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Small talks
Small talk is a casual form of conversation used to reduce awkwardness in certain social situations. It is common between strangers and acquaintances and typically involves discussing safe topics like the weather, current non-controversial events, sports or entertainment. Small talk occurs in places where people are waiting like doctor's offices, public transportation stations, queues or social events. Its purpose is to fill time, break uncomfortable silences or be polite. Common conversation starters include commenting on the weather, local events or making benign observations about one's shared circumstances or surroundings.
Small talks
- 1. SMALL TALKS By Group-2 RuhaniTakkar (G-04) Nimisha Agrawal (G-05) Nupur Chaurasia (G-16) Amogh Mittal (G-17) Rahul Ahuja (G- ) Siddharth Khandelwal (G- ) Sambhav Jain (G-59)
- 2. INTRODUCTION casual formof conversation that "breaks the ice” it is normal and necessary to make "small talk" in certain situations it is sometimes considered rude to say nothing
- 3. WHO MAKES SMALLTALK? People with many different relationships use small talk those who do not know each other at all acquaintances, often called a "friend of a friend"
- 4. WHAT DO PEOPLEMAKE SMALL TALK ABOUT? “Safe" topics – weather current events (non-controversial) sports entertainment compliments on clothing or hair Subjects not considered safe controversial topics (religion, common rights, politics, etc.) personal information (salaries or a recent divorce) negative comments it is not wise to continue talking about an issue that the other person does not seem comfortable with or interested in
- 5. WHERE DO PEOPLEMAKE SMALL TALK? Occurs in places where people are waiting for something- doctor’s waiting room bus stops/stations queues at the grocery store elevators or lunchrooms and even in restrooms social events (parties, etc.)
- 6. WHEN DO PEOPLEMAKE SMALL TALK? First time you see or meet someone on a given day If there is very little noise, that might be an indication that it is the right time to initiate a casual conversation You should only spark up a conversation after someone smiles and acknowledges you Do not interrupt two people in order to discuss something unimportant If someone is reading a book or writing a letter at the bus stop it is not appropriate to initiate a conversation either During a break in a meeting or presentation It is important to recognize the cue when the other person wants the conversation to stop
- 7. WHY DO PEOPLEMAKE SMALL TALK? to break an uncomfortable silence to fill time in order to be polite
- 8. CONVERSATION STARTERS Talkingabout the weather Beautiful day, isn't it? Can you believe all of this rain we've been having? It looks like it's going to rain. I hear they're calling for thunderstorms all weekend. We couldn't ask for a nicer day, could we? How about this weather?
- 9. Talking aboutcurrent events Did you catch the news today? Did you hear about the earthquake in Haiti? What do you think about this petrol worker’s strike? How about the cricket match? Do you think India is going to win tonight? At the office Looking forward to the weekend? Have you worked here long? I can't believe how busy/quiet we are today, can you? Has it been a long week? You look like you could use a cup of coffee. What do you think of the new computers?
- 10. At asocial event So, how do you know Nishant? Have you tried the spring rolls that Sam made? Are you enjoying yourself? It looks like you could use another drink. Pretty nice place, huh? I love your dress. Can I ask where you got it? Out for a walk How old's your baby? What's your puppy's name? The tulips are sure beautiful at this time of year, aren't they. How do you like the new park? Nice day to be outside, isn't it?
- 11. Waiting somewhere Ididn't think it would be so busy today. You look like you've got your hands full (with children or goods). The bus must be running late today. It looks like we are going to be here a while, huh? I'll have to remember not to come here on Mondays. How long have you been waiting?
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