A Comparison Study of Trust and
  Safety for Men and Women
 Immigrant Survivors of Torture


  Ashley R. Brazil, Holloway N. Marston,
    Hollis Rabin, and Tina M. Sandora
 Adler School of Professional Psychology
              Summer 2012
Safety
•   Engaging in activities that promote a sense of physical
    security (PSOC research team, 2012).
•   “A state or situation characterized by adequate control
    of physical, material, or moral threats, which
    contributes to a perception of being sheltered from
    danger” (Nilsen, Hudson, Kullberg, Timpka, Ekman &
    Lindqvist, 2004).
•   “Safety is a state in which hazards and conditions
    leading to physical, psychological or material harm are
    controlled in order to preserve the health and well-
    being of individuals and the community” (WHO, 1998).
Trust
• You cannot have trust if you do not have a sense of physical safety. (N.
  Bothne, personal communication, My 22, 2012)
• Trust entails the emotional relationship between people and involves how
  comfortable one is with influencing or being influenced by another. This
  includes a sense of reliability and reciprocity between people (Bothne, N.,
  n.d.; Tanis & Postmes, 2005).
• “Extreme situations caused by war and torture also call into question
  connections, such as kinship, friendship, and the sense of community,
  that link individuals to each other (Lifton 1988). Painful breaches of trust
  by relatives, neighbors, and friends can make it difficult for survivors to
  trust other people and to feel secure in their company (Kuoch, Miller, and
  Scully 1992; van Boemel and Roze´e 1992; Blair 2001). Moreover, because
  some categories of professionals, such as medical doctors, teachers,
  psychologists, and the police, are involved in the persecution or are
  associated with persecuting regimes, survivors are often reluctant to trust
  those same types of professionals in the country of resettlement (Stover
  and Nightingale 1985; Millett 1994).” (Behina, 2004, 28).
Methods & Participants
• 16 participants
  – 8 Men
  – 8 Women
     • All survivors of torture from countries in Africa, Latin
       America, Eastern Europe, Asia
     • 27-60 years old
• Qualitative Study
  – Semi-structured interviews
  – Grounded Theory
Safety
Country of Origin                                            United States
Men                                                          Men
-   “So first, there was Yugoslavia before the war. Our      -   “TASSC was the first place I talked about the rape of
    community (Albanian) was really persecuted by the            my daughter. I never talked about the rape of my
    Serbian community because they had all the rights            daughter in my country; I never talked about this
    and everything. They were all free, and to us it             rape. Because in my country it is a taboo. I cannot
    stopped everything—the right to school, the right            talk to even my brother or sister. I cannot talk to
    to express yourself freely, everything. So it was kind       them what has happened in my house because it is
    of a terrible time.”                                         a taboo…”
-   “…they started calling my parents house, my ex-in-       -   “The idea of community in itself is a beautiful thing,
    laws house saying, threatening them, threatening             it’s a beautiful concept. But when you live in a
    me telling me I had to leave. I felt they were               foreign country it’s completely different. You have
    following where ever I was trying to go so finally           to go by the rules of the country you live in, but it’s
    because of the pressure because of my ex-wife at             not the same as integrating like it’s your
    that time was seeking hospitality and my son was             community.”
    going from home to home with different friends           Women
    that were living up there, decided I had to leave.”      -   Interviewer: “why did you come here?”
Women                                                            Response: “because the Arab people together. then
-   “If you beat a woman in America, the police will             I don’t want to come back to Saudi Arabia because
    pick you up, but back at home you can be beating             its not free, in the United States is good is free”
    your wife, she will be screaming, if somebody            -   “I feel secured in that community because I know
    comes and you tell them, ‘don’t enter my door’, he           that when I trek out of the bus, if anybody wants to
    will go back.”                                               attack me, before I scream ‘hey, help!’ the
-   “I was in STF democrat party, and when you, when             policeman will be around, a person from the store
    they say something….the governor want to take the            will be around, people in my house will hear that
    community ** and kill you because you are not in             their mother is screaming outside and I will be
    the, their party.”                                           safe.”
Trust
Country of Origin                                                United States
Men                                                              Men
-   “Being part of the community in Congo is very different      -   “So he is explaining that’s why he’s so connected to the
    from being part of the community here, because in
    Congo it’s usually coming from a common ethnic basis,            Kovler Center, because here they really talk about it and
    whereas here it’s because they’re in a foreign country           he’s here all the time because they talk about torture
    and people get together just because they’re not in their        here and every 26 of them. Every year they have
    country.”                                                        celebration of international. Other people, they don’t
-   “My wife and children are part of my life. My brother            know about it. They’re not interested. It’s not their
    too my sister too. My friends that I share my life or
    secrets or share them a confidence. I lived with them we         problem.
    see each other all the time. That’s not like here. Here I    -   “If you are alone here it is difficult to advance because
    have to call to ask to see my friends, or to set up an           you learn about the country through your interactions
    appointment. Not in Congo, if I go to someone’s house
    we can talk they would be there.                                 and relationships from other people. When you’re in a
Women                                                                place where you do not live together like you do back in
-   “Cause our country…if you have a house, if I see you in          Congo, it is hard to do that.”
    the street, I cannot leave you in the street if you are my   Women
    family. You have a problem you take it to the family, I’ll
    share with you whatever it, is not a problem. You share      -   “TASSC is more trustful to me because I deal with them,
    together.”                                                       we discuss. I know their mind. They know mine. I tell
-   “Even if you go for the store to buy a food you                  them what I like, what I don’t like. I see their reactions. I
    remember that I have money where I need to put for the           know what they are. But with somebody I cannot
    meeting Saturday. And that money where you put for               discuss with, I cannot deal with, I cannot trust you
    the meeting, they put it together and they give for
    someone who needs it and asks for their help. You give           because I don’t know whether you are there to kill me,
    to him; then next week maybe me, I’ll have to ask for            or to wound me, or to do what thing with me or even to
    that. They put the same money, they give to you.                 leave my door open.”
                                                                 -   “I no have no family really but I pick TAASK as my
                                                                     family,* everything TAASK, if you’re sick, if you no
                                                                     have…if you’re sick, I go to the TAASK. That’s the family”
Similarities
• Trust and Safety are interrelated
• Safety is felt in the United States because of freedom and respect
  for the rights of the individual
• Difficulties with safety when coming to America
    – Communities here differ significantly from the communities in their
      country of origin
• Vital need to move away from country of origin because safety was
  threatened
• Struggle to form trusting relationships in the United States
    – Communities they live in are not likely to include people they are
      emotionally connected with
    – Miss feelings of togetherness and the sharing of resources
    – TASSC and the Kovler Center are strong supports where many feel they
      can form trusting relationships with other members and staff
• Family is a place where trust is often found
Differences
Men                                           Women
• Police decrease sense of safety             • Police presence increases
• Politics played a key role in
  perception of safety                          sense of safety in the
    – differences in political ideologies       United States
      often led to torture in their country
      of origin                               • Sharing and togetherness in
• People with differing political               a community often help
  ideologies would not be able to
  form a trusting relationship                  cultivate a feeling of trust
• When building trusting                         – Difficulties building trust in
  relationships it is important for to             the United States stem from
  have others understand their
  experiences and to disagree with                 neighbors not forming
  torture entirely                                 communities
References
• Behina, B. (2004). Trust building from the perspective of survivors of
  war and torture. Social Service Review, 26-40.
• Nilsen, P., Hudson, D. S., Kullberg, A., Timpka, T., Ekman, R., &
  Lindqvist, K. (2004). Making sense of safety. Injury Prevention,
  10(2), 71-73.
• Tanis, M., & Postmes, T. (2005). A social identity approach to trust:
  Interpersonal perception, group membership and trusting
  behaviour. European Journal of Social Psychology, 35(3), 413-424.
• Tropp, L.R., Stout, A. M., Boatswain, C., Wright, S., & Pettigrew, T. F.
  (2006). Trust and acceptance in response to references to group
  membership: Minority and majority perspectives on cross-group
  interactions. Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 36(3), 769-794.
• World Health Organization. Safety and safety promotion:
  conceptual and operational aspects. Quebec: WHO, 1998:1–20.

Multifacet Themes of Diversity

  • 1.
    A Comparison Studyof Trust and Safety for Men and Women Immigrant Survivors of Torture Ashley R. Brazil, Holloway N. Marston, Hollis Rabin, and Tina M. Sandora Adler School of Professional Psychology Summer 2012
  • 2.
    Safety • Engaging in activities that promote a sense of physical security (PSOC research team, 2012). • “A state or situation characterized by adequate control of physical, material, or moral threats, which contributes to a perception of being sheltered from danger” (Nilsen, Hudson, Kullberg, Timpka, Ekman & Lindqvist, 2004). • “Safety is a state in which hazards and conditions leading to physical, psychological or material harm are controlled in order to preserve the health and well- being of individuals and the community” (WHO, 1998).
  • 3.
    Trust • You cannothave trust if you do not have a sense of physical safety. (N. Bothne, personal communication, My 22, 2012) • Trust entails the emotional relationship between people and involves how comfortable one is with influencing or being influenced by another. This includes a sense of reliability and reciprocity between people (Bothne, N., n.d.; Tanis & Postmes, 2005). • “Extreme situations caused by war and torture also call into question connections, such as kinship, friendship, and the sense of community, that link individuals to each other (Lifton 1988). Painful breaches of trust by relatives, neighbors, and friends can make it difficult for survivors to trust other people and to feel secure in their company (Kuoch, Miller, and Scully 1992; van Boemel and Roze´e 1992; Blair 2001). Moreover, because some categories of professionals, such as medical doctors, teachers, psychologists, and the police, are involved in the persecution or are associated with persecuting regimes, survivors are often reluctant to trust those same types of professionals in the country of resettlement (Stover and Nightingale 1985; Millett 1994).” (Behina, 2004, 28).
  • 4.
    Methods & Participants •16 participants – 8 Men – 8 Women • All survivors of torture from countries in Africa, Latin America, Eastern Europe, Asia • 27-60 years old • Qualitative Study – Semi-structured interviews – Grounded Theory
  • 5.
    Safety Country of Origin United States Men Men - “So first, there was Yugoslavia before the war. Our - “TASSC was the first place I talked about the rape of community (Albanian) was really persecuted by the my daughter. I never talked about the rape of my Serbian community because they had all the rights daughter in my country; I never talked about this and everything. They were all free, and to us it rape. Because in my country it is a taboo. I cannot stopped everything—the right to school, the right talk to even my brother or sister. I cannot talk to to express yourself freely, everything. So it was kind them what has happened in my house because it is of a terrible time.” a taboo…” - “…they started calling my parents house, my ex-in- - “The idea of community in itself is a beautiful thing, laws house saying, threatening them, threatening it’s a beautiful concept. But when you live in a me telling me I had to leave. I felt they were foreign country it’s completely different. You have following where ever I was trying to go so finally to go by the rules of the country you live in, but it’s because of the pressure because of my ex-wife at not the same as integrating like it’s your that time was seeking hospitality and my son was community.” going from home to home with different friends Women that were living up there, decided I had to leave.” - Interviewer: “why did you come here?” Women Response: “because the Arab people together. then - “If you beat a woman in America, the police will I don’t want to come back to Saudi Arabia because pick you up, but back at home you can be beating its not free, in the United States is good is free” your wife, she will be screaming, if somebody - “I feel secured in that community because I know comes and you tell them, ‘don’t enter my door’, he that when I trek out of the bus, if anybody wants to will go back.” attack me, before I scream ‘hey, help!’ the - “I was in STF democrat party, and when you, when policeman will be around, a person from the store they say something….the governor want to take the will be around, people in my house will hear that community ** and kill you because you are not in their mother is screaming outside and I will be the, their party.” safe.”
  • 6.
    Trust Country of Origin United States Men Men - “Being part of the community in Congo is very different - “So he is explaining that’s why he’s so connected to the from being part of the community here, because in Congo it’s usually coming from a common ethnic basis, Kovler Center, because here they really talk about it and whereas here it’s because they’re in a foreign country he’s here all the time because they talk about torture and people get together just because they’re not in their here and every 26 of them. Every year they have country.” celebration of international. Other people, they don’t - “My wife and children are part of my life. My brother know about it. They’re not interested. It’s not their too my sister too. My friends that I share my life or secrets or share them a confidence. I lived with them we problem. see each other all the time. That’s not like here. Here I - “If you are alone here it is difficult to advance because have to call to ask to see my friends, or to set up an you learn about the country through your interactions appointment. Not in Congo, if I go to someone’s house we can talk they would be there. and relationships from other people. When you’re in a Women place where you do not live together like you do back in - “Cause our country…if you have a house, if I see you in Congo, it is hard to do that.” the street, I cannot leave you in the street if you are my Women family. You have a problem you take it to the family, I’ll share with you whatever it, is not a problem. You share - “TASSC is more trustful to me because I deal with them, together.” we discuss. I know their mind. They know mine. I tell - “Even if you go for the store to buy a food you them what I like, what I don’t like. I see their reactions. I remember that I have money where I need to put for the know what they are. But with somebody I cannot meeting Saturday. And that money where you put for discuss with, I cannot deal with, I cannot trust you the meeting, they put it together and they give for someone who needs it and asks for their help. You give because I don’t know whether you are there to kill me, to him; then next week maybe me, I’ll have to ask for or to wound me, or to do what thing with me or even to that. They put the same money, they give to you. leave my door open.” - “I no have no family really but I pick TAASK as my family,* everything TAASK, if you’re sick, if you no have…if you’re sick, I go to the TAASK. That’s the family”
  • 7.
    Similarities • Trust andSafety are interrelated • Safety is felt in the United States because of freedom and respect for the rights of the individual • Difficulties with safety when coming to America – Communities here differ significantly from the communities in their country of origin • Vital need to move away from country of origin because safety was threatened • Struggle to form trusting relationships in the United States – Communities they live in are not likely to include people they are emotionally connected with – Miss feelings of togetherness and the sharing of resources – TASSC and the Kovler Center are strong supports where many feel they can form trusting relationships with other members and staff • Family is a place where trust is often found
  • 8.
    Differences Men Women • Police decrease sense of safety • Police presence increases • Politics played a key role in perception of safety sense of safety in the – differences in political ideologies United States often led to torture in their country of origin • Sharing and togetherness in • People with differing political a community often help ideologies would not be able to form a trusting relationship cultivate a feeling of trust • When building trusting – Difficulties building trust in relationships it is important for to the United States stem from have others understand their experiences and to disagree with neighbors not forming torture entirely communities
  • 9.
    References • Behina, B.(2004). Trust building from the perspective of survivors of war and torture. Social Service Review, 26-40. • Nilsen, P., Hudson, D. S., Kullberg, A., Timpka, T., Ekman, R., & Lindqvist, K. (2004). Making sense of safety. Injury Prevention, 10(2), 71-73. • Tanis, M., & Postmes, T. (2005). A social identity approach to trust: Interpersonal perception, group membership and trusting behaviour. European Journal of Social Psychology, 35(3), 413-424. • Tropp, L.R., Stout, A. M., Boatswain, C., Wright, S., & Pettigrew, T. F. (2006). Trust and acceptance in response to references to group membership: Minority and majority perspectives on cross-group interactions. Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 36(3), 769-794. • World Health Organization. Safety and safety promotion: conceptual and operational aspects. Quebec: WHO, 1998:1–20.