Sharing with you my presentation in class at today morning. :D A very useful communication knowledge so we can understand each other better (even without communication). Adapted from book "Law of Communication" by Michael J Losier.
The document discusses ways to be sensitive towards others. It provides tips for paying attention to facial expressions and body language to understand how others are feeling. It recommends asking open-ended questions, giving full attention without distractions, clarifying understanding, and choosing respectful ways to express feelings. The overall message is that being sensitive involves actively listening to understand others' perspectives and validating their emotions.
This document outlines the details of a mentoring program called SmartLife Mentoring Program. It provides background on the origins of mentoring from Greek mythology. It then defines what a mentor is and lists 10 reasons for someone to become a mentor and 10 reasons for someone to become a mentee. The document outlines commitments expected of mentors and mentees. It provides guidelines for effective mentoring conversations and preparations for initial meetings. It discusses the agenda, roles of parties, deliverables, results and dos/don'ts of the mentoring relationship.
The document outlines an agenda for a mentoring skills workshop. The workshop covers defining mentoring and a mentor's role, reviewing case studies and boundaries, identifying necessary mentoring skills like active listening and communication, and emphasizes the importance of active listening skills in mentoring. Participants engage in group discussions and activities to practice definitions and skills. The workshop aims to provide resources and training to support participants' development as mentors.
General tips are provided to help candidates overcome interviews. The interview process is likened to a mountain climb that traces one's life and career experiences. Candidates should prepare by reviewing important life and career milestones so they can discuss them confidently. When in the interview, take time to thoughtfully explain experiences rather than rushing through answers. Typical questions asked include telling about yourself, why the company should hire you, if you have other offers, salary expectations, and questions you can ask the interviewer. Proper preparation, appearance, confidence, and selling oneself are keys to success.
26 pieces of unsolicited and totally obvious career advice to make you more s...Haley Bryant
This document provides 26 pieces of career advice focused on becoming more successful and happy at work. Some of the key advice includes: figuring out your priorities and strengths; actively doing work rather than waiting to be told what to do; asking for feedback to improve your self-awareness; taking on challenges and difficult problems; helping others; and consistently demonstrating that you care about your work. The overarching message is that taking initiative, developing skills, and having a positive attitude are important for career growth.
This document discusses reflective practice and its benefits. Reflective practice involves consciously thinking about events and experiences to learn from them. It can increase self-awareness, support career and personal development, and provide examples for interviews. Regularly reflecting, such as by keeping a learning journal, helps improve learning at work and in life. The document also discusses reflecting communication by paraphrasing and mirroring what a speaker says to understand their perspective and encourage further discussion. Self-reflection involves asking questions about strengths, weaknesses, skills, problems, achievements, happiness, and potential solutions.
How to Keep your Job is a guide to staying in employment and avoiding the pitfalls of starting a new job covering everything from sickness to lunch breaks to appearance. There is no need to lose your job over a discrepancy so make sure that you read our guide to keeping your job.
For more information, find out about starting an Apprenticeship or Traineeship or for more advice visit: www.apprenticeshiprecruitment.co.uk or call: 0121 707 0550 or e-mail: info@apprenticeshiprecruitment.co.uk
The document summarizes Andrew Horton's article about how your current habits will shape your future. It discusses how both good and bad habits govern people's daily lives and responses. It encourages building habits that serve your goals, like developing one new success habit every quarter over 90 days to achieve effortless success long-term. Dropping bad habits that limit progress is also important. Visualizing your ideal future can help identify which habits to change or build. Consistency and discipline are needed to develop new habits over at least 42 days until they become entrenched.
The document discusses ways to be sensitive towards others. It provides tips for paying attention to facial expressions and body language to understand how others are feeling. It recommends asking open-ended questions, giving full attention without distractions, clarifying understanding, and choosing respectful ways to express feelings. The overall message is that being sensitive involves actively listening to understand others' perspectives and validating their emotions.
This document outlines the details of a mentoring program called SmartLife Mentoring Program. It provides background on the origins of mentoring from Greek mythology. It then defines what a mentor is and lists 10 reasons for someone to become a mentor and 10 reasons for someone to become a mentee. The document outlines commitments expected of mentors and mentees. It provides guidelines for effective mentoring conversations and preparations for initial meetings. It discusses the agenda, roles of parties, deliverables, results and dos/don'ts of the mentoring relationship.
The document outlines an agenda for a mentoring skills workshop. The workshop covers defining mentoring and a mentor's role, reviewing case studies and boundaries, identifying necessary mentoring skills like active listening and communication, and emphasizes the importance of active listening skills in mentoring. Participants engage in group discussions and activities to practice definitions and skills. The workshop aims to provide resources and training to support participants' development as mentors.
General tips are provided to help candidates overcome interviews. The interview process is likened to a mountain climb that traces one's life and career experiences. Candidates should prepare by reviewing important life and career milestones so they can discuss them confidently. When in the interview, take time to thoughtfully explain experiences rather than rushing through answers. Typical questions asked include telling about yourself, why the company should hire you, if you have other offers, salary expectations, and questions you can ask the interviewer. Proper preparation, appearance, confidence, and selling oneself are keys to success.
26 pieces of unsolicited and totally obvious career advice to make you more s...Haley Bryant
This document provides 26 pieces of career advice focused on becoming more successful and happy at work. Some of the key advice includes: figuring out your priorities and strengths; actively doing work rather than waiting to be told what to do; asking for feedback to improve your self-awareness; taking on challenges and difficult problems; helping others; and consistently demonstrating that you care about your work. The overarching message is that taking initiative, developing skills, and having a positive attitude are important for career growth.
This document discusses reflective practice and its benefits. Reflective practice involves consciously thinking about events and experiences to learn from them. It can increase self-awareness, support career and personal development, and provide examples for interviews. Regularly reflecting, such as by keeping a learning journal, helps improve learning at work and in life. The document also discusses reflecting communication by paraphrasing and mirroring what a speaker says to understand their perspective and encourage further discussion. Self-reflection involves asking questions about strengths, weaknesses, skills, problems, achievements, happiness, and potential solutions.
How to Keep your Job is a guide to staying in employment and avoiding the pitfalls of starting a new job covering everything from sickness to lunch breaks to appearance. There is no need to lose your job over a discrepancy so make sure that you read our guide to keeping your job.
For more information, find out about starting an Apprenticeship or Traineeship or for more advice visit: www.apprenticeshiprecruitment.co.uk or call: 0121 707 0550 or e-mail: info@apprenticeshiprecruitment.co.uk
The document summarizes Andrew Horton's article about how your current habits will shape your future. It discusses how both good and bad habits govern people's daily lives and responses. It encourages building habits that serve your goals, like developing one new success habit every quarter over 90 days to achieve effortless success long-term. Dropping bad habits that limit progress is also important. Visualizing your ideal future can help identify which habits to change or build. Consistency and discipline are needed to develop new habits over at least 42 days until they become entrenched.
Introducing Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)John Marsden
NLP is a method that models excellence in order to produce strategies that can be taught to others. The session introduces NLP and its history, defines modelling, and demonstrates a basic modelling tool called the Mercedes Model. NLP establishes that ingrained behavior patterns can be changed through language by modelling surface and deep structures of the mind. Modelling excellence then creates applications like spelling strategies or cures for phobias.
This document introduces the concept of state in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and discusses how internal representations and physiology contribute to one's state. It explains that state determines behavior and performance, and that successful people are goal-oriented, flexible in their behavior, self-aware, and able to manage their states. The document encourages the reader to become aware of their internal representations by noticing details like images on their desk, and how feelings can change based on variations in the submodalities of images. It emphasizes that enthusiasm and behavior are choices, and that congruence between representations, physiology, and behavior leads to power and self-improvement.
1. The document discusses CogniCor Technologies, a company that provides automated complaint resolution services using artificial intelligence.
2. CogniCor uses natural language processing, machine learning, and other AI techniques to understand complaints and apply resolution policies to complaints.
3. An example is provided of how CogniCor's systems can understand complaints from the telecommunications sector by recognizing patterns and keywords to classify complaints and suggest resolutions.
This training document summarizes a Master Life Coach Training program that provides certifications in NLP, hypnosis, timeline therapy, and life coaching. The program aims to engage, equip, and empower participants through experiential training taught by Anneme Coetzee. It offers both introductory certifications and advanced Master certifications, covering topics like rapport building, representational systems, language patterns, anchoring, strategies, parts integration, and more. The goal is to develop skills for personal and professional transformation as a life coach.
NLP is a model that describes human behavior, cognition, and how people represent and interact with the world. It is related to experiences and how they are organized. NLP suggests experiences are composed of sensory modalities like visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory and gustatory. NLP is used worldwide as a tool for communication excellence and personal achievement through setting goals and using language patterns effectively. The development of NLP has provided knowledge to understand human behavior and cognition and how people represent their world.
Paradigm Shift for Massive Success using MATHS presented on 11th Nov 2016 at TEDx Covenant University, Lagos.
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Business Development 52 NLPt v NLP Sharon Rooke 54Sharon Rooke
The document discusses the differences between neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and neurolinguistic psychotherapy (NLPt). NLP focuses on modeling excellence and is flexible, while NLPt applies NLP skills in a therapeutic setting to help clients achieve outcomes. The origins of NLP include Gestalt therapy, family therapy, and clinical hypnosis. Training to become an NLP therapist involves extensive study of topics like human development, psychopathology, and theories of psychotherapy. NLPt therapists must meet high standards for competence and practice set by organizations like UKCP. Maintaining proper scope of practice and supervision is important for NLPt to ensure client and therapist safety.
David Wood has completed a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Diploma training course from Evolution Training Limited. The certificate recognizes that David Wood demonstrated a high degree of competence and skill in the techniques of NLP. Evolution Training Limited presented this Certificate of Completion to David Wood on October 14, 2001.
This document provides an introduction to Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). It discusses what NLP is, how it can be useful for building rapport, understanding communication, and gaining skills. Some key concepts of NLP are outlined, including outcomes focus, sensory acuity, flexibility of behavior, and presuppositions. Methods like rapport building, representational systems, matching, mirroring, leading, pacing and listening styles are covered, with notes on effectively applying these techniques.
BarCamp Manchester 2016: Neuro, fuzzyio, logicalAxelisys Limited
A short lightening-talk at BarCamp Manchester 2016 covering 3 different types of Artificial Intelligence concepts. Neural Networks, Fuzzy Logic and Logic Programming.
Effective presentations vs Power Point Kevin Britz
The document discusses the benefits of exercise for mental health. Regular physical activity can help reduce anxiety and depression and improve mood and cognitive function. Exercise causes chemical changes in the brain that may help protect against mental illness and improve symptoms for those who already suffer from conditions like anxiety and depression.
Prasad VSV Prasad has over 24 years of experience leading teams to success in corporate and business roles. He helps people develop their personalities through various profiling tools like Thomas Profiling, MBTI, NLP, and handwriting analysis. Prasad then provides personalized coaching to help people overcome limitations, set goals, and achieve success in their chosen fields by leveraging their strengths. One satisfied customer said the personalized coaching helped them think more positively, focus on their strengths, and see improvements personally and professionally.
This document discusses how personal frames can limit success and presents techniques for reframing problems in a healthier way. It explains that performance is determined by potential minus interference from frames. Reframing problems involves identifying the problem, checking if the frame is useful, asking the unconscious mind to find alternative ways to fulfill the intention in a healthy ecological manner, agreeing on a timeframe for change, and fully committing to the new frame. Dropping limiting frames allows one to view situations from a higher perspective.
The document outlines the agenda for the second session of an NLP training being conducted by Dr. Alexandra M. Liguori. It recaps topics from the previous session, including natural language processing tasks and FrameNet, and discusses semantics, frames approaches, and using GATE for semantic analysis. The document concludes by previewing topics to be covered in the final training session, such as question answering, reference resolution, named entity recognition, and information extraction.
Having checked the definitions from all those dictionaries and references, so what is Emotional Mastery exactly? And what is the connecting link between NLP and Emotional Mastery?
Visit us: http://www.nlppowertraining.com.au
This document discusses interpersonal communication and provides tips to improve communication skills. It notes that interpersonal communication involves message sending and receiving between two or more people. The quality of communication affects work and life quality. Effective communication skills like conversation, listening, body language and emotional awareness can be learned. The document then provides guidance on various aspects of communication like avoiding unnecessary details, smiling, speaking clearly, and listening actively. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and feedback in overcoming barriers to successful interpersonal communication.
KW Inner Strength - Assertive and Effective Communication - SlideShare.pptxKarenWarren29
This presentation can help you to communicate assertively and effectively, particularly in a Team Leader or Line Manager role.
In a leadership role, you'll need to communicate effectively with people. We often get back what we give out so make your communication style positive and constructive to help define your expectations of people and to support them if they're struggling.
If you can make people feel safe, they'll usually tell you where they're at, and that can help you to develop effective work relationships and a proactive style of line management.
Our impact and influence are not usually about what we say, they're about how we say things. This presentation can help you to think about how you communicate in business to support individual and team success.
This document discusses listening skills. It defines listening as accurately receiving and interpreting messages, which is key to effective communication. Good listening skills can lead to benefits like improved customer satisfaction and productivity. While hearing is a physical process, listening requires mental focus and effort to understand verbal and non-verbal messages. Research shows that people spend 45% of their communication time listening, more than any other single activity. The purpose of listening includes gaining understanding, showing interest, assessing information, and arriving at shared understanding. Barriers to effective listening include distractions, lack of interest, biases, and preconceptions. Non-verbal signs of ineffective listening include a lack of eye contact and engagement. Overcoming barriers involves preparing to listen without distractions,
Communication is an integral part of human being. Without this life couldn't be easier. Here is some skills to develop and improve your communication for better presentation.
Soft skills is a term often associated with a person's "EQ" (emotional intelligence quotient), the cluster of personality traits, social graces, communication, language, personal habits, friendliness, and optimism that characterize relationships with other people. Soft skills play a vital role for professional success
Introducing Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)John Marsden
NLP is a method that models excellence in order to produce strategies that can be taught to others. The session introduces NLP and its history, defines modelling, and demonstrates a basic modelling tool called the Mercedes Model. NLP establishes that ingrained behavior patterns can be changed through language by modelling surface and deep structures of the mind. Modelling excellence then creates applications like spelling strategies or cures for phobias.
This document introduces the concept of state in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and discusses how internal representations and physiology contribute to one's state. It explains that state determines behavior and performance, and that successful people are goal-oriented, flexible in their behavior, self-aware, and able to manage their states. The document encourages the reader to become aware of their internal representations by noticing details like images on their desk, and how feelings can change based on variations in the submodalities of images. It emphasizes that enthusiasm and behavior are choices, and that congruence between representations, physiology, and behavior leads to power and self-improvement.
1. The document discusses CogniCor Technologies, a company that provides automated complaint resolution services using artificial intelligence.
2. CogniCor uses natural language processing, machine learning, and other AI techniques to understand complaints and apply resolution policies to complaints.
3. An example is provided of how CogniCor's systems can understand complaints from the telecommunications sector by recognizing patterns and keywords to classify complaints and suggest resolutions.
This training document summarizes a Master Life Coach Training program that provides certifications in NLP, hypnosis, timeline therapy, and life coaching. The program aims to engage, equip, and empower participants through experiential training taught by Anneme Coetzee. It offers both introductory certifications and advanced Master certifications, covering topics like rapport building, representational systems, language patterns, anchoring, strategies, parts integration, and more. The goal is to develop skills for personal and professional transformation as a life coach.
NLP is a model that describes human behavior, cognition, and how people represent and interact with the world. It is related to experiences and how they are organized. NLP suggests experiences are composed of sensory modalities like visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory and gustatory. NLP is used worldwide as a tool for communication excellence and personal achievement through setting goals and using language patterns effectively. The development of NLP has provided knowledge to understand human behavior and cognition and how people represent their world.
Paradigm Shift for Massive Success using MATHS presented on 11th Nov 2016 at TEDx Covenant University, Lagos.
Visit: https://nlplimited.com/
Visit: https://MARKModel.com/
Business Development 52 NLPt v NLP Sharon Rooke 54Sharon Rooke
The document discusses the differences between neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and neurolinguistic psychotherapy (NLPt). NLP focuses on modeling excellence and is flexible, while NLPt applies NLP skills in a therapeutic setting to help clients achieve outcomes. The origins of NLP include Gestalt therapy, family therapy, and clinical hypnosis. Training to become an NLP therapist involves extensive study of topics like human development, psychopathology, and theories of psychotherapy. NLPt therapists must meet high standards for competence and practice set by organizations like UKCP. Maintaining proper scope of practice and supervision is important for NLPt to ensure client and therapist safety.
David Wood has completed a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Diploma training course from Evolution Training Limited. The certificate recognizes that David Wood demonstrated a high degree of competence and skill in the techniques of NLP. Evolution Training Limited presented this Certificate of Completion to David Wood on October 14, 2001.
This document provides an introduction to Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). It discusses what NLP is, how it can be useful for building rapport, understanding communication, and gaining skills. Some key concepts of NLP are outlined, including outcomes focus, sensory acuity, flexibility of behavior, and presuppositions. Methods like rapport building, representational systems, matching, mirroring, leading, pacing and listening styles are covered, with notes on effectively applying these techniques.
BarCamp Manchester 2016: Neuro, fuzzyio, logicalAxelisys Limited
A short lightening-talk at BarCamp Manchester 2016 covering 3 different types of Artificial Intelligence concepts. Neural Networks, Fuzzy Logic and Logic Programming.
Effective presentations vs Power Point Kevin Britz
The document discusses the benefits of exercise for mental health. Regular physical activity can help reduce anxiety and depression and improve mood and cognitive function. Exercise causes chemical changes in the brain that may help protect against mental illness and improve symptoms for those who already suffer from conditions like anxiety and depression.
Prasad VSV Prasad has over 24 years of experience leading teams to success in corporate and business roles. He helps people develop their personalities through various profiling tools like Thomas Profiling, MBTI, NLP, and handwriting analysis. Prasad then provides personalized coaching to help people overcome limitations, set goals, and achieve success in their chosen fields by leveraging their strengths. One satisfied customer said the personalized coaching helped them think more positively, focus on their strengths, and see improvements personally and professionally.
This document discusses how personal frames can limit success and presents techniques for reframing problems in a healthier way. It explains that performance is determined by potential minus interference from frames. Reframing problems involves identifying the problem, checking if the frame is useful, asking the unconscious mind to find alternative ways to fulfill the intention in a healthy ecological manner, agreeing on a timeframe for change, and fully committing to the new frame. Dropping limiting frames allows one to view situations from a higher perspective.
The document outlines the agenda for the second session of an NLP training being conducted by Dr. Alexandra M. Liguori. It recaps topics from the previous session, including natural language processing tasks and FrameNet, and discusses semantics, frames approaches, and using GATE for semantic analysis. The document concludes by previewing topics to be covered in the final training session, such as question answering, reference resolution, named entity recognition, and information extraction.
Having checked the definitions from all those dictionaries and references, so what is Emotional Mastery exactly? And what is the connecting link between NLP and Emotional Mastery?
Visit us: http://www.nlppowertraining.com.au
This document discusses interpersonal communication and provides tips to improve communication skills. It notes that interpersonal communication involves message sending and receiving between two or more people. The quality of communication affects work and life quality. Effective communication skills like conversation, listening, body language and emotional awareness can be learned. The document then provides guidance on various aspects of communication like avoiding unnecessary details, smiling, speaking clearly, and listening actively. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and feedback in overcoming barriers to successful interpersonal communication.
KW Inner Strength - Assertive and Effective Communication - SlideShare.pptxKarenWarren29
This presentation can help you to communicate assertively and effectively, particularly in a Team Leader or Line Manager role.
In a leadership role, you'll need to communicate effectively with people. We often get back what we give out so make your communication style positive and constructive to help define your expectations of people and to support them if they're struggling.
If you can make people feel safe, they'll usually tell you where they're at, and that can help you to develop effective work relationships and a proactive style of line management.
Our impact and influence are not usually about what we say, they're about how we say things. This presentation can help you to think about how you communicate in business to support individual and team success.
This document discusses listening skills. It defines listening as accurately receiving and interpreting messages, which is key to effective communication. Good listening skills can lead to benefits like improved customer satisfaction and productivity. While hearing is a physical process, listening requires mental focus and effort to understand verbal and non-verbal messages. Research shows that people spend 45% of their communication time listening, more than any other single activity. The purpose of listening includes gaining understanding, showing interest, assessing information, and arriving at shared understanding. Barriers to effective listening include distractions, lack of interest, biases, and preconceptions. Non-verbal signs of ineffective listening include a lack of eye contact and engagement. Overcoming barriers involves preparing to listen without distractions,
Communication is an integral part of human being. Without this life couldn't be easier. Here is some skills to develop and improve your communication for better presentation.
Soft skills is a term often associated with a person's "EQ" (emotional intelligence quotient), the cluster of personality traits, social graces, communication, language, personal habits, friendliness, and optimism that characterize relationships with other people. Soft skills play a vital role for professional success
The document discusses the importance of effective communication. It states that effective communication helps avoid misunderstandings at work, allows people to express themselves, and enables deeper connections with others. It then discusses the "cone of learning" concept which suggests people are most likely to remember 90% of what they say and do, followed by 50% of what they see and hear simultaneously, and only 10% of what they only read. The document provides suggestions for applying this concept when communicating virtually. It suggests focusing on engagement over just information sharing to maximize retention and understanding.
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Preventing weight gain: around menopause women tend to experience a reduction in muscle mass and an increase in fat levels. Increasing the amount of physical exercise undertaken can help to prevent these changes.
- Travis initially found June's focus on details too early in projects discouraging and hindering brainstorming. However, workshops helped them understand when different communication styles were useful.
- Travis came to appreciate June's persistence and ability to address logistical problems and implementation details. This change revealed diverse styles strengthen teams.
- June initially saw Travis as confused and emotional, resisting workshops. They helped her value Travis's ability to involve the team and discuss big pictures, leading to more comprehensive solutions. The testimonials show how understanding different styles benefited their teamwork.
This document provides information on developing effective communication skills through functional English, conversation skills, and body language. It discusses how to interact with others, start and maintain conversations, and use appropriate body language like facial expressions, eye contact, and gestures. The document also gives tips on agreeing, disagreeing, making suggestions, offers and invitations, and handling complaints in conversations.
Hi Sally,
I wanted to touch base about the educational component for the board meeting. I really appreciated your presentation style at the last meeting - you did a great job engaging everyone. For this next topic on local economic trends, do you have any initial thoughts on how to present the information in an interesting way without getting too complicated? I'm available to discuss further over lunch this week if you have time - let me know if Thursday or Friday works for your schedule. Looking forward to your ideas!
As global leaders, we need to manage teams working in several locations and often from different cultures.
My name is Marianne Dupuis and I've been coaching since 2010, with a true passion for cross cultural topics. This derives both from my experience leading multicultural teams myself for more than 2 decades and from enjoying living abroad for about that same time too.
www.mariannedupuiscoaching.com
Counseling involves active listening skills like paraphrasing, asking open-ended questions, and using reflection. Non-verbal communication makes up 60% of messages conveyed, so counselors must be sensitive to body language cues. Effective counselors establish rapport, demonstrate patience and empathy, communicate in a non-judgmental manner, and exhibit authenticity. Counseling aims to help clients through problem solving by discussing problems and desired changes, considering solutions, deciding on a plan of action, and later evaluating changes.
This document provides guidance on developing effective presentation skills. It discusses the importance of being able to clearly express ideas to others. While subject mastery is important, the ability to engage an audience through verbal communication is also key to success. The document then offers tips for overcoming fears of public speaking and suggestions for how to prepare and structure presentations, including analyzing the audience, defining the desired call to action, and arranging arguments. It also provides guidance on using effective body language, voice techniques, and handling question and answer sessions. The overall aim is to help readers improve their presentation skills.
This is the presentation deck from UX Conference session by Ben Bowes of Pivotal Labs Singapore as a part of UXSEA Summit 2018 in Singapore. UXSEA Summit 2018 was held from 18th to 20th November, 2018. For more information about UXSEA Society, visit https://uxsea.org/
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Most people find that instead of effective
communication, they tend to bicker and this of course is not healthy
for the communication exercise neither is it good for the marriage.
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Listening is one of the most important skills you can have. How well you listen has a major impact on your job effectiveness and on the quality of your relationships with other people.
The way to improve your listening skills is to practice "active listening." This is where you make a conscious effort to hear not only the words that another person is saying but, more importantly, the complete message being communicated.
This document discusses active listening and its importance for negotiation. It defines active listening as a way of paying attention to others that makes them feel heard. The key aspects of active listening are listening without interrupting, asking open-ended questions, reflecting and paraphrasing what the other person said to confirm understanding, and summarizing discussions. Active listening is important for negotiation as it allows negotiators to understand other parties' positions and interests, identify opportunities, and show that their perspectives have been understood to facilitate problem solving.
The document discusses the importance of listening skills. It states that listening is an everyday activity that involves receiving sound waves, interpreting meanings, evaluating based on needs and expectations, and reacting to messages. Effective listening is important for gathering information, understanding different views, and establishing rapport. It also discusses how listening skills can help in decision making and both individual and group communication situations. The document also outlines some tips for improving listening, such as preparing, maintaining an open mind, concentrating, taking notes, and avoiding distractions.
The document discusses the importance of listening skills. It states that listening is an everyday activity that involves receiving sound waves, interpreting meanings, evaluating based on needs and expectations, and reacting to messages. Effective listening is important for gathering information, understanding different views, and establishing rapport. It also discusses how listening skills can help in decision making, presentations, and interactions. The document also outlines some tips for effective listening, such as preparing, keeping an open mind, concentrating, taking notes, and avoiding distractions.
Covey says most people look for quick fixes. They see a big success and want to know how he did it, believing (and hoping) they can do the same following a quick bullet list.
But real change, the author says, comes not from the outside in, but from the inside out. And the most fundamental way of changing yourself is through a paradigm shift.
That paradigm shift is a new way of looking at the world. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People presents an approach to effectiveness based on character and principles.
The first three habits indeed deal with yourself because it all starts with you. The first three habits move you from dependence from the world to the independence of making your own world.
Habits 4, 5 and 6 are about people and relationships. The will move you from independence to interdependence. Such, cooperating to achieve more than you could have by yourself.
The last habit, habit number 7, focuses on continuous growth and improvement.
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3. Law: The more rapport you build,
the stronger the connection.
Be flexible
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4. Part I: Connecting with others.
Rapport
Calibrating
Communication style
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5. Part #1: Rapport
How long to build it? Sometimes seconds and sometimes years.
How long to maintain it? With care & nurturing, forever.
How long to break it? Take seconds.
How long to repair it? Sometimes never.
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6. Communication
Verbal and nonverbal(laughing, blushing, nail-biting).
Not able to pick up these cues cause rapport to break.
Doesn’t understand a person’s style.
Instantly dislike/like a person.
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7. Part #2: Calibrating
The art of paying attention and adjusting response to what you’ve noticed.
Good calibrators can assess situation quickly.
Peoples love to have you around.
Else, your presence are annoying.
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8. Example: Serving diners at restaurant.
Two friends having dinner together are in the middle of a serious conversation.
Billy, a cheerful waiter announces with big smile, “Hi, I will your server tonight!”
Billy hasn’t noticed seriousness of air. He has failed to calibrate his styles to
theirs. Thereby, sabotages himself by failing to build rapport.
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9. Learn nonverbal cues.
Blushing Smiling Staying silent
Gasping for air Turning pale Frowning
Giggling Rapid breathing Blue lips
Laughing Pacing the floor Shallow breathing
Whispering Wringing hands Sighing
Stammering Upright posture Repeatedly
checking
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10. Part #3: Communication Style
You will learn how to identify person’s communication style.
Understand and learn to calibrate with their styles.
To establish rapport.
There are 4 types: Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic and Digital.
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11. Now, let’s assess your
communication style.
5 minutes to answer.
5 minutes to score.
(Click here to answer.)
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12. We state things in particular way.
Understanding peoples’ style
allows us to see why they receive
and communicate information the
way they do.
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13. If you are flexible enough, you
CAN build rapport.
You shall learn why you connect
well with some peoples and NOT
be connecting well with others.
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14. This is extremely important in
all areas of our life.
-Different style between spouse.
-Mom has 4 children with different styles.
-Teacher who has students with all 4 styles.
-Salesperson who has clients with all 4 styles.
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16. The Visual Communicator
See things as pictures.
Memorize by creating visual pictures in their mind.
Learn quickly.
Get bored easily when they have no plans.
Value time, so they likes things to start and end punctually.
Prefer getting the ‘big picture’ rather than the details.
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17. They use these expressions often.
Focus
Imagine
Look
See
Show
Visualize
Illustrate
Clear
Clearly
Clarify
Picture
Bright
Appear
Dull
View
Enlighten
Ah, I see what you mean.
That’s not clear enough.
Just give me a big picture.
I get the picture.
Can you clarify?
You are looking great.
See you soon.
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18. What others LIKE about Visual Style
Communicators?
They can move from one subject to another at lightning speed.
They are good at understanding the ‘big picture’ or ‘vision’ and running with it.
They are great time managers.
They are good at coming up with ‘big picture’ or ‘future vision’ ideas.
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19. What others find CHALLENGING about
Visual Style Communicators?
They become rigid and inflexible when faced with timing or scheduling
changes.
They become impatient with listening to or reading details or with others.
They tend to to skip over details.
They tend to rush others and themselves.
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20. How to build & break rapport?
Builds Rapport Break Rapport
Providing a timeline for an agenda.
Keeping meetings short
Honoring start and end times
Getting to the points quickly when
conversing.
Changing appointments without giving them
time to change plan they’ve pictured in their
mind.
Telling long stories with too many details
Holding long meetings
Arriving late for a scheduled meeting
Asking them for detailed information.
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21. What causes Visual style person to become
stressed or out of balance?
● They grow rigid and inflexible if the picture
in their head gets changed too fast or too
often.
● They become impatient with too many
words, detailed and non-stop talking.
● They become irritate if project is not done
on time/ someone late for appointment.
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22. How to help Visual Communicator get back
in balance?
● Get to the point quickly.
● Give them breaks to visualize details.
● Draw/illustrate your story.
● Arrive on time/earlier.
● Justify with concrete reasons when introducing new ideas/pictures.
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23. The Auditory Communicator
● Good storytellers
● Learn by listening and
often don’t take notes.
● Remember what they hear
-word for word
● Talk to themselves when
working/concentrating
(you can often hear them
making sounds like ahh,
hmm, ooh)
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24. They use these expressions.
Resonate
Repeat
Tune in
Buzz
Discuss
Listen
Sound
Hear
Whisper
Say
Clicking
Quiet
Talk/call/
chat
Ah, I hear what you mean.
Loud and clear, my friends.
Hey, that’s rings a bell.
It was music to my ear.
So good to talk to you.
Stay tuned.
Sounds great!
Hope to hear from you soon!
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25. What others LIKE about Auditory Style
Communicators?
They are frequently eloquent speakers.
They are “ideas” peoples. Great for brainstorming.
They love, love, love discussing and can give lengthy explanation.
Many are great writers and editors.
They are great storytellers.
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26. What others find CHALLENGING about
Auditory Style Communicators?
● They tend to be blunt, harsh, seem too direct. So, being diplomatic is a
challenge for them.
● They often interrupt and have a hard time letting other finish their
sentences.
● They tend to jump from subject to subject.
● They may fall in love with the sound of their own voice.
● They will repeat themselves until they are convinced they are being heard.
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27. How to build & break rapport with auditory
communicator?
Builds Rapport Break Rapport
Asking them about themselves.
Help them stick to the subject
Listen closely.
Repeat things back to them.
Tell them (“I hear you.”)
Doing something else while they are talking
to you.
Interrupting them too often.
Speaking with harsh tone
Audio material is poor of quality technically
or grammatically.
Background music/noise that is annoying.
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28. What causes Auditory style person to
become stress and out of balance?
● They withdraw.
● They may raise their voice if they feel unheard.
● They go from participating in a dialogue to giving a long-winded lecture.
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29. How to help Auditory Communicator regain
balance?
● Let them know you are open to their input and ideas.
● Tell them you will be their listening board for a specific period of time.
● Be a total listener. Pay attention.
● If they wander or carry too long, gently nudge them back on track.
● Help them to focus exactly what they really want.
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32. 1. Often speak slowly
2. Learn best by doing
3. Need time to feel their way via new
information.
4. May say that they feel something is either
right or wrong when they asked to make a
decision.
5. Have a tendency to take time to settle into a
new environment.
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35. “It feels right to me”
“Stay in touch.”
“I’ve got to handle that now.”
“This seems fits.”
“Let’s catch up.”
“Let’s do this together.”
“Join us.”
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36. They are very good at relationship
building.
They are extremely loyal.
They are nurturing & supportive.
They are details oriented.
They are great team players.
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37. Have difficulty to make decisions quickly.
Can get overwhelmed when presented with too many choices.
Tend to provide more details than most peoples.
Can be slow and methodical. Take time to complete task.
May be needy.
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38. 1. Allow them time for creativity, fun, play.
2. Offer fewer & simpler choices.
3. Make point in group situation so they feel included.
4. Be sensitive to their need to be comfortable.
How to build rapport with Kinesthetic
Communicator?
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39. ● Feeling excluded.
● Being interrupted or talked over.
● Overwhelming them with too many choices at once.
● Disregard their intuitive or emotional reaction or
contribution to a plan.
● Stopping the fun.
● Stifling their creativity by overanalyzing.
How to break rapport with Kinesthetic
Communicator?
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40. ● They feel hurt when they sense being left out.
● They want to withdraw or escape from the situations
both physically and emotionally.
● They avoid doing what need to be done when
overwhelmed by overanalysis and too many options and
given complicated tasks.
● They do anything to avoid conflict and tend to become
passive instead of stand up or voicing up opinions.
How do they become stressed or out of
balance?
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41. ● Ask them how you can best support them.
● Give them time alone in their own space.
● Give them guidance how to take action and keep moving
forward.
● Break complicated choices/tasks into simpler steps.
● Offer to become their “support person” and offer to do things
with them as a team.
● Listen patiently and give them a lot of time to get to the point.
How can we help them get back their
balance?
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42. ● Memorize by steps & sequences
● Process information in a methodical, rational and logical
way
● Are very detail-oriented
● Have a strong need to make sense of the world around
them
● Learn by working things out of their mind
● Need time to process new information
The Digital Communicator
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44. They use these expression
● This makes sense.
● Pay attention to.
● I know what you mean.
● Can you describe about it?
● What do you think?
● Please describe more.
● I will try to figure it out.
● Word for word
● Without a doubt.
● What are your thoughts?
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45. What others LIKE about Digital Style Communicators
● They think structurally.
● They are great strategists.
● They are excellent at sequencing and structuring tasks.
● They manage details extremely well.
● They are extremely adept at planning events, parties, or
outings.
● They see how the parts fit together to create the “big
picture.”
● They are good at solving complex problems.
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46. What others CHALLENGING about Digital Style Communicators
● They are slow to trust new people, new things and
new concepts.
● They hate being interrupted.
● They can be stubborn and like to be asked to do
something instead of being told what to do.
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47. How to build rapport with Digital Communicators?
● Create timelines with them.
● Using logic and providing facts and figures when
making decisions.
● Providing a quiet and private work environment.
● Giving them sufficient preparation.
● Showing that you trust them.
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48. How to break rapport with Digital Communicators?
● Barging into their private space.
● Presenting too many ideas and not give them time to
process details.
● Expect immediate response to questions you’ve sprung
on them while they focused on something else.
● Telling them what to do rather than giving them choices.
● Taking them for granted and forget to acknowledge them.
● Changing agenda without including them in the process.
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49. What happen when Digital Person to become stressed or out
of balance?
● When their schedules is interrupted or their routine is
disrupted, they tend to become rigid or stubborn.
● When their sense of order, or train of thought is
interrupted, they try to restore it themselves without
regard for other people’s needs or feelings.
● They can become stressed about things that might
happen sometimes in the future.
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50. How can you help Digital Style to restore balance?
● Ask them what they need to make something better.
● Give them time alone to think things through.
● Encourage them to eat, because they often forget to
eat when deeply involved in a project.
● Remind them to trust present process, and
encourage them to not worry so much about the
future.
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51. Now you can calibrate your
conversation.
“Do you see what I mean?
Does this sound right to you?
How do you feel about it?
Does it make sense?”
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52. References
Learn more about calibrating our
conversation via
Law of Connection by Michael
J. Losier.
Excellent book!
Or you can attend NLP courses out there...
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