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The Path:
What Chinese Philosophers
Can Teach Us About The
Good Life
Michael Puett, Christine Gross-Loh
Michael Puett,
Professor, Chinese History
Harvard University
Christine Gross-Loh,
Author
unconventional wisdom
Chinese philosophy
around 500 BC which
spawned a great era of
progress in Chinese
history and inspired
Europe to outgrow
aristocratic systems
Confucius
Mencius
Laozi
Qi
Zhuangzi
Xunzi
TODAY =
600 BC
the human
ecosystem is
not working!
people are unhappy and unfulfilled
we are stuck in narrow identities
we face huge crises + feel helpless to respond
optimism is disappearing
social mobility is reduced
we have lost our way
new approaches are needed
unconventional wisdom the self is multiple, continually changing in
response to external relationships and events
defining oneself isn’t the key to a liberated life
– it’s too limiting
finding one’s true self and living according to
the authentic self is ill-informed and
constraining
you don’t know who you are or where your life
is going to go
do things that don't feel like you to open up
new possibilities
Confucius
the self is more than our historical
patterns of behavior that define who we
are
our selves are complex, conflicting,
turbulent, irrational, and changing
constantly
self-cultivation occurs via cultivating
rituals in everyday life, not downtime
such as meditation and vacations
rituals are conscious and transformative,
not rote - one becomes a different person
for a moment, living "as if"
Confucius
philosophy focuses on the
practical and concrete, not big
and abstract such as “do we
have free will” or big moral or
ethical frameworks
goodness is behaving, in
response to the complexities of
this moment, in a way that is
good for others, drawing out
their better selves
the path is not a struggle to
reach an ideal, it’s continually
evolving through cultivating our
choices, actions, relationships –
ever new
life begins in the everyday
messy world; only in the
everyday can we begin to create
a new world
Mencius
the world isn’t coherent and stable, it’s
unpredictable and capricious, in perpetual disorder,
needing constant work
no guarantees – e.g. hard work isn’t fair in bringing
prosperity, bad deeds go unpunished
not effective to be a stable, authentic self, making
plans and rational choices based on calculation and
external frameworks
engage and integrate emotional and cognitive
selves for full, undistracted awareness in order to
make good decisions in every moment
cultivate goodness in every moment, something
that we nurture, feels good, and helps us
and others thrive
• maintain consciousness of the world as
unstable
• respond and make decisions based on
awareness of complex and ever-shifting world
and self
• expect to be surprised and work with
whatever befalls us
• think in terms of long term trajectories
• lay the ground so things can grow organically
Work constantly to alter things at
a small, daily level.
The work of bettering oneself and
others to produce a better world
is never over.
Sage-like state increases influence
• everything is interconnected
• see connectivity among events, relationships, conflicts
• Soft, supple and gentle has stronger influence than powerful
and dominant
• create a new world by continually making new connections
• generate a new way, new connections in every moment
Ego states reduce influence
• ego states, manifesting as separation, artifice and
attachment, block awareness of interconnections
• ego states block ability to initiate new connections
• imposing one’s will isn’t long-lasting
Laozi
The enduring power of the
Laozi is its potential to help
one become infinitely more
influential through softness,
not hardness; through
connecting not dominating.
Generate a world that feels so
natural that we can’t imagine
it ever being different, even
though it is newly invented.
Inward Training
for Qi
Vitality
• Qi is the universal energy of life
• Qi is our consciousness, spirit
• Qi is drained by the daily grind, stresses and struggles
• cultivate emotional balance and physical health to channelQi
• engage in activities that bring vitality and connection with Qi
• enjoy music, art, poetry, literature which are infused with Qi
Zhuangzi
• the world is in a ceaseless dance of
movement and relationships, flux and shifts
• there is a constant interplay of yin and yang –
darkness and light, softness and hardness –
opposites provide balance
• humans battle against (not flow with) the
flux, disconnecting and disrupting our own
transformation
• transcend resistance to the flux, seek new
perspectives
• cultivate an open state of spontaneous,
trained flow or effortless engaged
competence in sync with a changing world
• creativity emerges in every moment when we
open ourselves to the cosmos and diverse
perspectives with boundless curiosity
Xunzi
nature or natural
aren’t better and
can be improved
loyalty to and romanticization of human nature,
mother nature, one’s own nature, is limiting
imperfections of human nature and nature can be
improved – creating new patterns that elevate
human ability to create an artificial, constructed
world is a good thing
transcend endless spontaneity and struggle of
nature by improving human nature and the natural
world
embrace positive aspects of human manipulation
and construction and improve on human mistakes
the path
the aim for stability, sincerity, authenticity are shackling human
evolution
shift from human fate determined by what we are born with to a
world where everyone flourishes
we are not bound to an unchangeable past or required to adhere
to order, rational laws, or doctrines
begin with our messy, unwieldy emotions, cultivate
improvements continually via “as if” rituals
increase vitality, make wise decisions informed by integrated
hearts and minds, engage with messy experiences, improve
receptivity to all experiences
coaching the path
• detach from identity (e.g. opinions, right &
wrong) and quit search for authentic self, both
are boxing in potential
• enable malleability by flowing with, not
resisting, a changing world
• experiment with new rituals that upgrade
relationships, outcomes and improve
flourishing
• improve influence by softening hardness and
improving connectivity
you go humans!

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Coach The Way

  • 1. The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About The Good Life Michael Puett, Christine Gross-Loh
  • 2. Michael Puett, Professor, Chinese History Harvard University Christine Gross-Loh, Author
  • 3. unconventional wisdom Chinese philosophy around 500 BC which spawned a great era of progress in Chinese history and inspired Europe to outgrow aristocratic systems Confucius Mencius Laozi Qi Zhuangzi Xunzi
  • 4. TODAY = 600 BC the human ecosystem is not working! people are unhappy and unfulfilled we are stuck in narrow identities we face huge crises + feel helpless to respond optimism is disappearing social mobility is reduced we have lost our way new approaches are needed
  • 5. unconventional wisdom the self is multiple, continually changing in response to external relationships and events defining oneself isn’t the key to a liberated life – it’s too limiting finding one’s true self and living according to the authentic self is ill-informed and constraining you don’t know who you are or where your life is going to go do things that don't feel like you to open up new possibilities
  • 6. Confucius the self is more than our historical patterns of behavior that define who we are our selves are complex, conflicting, turbulent, irrational, and changing constantly self-cultivation occurs via cultivating rituals in everyday life, not downtime such as meditation and vacations rituals are conscious and transformative, not rote - one becomes a different person for a moment, living "as if"
  • 7. Confucius philosophy focuses on the practical and concrete, not big and abstract such as “do we have free will” or big moral or ethical frameworks goodness is behaving, in response to the complexities of this moment, in a way that is good for others, drawing out their better selves the path is not a struggle to reach an ideal, it’s continually evolving through cultivating our choices, actions, relationships – ever new life begins in the everyday messy world; only in the everyday can we begin to create a new world
  • 8. Mencius the world isn’t coherent and stable, it’s unpredictable and capricious, in perpetual disorder, needing constant work no guarantees – e.g. hard work isn’t fair in bringing prosperity, bad deeds go unpunished not effective to be a stable, authentic self, making plans and rational choices based on calculation and external frameworks engage and integrate emotional and cognitive selves for full, undistracted awareness in order to make good decisions in every moment cultivate goodness in every moment, something that we nurture, feels good, and helps us and others thrive
  • 9. • maintain consciousness of the world as unstable • respond and make decisions based on awareness of complex and ever-shifting world and self • expect to be surprised and work with whatever befalls us • think in terms of long term trajectories • lay the ground so things can grow organically
  • 10. Work constantly to alter things at a small, daily level. The work of bettering oneself and others to produce a better world is never over.
  • 11. Sage-like state increases influence • everything is interconnected • see connectivity among events, relationships, conflicts • Soft, supple and gentle has stronger influence than powerful and dominant • create a new world by continually making new connections • generate a new way, new connections in every moment Ego states reduce influence • ego states, manifesting as separation, artifice and attachment, block awareness of interconnections • ego states block ability to initiate new connections • imposing one’s will isn’t long-lasting Laozi
  • 12. The enduring power of the Laozi is its potential to help one become infinitely more influential through softness, not hardness; through connecting not dominating. Generate a world that feels so natural that we can’t imagine it ever being different, even though it is newly invented.
  • 13. Inward Training for Qi Vitality • Qi is the universal energy of life • Qi is our consciousness, spirit • Qi is drained by the daily grind, stresses and struggles • cultivate emotional balance and physical health to channelQi • engage in activities that bring vitality and connection with Qi • enjoy music, art, poetry, literature which are infused with Qi
  • 14. Zhuangzi • the world is in a ceaseless dance of movement and relationships, flux and shifts • there is a constant interplay of yin and yang – darkness and light, softness and hardness – opposites provide balance • humans battle against (not flow with) the flux, disconnecting and disrupting our own transformation • transcend resistance to the flux, seek new perspectives • cultivate an open state of spontaneous, trained flow or effortless engaged competence in sync with a changing world • creativity emerges in every moment when we open ourselves to the cosmos and diverse perspectives with boundless curiosity
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  • 16. Xunzi nature or natural aren’t better and can be improved loyalty to and romanticization of human nature, mother nature, one’s own nature, is limiting imperfections of human nature and nature can be improved – creating new patterns that elevate human ability to create an artificial, constructed world is a good thing transcend endless spontaneity and struggle of nature by improving human nature and the natural world embrace positive aspects of human manipulation and construction and improve on human mistakes
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  • 18. the path the aim for stability, sincerity, authenticity are shackling human evolution shift from human fate determined by what we are born with to a world where everyone flourishes we are not bound to an unchangeable past or required to adhere to order, rational laws, or doctrines begin with our messy, unwieldy emotions, cultivate improvements continually via “as if” rituals increase vitality, make wise decisions informed by integrated hearts and minds, engage with messy experiences, improve receptivity to all experiences
  • 19. coaching the path • detach from identity (e.g. opinions, right & wrong) and quit search for authentic self, both are boxing in potential • enable malleability by flowing with, not resisting, a changing world • experiment with new rituals that upgrade relationships, outcomes and improve flourishing • improve influence by softening hardness and improving connectivity