The document discusses the roles of husbands and wives in marriage based on biblical passages. It states that while men and women are equally created in God's image, they are meant to fulfill complementary roles. The husband's role is described as headship, which involves servant leadership, taking primary responsibility for the family, and loving his wife as Christ loved the church. The wife's role is described as submission to her husband's loving leadership. The goal of these distinct roles is to reflect the relationship between Christ and the church.
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1. To love one another is a commandment – it is not optional!!!
2. Loving one another is of great importance to God and should be to us.
3. To love one another may take some work on our part.
4. If I am truly concerned about my eternal destiny, I will honor my Lord’s request.
5. We are motivated to love one another because of the great love that has been and is bestowed on us.
“Being used by God
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Overcoming Strongholds is another struggle Christians go through as they are entangled to the pleasures of the world. Satan brings lies about themselves, about others and about God. Believeing these lies create a stronghold and reinforcing the lie leads them away from God. Real freedom includes overcoming the strongholds in our spiritual life. Be Blessed!
John 13:34-35. Love One Another. I. WHAT JESUS TAUGHT ABOUT “LOVING ONE ANOTHER” II. WHAT PETER TAUGHT ABOUT “LOVING ONE ANOTHER” III. WHAT PAUL TAUGHT ABOUT “LOVING ONE ANOTHER” IV. WHAT JOHN TAUGHT ON “LOVING ONE ANOTHER”
1. To love one another is a commandment – it is not optional!!!
2. Loving one another is of great importance to God and should be to us.
3. To love one another may take some work on our part.
4. If I am truly concerned about my eternal destiny, I will honor my Lord’s request.
5. We are motivated to love one another because of the great love that has been and is bestowed on us.
“Being used by God
is not confined to pastors, preachers or teachers. Anybody can be an instrument
in God's hands.”
God can use anybody, believer or nonbeliever.
The fruit of the spirit is joy. Paul’s letter tto the Philippians teaches us that real joy is not dependent on our circumstances, but on being in a right relationship with our Lord Jesus and with our brothers and sisters in Christ.
Some notes from recent teaching sessions - they are aimed at giving more of a background / preparatory idea about how a person might move into a position to be "anointed" by God.
A happy wife makes a happy life.
Marriage is a give and give and give and give, sing it with me, relationship.
A successful, godly marriage is not based upon the issue as long as both shall live but as long as both shall give.
Marriage is empowered by the grace of God and sustained by the love of God.
Marriage is probably one of the greatest opportunities to experience the goodness and grace of God in your own personal life and to experience love for each other.
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1. Marriage ( 4 )
Husband’s Role
Slides by: Timothy Chan, based on
John Piper’s “This Momentary Marriage”
& Tim Keller’s “The Meaning of Marriage”
2. Discussion Question
❖ (Q) In your experience or opinion, name one
essential difference between the role of a husband
vs. the role of a wife.
3. Newsflash: “Genderless Marriage”
❖ Since 2010, when Prop 8 was overturned, marriage
in California has been redefined as “genderless.”
❖ “The evidence shows that the movement of
marriage away from a gendered institution and
toward an institution free from state-mandated
gender roles reflects an evolution in the
understanding of gender rather than a change in
marriage. ...... The exclusion [of same-sex married
couples] exists as an artifact of a time when the
genders were seen as having distinct roles in society
and in marriage. That time has passed.” (U.S.
District Judge Vaughn Walker, Aug 4, 2010)
4. The Beginning
❖ (Gen 1:27-28) So God created man in his own
image,in the image of God he created him; male and
female he created them. And God blessed them.
And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and
fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over
the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens
and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”
❖ Our maleness or femaleness is in our essence.
❖ Men and women are equally made in the image of
God, equally blessed, and equally given the
mandate to have dominion over the earth.
5. The Beginning
❖ (Gen 2:18) Then the LORD God said, “It is not good
that the man should be alone; I will make him a
helper fit for him.”
❖ (Gen 2:22-23) And the rib that the LORD God had
taken from the man he made into a woman and
brought her to the man. Then the man said, “This at
last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she
shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of
Man.”
6. The Beginning
❖ (Gen 2:24) Therefore a man shall leave his father and
his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall
become one flesh.
❖ “The entire narrative of Genesis 2, in which a
piece of the man is removed to create the woman,
strongly implies that each is incomplete without
the other.” (Tim Keller)
7. Ephesians 5:18b-33
❖ (Eph 5:18b-21) But be filled with the Spirit,
addressing one another in psalms and hymns and
spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the
Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for
everything to God the Father in the name of our
Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of
reverence for Christ.
8. Ephesians 5:18b-33
❖ (Eph 5:22-27) Wives, submit to your own husbands,
as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the
wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his
body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church
submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in
everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your
wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself
up for her, that he might sanctify her, having
cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
so that he might present the church to himself in
splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing,
that she might be holy and without blemish.
9. Ephesians 5:18b-33
❖ (Eph 5:28-30) In the same way husbands should love
their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his
wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own
flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ
does the church, because we are members of his
body.
10. Ephesians 5:18b-33
❖ (Eph 5:31-33) “Therefore a man shall leave his father
and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two
shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound,
and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the
church. However, let each one of you love his wife as
himself, and let the wife see that she respects her
husband.
11. Mystery
❖ (Eph 5:31-32a) “Therefore a man shall leave his father
and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two
shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound ...
❖ When the Bible uses the word “mystery,” it
doesn’t refer to something unknowable.
❖ Rather, it refers to a hidden purpose of God that
God now chooses to reveal for our understanding
and enjoyment.
❖ The mystery of marriage is that it is a reflection of
the relationship between Christ and the church.
The husband’s (and wife’s) roles are to be seen as a
purpose to mirror this relationship.
12. Mutual Submission
❖ (Eph 5:18b-21) But be filled with the Spirit ......
submitting to one another out of reverence for
Christ.
❖ Mutual submission, and mutual service, is an
effect of being filled with the Spirit.
❖ Some “egalitarians” choose to stop at 5:21 without
distinguishing the role between husband and wife.
❖ Rather, after declaring mutual submission in 5:21,
Paul devotes the following twelve verses to unfold
the different ways a husband and a wife should
serve each other.
13. Mutual Submission
❖ (Eph 5:22-23) Wives, submit to your own husbands,
as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the
wife even as Christ is the head of the church ...
❖ Husbands are uniquely called to “headship”.
❖ Wives are uniquely called to submit to the
husband’s headship.
❖ Remember: both headship and submission are
“servant roles,” just different ways of serving.
❖ “There is nothing ugly or undesirable in these
distinctions of headship and submission when
they’re seen in the light of the gospel of
grace.” (John Piper)
14. Headship
❖ (Eph 5:23) For the husband is the head of the wife
even as Christ is the head of the church, his body,
and is himself its Savior.
❖ “Headship” essentially means “leadership.”
❖ (Q) Does this mean the husband makes all the
decisions?
❖ The Bible does not teach male domination.
❖ (Q) So what should a husband’s headship be like?
15. 1. Headship = Servant Leadership
❖ (Eph 5:21,23) ... submitting to one another out of
reverence for Christ ... For the husband is the head
of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church,
his body, and is himself its Savior.
❖ Since the husband’s headship is his unique
position of service, his leadership is characterized
as “servant leadership,” just like Jesus’ leadership.
16. 1. Headship = Servant Leadership
❖ What was Jesus’ leadership like?
❖ (Matt 20:28) Even as the Son of Man came not to
be served but to serve, and to give his life as a
ransom for many.
❖ (Rom 15:2-3a) Let each of us please his neighbor
for his good, to build him up. For Christ did not
please himself ...
❖ Also read this: Christ washing disciples’ feet in
John 13:12-15.
17. 1. Headship = Servant Leadership
❖ Unfortunately, some men think their “headship”
entitles them to do whatever they please.
❖ “Jesus redefined all authority as servant-authority.
Any exercise of power can only be done in service
to the Other, not to please oneself.” (Tim Keller)
❖ (Eph 5:25) Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved
the church and gave himself up for her
❖ “You cannot lead like Jesus without encountering
suffering and sacrifice. His supreme act of
leadership was laying down His life.” (Trevin Wax)
18. 2. Headship = Primary Responsibility
❖ (Eph 5:29) For no one ever hated his own flesh, but
nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the
church
❖ “Headship is not a right to control or to abuse or
to neglect. ... Rather, it’s the responsibility to love
like Christ in leading and protecting and providing
for our wives and families.” (John Piper)
❖ “The role of headship is only done for purposes of
ministering to your wife and family.” (Tim Keller)
19. 2. Headship = Primary Responsibility
❖ Primary responsibility also means:
❖ When necessary, take the initiative to provide for
and protect your family, spiritually and physically.
❖ E.g. take the lead to organize family prayer and
devotions, to instruct the children, to break the
ice when resolving conflicts, etc.
❖ Wives are frustrated when men do not take
initiative.
❖ (Q) How can you improve in taking initiative?
❖ Seek your wife’s opinions and value her inputs (it’s
“primary” responsibility, not “sole” responsibility).
20. 3. Headship = Loving Leadership
❖ (Eph 5:23,25) For the husband is the head of the wife
even as Christ is the head of the church ...
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the
church and gave himself up for her ...
❖ The husband should lead with acts of love.
❖ However, “love” is hard for men:
❖ We men have few role models, let alone ones
who show us what a loving husband is like.
❖ Men feel competent with jobs, sports,
mechanical things, studying of facts, and we
devote our recreation hours on these “safer”
subjects. But “love” is hard to grasp.
21. 3. Headship = Loving Leadership
❖ Solution: learn from Christ, the “Perfect Husband.”
❖ “The task is too great for sinful, weak human
beings. ... It is only as the Spirit of God works in
your life that you begin to approximate the Lord’s
loving leadership over his Church. Yet you must
aspire to nothing less in your relationship to your
wife. You must emulate him in all your ways. To be
like Jesus Christ in relationship to your wife is an
enormous order to fill.” (Jay Adams)
❖ “While human men cannot match the degree of love
Jesus displays, they are to love in the same
manner.” (Alistair Begg)
22. Exercise for Husbands
❖ Slowly and honestly read through 1 Cor. 13:4-7 while
substituting your name for the word “love.”
❖ (Q) Which attributes of love seem foreign (in
regard to your relationship with your wife) when
your name is inserted?
❖ (Q) In what ways might the Lord be calling you to
change?
23. Summary of Study #4
❖ Genesis 1 & 2: male and female were created equally
in the image of God, yet men and women are
complementary and incomplete without each other.
❖ Eph 5: God reveals the mystery that marriage is
meant to be a reflection of Christ and the Church.
❖ Headship (husband’s role) and submission (wife’s
role) are different ways of serving each other.
❖ Headship = leadership, but not male domination. It
is a responsibility, not a right.
❖ It is characterized by (a) sacrificial servant leadership
(b) taking primary responsibility and initiative (c)
loving your wife as Christ loves the Church.