I’m Trying to Relax – But It’s Not Working!
Irene Cauwels!
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor!
Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist!
Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor!
National Certified Counselor
I can’t Relax!
•  “Workplace stress is as
bad for your heart as
smoking and cholesteral
JAMA
•  43% of Adults have
High Stress Impacting
Health
Warning Signs
  Forgetfulness
  Difficulty Making
Decisions
  Irritability
  Headaches
  Sleep Difficulties
  Back/Neck Pain
Warning Signs
  Feeling Empty
  Critical, Cynical
  Unforgiving
  Need to Prove Self
Other Warning Signs
  TV Numbing
  Carbohydrate/
Sugar Cravings
  Substances
  Careless Driving
What Happens to Your Body?
  Decreased Immunity
  High Blood Pressure
  GERD, IBS
  Coronary Artery Disease
  Ulcers
  Chronic Illnesses
Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers!
•  Body reacts to stress with
FIGHT, FLIGHT or
FREEZE
•  Have to move the stress
hormones out of your body
•  Shake it out of your body
•  “Why Zebras Don’t Get
Ulcers” Robert Sapolsky
You CAN learn to relax!
Demonstrable Effects on
Brain and Immune
System
From Richard
Davidson,
University of
Wisconsin
• Visualization
• Connect With Your Heart Exercise
• Gratitude
• Proper Breathing
• Mindfulness, Meditation, Prayer
• Self-Hypnosis
Visualization - Your Brain CAN NOT
Tell the difference between What is Real
and What is Imagined
Simple
*Center of Chest - Heart Energy Area
*Simple doesn’t always mean Easy
*Imagine breathing in and out of
this area - opening like a flower and
expanding
*Gratitude, Appreciation,
Happiness as you breathe in and out
*Hand on Center of Chest - Heart
Energy Area
From Heartmath.org
Focused Breath
  Breath Connects With Soul
  Abdominal Breathing
  Deep Breathing
  In Nose/ Out Mouth
  Inhale Energy/ Exhale
Stress
Minfulness vs Reaction
  Mind can think about past,
present, and future
  Helps us Learn
  Hurts us by taking out of
the present moment
Mindfulness Meditation
  Learn to Focus Attention
  “Paying attention, in a
particular way; on purpose,
in the present moment and
non-judgmentally.” Jon
Kabat-Zinn
Meditation and Prayer
  Can be part of spiritual
practice
  Set an intention
  Ask for Guidance
  Repeat name, sound, word
  “Ah” is sound of creation
  “Ohm” is also sound of
creation
Self-Hypnosis
  Natural State of Trance
  You do this all the time -
reading, driving,
  Intentional instead of
accidental
  You are in TOTAL
CONTROL
Self-Hypnosis
  3 Deep Breaths
  Count down
  Visualize
  Count back up
“Our deepest fear is not
that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that
we are powerful beyond
measure.”

I'm Trying To Relax But It's Not Working

  • 1.
    I’m Trying toRelax – But It’s Not Working! Irene Cauwels! Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor! Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist! Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor! National Certified Counselor
  • 2.
    I can’t Relax! • “Workplace stress is as bad for your heart as smoking and cholesteral JAMA •  43% of Adults have High Stress Impacting Health
  • 3.
    Warning Signs   Forgetfulness  Difficulty Making Decisions   Irritability   Headaches   Sleep Difficulties   Back/Neck Pain
  • 4.
    Warning Signs   FeelingEmpty   Critical, Cynical   Unforgiving   Need to Prove Self
  • 5.
    Other Warning Signs  TV Numbing   Carbohydrate/ Sugar Cravings   Substances   Careless Driving
  • 6.
    What Happens toYour Body?   Decreased Immunity   High Blood Pressure   GERD, IBS   Coronary Artery Disease   Ulcers   Chronic Illnesses
  • 7.
    Zebras Don’t GetUlcers! •  Body reacts to stress with FIGHT, FLIGHT or FREEZE •  Have to move the stress hormones out of your body •  Shake it out of your body •  “Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers” Robert Sapolsky
  • 8.
    You CAN learnto relax!
  • 9.
    Demonstrable Effects on Brainand Immune System From Richard Davidson, University of Wisconsin
  • 10.
    • Visualization • Connect With YourHeart Exercise • Gratitude • Proper Breathing • Mindfulness, Meditation, Prayer • Self-Hypnosis
  • 11.
    Visualization - YourBrain CAN NOT Tell the difference between What is Real and What is Imagined
  • 12.
    Simple *Center of Chest- Heart Energy Area *Simple doesn’t always mean Easy *Imagine breathing in and out of this area - opening like a flower and expanding *Gratitude, Appreciation, Happiness as you breathe in and out *Hand on Center of Chest - Heart Energy Area
  • 13.
  • 14.
    Focused Breath   BreathConnects With Soul   Abdominal Breathing   Deep Breathing   In Nose/ Out Mouth   Inhale Energy/ Exhale Stress
  • 15.
    Minfulness vs Reaction  Mind can think about past, present, and future   Helps us Learn   Hurts us by taking out of the present moment
  • 16.
    Mindfulness Meditation   Learnto Focus Attention   “Paying attention, in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment and non-judgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn
  • 17.
    Meditation and Prayer  Can be part of spiritual practice   Set an intention   Ask for Guidance   Repeat name, sound, word   “Ah” is sound of creation   “Ohm” is also sound of creation
  • 18.
    Self-Hypnosis   Natural Stateof Trance   You do this all the time - reading, driving,   Intentional instead of accidental   You are in TOTAL CONTROL
  • 19.
    Self-Hypnosis   3 DeepBreaths   Count down   Visualize   Count back up
  • 20.
    “Our deepest fearis not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.”