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1. Material Boundaries – the right to our
possessions.
2. Mental Boundaries – the right to our
thoughts, opinions, ideas.
3. Physical/sexual Boundaries – the right
to our physical space and our bodies.
4. Emotional Boundaries – the right to
our feelings, to own them and to be
responsible for them.
5. Spiritual Boundaries – the right to our
beliefs (and to question or doubt) and
how to express our spirituality.
EXAMPLES OF PARENTS AND
CHILDREN
Respecting OR disrespecting each other’s:
1. Material boundaries,
2. Mental boundaries,
3. Physical/Sexual boundaries,
4. Emotional boundaries,
5. Spiritual boundaries
MINDFUL PARENTING:
1. How to Build a Home Where Our Children Feel Safe (10
Elements of an Ideal Home)
2. Basic Human Needs
3. Children’s Developmental Stages
4. Four Principles in Shaping our Child’s Heart
5. Attachment – It’s a Big Deal
6. Boundaries in Relationships – Its Also a Big Deal
• Freedom from the need to fix our
children or to change their mind.
• Freedom from feeling guilty when our
children get angry at us.
• Freedom to say NO to our children
without feeling guilty.
• Freedom from taking responsibility for
our children. (Especially older
children.)
• Freedom from being compelled to
always anticipate our children’s needs
and to meet them.
• Freedom from making it our job to
make our children happy.
• Freedom from forcing our children to
agree with us.
• Freedom to feel our emotions and
own them.
• Freedom to love ourselves; take care
of ourselves.
• Freedom to be who we are .
• Freedom to let our children go.
• Freedom to let go of control.
CHALLENGES FOR PARENTS IN SETTING BOUNDARIES
WITH CHILDREN:
• It is not easy.
• It must be learned.
• We may have to unlearn before we can learn.
• It takes courage and practice.
• It takes time.
• It requires self-awareness.
• It requires assertive communication.
• It must be done with respect (of yourself and others).
CLOSE YOUR EYES AND THINK OF EACH OF
YOUR CHILDREN. THINK OF A WORD TO
DESCRIBE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EACH OF
THEM.
Happy Sad
Angry Hopeful
Contented Dread
Pity Proud
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Session 6- Presentation BOUNDARIES.pdf

  • 1.
  • 2.
  • 3.
  • 4. 1. Material Boundaries – the right to our possessions. 2. Mental Boundaries – the right to our thoughts, opinions, ideas. 3. Physical/sexual Boundaries – the right to our physical space and our bodies. 4. Emotional Boundaries – the right to our feelings, to own them and to be responsible for them. 5. Spiritual Boundaries – the right to our beliefs (and to question or doubt) and how to express our spirituality.
  • 5. EXAMPLES OF PARENTS AND CHILDREN Respecting OR disrespecting each other’s: 1. Material boundaries, 2. Mental boundaries, 3. Physical/Sexual boundaries, 4. Emotional boundaries, 5. Spiritual boundaries
  • 6.
  • 7.
  • 8. MINDFUL PARENTING: 1. How to Build a Home Where Our Children Feel Safe (10 Elements of an Ideal Home) 2. Basic Human Needs 3. Children’s Developmental Stages 4. Four Principles in Shaping our Child’s Heart 5. Attachment – It’s a Big Deal 6. Boundaries in Relationships – Its Also a Big Deal
  • 9. • Freedom from the need to fix our children or to change their mind. • Freedom from feeling guilty when our children get angry at us. • Freedom to say NO to our children without feeling guilty. • Freedom from taking responsibility for our children. (Especially older children.) • Freedom from being compelled to always anticipate our children’s needs and to meet them.
  • 10. • Freedom from making it our job to make our children happy. • Freedom from forcing our children to agree with us. • Freedom to feel our emotions and own them. • Freedom to love ourselves; take care of ourselves. • Freedom to be who we are . • Freedom to let our children go. • Freedom to let go of control.
  • 11.
  • 12. CHALLENGES FOR PARENTS IN SETTING BOUNDARIES WITH CHILDREN: • It is not easy. • It must be learned. • We may have to unlearn before we can learn. • It takes courage and practice. • It takes time. • It requires self-awareness. • It requires assertive communication. • It must be done with respect (of yourself and others).
  • 13. CLOSE YOUR EYES AND THINK OF EACH OF YOUR CHILDREN. THINK OF A WORD TO DESCRIBE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EACH OF THEM. Happy Sad Angry Hopeful Contented Dread Pity Proud