June 2021 newsletter

1. FAMILIES & FRIENDS OF
MURDER VICTIMS, Inc.
(FFMV)
Newsletter JUNE 2021
Thank-you:
*Carol Anderson – Website
*Kaiser – Oakland
*Christ The Redeemer Catholic Church
Grand Terrace
*First United Methodist Church of La Puente
* Linda Rodriguez – Mother of Angel - Memory Cards
*Janet Garcia Facebook administrators
* Ellie Rossi – Mother of David and Lisa
ALL FFMV Chapter Meetings are
cancelled until further notice, due to
COVID-19
Please stay safe and healthy so that we
can continue on with our fight for the
rights of victims and their families and
friends.
In Loving Memory
Jesus D. Calderon
12/8/60 – 1-11-11
FATHER’S DAY
Warm and sunny day in June,
Father’s Day,
Children, small and grown,
Give gifts to father
Say thanks to father,
Say I love you.
But there are fathers
Whose children are not here
To give gifts and say thanks
And I love you.
Remember the fathers
Whose children are gone,
Because they will always be
Fathers at heart.
Need Someone to Talk To?
* Bertha Flores - Parent - Spanish speaking
(909) 200-5499 (after 3pm)
*Rose Madsen – Parent (909) 798-4803 (after 4pm)
Redlands CA
*Donna Lozano - Parent – 760-660-9054
* Palm Springs/Coachella Valley 10am-9pm
*Linda Rodriguez -Parent – 951-369-0010-Home –
951-732-3255 - Riverside
* Ellie Rossi - Parent - 909-810-8133 Yucaipa CA
* Richard McVoy – Adult Sibling –
909-503-5456 – Grand Terrace CA
* Tanya Powell - Parent – 760-596-2292-
Families & Friends of Murder Victims:
A non-profit organization
Dedicated to providing information, support, and
friendship to persons who have experienced the
death of a loved one through the violent act of
murder
Share Sorrow…..
Share Strength
Mission: To restore a sense of hope and to
provide a pathway to well-being to those who
have lost a loved one to murder and to those who
are victims of attempted murder.
Love Gifts
Love gifts are a specific tax deductible donation made
to the memory of a loved one’s birthday, anniversary
of a death, holiday, or just because which are posted
in newsletter. They are also made by caring
professionals, organizations to help in the work that
FFMV does with victims/survivors. These gifts help
with the expenses incurred in reaching out to others
and operating expenses. When making out a check,
please make payable to FFMV and note Love Gift on
check or envelope.
Love Gifts can be mailed to FFMV-
P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. - 92423-1222
Grief is like an old fashioned set of scales. In
early grief a great load sits on one end. It
stays there laden down with the weight of
our pain. Then it shifts a little, it moves and a
piece gets knocked off. It becomes lighter as
we take the time to work through the pain of
our grief. As we find new and different ways
to keep our loved one a part of our life it gets
lighter again. The scales tip more. We begin
to balance our pain with ease, with small
moments in our everyday life that will
balance us a little bit more, even if it takes
much for us to find them. The scales tip this
way and that, as our grief tips this way and
that........ (Stepping through Grief)

2. FFMV Fundraisers
Office Depot - Staples – Office Max
If you shop at Office Depot or Staples please
use FFMV’s Rewards Number for Office Depot
which is 1139461170 Office Max – 650756207,
Staples- or use just give them 909-798-4803
for all three. We get reward points that help
defray the cost of printing, ink cartridges and
office supplies.
PLEASE….Don‘t throw away your old ink
cartridges! Continue to bring them to us, or take
them to Office Max, Staples or Office Depot and
give them 909-798-4803
It’s an easy way to help
FFMV purchase office supplies.
People don’t always see the tears a dad cries,
his heart is broken too when his child dies. He
tries to hold it together and be strong even
though his world’s has gone wrong, he holds his
wife as her tears fall, comforts her through it all
he goes through his day doing what he is
supposed to do. But a piece of his heart has
been ripped away too. So when he’s is alone he
lets out his pain and his tears come falling like
rain His world has crashed in around him And a
world that was once bright has gone dim. He
has to be strong for others. But Dad’s hurt to,
not just the mothers. He searches for answers,
but none are to be found. He hides behind a
mask when he is falling down, He smiles
through his tears. He struggles and holds in his
fears. But what you see on the outside is not
always real. Men don’t show how they really
feel. A dad hurts too!
Resources and Additional Support Services
San Bernardino County District Attorney’s Office
of Victim Witness Centers: San Bernardino
(909) 382-3846
Rancho Cucamonga: (909) 945-4241*
Victorville/Desert area: (760)552-6947
Riverside County District Attorney’s Office of
Victim Witness Centers:
Riverside: (951) 955-5450
Murrieta: (951) 304-5680 * Banning: (951) 922-7130
* Indio: (760) 863-8408
*Los Angeles County District Attorney's Victim
Witness Assistance Program offices:
Pomona: 909) 620-3381
*Life.After.Uncivil.Ruthless.Acts.
323-816-9651 www.laurala.org
* WINGS OF JUSTICE – Website
www.murdermislabeledsuicide.com/WingsofJustice
*Women Against Gun Violence – 310-204-2348
www.wagv.org
* Crime Victims United of California –
530-885-9544 www.crimevictimsunited.com or
mail@crimevictimsunited.com
* North American Victim Assistance (NOVA)
www.trynova.org
* Victims of Crime Resources Center
800) VICTIMS
* POMC - (888) 818-POMC www.pomc.org
GOC – Debra – 714-999-7132
Greater San Bernardino/Riverside Area Chapter
Linda – 909-653-7236
* Citizens Against Homicide - (415) 455-5944
* Justice for Murdered Children - (310) 547-1367
* Memory of Victims Everywhere - (949) 248-5470
MOVE@cox.net
* Resource for the Grieving and
* Crime Survivors – 949-872-7895
www.crimesurvivors.com
*JUSTICE FOR HOMICIDE VICTIMS –
(310) 457-0030 -
jhvinfo@justiceforhomicidevictims.com
* Striving Towards Eradicating Violence In Ennercities
-S.T.E.V.I.E. stevieisunityandpeace@yahoo.com
oneunikadvocate2@aol.com
* Survivors of Murdered Children SGV Chapter –
Tina-626-298-9054 -tinayyama@att.net
*Homicide Survivors Support Group
Meets every 2nd
Tuesday at 7pm
Solono Family Justice Center
604 Empire St. Fairfield CA
Rita Edmonds-Norris at 707-631-281
* Margaret Goldman – MA MFT
760-946-9036 – Apple Valley, CA
*Option House: www.optionhouseinc.org
Hotline:909-381-3471
* Crime Survivor Services – (844) 378-0586

3. 2021
Birthdays & Memories
June 4-6, 2021
wearorange.org

4. JUNE 2021 BIRTHDAYS
Adam Brodsky Adam John Rivera
Angel Canul Beatrice Hatfield
Bill Ickes Bobby D. Stutson
Chris Walsh Gina Louise Perez
Henry Vellore Lozano Herbert E. Seymour Jr.
Jamal Mboya Johnson Jesse Garcia
Jerry Angelo Sandoval Jillian Michele White
Joseph Threadgill Kelly Bullwinkle
Larry Sorrough Linda Hesse
Lori Renee Gonzalez Lorrain Lopez
Mateo Villapando Maureen “Marsy” Ramirez
Melissa Sandor Officer David Ruiz
Rene Tejada Reyes Prieto
Richard Lopez Ronnie Stephen Mena
Russina H. Vale

5. June 2021 Memories
Adam Brodsky Alfred Cabrera
Alicia Chagolla Anissa Noel Antunez
Ashley Nicole Rivas Bill Ickes
Carlos Mendoza Chad Jeffrey Norris
Charlie Martinez Cynthia Tammy Hernandez
Daniel Perez Jr. Doctor Fernandez
Edward A. Ortiz Elzie Elijah Winston
Gabriel Vargas Jr. Janet Lynn (Godard) Gore
Jennifer Eubanks Jerry Angelo Sandoval
Jessica Zavala Jesse Garcia
Jose Villalobos Josslyn Dinoso-Brooks
Justin Reyes Katie Brennar
Lukas Scot Clark Lacey Wheeler
Larry Sorrough Michael Lundin
Michael Ribaudo Orlando Hurley
Richard Allen Pogue Jr. Richard Ronald Ortega
Ross Elvey Russina H. Vale
Russell Travis Dorff Sean Gardhouse
Somer Clugston Steven Grant
Steven Paul Medrano Teresa Soto Del Rio
Terese R. Stewart Yvonne Guiterrez

6. LOVE GIFTS
In Loving Memory In Loving Memory In Loving Memory
Jesse Garcia Adam Rivera Orlando Hurley
6/10/78 – 6/27/94 6/1/82 – 1-1/08 1/18/62 – 6/24/89
27 yrs Still Unsolved
In Loving Memory David Charles Nystrom – 2/21/64 – 8/1/98 & Lisa Cummings – 11/13/66 – 3/12/11
Brother and Sister in Heaven ….. now together watching over their Mom (Ellie Rossi)
--------------------------------------------------------------Love Gift-----------------------------------------------------------------
Donation $_______________
Name (please print):_________________________________________________________________
Address____________________________________City/St.________________________Zip__________
Email address: __________________________________________________________
Your Phone # ( ) ____________________Relationship to Victim: _____________________________
Name of Victim: _________________________________________________________________
Date of Birth: Date of Death: ______________________
Please post my loved ones message and/or picture(s) for the month of: ___________
# of pictures enclosed/attached ____________ Use picture on file______________

7. Survivors Of Violent Loss Resources
Announcements
www.svlp.org
Restorative Retelling is an evidence based model that has been successful in supporting those who have lost
someone to a violent death. Restorative Retelling services include general counseling and group services.
Survivors of Violent Loss Phone: (619) 685-0005 Email: svlp.org2020@gmail.com
Interested in training and consultation services? If so, please contact us.
CAMP GOOD GRIEF (SVP)
Camp Good Grief-Special Victims Program (SVP) is a joint effort between the San Bernardino County District
Attorney's Office Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Medical Center Children's Hospital. The
3-day grief camp is geared toward homicide/suicide and is for children ages 10-16 who have experienced a
violent death in their family.
At camp the children participate in game and team building activities and therapeutic group activities
designed to help them learn and understand how to cope with the grief over the violent death of their loved
one. This camp has been so successful that it has been expanded to include Camp Good Grief - Special Victims
Program Teen Retreat. It will be held annually and provides grief services for teens ages 14-18 who previously
participated in Camp Good Grief - SVP and whose lives have been positively impacted by camp. It will be a
combination of learning advanced grief management skills as well as a training camp for future
Camp Good Grief Peer Counselors.
Camp is free of charge to all campers and camperships are funded by unclaimed victim restitution. Therapists
and interns from Loma Linda Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic, Loma Linda Child Life Specialists and District
Attorney's Office Victim Advocates donate their time to the camp.
The Bureau of Victim Services and Loma Linda University Children's Hospital have pledged to continue
fundraising activities, presentations to service groups, and outreach events so they may continue hosting
future Camp Good Grief-SVP programs. Contact: Dorothy Brooks 909-558-4073
Camp Good Grief was Cancelled this year due to COVID-19

8. Show your support for Families & Friends of Murder Victims
while you save money and earn cash back!
Families & Friends of Murder Victims is participating in an exciting new fundraising program. The company now has its own
website featuring thousands of partner stores like Walmart, JC Penney, Best Buy, Apple, Home Depot and many more. When
you make a purchase on www.shop.com/ffmv *Families and Friends of Murder Victims* receives royalties and you earn up to
35% cash back on qualified purchases.
Now, you can take advantage of the ease and convenience of Internet
shopping to buy the products and services you want, while feeling
good about helping one of your favorite organizations.
Our new fundraising website has a variety of
benefits.
• Check out the Hot Deals page to get access to coupons
and exclusive deals to help you save even more.
• Go to the Partner Stores page to find specific stores that
you’d like to shop from.
• Use the Search feature at the top of the page to search over 35 million different products and services for things
you’re looking for.
• Discover unique products and services like, Isotonix® line of high quality nutritional supplements, DNA Miracles
Children’s Line, Cellular Laboratories® luxurious skin care line, Transitions™ Life Style System for weight
management, and many more.
• Find the perfect gift in our Gift Ideas area.
• Getting Started is Easy!
1) Visit our website at www.shop.com/ffmv and register (full shopping site)
2) Us.maexclusives.com/ffmv Monthly specials
3) Register as a Preferred Customer – Its Free to sign up!
• Click “Sign in” in the upper right hand corner
• Select the “No I am a new customer” option
• Follow the prompts
• There is a question highlighted in blue “Were you referred by a friend? Enter mail4ffmv@yahoo.com (that’s
how we begin our fundraising)
• You are now eligible to earn up to 35% cash back on qualified purchases
3) Go Shopping
• Use the search box at the top of the screen to find a specific item or type of product you’re looking for
• Use Shop Partners to find a specific partner like Best Buy or Walmart
• Use “Shop All Departments” to shop via category
• Use Hot Deals to find special deals and coupons to save even more money
• Look for the icon to find out exactly how much cash back you’ll earn from purchases made from that
store or on a particular product
• Add ShopBuddy app and never miss a Deal!
• When asked who referred please put our email address:mail4ffmv@yahoo.com
ANY Questions or ISSUES registering … Please contact Rose @ 909-754-6969 or
mail4ffmv@yahoo.com

9. From Rose Madsen, Editor/Chair/co-founder of the
Colton Chapter of FFMV
In Memory of my daughter Jennifer LeAnne Balber
12/02/73 – 11/10/94
A 20yr. old SoCal Gas Co. Meter Reader,
Fatally Shot in the Line of Service in Rialto, CA
Thinking of dads on Father’s Day
To those who have lost their children or to those who have lost their father to violence.
Happy Father’s Day to all the Dads in Heaven!
Have a Peaceful Father’s Day!!
On behalf of FFMV everyone stay safe and healthy during this pandemic of COVID-19 we are having.
Prayers to all who are affected by this COVID-19 Virus and especially to all who are in the front lines
protecting us.
Thoughtfully,
Rose
My beautiful Jen…..I can no longer…See you with my eyes…Touch you with my hands…
But I will feel you in my heart….Forever…Love, Mom
FFMV Executive Board
Rose Madsen – Chair, Mother of Jennifer LeAnne Balber
Dawn Hall– Vice Chair, Mother of Joshua Rexford
Rita Marin – Secretary, Aunt of Jennifer LeAnne Balber
Bertha Flores – Treasurer, Mother of Kristopher Flores
FFMV is a non-profit organization dedicated to serving survivors of murder victims & victims of attempted murder. Our main purpose is to offer grief
support for those victim/survivors. All assistance provided to victims is given free of charge by volunteers. Contributions and/or questions regarding the
policies of FFMV may be addressed to: FFMV Executive Board at P.O. Box 11222 San Bernardino, Ca. 92423-1222, e-mailed to
mail4fffmv@yahoo.com or phoned to 909-754-6969
FFMV is a tax-exempt organization under the Section 501 (c) (3) of the Internal Revenue Service.
Our Organization depends largely upon private donations which will cover operational expenses, Our Annual Family Christmas Memorial
Luncheon, and Our Annual Victims’ Rights Week Memorial. We are seeking a sponsor (s) for our events. Please contact FFMV at the above e-
mail or phone if you are interested. Tax ID #68-0299211 All Contributions
Are Tax Deductible
Keep continued prayers for families that are in the court process trying to get the
JUSTICE they Deserve!!
Chris Martinez- 9yrs, waiting for JUSTICE - Jesus Oseguera (Beto)
And for ALL families dealing with the injustice of UNSOLVED Murders!

10. 2021 Participant /Photo Release Form for slide show & picture boards
Families & Friends of Murder Victims, INC (FFMV)
Circle one: New Participant ~ Update my information ~ Agency/Non Victim
Please Print Clearly
Date________________ Relationship to Victim_______________________
Victim’s First Name______________________________________________
Victim’s Last Name______________________________________________
Date of Birth _____________ Date of Death__________ Solved: Yes ( ) No ( )
Was this a DUI Yes ( ) No ( ) Was this Domestic Violence Yes ( ) No ( )
Was This Gun Violence Yes ( ) N0 ( )
Permission to use photo(s): Yes ( ) No ( ) Just add me to e-mail/mailing list to receive
monthly newsletter and event information
I grant to Families & Friends of Murder Victims, Inc. (FFMV), the right to use photograph(s) of
the above-identified subject. I authorize FFMV to use and publish the same in print and/or
electronically. I agree that FFMV may use such photographs with or without his/her name and
for any lawful purpose, including for example such purposes as publicity, illustration, advertising,
and Web content.
I have read and understand the above.
Signature_________________________________________________________
Print Full Name _______________________________________________________
Print Last Name ______________________________________________________
Address_____________________________________________________________
City_________________________________________________________________
Zip Code _______________Contact Phone(s) with area code____________________
E-mail ____________________________________________________________
Mail or e-mail participant/release form to: ffmvmail@yahoo.com
~ FFMV ~ PO Box 11222 San Bernardino, CA ~ 92423-1222
I have included a picture ( ) Yes ( ) No use the one on file