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Making Sound Choices during
  Coaching Conversations
  Renée Barnow and Michelle Kunz


             ICF Metro DC
            October 15, 2009
Learning Objectives
• Gain deeper awareness of affect words have
  on behavior
• Experience effects through demonstrations
  and exercises via three learning styles
• Have fun
Attention-Clarity-Choice Model

                     Where our
                     attention goes,
                     energy flows
                     and the
                     brain grows.
                           Daniel Siegel, MD
Body as Tuning Fork
  Centering Exercise
Power Words Demo
• To




• With
Power Words Group Exercise
• Intend




• Will
Swing Words and Phrases—Group
           Exercise 1

• Not Bad



• Pretty Good
Swing Words and Phrases—Group
          Exercise 2
Apart/A Part Model
• Essential element is space
  – Visual
     • Howcanyoumakemeaningfromthewordswrittensoclose
       lytogetherwithoutspacebetweenthewordsinonelong
       sentencethatrunstogetherwithoutanyspaceinbetween
  – Auditory
Apart/A Part Model—Stuck
– Kinesthetic/Physical/Movement
Apart/A Part Model—Free
– Kinesthetic/Physical/Movement
Contacts and Resources
• Renée Barnow
  – renee@right-line.com
  – 202.363.4548


• Michelle Kunz
  – michelle@pelcoaching.com
  – 703.272.7542

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