messaging
SALE

11. And yet despite this abundance and the countless
ways technology can connect us, loneliness and
isolation are the greatest sufferings of modern
times.

12. Something is missing.

13. It has become a world where so many
struggle alone with their problems,

14. I have $3.00
What can I eat?such as lack of money,
Mac & CheeseInstant Ramen
Or
$$

15. lack of time,
School Pressures
Multi-tasking
Work Pressures
Caretaking Responsibilities

16. or simply not knowing where they belong in the
world.

17. Wouldn’t it be great if we weren’t so
alone?
What if there was more camaraderie in
our modern life?
Let’s look for ways to accomplish this.

18. MOAI
Okinawan Networks of Support

19. Okinawans are some of the longest
living, and happiest people in the world
— in part, because they have a well
integrated system of group camaraderie
and networks of deep support that are a
part of their culture!

20. MOAI
Networks of Deep Support
In his book “The Blue Zones of Happiness”, Dan Buettner
discusses this Okinawan concept of “Moai” which means
‘meeting for a common purpose’. As part of the Okinawan
culture, small groups, each comprised of roughly five people,
often who have been together in the same group throughout
their entire lives, form a network of friendship and deep support
for each other.
Photo: bluezones.com

21. The concept of ‘Moai’ has practical
origins. These small groups were
formed so that its members could pool
resources, basically to pool monies so
someone in the group could afford to
repair their house or start their own
business.

22. However, these groups, with their frequent
meetups from a few times a week to sometimes
daily, have grown into something much more
meaningful. Moai provides a social connection
and a source of deep support to its members in
many aspects of their lives — financial, health, and
spiritual. They come together regularly to have
tea, chat, and have fun. The mood is often light-
hearted and playful. It is part of the reason
Okinawans are some of the longest-living and
happiest people in the world!

23. HYGGE
A Danish Tradition

24. According to “The Little Book of Hygge” by Meik Wiking,
the Founder of the Happiness Research Institute, Hygge
is defined in several ways: coziness; the art of creating
beautiful atmosphere; the pursuit of everyday happiness;
and also “socializing for introverts”.
It is about being together with, and close to the people
you love, and seeing them with your heart. It is about
relaxation, indulgence, good food, and gratitude.

25. Lighting Candles
Delicious Desserts
Hot Chocolate
Conversation at
cozy dining table
Candy
Wearing cozy socks,
and warming up by
the fireplace
Danes frequently enjoy cozy atmosphere,
indulgences, and each other’s company. And with
all this on a regular basis, Danes are amongst the
happiest people in the world!
Warm Blankets

26. • more reliance on each other for support
• more spending time in the company of others
• getting close to other people, & seeing them with your heart
• sharing delicious & beautiful foods and atmosphere
• more light-hearted living and laughter
• more relaxation and gratitude
• more care, compassion, and concern
Some takeaways from these two inspiring cultural practices are:

27. So in the spirit of Moai and Hygge
How about having some social occasions and face-
to-face meetups centered around pooling
resources!
Let’s meet life’s challenges
TOGETHER,
WITH THE HELP OF OTHERS

28. There are plenty of opportunities to create your small groups.
Splitty groups can be built around
“How can we save money
on meals?” $$
PROBLEMS TO SOLVE:
STUDENT LOANS

29. DIETS:
“We want to try a
plant-strong diet
to improve our health.”
“Doctor said I need to lose
weight to control my diabetes.”
“I should eat healthy and
change my lifestyle.”
“Because of my recent heart
attack, my doctor says I should
start on a plant-strong diet.”

30. COMMON INTERESTS:
“When we see each other
at our regular meetup, let’s
share some items.”
Basketball pick-up games
play dates - mothers with
young children
Senior Bowling League
Friends who enjoy
Italian food & culture

31. CLOSE PROXIMITY:
“We see each other regularly,
or live close by,
so let’s share food or household
supplies!”
Neighbors in
same building
Co-workers in the same Office

32. Of course, little shares and splits of food and
snacks could mean just that and no more…
plainly, just food and savings,
but, to some who are feeling alone and lonely in life,
it could mean so much more, if the food came
alongside
a warm smile,
a friendly conversation,
& a helping hand.

33. We believe that when we pool resources
and share food, fortuitous connections and
camaraderie can happen!
Splitty’s Mission:
Facilitate ‘little shares’ that inspire
camaraderie and connection
in small groups around the world

34. Be Social.
Be a Splitter.
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