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“Practical Emotional Intelligence”
25 November 2016
Christopher Golis MA MBA FAICD FAIM
Australia’s expert in practical EQ
cgolisau@gmail.com
0418-2222192
Source: 4 Steps To Become A More
Emotionally Intelligent Leader (13/11/16)
What is IQ?
 1916 Alfred Binet (Mental Age/Chronological Age)
 WWI US Army Alpha/Beta tests
 1955 Wechsler Adult Intelligence Scale WAIS
Mean IQ = 100 SD = 15
 Multiple intelligences General, Verbal, Numerical
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0418-2222193
1983 Gardner’s
Multiple Intelligences
 Musical–rhythmic and harmonic
 Visual–spatial
 Verbal–linguistic
 Logical–mathematical
 Bodily–kinesthetic
 Interpersonal
 Intrapersonal
 Naturalistic
 Existential
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Lack of empirical evidence, high correlation with g
What is Emotional Intelligence?
 1990 Peter Salovey and
John D. Mayer proposed EQ
is like IQ
 The ability to Recognise,
Understand, Label, Express
and Regulate Emotions
 RULER
 Inborn talent vs learned
skill?
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Goleman publishes EQ in 1996
1. Self Awareness
2. Self Management
3. Social Awareness or
Empathy
4. Social Skills or Relationship
management
No model of core emotions!?
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+Contempt & Surprise
Paul Ekman’s 7 Core Emotions
People drive performance,
emotions drive people,
temperament drives emotions
 Luck & memory very important
 Kings College, London study of 11,117
twins
 58% of exam success due to genes
 29% due to teachers & schools
 Nature 2x nurture
 Temperament = genetic emotional bias
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What is Emotional Intelligence?
Self
Understanding
Ψ test
Self
Influencing
Mindfulness
Others
Understanding
Empathy
Others
Influencing
Social Skills
Self
Others
Understanding Influencing
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Why is EQ important?
 Walter Mischel
 Bing Nursery School @ Stanford
 653 four-year olds
 10% could hold back
 Later in life these 10% were significantly more
successful
New Yorker 18 May 2009 Don’t: The secret of self control
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A defining moment:
Charles Handy with
the key to business
success
The 7 core emotions
 1920 Rosanoff
 “We are all slightly mad”
 There are only 4 mental illnesses
 1935 Humm & Wadsworth 7 components
 1993 Empathy Selling The new names
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Mover
 Desire to
communicate
 Active and dynamic
 Cheerful and
enthusiastic
 Either black or white
 Multi-taskers
 Fluctuations in mood
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Mover
• Talk - Friendly, jokey
• Organisation - Retailers
• Position - Front counter
• Dress - Casual, bright
colours
• Office - Messy
• Gambit - late but friendly
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Doublechecker
 Desire for security
 Cautious, double checkers
 Apprehensive and nervous
 Compassionate and
sympathetic
 Pessimistic and critical
 Low energy output but can
show D drive
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Doublechecker
• Talk - hypochondriacs
• Organisation - Public service
• Position - Administrator
• Dress - Conservative, brown
cardigans
• Office - Magpies, photos of
family or company
• Gambit - Punctual and friendly
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Engineer
 Desire to complete projects
 Painstaking planners
 Compulsive readers
 Practical and objective
 Dedicated enthusiasm
 Hands-on operators
 Process is everything
 Poor at delegation
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Engineer
• Talk - Monotonic
• Organisation - Builders and
developers
• Position - Consultants
• Dress - Pens in pocket
• Office - Whiteboard, full
bookshelves
• Gambit - Punctual (?) and
friendly
The First Sale: 1974
 Electricity
Commission of NSW
 Only account taken
off IBM by ICL in the
world!!!
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Artists
 Desire to create
 Inarticulate, aloof and reserved
 Self-conscious and over-
sensitive
 Stubborn and single-minded
 Good visual imaginations
 Individualistic: beat to a
different drum
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Artists
• Talk - Inarticulate
• Organisation - Creative
• Position - Design
• Dress - Oddball
• Office - Tasteful
• Gambit - Punctual but formal
The First Book Sale
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Politicians
 Desire to win
 Competitive and
assertive
 Persistent and
tenacious
 Defend fixed ideas
skillfully
 Suspicious
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Politician
• Talk - I-I-I
• Organisation - Big
• Position - Manager
• Dress - Power
• Office - Big, degrees on wall
• Gambit - Late but formal
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Normal
 Desire for order
 Co-operative and law abiding
 Mature and self-controlled
 Consistent and rational
(boring?)
 Self reliant and confident
 Unemotional (cold fish?)
 Increases with age
 Soluble “In vino veritas”
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Normal
 Talk - Logical, rational
 Organisation - Professional
 Position - Accountant/CoSec
 Dress - Conservative pinstripes
 Office - Neat and tidy
 Gambit - Punctual and formal
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Hustler
 Desire for material success
 Empathetic & Charming
 Astute, good financial acumen
 Love of gambling and
excitement
 Winners and losers
 Opportunistic
 Self-interest: WIIFM
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Hustler
• Talk - Money, name dropper
• Organisation - Wholesalers
• Position - Brokers and agents
• Dress – Flashy, red & gold
• Office – Showy and glitszy
• Gambit - Punctual and friendly
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Playing squash for
$1000 a point!!
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Self-controlled, rational, follows rules,
steady

Materialistic, shrewd, financially astute,
hard-headed realist
2
PEQAS instructions:
For each pair quickly select one group or the
other best describes your personal style.
Personal EQ Assessment Questionnaire
http://www.emotionalintelligencecourse.com/quiz/
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Step 1: Self Awareness
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Ipsative vs. Normative
Ipsative vs. Normative
0
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
N H M D A P E
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Caveat 2:
67% of individuals cluster
around the average
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Caveat 3: The 7 components
are like a web with several
strong and several weak
strands
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Caveat 4: You can’t change your personality
but you can change your behaviour
Source: Me, Myself, and Us: The Science of Personality
and the Art of Well-Being by Brian R. Little
Any ? & call to action
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