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Mentoring
is a two-way street
Inda Duminica, MBA, CRHA
HR Manager - BMC Software Canada
Thanks for ConFoo 2015!
A little bit about myself…
Basic assumptions
Not an exact science…
…personal observations, experiences and anecdotes
Not a recipe…
… meant to provoke you to think further about the topic
Why mentoring?…
Let me introduce to you some of my mentorees…
Maguatte, Senegal – IT Project Manager Hoda, Iran – IT Product Manager
Marina & Joao, Brazil – Human Resources
A little bit about yourself?…
Some famous (movie) mentors…
Frequently used terms
• Mentor
• Master
• Mentee
• Mentoree
• Apprentice
• Protégé
• Student
+
Mentoring
 1:1, person-to-person relationship
 Learning through alternative means
 Experience-based; not about things you can learn from
books
 Happens during challenges/trying times
 Mentoree finds focus and strengthens inner skills
 Major gifts:
 One’s time & attention
 Feedback (a.k.a. “tough love”)
Mentoring
Why GET a mentor?
To provide a more strategic view of your career
To guide you through new professional experiences
To give you advice in confusing situations
To make you aware of your blind spots
To focus a dedicated time on yourself etc.
… to accelerate your professional trajectory…
Why BE a mentor?
Personal satisfaction from helping others get ahead
Best way to learn new things is to teach them
Expand your own horizons; meet people outside your regular circles
Position yourself as a candidate for special projects/promotions etc.
… to accelerate your professional trajectory…
Why MENTORING?
Pre-requisites for being a MENTOR
 Having reached a certain level of mastery in a certain field
 Kind and open to others; humble and available
 Ability to tailor advice to individual circumstances and
abilities
 Ability to eventually let go
 Age is not a criteria
MENTORING - Conditions for success
 Personal chemistry
 Commitment on both sides
 Defined-term relationship
 Confidentiality
 Safe zone to experiment & go out of comfort zone
 Strategic choice (of both mentors and mentorees)
… fun and valuable experience…
MENTORING - Logistics
 Agenda before every meeting
 Assignments after every meeting
 Report progress/challenges back to your mentor
 Define your own optimal rhythm: frequency of meetings,
moment in the week/day, location etc.
… fun and valuable experience…
MENTORING at your company
 Get executive buy-in
 Internal vs. external mentors (politics and confidentiality)
 If internal – should not intersect reporting lines
 On company time?
 Pairing process
 When does a mentoring relationship end?
When looking for your pair…
… daretheunusualmatching
Thanks for having me
…and…
may you find your own Yoda!

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"Mentoring is a two-way street" ConFoo 2016

  • 1. Mentoring is a two-way street Inda Duminica, MBA, CRHA HR Manager - BMC Software Canada
  • 2. Thanks for ConFoo 2015! A little bit about myself…
  • 3. Basic assumptions Not an exact science… …personal observations, experiences and anecdotes Not a recipe… … meant to provoke you to think further about the topic
  • 5. Let me introduce to you some of my mentorees… Maguatte, Senegal – IT Project Manager Hoda, Iran – IT Product Manager Marina & Joao, Brazil – Human Resources
  • 6. A little bit about yourself?…
  • 7. Some famous (movie) mentors…
  • 8. Frequently used terms • Mentor • Master • Mentee • Mentoree • Apprentice • Protégé • Student +
  • 9. Mentoring  1:1, person-to-person relationship  Learning through alternative means  Experience-based; not about things you can learn from books  Happens during challenges/trying times  Mentoree finds focus and strengthens inner skills  Major gifts:  One’s time & attention  Feedback (a.k.a. “tough love”)
  • 11. Why GET a mentor? To provide a more strategic view of your career To guide you through new professional experiences To give you advice in confusing situations To make you aware of your blind spots To focus a dedicated time on yourself etc. … to accelerate your professional trajectory…
  • 12. Why BE a mentor? Personal satisfaction from helping others get ahead Best way to learn new things is to teach them Expand your own horizons; meet people outside your regular circles Position yourself as a candidate for special projects/promotions etc. … to accelerate your professional trajectory…
  • 14. Pre-requisites for being a MENTOR  Having reached a certain level of mastery in a certain field  Kind and open to others; humble and available  Ability to tailor advice to individual circumstances and abilities  Ability to eventually let go  Age is not a criteria
  • 15. MENTORING - Conditions for success  Personal chemistry  Commitment on both sides  Defined-term relationship  Confidentiality  Safe zone to experiment & go out of comfort zone  Strategic choice (of both mentors and mentorees) … fun and valuable experience…
  • 16. MENTORING - Logistics  Agenda before every meeting  Assignments after every meeting  Report progress/challenges back to your mentor  Define your own optimal rhythm: frequency of meetings, moment in the week/day, location etc. … fun and valuable experience…
  • 17. MENTORING at your company  Get executive buy-in  Internal vs. external mentors (politics and confidentiality)  If internal – should not intersect reporting lines  On company time?  Pairing process  When does a mentoring relationship end?
  • 18. When looking for your pair… … daretheunusualmatching
  • 19. Thanks for having me …and… may you find your own Yoda!