The document compares Chris Langan and Robert J. Oppenheimer to illustrate how differences in upbringing and social skills influenced their lives despite both being highly intelligent. Langan came from a poor family with a rough childhood and lacked social skills, resulting in intellectual isolation. Oppenheimer came from a wealthy family that valued education, which gave him an easy childhood, family support, and allowed him to develop tremendous social skills to become a successful and contributing member of science and society. The conclusion is that to be a true "outlier", one needs to not just be a genius but also know how to turn unfavorable situations to one's advantage.