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Stress Management Workshop
Employment Development Department
Workforce Services Division
“We often become meditative without realizing it, such as when we are
totally focused on an activity, or when we are sitting and gazing out a window
without a particular thought in mind.” Author Unknown.
Getting Creative in a tough Job
Market
Life is a Wheel
(Constantly Changing)
The goal is to ‘center’ yourself
* Happy *Loss *Suffering *Hope
Psychological Test
1. When do you feel your best?
a.) in the morning
b.) during the afternoon and early evening
c.) late at night
2. You usually walk
a.) fairly fast, with long steps
b.) fairly fast, with little steps
c.) less fast head up, looking the world in the face
d.) less fast, head down
e.) very slowly
Psychological Test
3.When talking to people you
a.) stand with your arms folded
b.) have your hands clasped
c.) have one or both your hands on your hips
d.) touch or push the person to whom you are talking
e.) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your
hair
4. When relaxing, you sit with
a.) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side
b.) your legs crossed
c.) your legs stretched out or straight
d.) one leg curled under you
Psychological Test
5. When something really amuses you, you react with
a.) a big, appreciative laugh
b.) a laugh, but not a loud one
c.) a quiet chuckle
d.) a sheepish smile
6. When you go to a party or social gathering you
a.) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
b.) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone
you know
c.) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed
Psychological Test
7. You’re working very hard, concentrating hard, and
you’re interrupted; do you…
a.) welcome the break
b.) feel extremely irritated
c.) vary between these two extremes
8. Which of the following colors do you like most?
a.) red or orange
b.) black
c.) yellow or light blue
d.) green
e.) dark blue or purple
f.) white
g.) brown or grey
Psychological Test
9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few
moments before going to sleep, you lie
a.) stretched out on your back
b.) stretched out face down on your stomach
c.) on your side, slightly curled
d.) with your head on one arm
e.) with your head under the covers
10. You often dream that you are
a.) falling
b.) fighting or struggling
c.) searching for something or somebody
d.) flying or floating
e.) you usually have dreamless sleep
f.) your dreams are always pleasant
Points
1. (a.) 2 (b.) 4 (c.) 6
2. (a.) 6 (b.) 4 (c.) 7 (d.) 2 (e.) 1
3. (a.) 4 (b.) 2 (c.) 5 (d.) 7 (e.) 6
4. (a.) 4 (b.) 6 (c.) 2 (d.) 1
5. (a.) 6 (b.) 4 (c.) 3 (d.) 5 (e.) 2
6. (a.) 6 (b.) 4 (c.) 2
7. (a.) 6 (b.) 2 (c.) 4
8. (a.) 6 (b.) 7 (c.) 5 (d.) 4 (e.) 3 (f.) 2 (g.) 1
9. (a.) 7 (b.) 6 (c.) 4 (d.) 2 (e.) 1
10.(a.) 4 (b.) 2 (c.) 3 (d.) 5 (e.) 6 (f.) 1
Unemployment Stress:
How to Keep a Strong Sense of Self
• Make a list of all of your positive accomplishments
(take your time over this, add items later as you think
about them). Anything relating to work is going to be
valuable to put in your resume but there is more to
life than work so look at other areas too.
• Taking night classes while continuing to work.
• Coaching little league.
• Volunteering for a charity drive.
• Running a household while working full time.
• Losing that extra 10 lbs.
Eliminate Stress Through Proper
Nutrition
Just like a vehicle needs proper fuel and maintenance
to perform properly, so does the human body. Over
time, abuse and neglect can lead to a wide array of
problems and eventual breakdown.
Stress has the same effect on the body, over time it
causes a variety of symptoms, which left untreated
can lead to life-threatening illnesses like heart
disease and cancer.
A well-balanced, nutrient rich diet is essential for
health and stress reduction. Simple adjustments to
your diet now can immediately reduce the effects of
stress, which in turn will give you more energy, make
you stronger, and more resistant to disease.
Stress Vitamins
• There are a couple of vitamins that have been shown
in studies to greatly prevent and/or reduce the signs
of stress. According to Psychology Today, people with
high levels of vitamin C do not display the expected
signs of mental and physical stress when subjected to
intense psychological stresses.
• In addition, the family of B-vitamins strengthens the
nervous and immune systems, which allows them to
better combat fatigue brought on by stress. The B
vitamin Niacin also helps the body effectively release
energy from carbohydrates, balancing and leveling
blood sugar levels which also reduce stress.
Exercise to Reduce Stress
• Think of exercise as "recess." Children need play
time, and so do adults. We need to stretch our
muscles, get our hearts pumping, breathe fresh air
and take a break from our responsibilities.
• Separate yourself from work. To get a stress-
reducing benefit from exercise, choose an activity
that's separate from the work you do all day long.
Chasing after children, using the stairs at work,
running the vacuum cleaner and mowing the lawn are
good ways to burn calories. But they may not do much
to reduce stress. Find activities that take your mind
away from the daily grind.
Exercise to Reduce Stress
• Keep it varied. Many people get bored doing the same
activity, then feel like quitting. So mix it up. For
example, take a yoga class once a week, go for a walk
a few times per week, then play racquetball with a
friend.
• Remember activities you enjoyed as a child. Chances
are, you'll still like them. Was ballet a lot of fun?
Take dance lessons. Did you love to go skating? Adults
can do that too. Did you enjoy competitive sports?
Look into group activities at the local community
center, health club or similar organization.
• Schedule it in and keep it regular. If your days
already seem too crowded without exercise, you
probably need to let something go.
Closing Thoughts
When we lose our jobs, no matter the reason, we lose
a big part of our identity. The scourge of
unemployment is what it does to our minds.
Do not look at unemployment as a failure. Look at it as
an opportunity to learn and a chance to explore
career options.
Please try and keep your spirits up, believe in yourself
and never stop moving forward. Hopefully today’s
workshop has better equipped you to handle the
demands of the job search.
Sources
The Wheel of Life 1: The emotions of change
http://.lessons4living.com/wheel_of_life1.html
Dilbert Comic Strip 12-20-04 Scott Adams, Inc. Dist.
by UFS, Inc.
Guided Relaxation Script – Zoe Sameth
The 12 Rules of Lasting Success – Tom Terez 2009. Workplace
Solutions, Inc. Source: BetterWorkplaceNow.com
Eileen Cady, The Dawn of Change –quote.
Dr. Phil’s Psychology Test www.anvan.org/fun/test/dr_phil_psychology _test.html
Unemploymentblues.com. Unemployment Stress How to Keep a Strong Sense of Self by Virginia
Bola, Psy D. The sideroad.htm.
http://www.allina.com/ac/transcript.nsf/ all topics/Exercise _to_reduce_stress. Source: C. Krucoff. Healing
Moves. Harmony Books, New York, New York. 2000; F. Pashkow and C. Libov. The Women’s Heart Book. Hyperion.
New York, New York. 10023, 2001.

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Presentation02-1

  • 1. Stress Management Workshop Employment Development Department Workforce Services Division “We often become meditative without realizing it, such as when we are totally focused on an activity, or when we are sitting and gazing out a window without a particular thought in mind.” Author Unknown.
  • 2. Getting Creative in a tough Job Market
  • 3. Life is a Wheel (Constantly Changing) The goal is to ‘center’ yourself * Happy *Loss *Suffering *Hope
  • 4. Psychological Test 1. When do you feel your best? a.) in the morning b.) during the afternoon and early evening c.) late at night 2. You usually walk a.) fairly fast, with long steps b.) fairly fast, with little steps c.) less fast head up, looking the world in the face d.) less fast, head down e.) very slowly
  • 5. Psychological Test 3.When talking to people you a.) stand with your arms folded b.) have your hands clasped c.) have one or both your hands on your hips d.) touch or push the person to whom you are talking e.) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair 4. When relaxing, you sit with a.) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side b.) your legs crossed c.) your legs stretched out or straight d.) one leg curled under you
  • 6. Psychological Test 5. When something really amuses you, you react with a.) a big, appreciative laugh b.) a laugh, but not a loud one c.) a quiet chuckle d.) a sheepish smile 6. When you go to a party or social gathering you a.) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you b.) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know c.) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed
  • 7. Psychological Test 7. You’re working very hard, concentrating hard, and you’re interrupted; do you… a.) welcome the break b.) feel extremely irritated c.) vary between these two extremes 8. Which of the following colors do you like most? a.) red or orange b.) black c.) yellow or light blue d.) green e.) dark blue or purple f.) white g.) brown or grey
  • 8. Psychological Test 9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep, you lie a.) stretched out on your back b.) stretched out face down on your stomach c.) on your side, slightly curled d.) with your head on one arm e.) with your head under the covers 10. You often dream that you are a.) falling b.) fighting or struggling c.) searching for something or somebody d.) flying or floating e.) you usually have dreamless sleep f.) your dreams are always pleasant
  • 9. Points 1. (a.) 2 (b.) 4 (c.) 6 2. (a.) 6 (b.) 4 (c.) 7 (d.) 2 (e.) 1 3. (a.) 4 (b.) 2 (c.) 5 (d.) 7 (e.) 6 4. (a.) 4 (b.) 6 (c.) 2 (d.) 1 5. (a.) 6 (b.) 4 (c.) 3 (d.) 5 (e.) 2 6. (a.) 6 (b.) 4 (c.) 2 7. (a.) 6 (b.) 2 (c.) 4 8. (a.) 6 (b.) 7 (c.) 5 (d.) 4 (e.) 3 (f.) 2 (g.) 1 9. (a.) 7 (b.) 6 (c.) 4 (d.) 2 (e.) 1 10.(a.) 4 (b.) 2 (c.) 3 (d.) 5 (e.) 6 (f.) 1
  • 10. Unemployment Stress: How to Keep a Strong Sense of Self • Make a list of all of your positive accomplishments (take your time over this, add items later as you think about them). Anything relating to work is going to be valuable to put in your resume but there is more to life than work so look at other areas too. • Taking night classes while continuing to work. • Coaching little league. • Volunteering for a charity drive. • Running a household while working full time. • Losing that extra 10 lbs.
  • 11. Eliminate Stress Through Proper Nutrition Just like a vehicle needs proper fuel and maintenance to perform properly, so does the human body. Over time, abuse and neglect can lead to a wide array of problems and eventual breakdown. Stress has the same effect on the body, over time it causes a variety of symptoms, which left untreated can lead to life-threatening illnesses like heart disease and cancer. A well-balanced, nutrient rich diet is essential for health and stress reduction. Simple adjustments to your diet now can immediately reduce the effects of stress, which in turn will give you more energy, make you stronger, and more resistant to disease.
  • 12. Stress Vitamins • There are a couple of vitamins that have been shown in studies to greatly prevent and/or reduce the signs of stress. According to Psychology Today, people with high levels of vitamin C do not display the expected signs of mental and physical stress when subjected to intense psychological stresses. • In addition, the family of B-vitamins strengthens the nervous and immune systems, which allows them to better combat fatigue brought on by stress. The B vitamin Niacin also helps the body effectively release energy from carbohydrates, balancing and leveling blood sugar levels which also reduce stress.
  • 13. Exercise to Reduce Stress • Think of exercise as "recess." Children need play time, and so do adults. We need to stretch our muscles, get our hearts pumping, breathe fresh air and take a break from our responsibilities. • Separate yourself from work. To get a stress- reducing benefit from exercise, choose an activity that's separate from the work you do all day long. Chasing after children, using the stairs at work, running the vacuum cleaner and mowing the lawn are good ways to burn calories. But they may not do much to reduce stress. Find activities that take your mind away from the daily grind.
  • 14. Exercise to Reduce Stress • Keep it varied. Many people get bored doing the same activity, then feel like quitting. So mix it up. For example, take a yoga class once a week, go for a walk a few times per week, then play racquetball with a friend. • Remember activities you enjoyed as a child. Chances are, you'll still like them. Was ballet a lot of fun? Take dance lessons. Did you love to go skating? Adults can do that too. Did you enjoy competitive sports? Look into group activities at the local community center, health club or similar organization. • Schedule it in and keep it regular. If your days already seem too crowded without exercise, you probably need to let something go.
  • 15. Closing Thoughts When we lose our jobs, no matter the reason, we lose a big part of our identity. The scourge of unemployment is what it does to our minds. Do not look at unemployment as a failure. Look at it as an opportunity to learn and a chance to explore career options. Please try and keep your spirits up, believe in yourself and never stop moving forward. Hopefully today’s workshop has better equipped you to handle the demands of the job search.
  • 16. Sources The Wheel of Life 1: The emotions of change http://.lessons4living.com/wheel_of_life1.html Dilbert Comic Strip 12-20-04 Scott Adams, Inc. Dist. by UFS, Inc. Guided Relaxation Script – Zoe Sameth The 12 Rules of Lasting Success – Tom Terez 2009. Workplace Solutions, Inc. Source: BetterWorkplaceNow.com Eileen Cady, The Dawn of Change –quote. Dr. Phil’s Psychology Test www.anvan.org/fun/test/dr_phil_psychology _test.html Unemploymentblues.com. Unemployment Stress How to Keep a Strong Sense of Self by Virginia Bola, Psy D. The sideroad.htm. http://www.allina.com/ac/transcript.nsf/ all topics/Exercise _to_reduce_stress. Source: C. Krucoff. Healing Moves. Harmony Books, New York, New York. 2000; F. Pashkow and C. Libov. The Women’s Heart Book. Hyperion. New York, New York. 10023, 2001.

Editor's Notes

  1. Welcome to the Stress Management Workshop. This is an exciting, interactive class that will: Stimulate dialogue Provide a psychological profile test with results A written exercise A lecture on the four phases of life (suffering, strength, happiness and hope) And conclude with an optional guided relaxation exercise. Each participant will take home the 11 Rules of Lasting Success and complete a course evaluation. Course Objectives: To de-stress, to have some fun, to laugh. Manage your stress in order to move forward with the job search. Enjoy some interactive and relaxation exercises. Return to the job search with new energy and vitality.
  2. Offer to volunteer, or request an informational interview if the hiring manager will agree. Or, you can do what this job seeker did in this Dilbert comic. Just kidding, of course, but you get the idea…
  3. <number> The term, “center yourself” comes from the metaphor that life is a like a wheel and the closer you are to the center of the wheel, the more joyful you will be regardless of what is going on in your life. Job loss, like any loss, can eventually lead to suffering, before we begin to feel hopeful again. When our happiness is predicated by the ups and downs of our life, we are more susceptible to the temporary emotional states of ‘happiness,’ ‘suffering,’ ‘loss,’ or ‘hope.’ That’s fine when life is good, but life is synonymous with change and there is usually some kind of turbulence occurring. Our state of mind, happiness if you will, should not be contingent upon whatever is happening at any given moment. Remember the Merry-Go-Round you played on as a child? The spinning sensation was not as extreme in the center of the Merry-Go-Round as what it was on the outer rim. We are more susceptible to the ups and downs of life when we are bouncing along on the rim. Because we are only human and we are IN this life, our goal is to try and not to become OF this life. Our goal is to seek a higher state of mind and being. Our course, this is easier said than done. It is far better to seek “joy,” than happiness. Joy is related to happiness, but it is a deeper experience. In the search for happiness an individual focuses upon himself, but joy moves a person out of a self-centered preoccupation and provides an orientation towards others. Joy is an experience which connects us to that which is “Greater” than we are. It connects us to the creative power that is more than the “I” or ego. Joy gets us out of ourselves and in contact with this “Other” and with others. Joy can sustain us throughout the four phases of life. It we are willing to give up the search for happiness, we may find joy. It exists near the center of the wheel where happiness and suffering meet and intermingle. To make such a move off the rim from happiness into suffering requires faith. Faith is also found at the center of the Wheel of Life. It is where Loss and Hope intersect. Faith comes from the action of moving towards the center. It is not that we have faith first and then act. We act first. Moving towards Hope in the midst of Loss gives birth to Faith. This is a move that engages rather than avoids suffering. The creative power at the center of the wheel brings into being Faith and Joy.
  4. We’re going to play a little game disguised as a psychological test. Dr. Phil gave this test on Oprah. She scored a 33. It’s not at all uncommon for Human Resource Departments at major corporations to administer personality tests as part of their pre-screening process before hiring a candidate. It helps them gain better insight concerning their prospective employees. So… grab your pencils and a piece of paper, keeping track of your letter answers.
  5. Continue reading.
  6. Continue reading.
  7. Continue asking questions.
  8. Continue reading.
  9. Add up the total number of points. Interpretations: Over 60 Points: Others see you as someone they should “handle with care.” You’re see as vain, self-centered, and someone who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don’t always trust you, hesitating to be come too deeply involved with you. 51 to 60 Points: Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; a natural leader who’s quick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate. 41 to 50 Points: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting; someone who’s constantly in the centre of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who’ll always cheer them up and help them out. 31 to 40 Points: Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful and practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who’s extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over it if that trust is ever broken. 21 to 30 Points: Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It’d really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively, or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully, from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature. Under 21 Points: People think you are shy, nervous and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn’t want to get involved with anyone or anything. They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don’t exist. Some people think you’re boring. Only those who know you well know that you aren’t.
  10. Here’s something that you can do at home. Make a list of all your positive accomplishments and reflect on it. For now, we are going to write down at least three positive statements about ourselves, using our name in each statement. Then turn to your neighbor, exchange papers and read the statements to each other.
  11. High fiber foods, including fresh fruits and vegetables and whole grains, increase serotonin (a mood enhancing hormone) in the brain, naturally reducing the effects of stress. Eat raw fruits and vegetables often. They are not only higher in vitamins and minerals than cooked foods; they also contain natural stress reducing compounds called flavonoids. Low fat dairy and yogurt are recommended because they are high in calcium and magnesium. Foods high in calcium and magnesium have been shown to reduce stress because these two nutrients relax muscle fibers. Avoid foods and drinks that are filled with stimulants like caffeine which tax the nervous and immune system. Coffee and most teas should only be used in moderation. In addition, there are toxic levels of acid in most soft drinks which rob the body of calcium (one of the natural stress busters). Sugar is another food that can trigger stress because it causes rapid fluctuations in blood sugar levels. Sugars are hidden in many foods under names like dextrose and sucrose. As much as possible avoid packaged meals and snacks that contain artificial colors, flavors, additives, and preservatives. These chemicals are hard on the body because they are not recognized as natural, therefore the body responds defensively to them, straining the immune system.
  12. Vitamin C helps prevent and reduce the signs of stress in people. B-Complex vitamins also strengthens the nervous and immune systems which helps combat fatigue brought on by stress. The B vitamin Niacin also helps the body release energy from carbohydrates, which in turn balances and levels out blood sugars, thereby reducing stress.
  13. It's a fact of life. Most people experience stress -- going to work, caring for children, keeping up with the bills.Evidence shows that stress damages your health. It can weaken your immune system, increase your risk of heart trouble, raise cholesterol, keep your blood sugar too high, cause weight and skin problems. The list goes on. Regular exercise not only strengthens physical health; it can help you handle stress by relaxing tense muscles, helping you sleep better, releasing endorphins, adrenaline, serotonin and dopamines -- chemicals that give you a sense of well-being. The main thing is to find things you like and commit to doing them regularly. For many, repeating the same motion for a period of time has a relaxing effect similar to meditation. Rhythmic exercises that can provide this effect include swimming laps, walking, running and cycling. Some people enjoy exercises that focus on breathing and fluid movement, such as yoga and tai chi. Others prefer exercising in pairs, for instance, by playing tennis or dancing the tango.
  14. Exercise is one of the best ways to reduce stress. It takes our mind off our troubles and releases “good” chemicals (endorphins) into our blood stream, that give us a sense of well-being.
  15. Thank you for your participation in today’s workshop.
  16. List of the sources that Mary Jo Markus-Longyear consulted to prepare her workshop.