The Delicious Discomfort in Not
Knowing
@neildenny
www.linkedin.com/in/neildenny
NO DATA
Alternatively…
1/90th
of this presentation will be dedicated
to consideration of statistical analysis.
We are never more wrong than
when we are most right
The lawyer’s
curse
The
expert’s
curse
If only
they
would
change
Overprecision
OVERPRECISION
How many F’s are in the passage below?
“Those of us who focus on issues of
fairness too often effect agreement by
giving in, instead of first using our
powers of persuasion to affect a fair
outcome that fully satisfies all of our
legitimate interests”
The seductive lie
Theword`cope’and
theword`change’are
directlyoppositenot
thesame
People say they are looking for answers
when in reality they are looking for
someone to tell them just how little they
have to change
Strategies for surviving at the edge
…Because that’s where all the interesting stuff
happens!
The Breakthrough Equation
(4X) x E + S1/S2
= BT
Aversion Therapy – getting to
know not knowing
• Read more books
• Take up a craft, a
language or instrument
• Look at other sectors
• Or (and this one is
really easy!)…
Play
games to
get
familiar
with new
systems
Aversion Therapy – getting to
know not knowing
Get Artisan
Connect External/Internal
Embrace complexity
• Manage resistance
• Envision and temporarily suspend
need for successful outcome
• Work with resistance, not against it
Autonomy
‘Neil doesn’t
pretend to
have all the
answers (or
any of them
necessarily.)
He challenges
me to be more
creative and
take greater
risks with my
own
vulnerabilities.’
Join
www.theleagueofnotknowing.com
for more information on coping
with and leading through
uncertainty.
Thank you.

Delicious Discomfort in Not Knowing