We don't reveal our deepest struggles when first meeting someone, as building trust and connection is a gradual process. While we can't guarantee how others will respond, developing relationships requires understanding different types of sharing and priorities. Quoting Brene Brown, mutually respectful vulnerability between people increases their connection, trust and engagement over time.

1. + We can’t always have guarantees in place before we risk sharing; however we don’t bare our souls the
first time we meet someone
+ We don’t lead with “Hi my name is __________ and here is my darkest struggle”
+ We approach connection differently, so keep in mind the various types of sharing and priorities for
others as you develop relationships
RESIDENTIAL LIFE
Relational Equity:
Getting on the Same Level
“ The result of this mutually respectful vulnerability is increased
connection, trust, and engagement.
IT’S A PROCESS +
YOUR MARBLE JARS +
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Nick Fahnders
RD Training
7/15/2014
-Brene Brown