The document discusses the failure of experts on alcohol abuse and addiction to acknowledge the effects of prenatal alcohol exposure. It summarizes that prenatal alcohol exposure can have devastating and lifelong epigenetic effects on the developing fetus, including increased risks of addiction. While governments and studies recognize the high rates of prenatal alcohol exposure, few receive a diagnosis of fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, leading to consequences like mental illness, homelessness, and addictions. The author argues that a paradigm shift is needed to understand that those with neurological disabilities from prenatal alcohol exposure use substances not for pleasure but for relief.