This document contains terms and conditions for a report on body language. It states that while the publisher has tried to be accurate, the content may not be fully accurate due to the changing nature of the topic. It advises readers to use their own judgment and seek professional advice. The document contains 10 chapters that provide an introduction to body language, discuss positive and negative body positions, observing reactions, setting goals for the image you want to project, practicing scenarios, training positive reactions, understanding symmetry and matching others, and potential issues with incorrect body language.
Use nonverbal communication to increase your income and influence as a business owner. Master body language for success.
Do you want to have more business success? Mastering body language is the missing ingredient for many business owners. Nonverbal communication can not only help you be more effective in your business dealings, but it can also give you an added edge above competitors.
93% of our communication is nonverbal.
But we rarely think about our body language when dealing with clients, investors or at networking. We think about what we are going to say, but we don't consider how we say something. Research shows how we say something is even more important than what we say.
This course is made up of the 6 areas every entrepreneur needs and how body language can help you succeed.
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* Building Rapport
* Successful Selling
* Winning Client Relations
* Customer Validation
Your Nonverbal Brand
* Effective Networking
* Impactful Elevator Pitching
* Building Your Online Presence
Building Your Business Team
* Lie Detection
* Hiring
* Finding Great Partners
* Connecting with Colleagues
* Leadership
* Management
High Pressure Business Situations
* Fundraising
* Investor Pitching
* Public Speaking
* Negotiations
This course will teach you how to be more effective in all of areas of your business.
Body language will completely change the way you do business.
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“Vanessa Van Edwards' speech to our club of hundreds was a welcome break from the standard speech. It was always engaging, at times uproariously funny and very informative. As I looked at the audience, everyone was leaning forward and feeling each moment together. We all came away feeling more light-hearted and armed with insights about human behavior that we didn't know at the beginning. It was a treat to hear her speak!"
–Mike Pendergast, Business Development Consultant and Rotarian
“Vanessa's presentation style is so engaging and entertaining that I believe everyone in any job function will get something extremely useful out of it.
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This document provides a summary of a workshop on body language basics across 12 modules:
The workshop teaches how to interpret body language as a form of communication, covering topics like communicating with gestures, reading facial expressions and body positions, gender differences, lying detection, and improving one's own body language. The overall goal is to enhance understanding and improve interactions, negotiations, and relationships through correctly interpreting unspoken signals.
This document discusses body language and its importance in public speaking. It begins by stating that body language comprises the majority of communication and cannot be ignored when giving presentations. The document then provides exercises and guidelines for maintaining proper posture that communicates confidence without being too rigid. Key points of proper posture include having feet shoulder-width apart with weight centered, slightly bent knees, raised rib cage, relaxed shoulders, and slightly raised chin. Exercises are also provided to relax tense shoulders before speaking. The document emphasizes adopting a posture that appears natural and approachable to create rapport with audiences.
In this Ebook, you will discover the topics about the types of body expressions, the basics of reading body language, the implication of the smallest body language, the interpretaion of body languages, the micro expression matter, the benefits of understanding the body expressions, the skills that are required in understanding the body languages, understanding what other people are thinking and the effects of body language on communication.
This document provides 18 tips to improve body language in order to communicate more effectively. It notes that words only account for 7% of communication, while tone of voice makes up 38% and body language 55%. The tips include making eye contact, sitting up straight, smiling, using hand gestures, mirroring others' body language, and maintaining a relaxed, open attitude. Mastering a few tips at a time through practice can help develop better habits over several weeks. The overall message is that body language significantly impacts how one is perceived and the success of interactions.
This document provides 11 ways to read people's minds through body language cues. It discusses paying attention to factors like distance, head and arm positions, eye movements, pupil size, mirroring behaviors, fidgeting, tone of voice, walking style, language used, and smiling. Mastering observation of these non-verbal clues can help one understand people more deeply and spot deception. The document also notes that self-awareness of one's own body language is important.
This document contains terms and conditions for a report on body language. It states that while the publisher has tried to be accurate, the content may not be fully accurate due to the changing nature of the topic. It advises readers to use their own judgment and seek professional advice. The document contains 10 chapters that provide an introduction to body language, discuss positive and negative body positions, observing reactions, setting goals for the image you want to project, practicing scenarios, training positive reactions, understanding symmetry and matching others, and potential issues with incorrect body language.
Use nonverbal communication to increase your income and influence as a business owner. Master body language for success.
Do you want to have more business success? Mastering body language is the missing ingredient for many business owners. Nonverbal communication can not only help you be more effective in your business dealings, but it can also give you an added edge above competitors.
93% of our communication is nonverbal.
But we rarely think about our body language when dealing with clients, investors or at networking. We think about what we are going to say, but we don't consider how we say something. Research shows how we say something is even more important than what we say.
This course is made up of the 6 areas every entrepreneur needs and how body language can help you succeed.
Customer Relations:
* Building Rapport
* Successful Selling
* Winning Client Relations
* Customer Validation
Your Nonverbal Brand
* Effective Networking
* Impactful Elevator Pitching
* Building Your Online Presence
Building Your Business Team
* Lie Detection
* Hiring
* Finding Great Partners
* Connecting with Colleagues
* Leadership
* Management
High Pressure Business Situations
* Fundraising
* Investor Pitching
* Public Speaking
* Negotiations
This course will teach you how to be more effective in all of areas of your business.
Body language will completely change the way you do business.
What People Are Saying About Vanessa and her Courses:
"This body language course ROCKED my world! It's the only tool you need.
“Vanessa is a dynamic and polished speaker. We would definitely ask her back for more presentations.
–Emily Ediger, Portland State University Business Accelerator
“Vanessa Van Edwards' speech to our club of hundreds was a welcome break from the standard speech. It was always engaging, at times uproariously funny and very informative. As I looked at the audience, everyone was leaning forward and feeling each moment together. We all came away feeling more light-hearted and armed with insights about human behavior that we didn't know at the beginning. It was a treat to hear her speak!"
–Mike Pendergast, Business Development Consultant and Rotarian
“Vanessa's presentation style is so engaging and entertaining that I believe everyone in any job function will get something extremely useful out of it.
ORDER NOW.
This document provides a summary of a workshop on body language basics across 12 modules:
The workshop teaches how to interpret body language as a form of communication, covering topics like communicating with gestures, reading facial expressions and body positions, gender differences, lying detection, and improving one's own body language. The overall goal is to enhance understanding and improve interactions, negotiations, and relationships through correctly interpreting unspoken signals.
This document discusses body language and its importance in public speaking. It begins by stating that body language comprises the majority of communication and cannot be ignored when giving presentations. The document then provides exercises and guidelines for maintaining proper posture that communicates confidence without being too rigid. Key points of proper posture include having feet shoulder-width apart with weight centered, slightly bent knees, raised rib cage, relaxed shoulders, and slightly raised chin. Exercises are also provided to relax tense shoulders before speaking. The document emphasizes adopting a posture that appears natural and approachable to create rapport with audiences.
In this Ebook, you will discover the topics about the types of body expressions, the basics of reading body language, the implication of the smallest body language, the interpretaion of body languages, the micro expression matter, the benefits of understanding the body expressions, the skills that are required in understanding the body languages, understanding what other people are thinking and the effects of body language on communication.
This document provides 18 tips to improve body language in order to communicate more effectively. It notes that words only account for 7% of communication, while tone of voice makes up 38% and body language 55%. The tips include making eye contact, sitting up straight, smiling, using hand gestures, mirroring others' body language, and maintaining a relaxed, open attitude. Mastering a few tips at a time through practice can help develop better habits over several weeks. The overall message is that body language significantly impacts how one is perceived and the success of interactions.
This document provides 11 ways to read people's minds through body language cues. It discusses paying attention to factors like distance, head and arm positions, eye movements, pupil size, mirroring behaviors, fidgeting, tone of voice, walking style, language used, and smiling. Mastering observation of these non-verbal clues can help one understand people more deeply and spot deception. The document also notes that self-awareness of one's own body language is important.
This document is a certificate from Raghu Engineering College certifying that a group of 8 students completed a project on "BODY LANGUAGE" for their first year of study in the Computer Science Engineering department during the 2013-14 academic year. It lists the names of the students and their registration numbers. It is signed by their project guide from the Department of Humanities and Sciences.
This document discusses 9 types of non-verbal communication: kinesics, silence, haptics, chronemics, paralanguage, physical appearance, artifacts, proxemics, and environment. It focuses on kinesics, which includes body language, movements, facial expressions, posture, and eye contact. Being self-aware of one's non-verbal communication is important for portraying the right message and navigating social interactions effectively. Silence can also communicate emotions and messages depending on the context and culture. Understanding non-verbal communication helps improve one's communication skills and ability to perceive and connect with others.
The document discusses interpersonal relationships and skills. It begins by defining interpersonal relationships and noting they are dynamic systems that change over time, either growing closer or deteriorating further apart. It then outlines the five stages of relationships according to one psychologist: acquaintance, build up, continuation, deterioration, and termination. The document also discusses types of relationships like friendship, love, platonic relationships, and family/work relationships. It covers theories around reducing uncertainty in relationships and improving interpersonal communication skills.
Learn everything about body language and master with body language today starting with these body language basic lessons. Are you ready to learn how to understand and interpret the signs and signals that other people are sending you, so that you can use it to your advantage.
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Communication plays a vital role in relationships. Effective communication requires that the message sender is able to convey their intended meaning and the receiver is able to understand the message. There are four basic elements of communication according to Berlo's model: the sender, the message, the channel, and the receiver. Misunderstandings often arise due to a lack of listening or understanding between two people. Active listening techniques like mirroring, paraphrasing, summarizing, and asking clarifying questions can help improve understanding in conversations.
Body language refers to nonverbal communication signals like facial expressions and gestures. Experts estimate that 60-65% of communication is nonverbal. It is important to understand body language cues, but also consider other signals like context. Nonverbal communication can repeat, contradict, substitute for, or accent verbal messages. Types of body language include facial expressions, eye contact, mouth movements, posture, gestures, use of personal space, touch, and vocal tones/qualities. Interpreting these cues can provide insight into emotions, attitudes, and the truthfulness of messages.
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The document discusses how body language and gestures can easily be misinterpreted across cultures. Three stories are provided as examples: 1) An American uses the "A-OK" gesture which means "money" in Japanese, 2) A British thumbs-up is seen as rude in Sardinian culture, 3) Simple gestures like a finger-ring or nose-pinching take on negative meanings when seen by people from other cultures like Syrian or Colombian. The key lesson is that body language needs to be used carefully as the same gestures can have very different or even opposing meanings depending on the cultural context.
The document describes a young boy named Juan in a Peruvian tribe who wants to join his brothers in an upcoming battle but lacks the strength and fighting skills. His older brother Bruno tries to teach him sword fighting but Juan struggles due to his weak body. The tribe's chief advises Juan that to fight well he needs to stand firmly, use his hands strongly, keep his back straight, and watch his opponent's eyes to understand their intentions.
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This document discusses interpersonal skills and communication skills. It covers a variety of interpersonal skills including personal development, confidence, stress management, and communication skills like listening, verbal communication, and problem solving. Effective interpersonal skills are important for both professional and personal success. Communication involves both verbal language and nonverbal cues. Nonverbal communication makes up a large portion of overall communication and can provide crucial context and meaning. Developing strong communication skills is important for life and career.
Body language has all sorts of influences on people and we use it to communicate in many situations without even being aware that we are doing so. Most of us have a vague understanding of what body language is but might be hard pressed to pin a definition on the concept. Essentially though it is reasonably straight forward. Body language is any method of communication using our body. It includes both verbal (what we say, our tone and the volume we use) and non-verbal (body movements, facial expressions, hand gestures and posture. These different elements sometimes communicate more than we mean them to and they have accurately been described as ‘a silent orchestra that can have long-lasting repercussions’.
Non-verbal communication conveys messages through facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, tone of voice and other behaviors aside from words. It represents around 65% of all communication. There are seven major types of non-verbal communication: kinesics (body language), oculesics (eye contact), paralinguistics (voice), proxemics (space), artifacts (objects), chronemics (time) and haptics (touch). Understanding and properly using non-verbal communication helps build better relationships and express true meaning.
This document provides an overview of non-verbal communication. It discusses that non-verbal communication includes body language, facial expressions, eye contact, gestures, posture, physical characteristics, proximity, timing, paralinguistics, attire, appearance, and touching. Several types of non-verbal cues are described including kinesics, proxemics, haptics, and others. The document emphasizes that non-verbal communication plays an important role in interpersonal interactions and conveying messages beyond words.
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3. Foreword
Chapter 1:
Introduction To Body Language
Chapter 2:
Understand The Positive And Negative Positions
Chapter 3:
Observe How People React To Certain Body Language
Chapter 4:
Set A Goal For The Image You Wish To Project
Chapter 5:
Practice Scenarios In The Mirror
Chapter 6:
Train Your Body To React Positively
Chapter 7:
Learn How To Take Down Someone’s Wall with Positive Body Positions
Chapter 8:
Understand The Importance Of Symmetry
Chapter 9:
Understand The Importance Of Matching The Other Person
Chapter 10:
What You Can Get Into With The Incorrect Body Language
Wrapping Up
Foreword
Body language is another form of subtle communication often
practiced consciously or unconsciously. This “language” is fast
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4. gaining the interest of many people. Body language though very
relevant but can sometimes be wrongly interpreted, however it is still
useful.
Body Language Mastery
Master Human Psychology By Reading The Way People Behave With
Their Bodies
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5. Chapter 1:
Introduction To Body Language
Synopsis
There are many form of communication and sometimes a person’s
body language can actually indicate more things than the spoken
word. Learning to understand body language can be very beneficial
both in the work environment as well as on a more personal front.
Body language reveals personal feelings and reactions to other
people’s feelings. However is has yet to be proven to be a science form
and is not a real indicator to anything as it can be and is often
manipulated.
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6. The Basics
Most powerful people use this form of the unspoken word to make
judgment calls which have proven to be a very effective way of getting
and giving information. Some quarters qualify any and all movements
in the body to be categorized as body movement; while others go even
further to say that even breathing techniques fall in this category too.
When meeting someone for the first time, it is often a benefit to be
able to read their body language signals to assess either the person or
situation.
However again it may not be the best way to form an opinion because
as mentioned earlier, body language can be manipulated. The art of
body language is constantly being exchanged and interpreted between
people on different levels of alternative communication.
While an individual is busy reading the body language of those he or
she in interacting with, they at the same time are also reading the
individual’s body language. People who make it a habit of reading
body language sign always have the advantage over any situation the
thus having some knowledge on this subject would be good.
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7. Chapter 2:
Understand The Positive And Negative Positions
Synopsis
In order to be able to read the various body language signals fairly
accurately, one must first have a basic knowledge of all the possible
positions and meanings attached and projected by these various
poses.
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8. The Put Offs
When a person’s demeanor personifies confidence the body language
projected would be a brisk and erect walk. This movement
successfully conveys the image and mind set of someone focused and
sure of themselves.
The classic stance of hand on hips and legs slightly apart typical of
people trying to portray authority actually reads as being ready for
any outside reaction and potential aggression tendencies. It can also
be used as an intimidating tool.
Sitting with legs slightly apart for men signals confidence and a very
relaxed demeanor. This body language interpretation also applies to
sitting with hands clasped behind the head and legs crossed or
stretched out.
The open palm position shows sincerity, openness, and innocence, as
does an easy slight smile or slight upturned corners of the mouth.
When it comes to the negative body language signs, unfortunately
there are a lot to choose from and fairly easy to see and interpret. For
instance, sitting with legs crossed and foot kicking slightly clearly
signifies boredom while the arms crossed at the chest tells of an
individual’s defensiveness.
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9. Walking with hands in pockets and shoulders hunched slightly, is a
clear indication of dejection. Touching or slightly rubbing of the nose
area is most commonly seen as rejection, doubt or lying. Rubbing the
eye which is unwise to say the least could simply signify tiredness or
feeling sleepy or have a more in depth sign of doubt and disbelief.
Anger and frustration are usually shown as clasped hands behind the
back and a stiff spine position. Sometimes apprehension is also
portrayed this way.
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10. Chapter 3:
Observe How People React To Certain Body Language
Synopsis
Being alert to reading the various non verbal signals people
constantly give out in the form of body language is a very
advantageous thing to be able to do. Fortunately it is not that hard to
do and some people are even very easy to read as they are very open
an expressive.
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11. Watch
However learning to be attentive to these sometimes very subtle
movements does require some practice and understanding. People
who are not in tuned to their surrounding are less like to be sensitive
to the body language. Purposefully and intently being conscious of the
various body reactions will allow for further understanding of the
person or situation.
Most reactions can be comfortably put into two distinct categories.
The positive reaction and the negative reaction, however the
interpretations may not always be as accurate as thought of.
For instance standing closer to another person could be interpreted
as being comfortable and familiar with the said person, while the
action of standing further away maybe perceived as being slightly
aloof or simply being less comfortable or not wanting to encourage a
closer relationship.
Though all equally natural assumptions it could be totally wrong for
other less obvious reasons like perhaps the perfume or scent used by
an individual is overpowering and thus quite disconcerting.
Another commonly interacted body language sign is the openness to
being hugged or kissed. This particular action clearly shows the
person’s personality or their lack of. In being able to read this, those
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12. around are able to either extend the action or use a more reserved
form of body contact.
When trying to gauge a situation or a new personality to an already
existing group of people, the reactions spoken or implied through
body language is very helpful.
The body language of the new comer is also going to be reflected in
the corresponding reactions of those already established in the
particular scenario.
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13. Chapter 4:
Set A Goal For The Image You Wish To Project
Synopsis
Most people come to a point in life when they desire to make a
complete change to project a new image. After being the old out dated
image for so long and finding only boring lifestyle to suit it, the idea of
change is more than welcome.
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14. Accomplishing
In order to do this rebranding exercise on one’s self there has to be a
certain clear cut goal to work towards. This is to ensure that the
exercise is completed to the end and successfully. Some of the areas
worth exploring are personal style, choice of clothing, personal body
conditions are just a few to mention.
Changing the personal style of an individual is almost always the first
goal to achieve in an overall make over. The general habitual body
language should be able to be complimented with the change or
adjustment of the personal style.
Having a good personal style will eventually transcend into the ability
to make eye contact confidently and thus further portray the
confidence in the body language too.
The overall dressing of an individual is also linked to the personality
and body language practiced. People who generally prefer to be
casually dressed give the impression of being easy going when
coupled with the corresponding body language of a much laid back
demeanor.
In contrast those who are always impeccably dressed have a rather
stiff body language. If the idea is to be more professional in demeanor
than the corresponding image should also project this.
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15. For some, the original habit of poor grooming is a norm. If there is to
be some form of interaction with others especially in a more friendly
way then the issue of personal grooming should be addressed.
Having an image in mind of the desired outcome is the first step to
actually considering and changing the overall demeanor of the
individual through new and more appropriate body language signals.
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16. Chapter 5:
Practice Scenarios In The Mirror
Synopsis
Today almost everything is taken at face value and for most; this way
of reading people is not only beneficial but fairly quick. However the
danger is the wrong interpretations could be read and thus the wrong
idea formed.
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17. Rehearse
Life is like a stage and to get anywhere everyone must play the game
cooperatively. Most people have a habit of practicing some body
language routines in front of a mirror. This is a good way to see what
other people are seeing and to make the necessary changes to ensure
the right messages are getting across through the body language used.
Practicing scenes in the mirror also allows for the individual to gain
the necessary confidence in the proposed encounter which he or she
is practicing for. This then also ensure the body and facial movements
portray the desired results and not to be misconstrued.
Sometimes people unwittingly portray the exact opposite of what they
actually mean to and this can cause unnecessary problems for all
parties involved. Body language is subtle form of getting the message
across and there is certainly a need to be sure that the message is not
assumed or presumed.
Therefore by practicing the various different poses and expressions in
front of a mirror the mind can actually disseminate what the eye
perceives.
Once the desired body language action and facial contours are
mastered, the individual will be able to have a new found confidence
in actually replaying it all at the appropriately appointed time. This
confidence is apparent because the mind’s eye has already been privy
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18. to the personified confidence shown by the mirror image. Also
subconsciously the person becomes more aware of the “new” image
rather than the “old” image when actually playing out the intended
practiced role.
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19. Chapter 6:
Train Your Body To React Positively
Synopsis
As already firmly established, body language is a very important
stubble form of communicating feelings and reactions to the
surroundings. Also previously established is the fact that body
language can also be manipulated to an advantage or required
circumstances.
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20. The Right Way
Here are some areas where one can train or manipulate the body to
react in a certain way in order to achieve the desired results.
• Eye contact – this is an important aspect to be mastered when
dealing with people. Ensuring constant eye contact allows the
recipient to be assured that there is some level of interest in what is
being discussed. Whether feigned or not eye contact is something
worth learning to exercise. It also makes the recipient feel more at
ease and confident in the situation.
• Posture is another important body position that dictates not
only the actual feeling of tiredness and being drained but also
physically causes these feelings to manifest itself. This is due to the
hunched or droopy shoulders as well as the hunched positions all
contributing to the inhibition of good and deep breathing. This in
turn will give the impression of being uncomfortable or nervous.
• Using the head positions to dictate the perceived body language
message is also another effective way of making a situation
comfortable or uncomfortable. Tilting the head slightly while talking
or listening implies a friendly demeanor while keeping the head
ramrod straight and aligned with the back and spine implies
seriousness and even annoyance.
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21. • The all popular crossing of arms clearly indicates disapproval
from time beginning. Commonly done from an authoritive position it
tells everyone to back off and give the individual space. On the other
hand, hands hanging loosely or kept behind the back implies being in
control and able to take on anything, which is a good body language
to develop to project the desired effects.
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22. Chapter 7:
Learn How To Take Down Someone’s Wall with Positive
Body Positions
Synopsis
Sometimes when verbal communication does not work, one has to
find other alternatives to get the message across effectively and
quickly. Everyone has their own distinct ways of expressing
themselves and those who are familiar with the body language signs
will have no problems interpreting these signals.
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23. The Way To Get In
In order to create a comfortable situation or improve an otherwise
uncomfortable situation the use d of different body language
positions can help. These various positions are used to create the
desired difference in how people receive the implied messages, the
general mood of the recipient or even to strike a balance in those
around.
Some commonly practiced and recommended body positions that can
help keep those around feeling at ease and even happier are as
follows:
• Smiling – this very rarely brings on a negative response or
reaction. Most people will almost immediately change their negative
responding reaction to a positive one, when a smile is offered. It
would be hard to respond to a smile with a harsh negative reaction.
• A confident sitting position is also another way to “shake” any
negative elements in both the individual and those around. Giving the
impression of being relaxed yet with a certain amount of alertness,
the individual will be able to defuse any possible responsive slouching
individuals. It also encourages those around to be an energetic as
possible with the straight upright position.
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24. • In practicing slower and more precise moments the individual
is also creating a sense of calmness all around. This in turn will also
encourage those around to be equally calm and relaxed.
All these when put into practice regularly until it becomes fairly
natural will cause those around to be positively affected too. When
this is accomplished the percentage of confrontations is lessoned and
kept under control.
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25. Chapter 8:
Understand The Importance Of Symmetry
Synopsis
Achieving symmetry in life is a goal worth working towards. In life all
things must have some sort of balance. Technically symmetry patters
help us organize out little individual worlds conceptually. For the
even more technically discerning individual, symmetry is best
explained as an occurrence in nature and the inversions by artists,
craftspeople musicians, choreographers, and mathematicians.
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26. Equal
For the individual however this is more than just striking a balance.
Going by the general rule that in all things there is an action and a
reaction would be a simpler way to explain this rather too simply
implied term. Being able to react or cause a certain reaction is in
some way exercising some control over the outcome of any given
situation.
If an individual wishes to engage in a scenario where upon the
outcome is beneficial to all, then the relevant body language needs to
be focused and specifically tuned towards the said outcome. The
response to the practiced and planned different body language should
have the intention of achieving some level of symmetry in its delivery.
Sometimes or perhaps most times the symmetry of any situation
needs to be readjusted in order to gain the reflection intended or
desired.
If the desired symmetrical reaction needed and desired is meant to be
positive, then the corresponding body language should be done in a
way that engages the same positive reflective results.
Sending out the body signals that personify the positive aura will
almost always be able to achieve the positive outcome that is
symmetrical in nature. The same would apply to the oppositely
generated body language.
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27. Technically the symmetrical system can be broken up into a few
distinct parts which are rotation symmetry, reflection symmetry,
translation symmetry and glide reflection symmetry. All of these can
be inter related and reflected in the various corresponding body
language.
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28. Chapter 9:
Understand The Importance Of Matching The Other Person
Synopsis
In all settings most people go out of their way to be accommodating
and receptive to the needs of others. Unfortunately this has slowly
become a dying state of art to practice.
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29. Some Suggestions
In the various hectic and self focused scenarios today people
sometimes lose sight that their individual actions and speech patterns
don’t just affect themselves but also affects those around.
In some cases the consequences are so far reaching, that it is
sometimes difficult to understand how an action or word which is
perceived to be a small insignificant gesture can have monumental
effects.
Body language can have this unusual reflective result. The only
important thing to bear in mind is that whatever body language being
exercised will have some reaction or another.
Therefore the idea behind the practice of controlling the intended
body language movements should always be to garner the positively
intended results.
Creating a comfortable or uncomfortable situation, intentionally or
unintentionally is always the idea behind trying to match the others
around, through the use of body language.
This is an effective tool that is sometimes much more effective that
using the power of the spoken word. It has been said, either in jest or
in seriousness that “looks can kill” or “actions speak louder than
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30. words.” Though the latter does not really or specifically refer to the
actual actions there are some connotations that can be linked to it.
In always considering the actions and body language practices, it
would be advantageous to a certain extent as this is indeed a very
effective tool to use both in an individual’s personal and professional
life.
In social settings too the use and manipulation of the body language
to garner the intended reflective response is very much depended
upon the execution style of the said body language.
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31. Chapter 10:
What You Can Get Into With The Incorrect Body Language
Synopsis
Often time people don’t realize the impact of the body language and
its consequences on any given particular situation or scenario.
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32. Some Facts
Most people breeze through the day without this reality ever coming
the light. However for the discerning and some would sad
intelligently scheming few, the purposeful use of body language in the
daily life has proven to be quite an effective and beneficial tool.
Practicing to be consciously and continually aware of this sometimes
very effective tool is an art worth exploring. However on the other
hand the wrong or subconscious use of the body language tool can
bring about unnecessary and sometimes annoying results. Incorrect
use of body language can bring about the reactions and reflections
that are not needed or wanted and thus causing a great inconvenience
to both the person suing the body language too and the perceived
receiver. Such misinterpretation can end up causing the almost
opposite intended reactions.
Especially in relationships when a particularly innocently termed
body language is exercised and reflected the consequences of said
actions can and often are wrongly perceived, resulting in the very
messy process of trying the “straighten” everything out. In business
too, a wrong perception of the body language tool can cause very
damaging results indeed. Therefore it is indeed prudent to practice to
be ever conscious of the body language being implied and practiced.
This is indeed necessary to avoid any unnecessary inconveniences
from occurring.
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33. Conclusion.
There are a lot of positive results that can be gotten from the
practiced use of positive body language. But in order to understand
and acquire the skills to consciously practice the positive body
language tactics, one first has to have some basic knowledge of the
actual expressions and actions involved.
In doing so there is a good possibility in being able to avoid the
consequences of incorrect body language signals or actions being
reflected in a person’s demeanor either consciously or subconsciously.
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