This document discusses using stories and research findings to illustrate therapeutic concepts. It provides examples of how self-esteem influences relationships and perceptions of others. Therapists are encouraged to generate stories or metaphors to help couples with marital difficulties by identifying underlying issues and goals for therapy. The impact of sexual abuse and issues of victimization are briefly touched on. Therapists are advised to use caution when sharing stories from their own experiences or those of clients to avoid oversharing or violating patient privacy.