Muslim wedding
  traditions
INTRODUCTION
Muslim wedding ceremony is celebrated with grandeur. Muslim wedding, known
as 'Nikaah' in Urdu, can take place at any convenient time, because there is
nothing like muhurat (the auspicious time) for the Muslims. Traditionally, the
Muslim wedding is held at either the bride or the groom's home. However, in the
present time, due to convenience and the availability of enough space to
accommodate the long list of guests, Muslim weddings are organized in banquet
halls, auditorium as well as community centers. Wherever the wedding is held, all
the rituals of the three phases of wedding are strictly followed by the Muslims.
Muslim wedding is divided into pre-wedding, wedding and post-wedding rituals.
Pre-wedding rituals largely involve the exchange of sweets, fruits and visits to the
bride and groom's houses. The pre-wedding rituals increase the level of
excitement among the families of the bride and groom, who keenly look forward
to the wedding day. The wedding is organized in an elegant and charming way,
while the culmination of the entire ceremony, known as post wedding rituals, is
special in its own terms. If you are keen about knowing more about Muslim
wedding, then go through our section, where we have provided detailed
information on the rituals of Muslim wedding.
PRE WEDDING
• Istikhara, Imam-Zamin and Magni
  The first phase of the pre-wedding Muslim rituals is
  known as Istikhara, wherein the religious head takes
  the approval of the Almighty to perform the wedding.
  After the consent, the groom's mother pays a visit to
  the bride's house along with sweets and Imam-
  Zamin, a silver or gold coin wrapped in silken cloth. The
  custom of tying the coin onto the upper portion of the
  bride's hand is called the Imam-Zamin ceremony. This
  is followed by Magni, which is a custom wherein the
  groom's family members pay a visit to the bride's
  house both the groom and the bride's family exchange
  sweets and fruits.
• Manjha And Mehndi
  At the Manjha ceremony, the bride wears
  yellow clothes and turmeric paste is applied
  all over her body. After the application of
  turmeric, the bride is not supposed to step
  out of the house. This is followed by Mehndi
  ceremony, which is one of the much awaited
  rituals of the Muslim wedding. Female
  relatives of the bride apply turmeric paste all
  over her body. The purpose is to make the
  bride's skin glow naturally. A professional or a
  relative applies Mehndi on the bride’s hands
  and feet.
Muslim Wedding Rituals

• Welcoming The Baraat
  To announce the arrival of groom’s baraat at
  the doorsteps of the bridal residence or
  wedding venue, the musicians play traditional
  songs. The groom and the bride’s brother
  share a drink of sherbet. The bride’s sisters
  come up with different ideas of playing pranks
  with the guests. They attempt to slap the
  guests playfully, using flower batons.
• Nikaah Ceremony
  Nikaah is the wedding ceremony that can take place at
  some convenient venue or else at the bride or groom’s
  residence. The ceremony is conducted by the Maulvi
  (priest). Close friends and relatives witness the
  happening of the event. The father of the bride and
  groom, addressed as Walis, have an important role to
  play in the performance of nikaah. The priest reads
  certain verses from the Quran. Thereafter, Ijab-e-Qubul
  (proposal and acceptance) takes place.
  The groom's side sends the proposal and the bride’s
  side gives her consent. For the legality of
  marriage, mutual consent is of prime importance. On
  the wedding day, the elderly members of both the
  families decide the amount of Mehar (nuptial gift).
  Mehar is a mandatory price that the groom’s family
  must pay to the bride.
•
    Nikaahnama
    Nikaahnama is a legal document that must be
    duly signed by the bride, bridegroom, Maulvi and
    Walis for the marriage to be legal. It contains a
    set of terms and conditions that must be abided
    by both the parties.
    Blessing The Groom
    The bridegroom seeks the blessings from the
    older women. As a mark of respect, the groom
    offers them ‘salaam’. People give their heartiest
    wishes to the newly wed.
• Dinner, Prayers and Aarsimashaf
  The guests are served a lavish dinner. Men and
  women are usually seated separately, for
  dining. After the dinner, the newly wed get
  the chance to sit together for the first time.
  The heads of the bride and groom are covered
  using dupatta. Thereafter, the newly wed read
  prayers, as per the instructions of the Maulvi.
  The Quran is placed between the bride and
  groom and they are allowed to look at each
  other only through mirrors.

Muslim wedding traditions

  • 1.
    Muslim wedding traditions
  • 2.
    INTRODUCTION Muslim wedding ceremonyis celebrated with grandeur. Muslim wedding, known as 'Nikaah' in Urdu, can take place at any convenient time, because there is nothing like muhurat (the auspicious time) for the Muslims. Traditionally, the Muslim wedding is held at either the bride or the groom's home. However, in the present time, due to convenience and the availability of enough space to accommodate the long list of guests, Muslim weddings are organized in banquet halls, auditorium as well as community centers. Wherever the wedding is held, all the rituals of the three phases of wedding are strictly followed by the Muslims. Muslim wedding is divided into pre-wedding, wedding and post-wedding rituals. Pre-wedding rituals largely involve the exchange of sweets, fruits and visits to the bride and groom's houses. The pre-wedding rituals increase the level of excitement among the families of the bride and groom, who keenly look forward to the wedding day. The wedding is organized in an elegant and charming way, while the culmination of the entire ceremony, known as post wedding rituals, is special in its own terms. If you are keen about knowing more about Muslim wedding, then go through our section, where we have provided detailed information on the rituals of Muslim wedding.
  • 3.
    PRE WEDDING • Istikhara,Imam-Zamin and Magni The first phase of the pre-wedding Muslim rituals is known as Istikhara, wherein the religious head takes the approval of the Almighty to perform the wedding. After the consent, the groom's mother pays a visit to the bride's house along with sweets and Imam- Zamin, a silver or gold coin wrapped in silken cloth. The custom of tying the coin onto the upper portion of the bride's hand is called the Imam-Zamin ceremony. This is followed by Magni, which is a custom wherein the groom's family members pay a visit to the bride's house both the groom and the bride's family exchange sweets and fruits.
  • 5.
    • Manjha AndMehndi At the Manjha ceremony, the bride wears yellow clothes and turmeric paste is applied all over her body. After the application of turmeric, the bride is not supposed to step out of the house. This is followed by Mehndi ceremony, which is one of the much awaited rituals of the Muslim wedding. Female relatives of the bride apply turmeric paste all over her body. The purpose is to make the bride's skin glow naturally. A professional or a relative applies Mehndi on the bride’s hands and feet.
  • 7.
    Muslim Wedding Rituals •Welcoming The Baraat To announce the arrival of groom’s baraat at the doorsteps of the bridal residence or wedding venue, the musicians play traditional songs. The groom and the bride’s brother share a drink of sherbet. The bride’s sisters come up with different ideas of playing pranks with the guests. They attempt to slap the guests playfully, using flower batons.
  • 8.
    • Nikaah Ceremony Nikaah is the wedding ceremony that can take place at some convenient venue or else at the bride or groom’s residence. The ceremony is conducted by the Maulvi (priest). Close friends and relatives witness the happening of the event. The father of the bride and groom, addressed as Walis, have an important role to play in the performance of nikaah. The priest reads certain verses from the Quran. Thereafter, Ijab-e-Qubul (proposal and acceptance) takes place. The groom's side sends the proposal and the bride’s side gives her consent. For the legality of marriage, mutual consent is of prime importance. On the wedding day, the elderly members of both the families decide the amount of Mehar (nuptial gift). Mehar is a mandatory price that the groom’s family must pay to the bride.
  • 9.
    Nikaahnama Nikaahnama is a legal document that must be duly signed by the bride, bridegroom, Maulvi and Walis for the marriage to be legal. It contains a set of terms and conditions that must be abided by both the parties. Blessing The Groom The bridegroom seeks the blessings from the older women. As a mark of respect, the groom offers them ‘salaam’. People give their heartiest wishes to the newly wed.
  • 11.
    • Dinner, Prayersand Aarsimashaf The guests are served a lavish dinner. Men and women are usually seated separately, for dining. After the dinner, the newly wed get the chance to sit together for the first time. The heads of the bride and groom are covered using dupatta. Thereafter, the newly wed read prayers, as per the instructions of the Maulvi. The Quran is placed between the bride and groom and they are allowed to look at each other only through mirrors.