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ELDERS’ DEVELOPMENT 4
Spirituality and Prayer
SOME ASPECTS TO EXPLORE…
 What is “Prayer”
 What do we understand by “Spirituality?”
 How do we develop & maintain our
Personal Spirituality?
PRAYER AND APPROACHES TO PRAYER
 What is “prayer” and what are we doing?
 A conscious relationship with God; includes words,
thoughts and meditation
 Importance of prayer
 A “barometer” of our faith; it is at heart of Christian life
 Aspects/forms of prayer
 Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication
 Ways/approaches to prayer
 Written, read, ex tempore, silent, Scripture, objects
 When to pray ...and whom to pray for
 yourself...at church... church meetings...pastoral visits.
CHRISTIAN SPIRITUALITY
 Spirituality (generally) expresses the
intimacy of our association with the divine.
 Christian spirituality is the way we realize
our relationship with God through Jesus.
 Reformed Spirituality
 Emphasis of access to God through personal
experience.
 A “thoughtful faith” that combines mystery and
rationality to provoke thinking what faith
means in a complex world of life and work.
EMPHASIS IN REFORMED SPIRITUALITY
REFORMED SPIRITUALITY EXPRESSED BY
 Focus on Scripture
 For ordering of personal & church life by
reflection on Scriptures and Bible study.
 Openness to the Holy Spirit
 being at work and present throughout daily
life.
 Creativity (always “reforming”)
 new patterns of worship, prayer and service.
 Emphasis on the “local”
 church is seen fully in each local gathering.
 Intellectual grappling with faith
 allowing doubts and questions to be
A PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY …
 Will largely direct how we pray and how we
relate to God in our daily lives.
 Is a function of how we view Christ …
 Christ as suffering for us/others,
 Christ as preacher/teacher,
 Christ as a healer/reconciler,
 Christ as missionary (i.e. ‘boundary crosser’).
 How we view Christ, and how we develop an
internal spirituality, will determine how we
take action in response to our spiritual
calling.
THE SPIRITUAL LIFE & JOURNEY
 Is a prayerful life where life becomes prayer.
 The spiritual journey is a two-way journey.
 from inside-out …
… and from outside-in.
 Eldership is both a “spiritual calling”
and a “spiritual task”
 called to exercise pastoral care and spiritual oversight of
the church.
PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY NEVER IN ISOLATION
 Development of our spirituality is not all
private.
 Done within the context of a spiritual community:
 spiritual community of our families
 within the spiritual community of the Church,
 and in a prayer/house or other small groups.
 These communities serve useful purposes for
mutual education, support, and spiritual growth.
 We influence others’ growth in spiritually as part of
our spiritual growth through our role in community.
PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY AND ‘OTHERS’
 As a ‘living stone’ in the temple of God (1Peter
2:5)
 What is your foundation (your
core belief & theology)?
 Who supports you?
 Who do you support?
 Who is there beside you?
YOU
RESTORING YOUR SPIRITUAL PASSION
 Passion dissipates & needs to be
restored.
 Conditions that threaten spiritual passion:
(From “Restoring Your Spiritual Passion” G. MacDonald)
 The drained condition – Elijah in the wilderness 1Kgs19:3f
 The dried out condition – running on ‘empty’
 The disillusioned condition – disappointment at lost dreams
 The defeated condition – like Peter after betraying Jesus
RESTORING YOUR SPIRITUAL PASSION
 Kinds of people that affect spiritual
passion:
 Very Resourceful People – they ignite our passion
 Very Important People – they share our passion
 Very Trainable People – catch our passion (we ignite them)
 Very Nice People – they tolerate our passion – no input
 Very Draining People – they sap our passion
 ‘Spirits’ that destroy spiritual passion:
 Competitive – jealousy drains our energy
 Critical – looking for flaws, faults & weaknesses
 Vain – the need to impress others
 Adversarial – how we deal with resentment/opposition
DEVELOPING PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY
 Picture yourself as a ‘tree’ (Psalm 1:3):
 What has caused your shape?
 What nourishes you & how often?
 What needs ‘pruning’?
 What fruit are you producing? (cf Galatians 5)
PRAYING WITH AND FOR PEOPLE
 Elders’ visits are about Pastoral Care and
the building up of others’ spiritual lives.
 This can be aided through praying for
people.
 Always ask permission before praying (not all
want it often because of their context/situation)
 Take a written prayer or a Bible verse to help you
 Use a well known prayers such as the Lord’s
Prayer, the 23rd Psalm, the Aaronic blessing
(Num 6:24-26)
 Prayers don’t need to be long and complicated
DEVELOPING THE CHURCH’S LIFE OF PRAYER
AND WORSHIP
 Vital role for Elders not just for pulpit supply
but to encourage congregation participation.
 Members can be involved through:
 Bible readings, leading prayers, in music
through instruments or singing,
 Also producing items for multi-sensory worship
such as prayer and visual displays, or discussion
items.
 Don’t forget to involve children & young people
too
 Elders can use feedback from congregation

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Elders' Development 4 Spirituality and Prayer in the URC

  • 2. SOME ASPECTS TO EXPLORE…  What is “Prayer”  What do we understand by “Spirituality?”  How do we develop & maintain our Personal Spirituality?
  • 3. PRAYER AND APPROACHES TO PRAYER  What is “prayer” and what are we doing?  A conscious relationship with God; includes words, thoughts and meditation  Importance of prayer  A “barometer” of our faith; it is at heart of Christian life  Aspects/forms of prayer  Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication  Ways/approaches to prayer  Written, read, ex tempore, silent, Scripture, objects  When to pray ...and whom to pray for  yourself...at church... church meetings...pastoral visits.
  • 4. CHRISTIAN SPIRITUALITY  Spirituality (generally) expresses the intimacy of our association with the divine.  Christian spirituality is the way we realize our relationship with God through Jesus.  Reformed Spirituality  Emphasis of access to God through personal experience.  A “thoughtful faith” that combines mystery and rationality to provoke thinking what faith means in a complex world of life and work.
  • 5. EMPHASIS IN REFORMED SPIRITUALITY
  • 6. REFORMED SPIRITUALITY EXPRESSED BY  Focus on Scripture  For ordering of personal & church life by reflection on Scriptures and Bible study.  Openness to the Holy Spirit  being at work and present throughout daily life.  Creativity (always “reforming”)  new patterns of worship, prayer and service.  Emphasis on the “local”  church is seen fully in each local gathering.  Intellectual grappling with faith  allowing doubts and questions to be
  • 7. A PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY …  Will largely direct how we pray and how we relate to God in our daily lives.  Is a function of how we view Christ …  Christ as suffering for us/others,  Christ as preacher/teacher,  Christ as a healer/reconciler,  Christ as missionary (i.e. ‘boundary crosser’).  How we view Christ, and how we develop an internal spirituality, will determine how we take action in response to our spiritual calling.
  • 8. THE SPIRITUAL LIFE & JOURNEY  Is a prayerful life where life becomes prayer.  The spiritual journey is a two-way journey.  from inside-out … … and from outside-in.  Eldership is both a “spiritual calling” and a “spiritual task”  called to exercise pastoral care and spiritual oversight of the church.
  • 9. PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY NEVER IN ISOLATION  Development of our spirituality is not all private.  Done within the context of a spiritual community:  spiritual community of our families  within the spiritual community of the Church,  and in a prayer/house or other small groups.  These communities serve useful purposes for mutual education, support, and spiritual growth.  We influence others’ growth in spiritually as part of our spiritual growth through our role in community.
  • 10. PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY AND ‘OTHERS’  As a ‘living stone’ in the temple of God (1Peter 2:5)  What is your foundation (your core belief & theology)?  Who supports you?  Who do you support?  Who is there beside you? YOU
  • 11. RESTORING YOUR SPIRITUAL PASSION  Passion dissipates & needs to be restored.  Conditions that threaten spiritual passion: (From “Restoring Your Spiritual Passion” G. MacDonald)  The drained condition – Elijah in the wilderness 1Kgs19:3f  The dried out condition – running on ‘empty’  The disillusioned condition – disappointment at lost dreams  The defeated condition – like Peter after betraying Jesus
  • 12. RESTORING YOUR SPIRITUAL PASSION  Kinds of people that affect spiritual passion:  Very Resourceful People – they ignite our passion  Very Important People – they share our passion  Very Trainable People – catch our passion (we ignite them)  Very Nice People – they tolerate our passion – no input  Very Draining People – they sap our passion  ‘Spirits’ that destroy spiritual passion:  Competitive – jealousy drains our energy  Critical – looking for flaws, faults & weaknesses  Vain – the need to impress others  Adversarial – how we deal with resentment/opposition
  • 13. DEVELOPING PERSONAL SPIRITUALITY  Picture yourself as a ‘tree’ (Psalm 1:3):  What has caused your shape?  What nourishes you & how often?  What needs ‘pruning’?  What fruit are you producing? (cf Galatians 5)
  • 14. PRAYING WITH AND FOR PEOPLE  Elders’ visits are about Pastoral Care and the building up of others’ spiritual lives.  This can be aided through praying for people.  Always ask permission before praying (not all want it often because of their context/situation)  Take a written prayer or a Bible verse to help you  Use a well known prayers such as the Lord’s Prayer, the 23rd Psalm, the Aaronic blessing (Num 6:24-26)  Prayers don’t need to be long and complicated
  • 15. DEVELOPING THE CHURCH’S LIFE OF PRAYER AND WORSHIP  Vital role for Elders not just for pulpit supply but to encourage congregation participation.  Members can be involved through:  Bible readings, leading prayers, in music through instruments or singing,  Also producing items for multi-sensory worship such as prayer and visual displays, or discussion items.  Don’t forget to involve children & young people too  Elders can use feedback from congregation

Editor's Notes

  1. This slide shows some of the aspects we will explore ... ....are there particular aspects the group wants to explore or look at in depth?
  2. Looking at the concept of Prayer as well as some “approaches/forms” of prayer What is “prayer” ...and what are we doing when we pray? A definition is that prayer is conscious relationship with God; which includes words, thoughts and meditation 9even action/activity) Importance of prayer Prayer is often referred to as the “barometer” of our faith; it is at heart of Christian life and should be a natural outgrowth of our faith If we are in relationship with someone we want to communicate with them and that includes (especially) our relationship with God. Aspects/forms of prayer Ask what folk see as the main “aspects” that constitute prayer ... Get them to think of a typical worship service on a Sunday and to name the times of prayer and what they represent ... A very simple way of remembering the main “components” of prayer is by using the acrostic “A C T S” ......Adoration ... Confession ... Thanksgiving ... Supplication Ways/approaches to prayer Ask folk what they normally do when praying (possibly they would feel more comfortable doing this in small groups of 2s or 3s) ... Now ask if folk think that there are “correct” ways to pray ...and if so what are they ...and if not then why do they think so .... Ask what “forms/ways” of prayer they can think of .... .... Some ideas are: Written out to help especially when in public (eg leading a service), reading of prayers, ex tempore, praying in silence, following prayers in Scripture or using Scripture as a guide to frame a prayer, using objects to aid in prayer (eg holding a cross, lighting a candle, etc.) When is the best time (or most appropriate time) to pray ... Is there such always in our lives ...... and whom to pray for when we pray ...? Ask them how many of them pray for themselves... at church (when-before, during, just after a service?)... What sorts of prayers are undertaken at church meetings (by whom, when, why and about what?)... ... what about pastoral visits; when are folk aware of the need for prayers (as visitors and as being visited)?
  3. Christian Spirituality Ask how folk would define “spirituality” and what it may mean to be “spiritual” Spirituality (in general terms) expresses the intimacy of our association with the divine, to be devout or holy. What then is “Christian Spirituality”? ... Christian spirituality can be defined as the way we realize our relationship with God through Jesus. So to then explore what we might mean as “Reformed Spirituality” ... In contrast to traditions which place a central emphasis on the role of a priest, Reformed spirituality emphasizes the possibility of access to God through personal experience…. …. in prayer, in the reading of scripture, in the community of the believers and in the daily round of life, at work or at home. In particular in Reformed Spirituality we look at its focus on: An emphasis of access to God through personal experience – no need for ministers or clergy. A consideration of it being a “thoughtful faith” that combines mystery and rationality to provoke thinking what faith means in a complex world of life and work.
  4. This diagram shows the different emphasises placed by the main Christian groups
  5. This spirituality is expressed in a variety of ways: Openness to the Holy Spirit. This is reflected in an understanding of the Holy Spirit being at work throughout daily life. God is encountered in the home or at work, as well as in the shared corporate worship life. Creativity. The openness to the Holy Spirit in every part of life leads to a development of new patterns of worship and prayer and an exploration of different ways of serving the community. The annual Prayer Handbook and publications as Roots and the development of creative liturgies in a number of churches as well as the Church related Community Work programme and the strong social justice commitment are examples of these. An emphasis on the local. The church has been seen fully in each local gathering of people. This emphasises the way in which God is at work amongst local communities. Intellectual grappling with faith. In the Reformed tradition there is a well-rooted emphasis on allowing doubts and questions to be expressed, as part of a grappling with the contemporary issues of faith in each generation. This appeal to the mind and an emphasis on a scholarly tradition has provided another dimension to our understanding of spirituality. Through the Scriptures. The emphasis on the importance of scripture, has allowed people to order their lives and the life of the church through the reading, meditation upon and reflection on the Scriptures. This is achieved through personal and communal Bible Study. Questions for Discussion Does this description of Reformed Spirituality make sense to you? Could your Elders Meeting make better use of this variety of ways of expressing spirituality in your worship and prayer time together?
  6. Looking at our own personal spirituality we can see that it: Will largely direct how we pray and how we relate to God in our daily lives. ... because it is based on what we emphasise as important in our own theology and view of Christianity. In particular it is a function of how we view Christ … Christ as suffering for us/others, Christ as preacher/teacher, Christ as a healer/reconciler, Christ as missionary (i.e. ‘boundary crosser’). How we view Christ, and how we develop an internal spirituality, will determine how we take action in response to our spiritual calling. It is an outworking of our theology and discipleship ...how we “follow” Christ in spirit and in deed/action as well as how we relate to others ...and even how we share our faith with them.
  7. Spirituality is a journey It is a prayerful life where life becomes prayer. The spiritual journey is a two-way journey. from inside-out … ...We have to be renewed inwardly (renewing of our minds in Romans 12:2 and Eph 4:23) in order to make that renewal externally visible and from outside-in... ... As we are renewed we engage within our community and often that very engagement causes a transformation and renewal within us as we see with a new perspective. Eldership is both a “spiritual calling” and a “spiritual task” At its centre is the fact that Elders are called to exercise pastoral care and spiritual oversight of the church... .... And this can only be done as part of a spiritual journey relying on prayer and our relationship with God.
  8. Personal Spirituality can never be fully developed in isolation Development of our spirituality is not all private....even though there are times when it is good/necessary to draw aside to spend time in prayer (Matt 6:6) and reflection (as Jesus did Mk 6:46 and Lk 6:12) Generally our spirituality is developed within the context of a spiritual community such as: the spiritual community of our families within the spiritual community of the Church, and (especially) in a prayer/house or other small groups. These communities serve useful purposes for mutual education, support, and spiritual growth. We influence others’ growth in spiritually as part of our spiritual growth through our role in community. Some ideas to try for your Elders Meeting Elders could each share how they regularly engage with prayer and develop their spiritual life, eg. using Bible study notes, practicing a prayer discipline of some kind, belonging to a prayer fellowship or community. The Elders could decide, as a group, to try doing something together, eg. Using the same set of Bible study notes for a period of time, studying a book or using a web resource together. Many churches use a ‘favourite hymns/songs of praise’ type format for some services, but what about your Elders leading a ‘my favourite/ most powerful Bible verse’ service, as a way of sharing together?
  9. Personal Spirituality and ‘Others’ As a reference read about your place as a ‘living stone’ in the temple of God (1Peter 2:4-5) and then discuss/share the following: What is your ‘theological foundation’ (your core belief & values in your theology)? Who supports you through prayer/sharing in what you do in your ministry as an Elder and your work? Who do you support through prayer and drawing alongside of, who are discipling/mentoring? Who is there beside you? With whom are you able to share aspects of your life and faith in confidence?
  10. Restoring Your Spiritual Passion Spiritual Passion can dissipate & needs to be restored. ... We cannot hold on to it but need to renew and restore it on a regular basis (an encouragement and emphasis to be part of a nurturing group) ... refer to Romans 12:2 which puts the emphasis on “renewing of your mind” showing that the process is ongoing, not static and never totally accomplished just like our spiritual journey (as Paul encourages his readers by saying that he has not attained nor perfected his spiritual life but needs tp press on by laying hold of it cf Phil 3:12) Listed below are some circumstances that threaten spiritual passion: (From the book “Restoring Your Spiritual Passion” by Gordon MacDonald) The drained condition – Elijah in the wilderness 1Kgs19:3f The dried out condition – running on ‘empty’ and trying to draw spiritual sustenance from an “empty well” The disillusioned condition – disappointment at lost dreams or crushed hopes The defeated condition – like Peter after betraying Jesus or not overcoming obstacles What others could people suggest ....? Conditions that threaten spiritual passion: (From “Restoring Your Spiritual Passion” G. MacDonald) The drained condition – Elijah in the wilderness 1Kgs19:3f The dried out condition – running on ‘empty’ The disillusioned condition – disappointment at lost dreams The defeated condition – like Peter after betraying Jesus
  11. Restoring Your Spiritual Passion continued ... Some of the kinds of people that affect our spiritual passion (Also from the book “Restoring Your Spiritual Passion” by Gordon MacDonald): Very Resourceful People – they ignite our passion and we learn from them Very Important People – they share our passion and provide mutual support Very Trainable People – catch our passion (we ignite them with our passion) Very Nice People – they tolerate our passion – but give very little input or support Very Draining People – they sap our passion – by constantly nit picking or raising objections/obstacles to block us Ask folk to think about the people they encounter (and not just at church!) and how would they describe them based on the above list .... .... What can be done in terms of who we engage with and (try to) avoid? ...do they have mechanisms for dealing with people (avoidance as well as associating)? The ‘spirits’ we can harbour that destroy our spiritual passion: Competitive – jealousy drains our energy Critical – looking for flaws, faults & weaknesses Vain – the need to impress others Adversarial – how we deal with resentment/opposition Again have a look at the above “spirits” and ask how folk deal with their own negative “spirits” in order to become more positive and regain their passion?
  12. Developing Our Personal Spirituality Below is an exercise for personal reflection by the folk: Picture yourself as a ‘tree’ (see Psalm 1:3) and reflect on: What has caused your “shape”? – Think for instance of trees growing in a windswept area that have their trunks at angles to the ground other than being straight up.... What storms, conflicts have battered you in the past and perhaps put a few kinks in your development as well as when were there good times that enabled solid growth to take place? What nourishes you & how often? – just as a tree requires nourishment from the sun, rain and ground we too get “spiritual nourishment” from different sources.... Who and What gives you spiritual nourishment and at what frequency do you (a) need this nourishment, and (b) how often do you actually get it? Is there anything you can do to improve it, and if so what or why not? What needs ‘pruning’? – just as good growth requires regular pruning in order to bear good/better fruit (refer to the vine dressing analogy in John 15:1-8) so our lives in undergoing renewal also need the occasional pruning of no fruit bearing (or bad fruit) areas..... Just as trees need pruning to allow the light in for the benefit of more branches and leaves (and fruit) so we need to allow the “light of Christ” into more areas of our lives in order for better development and fruit bearing... Think of the different areas of your life that might do to have a pruning or de-cluttering .... What fruit are you producing? (cf Galatians 5:22-26) – what fruit do we produce and by what fruit are we known by others (Matt 7:16f)?
  13. Guidelines for praying with and for people Many elders undertake pastoral visits to church members or adherents, and one way of building up the spiritual lives of others and assuring them of our care for them, placing them into God’s hands, is to pray for them and with them. Some elders are nervous about this, so here are some practical tips: Always ask permission before praying! You could start with ‘do you mind if I pray for you?’ and if the person is happy with this you could follow up with ‘would you like me to pray with you right now?’. It is of course important to respect the answer you get, some people are just not comfortable being prayed with, perhaps because of where they are and who else is around – eg in hospital For someone you know would like a prayer, and whose situation you know fairly well, you could take either a written prayer or a Bible verse with you, and then leave it with them once you have shared it together Don’t be frightened to use a well known prayer such as the Lord’s Prayer, the 23rd Psalm, the Aaronic blessing (the Lord bless you and keep you...) or the Grace. Even extempore prayers don’t need to be long and complicated. Sometimes a simple ‘Lord we place all that we have talked about into you hands. Bless and keep (name) in your love” will do very well. You could ask the person what they would particularly like you to pray for, and then use their words as far as possible. Remember to ask permission from them if you are going to share their prayer request in another place – eg at a church prayer meeting.
  14. Developing the whole church’s life of prayer and worship There is a vital role for Elders to play, not only to see that the ‘pulpit is filled’ on a Sunday (that a worship leader/preacher is arranged) but also to involve the church fellowship in leading worship according to their gifts. Church members can be involved in reading the Bible, or presenting it in a dramatic way, in leading prayers, in leading the music through instruments or singing, as well as in producing items for multi-sensory worship such as prayer stations, visual displays, or items for discussion. If you have children or young people in the life of the church, don’t forget to involve them, too. It may well be that worship can be offered at different times of the week, not only on a Sunday, and in different ways ranging from traditional to café-style to Fresh Expressions. The Elders also have a responsibility to receive constructive feedback from the congregation so that the worship offered can grown and develop. Questions for discussion: In what ways can your Eldership support the spiritual and worshipping life of the whole fellowship, rather than jut leaving everything to visiting speakers and/or the minister? Could at least some of your elders visit another worshipping community to get some fresh ideas? Can you identify people in your church fellowship who have the gifts to develop the prayer life of others? Are you enabling the church fellowship to pray for one another in a way which respects confidentiality?