Mentoring andCoaching:
Applying
the
Pareto
Principle
In this talk, I will:
1. Set the background / framework
2. Define / Explain the basic terms:
mentoring (coaching), Pareto
Principle
3. Explain: What a good mentor is; What
a good protegee (mentee) is
3
COACH
MENTOR
MENTEE
PROTEGEE
PARETO PRINCIPLE
Basic terms:
Odysseus, king of Ithaca, goes to fight in the Trojan
War and while he is away, he leaves the care of his
household, especially his son, Telemachus, to Mentor,
who already serves as a teacher and overseer.
Overtime, the name MENTOR has evolved into the
concept of a wise and trusted advisor/teacher that we
have today
From Homer’s “Odyssey”
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Origin of the word MENTOR
Mentor - teacher, overseer, adviser,
role model
Telemachus – son of the King of Ithaca
(young, dependent, a follower,
inexperienced)
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Origin of the word MENTOR
MENTOR ( in the context of Philippine Department of Education )
• a GABAY
• a WISE and TRUSTED person who
ACCOMPANIES the MENTEE in his/her
PROFESSIONAL JOURNEY
• a RESOURCE, a POSITIVE ROLE MODEL
for new or younger teachers in the
profession
MENTOR ( in the context of Philippine Department of Education )
• a FACILITATOR of on-going teacher
learning. This being the case, the
Mentor should be the FIRST LEARNER.
• DOES NOT serve as evaluators or
judges. Instead, they offer an insider’s
guidance and insights.
• DIAGNOSES, ASSISTS, and then
ASSESSES in view of on-going mentee
formation
- An agreement between two people sharing
experiences and expertise to help with personal and
professional growth
- An unstructured association between an experienced
person and one less experienced that assists the
mentee in extracting more value from experience
MENTORING
• Any activity in which a coach/mentor
work toward performance
improvement.
• Influencing, helping, instructing,
motivating, leading.
WHAT DOES COACHING AND
MENTORING INVOLVE?
MENTORING IS A RELATIONSHIP
• Between a leader and a follower
• A trainer and a trainee
• A mentor and a mentee (protegee)
THE ACTORS IN MENTORING
The
Actors
Characteristics Function/Responsibilities
Mentor More skilled
More experienced
Teaches, Encourages,
Counsels, Befriends, Role
Model
Protegee Less skilled
Less experienced
Teachable/Willing to learn
Humble
Able to accept feedback
Willing to “stretch” to try new
things
Able to identify goals
In this session, “mentoring” and “coaching”
will be interchangeably used
Mentor Coach
Focus Individual Progress Job Performance
Relationship Self-selecting Comes with the job
Source of
influence
Perceived value Position
Personal
returns
Affirmation/learning Teamwork/
Performance
Proximity Need not always involve
face to face contact
Must be face to face
Contact Medium to long term Can be short term
ADVISERS are supposedly
Mentors
OFFICERS are supposedly your
Mentees
LEADERS are supposedly
Mentors
PEOPLE
BELOW
YOU
are supposedly
Mentees (protegees)
FUNCTION OF LEADERSHIP
My premise in this talk:
The function of leadership is to
mentor and produce more
leaders, not mere followers
HOW TO PRODUCE MORE LEADERS?
MENTORING
WHY COACH/MENTOR?
Mentor Protegee
Enhanced self-esteem Ease transition from lower to
higher position
Increased job satisfaction Increased awareness of the
practical side of “job description”
Enhanced quality of life Increased likelihood of success
Leave a legacy Listening ear
Pass on successes Valuable direction
Become recognized Different perspective
Practice interpersonal &
management skills
Gaps filled in
• Success, Success, Success
• More informed decisions
• Fewer catastrophic mistakes
• Increased business opportunities
through success.
WHY COACH/MENTOR?
–Empower team members; allowing
them to be independent.
–Minimize impact of changes in the
workplace.
–Smooth implementation of new
processes, policies and procedures.
–Eliminate the need for formal
counseling and retraining.
WHY COACH/MENTOR?
career
success
satisfaction
WHY COACH/MENTOR?
• Failure, Failure, Failure
• Lost team members
• Lost revenues
• Lost time
• Lost confidence in your credibility by
management and other team members
THE COST OF FAILING TO
COACH/MENTOR
WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO BE A MENTOR?
• Desire
• Time
• Reality check
• Individual career development plan
CHARACTERISTICS
OF A GOOD MENTOR
• demonstrate interpersonal sensitivity,
such as empathy and active listening
• display high levels of self-confidence and
self-control and
• engage in analytical thinking to determine
underlying causes of learner behavior.
CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD COACH/MENTOR
A GOOD MENTOR
a person who
is “absolutely
credible” and
has a high
level of
integrity
A GOOD MENTOR
Listens and
responds in
ways that show
that the hearer
has been
understood
• Active listening – with
curiosity, with intuition
• Ask powerful questions
• Guides people towards
well-defined actions
A GOOD MENTOR
Encourages and
gives the protegee
confidence that
he/she can move
forward despite
inner doubts and
fears
A GOOD MENTOR
Gives honest
feedback but
without being
demeaning
A GOOD MENTOR
Interacts in ways
that are respectful
and that
encourages the
protegee to do
better and to take
risks.
A GOOD MENTOR
Is not too proud to learn from the
protegees questions and experiences.
The best mentoring is two way in
which people with different
experiences and places in life learn
from one another
A GOOD MENTOR
Has the ability to
share credit
A GOOD MENTOR
Patience
A GOOD MENTOR
Has a “Global Vision”
GLOBAL VISION
An ideal mentor understands that your
club’s programs are means to an end, not
merely processes to be followed.
A person with this kind of vision looks
ahead to the needs of the Club over the next
ten years, and considers those needs when
setting goals.
WHAT IS A GOOD MENTOR
WHAT IS A GOOD MENTOR
GLOBAL VISION
Has a view of the BSU Mission and Vision that
transcends day-to-day routine operations.
He or she looks beyond the imperatives of the
moment to consider where your club as a
whole is now, where it is headed and more
importantly, where it should be going.
Like it or not…
Leaders are supposedly
mentors
The people below you are your
mentees (protégées)
COACHING AND MENTORING
•Key principles
• Awareness and responsibility
•Skills
• Effective questioning
• Active listening
• Self-reflection
• Empathy
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The Peer Coaching Model
• Non-directive
• The teacher is the expert, not the coach
• The coach is the expert at facilitating
reflection and learning
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COACHING
A LEARNER
1. Determine the need
• can be done through
performance appraisal or by
observing performance in
the workplace;
• discuss the coaching process
with the learner and agree
on what the learning
outcomes should be.
2. Explain
• Detail what is required
clearly and logically.
3. Demonstrate
• Show the learner the
desired skill or
behaviour
• be an active role model
during the course of
your normal work
duties if appropriate.
4. Provide Practice Opportunities
• allow them
individual practise
time during work
hours and
encourage
practise in their
own time.
4. Provide Feedback
• Use constructive
comments, practical
guidance and technique
correction;
• make sure you praise the
learner for desirable
performance as well as
mentioning areas for
improvement.
1. Define the goals
2. Create an action
plan
3. Determine the
resources required
4. And measure the
results and benefits
4 STEPS TO MENTORING
1. Define the goals
• ask the mentee about their
aspirations
• Emphasize the importance
of the mentoring process
• set overarching goals
• set specific goals to fill
2. Create an Action Plan
• designing an
appropriate
structure for the
mentoring
relationship
• determining how
much formal and
informal contact
you will have from
day to day
-
2. Create an Action Plan
• Establish support
programs within your
organization for those
involved in mentoring
• build trust in the
mentee through use
of effective
interpersonal
communication
2. Create an Action Plan
• encourage the mentee
to learn from their
mistakes
• decide how best to
share your
organizational
knowledge and
expertise
• acknowledge the
mentee’s work
2. Create an Action Plan
• plan to facilitate the
learning rather than
teach them what they
should know (guide,
listen, advise)
• plan to commit the
time and effort
necessary.
3. Determine
• keeping a mentoring log to record
all contact with the mentee
• monitoring progress regularly
• comparing goals with
achievements after a set period of
time
3. Determine
• observing that desired behavior is
consistently demonstrated
• monitoring measurable
improvements in performance
4. Measure
• discuss expectations and
boundaries with the other party.
• have a clear understanding of
exactly what the relationship will
entail.
ARE YOU OBLIGATED
TO MENTOR EVERYONE
IN YOUR TEAM?
THE PARETO PRINCIPLE
PARETO PRINCIPLE
The 80/20 principle
Vilfredo Pareto 1897
found that
Wealth distribution: 80% of the land is owned
by 20% of the people
The 80/20 principle
Quality Management pioneer, Dr. Joseph Juran,
working in the US in the 1930s and 40s recognized a
universal principle he called the
"vital few and trivial many“
20% 80%
PARETO PRINCIPLE
The 80/20 principle
This means that in anything
a few (20 percent) are vital
and many(80 percent) are trivial.
PARETO PRINCIPLE
APPLICATION of
the 80/20 principle
PARETO PRINCIPLE
• 80% of your business comes from
20% of your customers,
• 80% of your happiness comes from
20% of your activities,
• 80% of your problems come from
20% of your acquaintances, etc.
PARETO PRINCIPLE
80% of crimes are committed
by 20 % of the criminals
80% of your happiness comes
from 20 % of your relationships
You wear 80% of the time
the 20 % of your clothes
PARETO PRINCIPLE
APPLICATION:
YOU GET MORE THINGS ACCOMPLISHED (80%)
FROM LESS PEOPLE
(20%)
PARETO PRINCIPLE
APPLICATION
20 percent of your club members will cause
80 percent of your problems,
Or
20 percent of your club members will provide
80 percent of your production (success).
PARETO PRINCIPLE
Application to leadership mentoring:
• Identify these 20% in your club
(Be sure they compliment your strengths.)
• They can accomplish 80% of your club’s goals)
• Then you can go ahead with the mentoring process
PARETO PRINCIPLE
How will you choose the 20% club members
(protégées) who will determine the club’s
80% work?
Take note of their characteristics.
PARETO PRINCIPLE
Receptive to feedbacks
CHARACTERISTICS OF
A GOOD PROTEGEE
Willing to assume responsibility for own
growth and development
CHARACTERISTICS OF
A GOOD PROTEGEE
Ability to perform in more than one skill
area
CHARACTERISTICS OF
A GOOD PROTEGEE
NOW, MENTORS, DO YOU AGREE
THAT ONLY A FEW POSSESS THESE
CHARACTERISTICS?
Leadership is about mentoring (produce more
leaders).
Don’t waste your time! Identify & mentor only
the vital 20%
Spend more time (80%) mentoring
this few (20%)
Succeed by spending more with less.
KEY IDEAS
If any of you lack wisdom about how to identify the
20% and to mentor them 80% of the time,
let him ask of God.
James 1: 5
KEY IDEAS
CONCLUSION
Mentoring requires that you identify
and train the 20 % potential leaders
because they will perform 80 % of the
tasks of the club/organization
Within the framework of ‘Mentoring’
and the Pareto principle:
Workshop
1. Identify all the activities you need to accomplish to make
your club /organization successful.
Workshop
2. Refine the list by identifying only 20% of the
activities that matter
Reminder:
When it comes to your priorities, 20% of your priorities will give you 80% of your
production IF you spend your time, energy, money and personnel on the top 20% of
your priorities.
Workshop
3. Assign (delegate) the people who will take
care of these priorities
Workshop
4. Assess whether these people you assigned possess
the characteristics of a good protégée

Mentoring, applying the paretto principle.pptx

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    In this talk,I will: 1. Set the background / framework 2. Define / Explain the basic terms: mentoring (coaching), Pareto Principle 3. Explain: What a good mentor is; What a good protegee (mentee) is 3
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    Odysseus, king ofIthaca, goes to fight in the Trojan War and while he is away, he leaves the care of his household, especially his son, Telemachus, to Mentor, who already serves as a teacher and overseer. Overtime, the name MENTOR has evolved into the concept of a wise and trusted advisor/teacher that we have today From Homer’s “Odyssey” 3 Origin of the word MENTOR
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    Mentor - teacher,overseer, adviser, role model Telemachus – son of the King of Ithaca (young, dependent, a follower, inexperienced) 3 Origin of the word MENTOR
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    MENTOR ( inthe context of Philippine Department of Education ) • a GABAY • a WISE and TRUSTED person who ACCOMPANIES the MENTEE in his/her PROFESSIONAL JOURNEY • a RESOURCE, a POSITIVE ROLE MODEL for new or younger teachers in the profession
  • 7.
    MENTOR ( inthe context of Philippine Department of Education ) • a FACILITATOR of on-going teacher learning. This being the case, the Mentor should be the FIRST LEARNER. • DOES NOT serve as evaluators or judges. Instead, they offer an insider’s guidance and insights. • DIAGNOSES, ASSISTS, and then ASSESSES in view of on-going mentee formation
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    - An agreementbetween two people sharing experiences and expertise to help with personal and professional growth - An unstructured association between an experienced person and one less experienced that assists the mentee in extracting more value from experience MENTORING
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    • Any activityin which a coach/mentor work toward performance improvement. • Influencing, helping, instructing, motivating, leading. WHAT DOES COACHING AND MENTORING INVOLVE?
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    MENTORING IS ARELATIONSHIP • Between a leader and a follower • A trainer and a trainee • A mentor and a mentee (protegee)
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    THE ACTORS INMENTORING The Actors Characteristics Function/Responsibilities Mentor More skilled More experienced Teaches, Encourages, Counsels, Befriends, Role Model Protegee Less skilled Less experienced Teachable/Willing to learn Humble Able to accept feedback Willing to “stretch” to try new things Able to identify goals
  • 13.
    In this session,“mentoring” and “coaching” will be interchangeably used Mentor Coach Focus Individual Progress Job Performance Relationship Self-selecting Comes with the job Source of influence Perceived value Position Personal returns Affirmation/learning Teamwork/ Performance Proximity Need not always involve face to face contact Must be face to face Contact Medium to long term Can be short term
  • 14.
    ADVISERS are supposedly Mentors OFFICERSare supposedly your Mentees
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    FUNCTION OF LEADERSHIP Mypremise in this talk: The function of leadership is to mentor and produce more leaders, not mere followers
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    HOW TO PRODUCEMORE LEADERS? MENTORING
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    WHY COACH/MENTOR? Mentor Protegee Enhancedself-esteem Ease transition from lower to higher position Increased job satisfaction Increased awareness of the practical side of “job description” Enhanced quality of life Increased likelihood of success Leave a legacy Listening ear Pass on successes Valuable direction Become recognized Different perspective Practice interpersonal & management skills Gaps filled in
  • 19.
    • Success, Success,Success • More informed decisions • Fewer catastrophic mistakes • Increased business opportunities through success. WHY COACH/MENTOR?
  • 20.
    –Empower team members;allowing them to be independent. –Minimize impact of changes in the workplace. –Smooth implementation of new processes, policies and procedures. –Eliminate the need for formal counseling and retraining. WHY COACH/MENTOR?
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    • Failure, Failure,Failure • Lost team members • Lost revenues • Lost time • Lost confidence in your credibility by management and other team members THE COST OF FAILING TO COACH/MENTOR
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    WHAT DOES ITTAKE TO BE A MENTOR? • Desire • Time • Reality check • Individual career development plan
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    • demonstrate interpersonalsensitivity, such as empathy and active listening • display high levels of self-confidence and self-control and • engage in analytical thinking to determine underlying causes of learner behavior. CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD COACH/MENTOR
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    A GOOD MENTOR aperson who is “absolutely credible” and has a high level of integrity
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    A GOOD MENTOR Listensand responds in ways that show that the hearer has been understood • Active listening – with curiosity, with intuition • Ask powerful questions • Guides people towards well-defined actions
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    A GOOD MENTOR Encouragesand gives the protegee confidence that he/she can move forward despite inner doubts and fears
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    A GOOD MENTOR Giveshonest feedback but without being demeaning
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    A GOOD MENTOR Interactsin ways that are respectful and that encourages the protegee to do better and to take risks.
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    A GOOD MENTOR Isnot too proud to learn from the protegees questions and experiences. The best mentoring is two way in which people with different experiences and places in life learn from one another
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    A GOOD MENTOR Hasthe ability to share credit
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    A GOOD MENTOR Hasa “Global Vision”
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    GLOBAL VISION An idealmentor understands that your club’s programs are means to an end, not merely processes to be followed. A person with this kind of vision looks ahead to the needs of the Club over the next ten years, and considers those needs when setting goals. WHAT IS A GOOD MENTOR
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    WHAT IS AGOOD MENTOR GLOBAL VISION Has a view of the BSU Mission and Vision that transcends day-to-day routine operations. He or she looks beyond the imperatives of the moment to consider where your club as a whole is now, where it is headed and more importantly, where it should be going.
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    Like it ornot… Leaders are supposedly mentors The people below you are your mentees (protégées)
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    COACHING AND MENTORING •Keyprinciples • Awareness and responsibility •Skills • Effective questioning • Active listening • Self-reflection • Empathy 7
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    The Peer CoachingModel • Non-directive • The teacher is the expert, not the coach • The coach is the expert at facilitating reflection and learning 9
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    1. Determine theneed • can be done through performance appraisal or by observing performance in the workplace; • discuss the coaching process with the learner and agree on what the learning outcomes should be.
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    2. Explain • Detailwhat is required clearly and logically.
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    3. Demonstrate • Showthe learner the desired skill or behaviour • be an active role model during the course of your normal work duties if appropriate.
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    4. Provide PracticeOpportunities • allow them individual practise time during work hours and encourage practise in their own time.
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    4. Provide Feedback •Use constructive comments, practical guidance and technique correction; • make sure you praise the learner for desirable performance as well as mentioning areas for improvement.
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    1. Define thegoals 2. Create an action plan 3. Determine the resources required 4. And measure the results and benefits 4 STEPS TO MENTORING
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    1. Define thegoals • ask the mentee about their aspirations • Emphasize the importance of the mentoring process • set overarching goals • set specific goals to fill
  • 48.
    2. Create anAction Plan • designing an appropriate structure for the mentoring relationship • determining how much formal and informal contact you will have from day to day -
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    2. Create anAction Plan • Establish support programs within your organization for those involved in mentoring • build trust in the mentee through use of effective interpersonal communication
  • 50.
    2. Create anAction Plan • encourage the mentee to learn from their mistakes • decide how best to share your organizational knowledge and expertise • acknowledge the mentee’s work
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    2. Create anAction Plan • plan to facilitate the learning rather than teach them what they should know (guide, listen, advise) • plan to commit the time and effort necessary.
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    3. Determine • keepinga mentoring log to record all contact with the mentee • monitoring progress regularly • comparing goals with achievements after a set period of time
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    3. Determine • observingthat desired behavior is consistently demonstrated • monitoring measurable improvements in performance
  • 54.
    4. Measure • discussexpectations and boundaries with the other party. • have a clear understanding of exactly what the relationship will entail.
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    ARE YOU OBLIGATED TOMENTOR EVERYONE IN YOUR TEAM?
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    PARETO PRINCIPLE The 80/20principle Vilfredo Pareto 1897 found that Wealth distribution: 80% of the land is owned by 20% of the people
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    The 80/20 principle QualityManagement pioneer, Dr. Joseph Juran, working in the US in the 1930s and 40s recognized a universal principle he called the "vital few and trivial many“ 20% 80% PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    The 80/20 principle Thismeans that in anything a few (20 percent) are vital and many(80 percent) are trivial. PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    APPLICATION of the 80/20principle PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    • 80% ofyour business comes from 20% of your customers, • 80% of your happiness comes from 20% of your activities, • 80% of your problems come from 20% of your acquaintances, etc. PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    80% of crimesare committed by 20 % of the criminals 80% of your happiness comes from 20 % of your relationships You wear 80% of the time the 20 % of your clothes PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    APPLICATION: YOU GET MORETHINGS ACCOMPLISHED (80%) FROM LESS PEOPLE (20%) PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    APPLICATION 20 percent ofyour club members will cause 80 percent of your problems, Or 20 percent of your club members will provide 80 percent of your production (success). PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    Application to leadershipmentoring: • Identify these 20% in your club (Be sure they compliment your strengths.) • They can accomplish 80% of your club’s goals) • Then you can go ahead with the mentoring process PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    How will youchoose the 20% club members (protégées) who will determine the club’s 80% work? Take note of their characteristics. PARETO PRINCIPLE
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    Willing to assumeresponsibility for own growth and development CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD PROTEGEE
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    Ability to performin more than one skill area CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD PROTEGEE
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    NOW, MENTORS, DOYOU AGREE THAT ONLY A FEW POSSESS THESE CHARACTERISTICS?
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    Leadership is aboutmentoring (produce more leaders). Don’t waste your time! Identify & mentor only the vital 20% Spend more time (80%) mentoring this few (20%) Succeed by spending more with less. KEY IDEAS
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    If any ofyou lack wisdom about how to identify the 20% and to mentor them 80% of the time, let him ask of God. James 1: 5 KEY IDEAS
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    Mentoring requires thatyou identify and train the 20 % potential leaders because they will perform 80 % of the tasks of the club/organization Within the framework of ‘Mentoring’ and the Pareto principle:
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    Workshop 1. Identify allthe activities you need to accomplish to make your club /organization successful.
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    Workshop 2. Refine thelist by identifying only 20% of the activities that matter Reminder: When it comes to your priorities, 20% of your priorities will give you 80% of your production IF you spend your time, energy, money and personnel on the top 20% of your priorities.
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    Workshop 3. Assign (delegate)the people who will take care of these priorities
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    Workshop 4. Assess whetherthese people you assigned possess the characteristics of a good protégée

Editor's Notes

  • #23 Most importantly, mentors need to have the desire to share what they have learned during their careers with their partner (the mentee). Mentors must be willing to spend time with the mentee to develop a good working relationship that is trusting and honest. Nothing worthwhile is ever free. How much time does it take? >>> How much time does it take to be a friend? Good mentors will offer a “reality check” when necessary. It takes time and experience to develop an unerring sense of what is realistic -- in terms of, say, how many credits are enough; how much time is needed for “x”. In a career position, the mentor would help the mentee to develop an Individual Career Development Plan. In an undergraduate academic setting, such a plan is likely to be less formal. The gist here is for the student to understand and appreciate the short term actions that lead to a long term goal. >>> Why do I take calculus? Or thermodynamics? Or statistics?