Harrison believes that each one of us is passionate about something or the other in life. Harrison advises that when you find your excitement in life, make it your mission. It can change the entire course of your life.
This girl considers her cousin Aaliyah to be her best friend. They are always together taking pictures and having fun, although they do fight sometimes. The document expresses how much this person cares about Aaliyah and that she doesn't know what her life would be like without her.
This document is an excerpt from a journal or novel describing the narrator's experiences growing up without her father and watching her mother search for a new partner.
The narrator recalls bonding with her mother's new partner Oscar during a camping trip, only to later discover he was the reason for her parents' separation. She withdraws from her mother and begins dating multiple boys in school, unable to find satisfaction in relationships like her mother.
When her childhood friend Theo's father dies, it ends her relationship with her lab partner. She then sets her sights on the school council president Timothy, running for secretary in order to get closer to him despite him being in a relationship already.
Ale documents her daily life and reflections over a period of several weeks. She discusses struggling with trusting her best friend after searching for him online, dealing with health issues including cerebral palsy and an eating disorder, falling in love with a man she has never met in person, and grappling with fears of losing control in her life and in relationships. She expresses a desire to publish her own book despite challenges with writing.
This is a short story I wrote about 2 years ago and I still love reading it and sharing it with others. This story is about a troubled teen who faces real life problems everyday and struggles to fight them, to find out if she does, give it a read. It is very dramatic and suspenseful. I'm sure you'll enjoy it very much so.
The document is a collection of short passages about the writer's life experiences. It includes descriptions of her brothers, Christmas traditions with her family, her love for her dad despite his flaws, Easter celebrations at her aunt's house, her many fears including bugs, her close relationship with her grandmother despite her illness, Halloween traditions, her interests as a teen, her former best friend who moved away, her favorite cousin, feelings about her hometown, her overprotective mother, nice and mean neighbors, her organized nature, her pets, her habit of asking questions, sharing a room with her messy sister who she is close with, annual family trips, her favorite funny uncle, how she got her name, love of winter and playing in
1) The author recalls an experience as a teenager where she went out on a date with a popular boy from school named Zen who took her to a romantic restaurant. However, things took a turn when he brought her to a dark snooker place where he ignored her pleas to take her home.
2) Stranded and afraid, the author managed to walk several miles to catch a bus home but arrived very late, causing her father to become furious with worry. In a moment of anger, he physically punished the author.
3) After reflecting on the experience, the author came to understand her father's perspective and feelings of fear for her safety. On Father's Day a few days later, the author and
Haley created a multigenre project to reflect on the life of her Papaw after his unexpected death from a heart attack. The project includes diary entries from the night he passed away describing her grief and loss. It also includes letters Haley wrote to Papaw years later updating him on her life and expressing her ongoing sadness over his absence. Additional pieces describe memories of their time together like playing games, Haley's favorite things about Papaw, and the impact he had on her life and family. The project aims to honor Papaw and help Haley's family remember his importance.
This girl considers her cousin Aaliyah to be her best friend. They are always together taking pictures and having fun, although they do fight sometimes. The document expresses how much this person cares about Aaliyah and that she doesn't know what her life would be like without her.
This document is an excerpt from a journal or novel describing the narrator's experiences growing up without her father and watching her mother search for a new partner.
The narrator recalls bonding with her mother's new partner Oscar during a camping trip, only to later discover he was the reason for her parents' separation. She withdraws from her mother and begins dating multiple boys in school, unable to find satisfaction in relationships like her mother.
When her childhood friend Theo's father dies, it ends her relationship with her lab partner. She then sets her sights on the school council president Timothy, running for secretary in order to get closer to him despite him being in a relationship already.
Ale documents her daily life and reflections over a period of several weeks. She discusses struggling with trusting her best friend after searching for him online, dealing with health issues including cerebral palsy and an eating disorder, falling in love with a man she has never met in person, and grappling with fears of losing control in her life and in relationships. She expresses a desire to publish her own book despite challenges with writing.
This is a short story I wrote about 2 years ago and I still love reading it and sharing it with others. This story is about a troubled teen who faces real life problems everyday and struggles to fight them, to find out if she does, give it a read. It is very dramatic and suspenseful. I'm sure you'll enjoy it very much so.
The document is a collection of short passages about the writer's life experiences. It includes descriptions of her brothers, Christmas traditions with her family, her love for her dad despite his flaws, Easter celebrations at her aunt's house, her many fears including bugs, her close relationship with her grandmother despite her illness, Halloween traditions, her interests as a teen, her former best friend who moved away, her favorite cousin, feelings about her hometown, her overprotective mother, nice and mean neighbors, her organized nature, her pets, her habit of asking questions, sharing a room with her messy sister who she is close with, annual family trips, her favorite funny uncle, how she got her name, love of winter and playing in
1) The author recalls an experience as a teenager where she went out on a date with a popular boy from school named Zen who took her to a romantic restaurant. However, things took a turn when he brought her to a dark snooker place where he ignored her pleas to take her home.
2) Stranded and afraid, the author managed to walk several miles to catch a bus home but arrived very late, causing her father to become furious with worry. In a moment of anger, he physically punished the author.
3) After reflecting on the experience, the author came to understand her father's perspective and feelings of fear for her safety. On Father's Day a few days later, the author and
Haley created a multigenre project to reflect on the life of her Papaw after his unexpected death from a heart attack. The project includes diary entries from the night he passed away describing her grief and loss. It also includes letters Haley wrote to Papaw years later updating him on her life and expressing her ongoing sadness over his absence. Additional pieces describe memories of their time together like playing games, Haley's favorite things about Papaw, and the impact he had on her life and family. The project aims to honor Papaw and help Haley's family remember his importance.
This document contains summaries of several parts of the athlete's life:
1) The athlete has been cheerleading since age 5 and enjoys the challenges it provides as well as helping them develop better sportsmanship and teamwork skills. Cheerleading has become a big part of their life.
2) They have a close group of best friends who they trust and talk to everyday, and who all have different personalities that complement each other.
3) One friend, Chantelle, is especially close and feels more like a sister. They are always there for each other during both good and bad times.
The essay discusses Angelo Reyes' suicide and argues it was not the right decision as there were other solutions like counseling. It notes suicide violates the commandment against killing and that people should focus on solving problems rather than ending
From the Other Side of Happiness V1 5 ChaptersCassandra Jakes
This document is an introduction to a story about Cassandra Bradley Jakes, a 28-year-old successful doctor who feels empty inside despite her accomplishments. She reflects on her childhood and difficult past, wondering what is missing from her life. The story then shifts to Cassandra's school days where she formed a close friendship with Sharon, who helped her through challenges. After graduating high school, Cassandra had a traumatic experience getting lost on the night of her graduation that has left a dark shadow. She realizes she has hard work ahead as she prepares for college in the fall.
Billy-Bella Smith moves to Pleasantview after running away from an arranged marriage. She gets a job as a playground monitor and teacher's aide at the local school. Bella hopes to start a big family of her own someday. On her first night off, she goes to the cemetery, hoping to meet new people. There, she meets Phoenix, who she flirts with, but he leaves abruptly after a witch appears and causes a fight. Hurt, Bella drives home, crying over her failed attempt at a new relationship.
The document is a first person account of a college student named Akhil's long-time crush on a senior student named Natasha. Over several years, Akhil observes Natasha from afar and creates fake Facebook accounts to view her photos without directly contacting her. He eventually works up the courage to directly message Natasha, and they agree to meet in person at a bakery. During their meeting, Akhil expresses his feelings for Natasha and explains his past Facebook activities. Natasha is initially angry but becomes more understanding as Akhil shares his perspective. They discuss their future plans, with Natasha saying she will attend graduate school and Akhil hoping to also attend the same program to remain close to Natasha.
This document contains summaries of several topics from the perspective of a teenager. It discusses enjoying cheerleading since a young age and valuing the lessons it teaches about teamwork. It also expresses love and trust for a group of best friends, particularly appreciating their individual qualities but enjoying their friendship. Another passage discusses a special father-daughter dance with a family friend filling in for an absent father.
Rachel Okoye is a highly successful business woman in her late thirties. Despite her achievements, she is dealing with a vacuum in her life. A series of bad luck with men and love have left her feeling like a puzzle missing its final piece. Realizing she was wrong to think a husband would automatically fall in place after accumulating material possessions, Rachel finds herself getting desperate for a husband and becoming less satisfied with life in the process.
Mine Will Come Tomorrow shines some light on the pressures and struggles that come with finding love as an older woman, dealing with the loss of a loved one and investing in men who turn up to be living secret lives. We all love to see people win at love and this story sure ends with hope. It’s a relatable read.
Carly shares updates about her relationship with her crush Caleb. After tripping over his backpack and breaking her wrist, they began spending more time together. Caleb took Carly on their first date to see the school play. They later made their relationship official and have been growing closer, enjoying activities like sledding, picnics, and family trips together. Carly expresses her happiness in finding new things to love about Caleb daily and their strong connection over the past month and a half.
The document discusses the author's unexpected loss of his wife of 44 years and how he coped with the grief. It then describes how the author decided to dedicate an issue of his magazine "Kafla" to his late wife. The issue would focus on women and include articles and poems about women written by the author and his writer friends. The author expresses gratitude to relatives and friends for supporting him during his time of grief and for helping him publish this dedicated issue of the magazine.
The document describes several events from the author's life: 1) Getting a pet chinchilla after begging their parents and the chinchilla turning her exercise wheel around at night; 2) Taking a karate class as a child but quitting as a white belt and only remembering doing kicks at the beach; 3) Having anger issues as a young child and being kicked out of two kindergartens.
The document discusses two teen suicide cases. The first is about a teenager who suffered severe depression after a breakup and considered suicide but ultimately decided to get help. The second case discusses a teenage girl who endured an abusive relationship, a miscarriage, and the suicide of her best friend. She struggled with her mental health but was able to remove herself from toxic influences and rebuild her support system. The document ends by discussing the suicide of another close friend, Emily, and the struggles the author had accepting and processing her death.
1) The document describes the narrator meeting and spending time with a girl he was attracted to after an election. They stayed the night together in an empty house.
2) In the night, they were interrupted by some boys who threatened them. They were able to escape with the help of the narrator's cousin.
3) The next morning, the narrator watched a woman bathing in a canal near where he stayed with the girl. He then parted ways with the girl and returned home.
The document provides an overview of the author's childhood memories and experiences. It describes how the author was born into a middle-class family in 1951 and felt like a "trouble boy" due to his father falling ill after his birth. His father suffered from tuberculosis in the 1950s and had to be hospitalized for treatment, leaving the young author to stay with relatives. The author recalls painful memories of being away from his parents during this difficult time. Overall, the document shares glimpses into the author's challenging childhood and early life experiences that helped shape his outlook and philosophy.
This document summarizes the narrator's life experiences growing up in West Virginia. They were born in Cabell Huntington Hospital and grew up with their mother, sister, and father until their parents divorced. They had a difficult relationship with their maternal grandmother who showed clear favoritism towards the narrator's sister. The narrator enjoyed spending time with their paternal grandfather until he passed away from a heart attack when the narrator was in 5th grade, which was their first major loss. The narrator found community through friends and attending local anime conventions. They struggled with depression in high school as loved ones left them.
This document discusses several fictional romantic "ships" or pairings between characters from various anime and games. It provides details on 10 different ships, describing how the characters met and aspects of their imagined relationships and dynamics. For example, one ship discussed is Azul and Marie from Twisted Wonderland, where Azul saved Marie from drowning as children and had an awkward confession of feelings for her in high school. Overall the document imagines romantic storylines and backgrounds for various fictional character pairings.
My Feelings On How It Started And Endedgraceyj9298
1) The document describes the narrator's first love experience with a boy named Gregg over the summer of 2012 when they were neighbors. They began as friends but quickly developed feelings and started dating.
2) However, when school started other girls did not like the narrator and spread rumors, making her insecure in the relationship. Gregg did little to reassure her and they broke up after a few months.
3) Four months later, the narrator reflects on growing more secure in herself since the breakup. She is dating a new boy and feels happier now, though still hurt by losing friends to other social circles.
Charity finds Aimee crying in the bathroom after returning home to find her father's urn in the kitchen. Aimee explains through tears that she asked her father to cook a fancy meal which caused a kitchen fire, and that she failed to save him from dying. Charity comforts Aimee but doesn't fully accept that it was her fault. Over time, Charity and their mother begin to move on with their lives, finding love and happiness again, while Aimee remains consumed by guilt and grief, blaming herself for her father's death.
The document describes the relationship between Nicky and Birna from when they first met in 2006 through 2007. It details their interactions in school, realizing their feelings for each other, saying "I love you" for the first time, sharing their first kiss, and expressing their commitment to staying together forever. The relationship brought each of them great joy and they believe in their future together.
The document describes the relationship between Nicky and Birna from when they first met in 2006 through 2007. It details their interactions in school, realizing their feelings for each other, saying "I love you" for the first time, sharing their first kiss, and expressing their ongoing commitment to each other. The relationship brought each of them great joy and they look forward to continuing their love and partnership.
Harrison believes that one of the most important things to any human being is to feel important. We all have the need to feel significant and this need is something that really controls and governs many of our lives. Being focused on the work is incredibly important. Being focused on your own significance is attachment, and all attachments eventually result in disappointment.
This document contains summaries of several parts of the athlete's life:
1) The athlete has been cheerleading since age 5 and enjoys the challenges it provides as well as helping them develop better sportsmanship and teamwork skills. Cheerleading has become a big part of their life.
2) They have a close group of best friends who they trust and talk to everyday, and who all have different personalities that complement each other.
3) One friend, Chantelle, is especially close and feels more like a sister. They are always there for each other during both good and bad times.
The essay discusses Angelo Reyes' suicide and argues it was not the right decision as there were other solutions like counseling. It notes suicide violates the commandment against killing and that people should focus on solving problems rather than ending
From the Other Side of Happiness V1 5 ChaptersCassandra Jakes
This document is an introduction to a story about Cassandra Bradley Jakes, a 28-year-old successful doctor who feels empty inside despite her accomplishments. She reflects on her childhood and difficult past, wondering what is missing from her life. The story then shifts to Cassandra's school days where she formed a close friendship with Sharon, who helped her through challenges. After graduating high school, Cassandra had a traumatic experience getting lost on the night of her graduation that has left a dark shadow. She realizes she has hard work ahead as she prepares for college in the fall.
Billy-Bella Smith moves to Pleasantview after running away from an arranged marriage. She gets a job as a playground monitor and teacher's aide at the local school. Bella hopes to start a big family of her own someday. On her first night off, she goes to the cemetery, hoping to meet new people. There, she meets Phoenix, who she flirts with, but he leaves abruptly after a witch appears and causes a fight. Hurt, Bella drives home, crying over her failed attempt at a new relationship.
The document is a first person account of a college student named Akhil's long-time crush on a senior student named Natasha. Over several years, Akhil observes Natasha from afar and creates fake Facebook accounts to view her photos without directly contacting her. He eventually works up the courage to directly message Natasha, and they agree to meet in person at a bakery. During their meeting, Akhil expresses his feelings for Natasha and explains his past Facebook activities. Natasha is initially angry but becomes more understanding as Akhil shares his perspective. They discuss their future plans, with Natasha saying she will attend graduate school and Akhil hoping to also attend the same program to remain close to Natasha.
This document contains summaries of several topics from the perspective of a teenager. It discusses enjoying cheerleading since a young age and valuing the lessons it teaches about teamwork. It also expresses love and trust for a group of best friends, particularly appreciating their individual qualities but enjoying their friendship. Another passage discusses a special father-daughter dance with a family friend filling in for an absent father.
Rachel Okoye is a highly successful business woman in her late thirties. Despite her achievements, she is dealing with a vacuum in her life. A series of bad luck with men and love have left her feeling like a puzzle missing its final piece. Realizing she was wrong to think a husband would automatically fall in place after accumulating material possessions, Rachel finds herself getting desperate for a husband and becoming less satisfied with life in the process.
Mine Will Come Tomorrow shines some light on the pressures and struggles that come with finding love as an older woman, dealing with the loss of a loved one and investing in men who turn up to be living secret lives. We all love to see people win at love and this story sure ends with hope. It’s a relatable read.
Carly shares updates about her relationship with her crush Caleb. After tripping over his backpack and breaking her wrist, they began spending more time together. Caleb took Carly on their first date to see the school play. They later made their relationship official and have been growing closer, enjoying activities like sledding, picnics, and family trips together. Carly expresses her happiness in finding new things to love about Caleb daily and their strong connection over the past month and a half.
The document discusses the author's unexpected loss of his wife of 44 years and how he coped with the grief. It then describes how the author decided to dedicate an issue of his magazine "Kafla" to his late wife. The issue would focus on women and include articles and poems about women written by the author and his writer friends. The author expresses gratitude to relatives and friends for supporting him during his time of grief and for helping him publish this dedicated issue of the magazine.
The document describes several events from the author's life: 1) Getting a pet chinchilla after begging their parents and the chinchilla turning her exercise wheel around at night; 2) Taking a karate class as a child but quitting as a white belt and only remembering doing kicks at the beach; 3) Having anger issues as a young child and being kicked out of two kindergartens.
The document discusses two teen suicide cases. The first is about a teenager who suffered severe depression after a breakup and considered suicide but ultimately decided to get help. The second case discusses a teenage girl who endured an abusive relationship, a miscarriage, and the suicide of her best friend. She struggled with her mental health but was able to remove herself from toxic influences and rebuild her support system. The document ends by discussing the suicide of another close friend, Emily, and the struggles the author had accepting and processing her death.
1) The document describes the narrator meeting and spending time with a girl he was attracted to after an election. They stayed the night together in an empty house.
2) In the night, they were interrupted by some boys who threatened them. They were able to escape with the help of the narrator's cousin.
3) The next morning, the narrator watched a woman bathing in a canal near where he stayed with the girl. He then parted ways with the girl and returned home.
The document provides an overview of the author's childhood memories and experiences. It describes how the author was born into a middle-class family in 1951 and felt like a "trouble boy" due to his father falling ill after his birth. His father suffered from tuberculosis in the 1950s and had to be hospitalized for treatment, leaving the young author to stay with relatives. The author recalls painful memories of being away from his parents during this difficult time. Overall, the document shares glimpses into the author's challenging childhood and early life experiences that helped shape his outlook and philosophy.
This document summarizes the narrator's life experiences growing up in West Virginia. They were born in Cabell Huntington Hospital and grew up with their mother, sister, and father until their parents divorced. They had a difficult relationship with their maternal grandmother who showed clear favoritism towards the narrator's sister. The narrator enjoyed spending time with their paternal grandfather until he passed away from a heart attack when the narrator was in 5th grade, which was their first major loss. The narrator found community through friends and attending local anime conventions. They struggled with depression in high school as loved ones left them.
This document discusses several fictional romantic "ships" or pairings between characters from various anime and games. It provides details on 10 different ships, describing how the characters met and aspects of their imagined relationships and dynamics. For example, one ship discussed is Azul and Marie from Twisted Wonderland, where Azul saved Marie from drowning as children and had an awkward confession of feelings for her in high school. Overall the document imagines romantic storylines and backgrounds for various fictional character pairings.
My Feelings On How It Started And Endedgraceyj9298
1) The document describes the narrator's first love experience with a boy named Gregg over the summer of 2012 when they were neighbors. They began as friends but quickly developed feelings and started dating.
2) However, when school started other girls did not like the narrator and spread rumors, making her insecure in the relationship. Gregg did little to reassure her and they broke up after a few months.
3) Four months later, the narrator reflects on growing more secure in herself since the breakup. She is dating a new boy and feels happier now, though still hurt by losing friends to other social circles.
Charity finds Aimee crying in the bathroom after returning home to find her father's urn in the kitchen. Aimee explains through tears that she asked her father to cook a fancy meal which caused a kitchen fire, and that she failed to save him from dying. Charity comforts Aimee but doesn't fully accept that it was her fault. Over time, Charity and their mother begin to move on with their lives, finding love and happiness again, while Aimee remains consumed by guilt and grief, blaming herself for her father's death.
The document describes the relationship between Nicky and Birna from when they first met in 2006 through 2007. It details their interactions in school, realizing their feelings for each other, saying "I love you" for the first time, sharing their first kiss, and expressing their commitment to staying together forever. The relationship brought each of them great joy and they believe in their future together.
The document describes the relationship between Nicky and Birna from when they first met in 2006 through 2007. It details their interactions in school, realizing their feelings for each other, saying "I love you" for the first time, sharing their first kiss, and expressing their ongoing commitment to each other. The relationship brought each of them great joy and they look forward to continuing their love and partnership.
Harrison believes that one of the most important things to any human being is to feel important. We all have the need to feel significant and this need is something that really controls and governs many of our lives. Being focused on the work is incredibly important. Being focused on your own significance is attachment, and all attachments eventually result in disappointment.
you will experience less anger if you choose groups whose rules you can follow easily. Not only will this help you, it will also translate into less harm to those around you as well.
Emotional connection is needed in you personal as well as professional life. Harrison strongly believes in the power of emotion. Everything is about emotion. The ability of someone to arouse our emotions is what really drives us. Without emotion, you have nothing. Your ability to use emotion to connect with others is something that will have a profound impact on your career.
Setting Incredible Expectations - Your Perception of Yourself Defines Who You...Employment Crossing
Harrison believes that it is important to surround yourself with people who believe in you and what you can achieve. It is equally important that you distance yourself from people who do not believe that.
EmploymentScape Chief Executive Officer, A. Harrison Barnes believes that communicating our value is something we all must do to get jobs and also to keep our jobs. One of the biggest mistakes people make when interviewing for jobs (or in their current jobs) is failing to communicate their value frequently and in detail. It's extremely important that you communicate with your company and supervisors at all times.
The author visited Deep Springs College, a small, selective liberal arts college known for its rigorous academics and requirement that students perform manual labor. Upon arriving, the author realized that beneath the surface of this prestigious institution, the students had little freedom and closely monitored each other. During an interview with the student admissions committee, the author was questioned about quoting Carl Jung in an essay without having read his works. This experience taught the author not to make assumptions based on appearances and that everyone has secrets beneath the surface.
In life and in career, most people seek to improve, get traction and stay in the game. No one wishes to slip and fall and yet all, at some point or another do.
The document discusses two key factors that drive success: (1) having a strong motivating force such as love, lack, rejection or anger, and (2) incorporating routine and discipline. It provides many examples of how successful people have harnessed emotions like love and anger to fuel their motivation and accomplishments. It also emphasizes the importance of establishing routines like goal-setting and progress tracking to avoid complacency and reach one's full potential.
In your job search and life do not overlook the obvious. Many times the solution to whatever problem you are facing is right in front of you and very simple.
The Most Important Person You Communicate With is YourselfEmployment Crossing
Harrison believes that your life and the degree to which you are happy, greatly depend on the way you perceive the people and the world around you. Harrison points out that happiness is all about how much importance you give to yourself and to your heart.
The most important thing for you in your job is to have access to cash as well as, cash that flows. You cannot get a mortgage in most cases unless you can prove that you have access to work that repeats itself.
You Will Succeed in Your Job and Job Search When You Are Concerned With Givin...Employment Crossing
A relationship with an employer is quite similar to any other relationship. In maintaining any relationship, you need to understand the other person's needs. You need to concentrate more on giving than taking.
The document discusses the concept of "flow" or being fully immersed and focused in an activity without concerns of ego or self-consciousness. It provides examples of people experiencing flow in their work as athletes, artists, or drivers who are passionate about their jobs. However, most people are not present in their work and are always wanting to be somewhere else due to a sense of lack and a need to find their identity through external things rather than from within. This constant seeking of fulfillment from outside sources leads to unhappiness and prevents people from achieving success in their current roles.
The neighbor would see the man of the house drink beers quickly behind his garage when his daughter and son-in-law visited. This happened every few weeks and was the man's way of dealing with the stress of their visits. The passage discusses common ways people cope with stress, such as distraction, avoidance, isolation, or dissipating energy, but argues these don't resolve the underlying issues. It introduces the concept of "focusing" from Dr. Gendlin's research - accepting feelings instead of resisting stress, in order to remain conscious of problems and deal with them directly.
Are You Motivated by Power, Relationships, or Achievement?Employment Crossing
The document discusses three different personality types that may emerge when someone sits in the restored classic cars that the author has spent decades restoring: power-oriented, relationship-oriented, and achievement-oriented. It provides examples of how each type would react and what questions they would ask when viewing the cars, noting their different motivations - power, relationships, and achievement respectively. The author stresses the importance of understanding one's own personality type and being in a career that allows one to thrive using their natural motivations.
To succeed in the terms you have set for yourself, you need to look out for, and operate in, an environment that is strong and very demanding from you in terms of work.
Be Someone Who is Engaged with Work, Not Someone Who Avoids WorkEmployment Crossing
The document discusses several instances the author witnessed of people avoiding work or being disengaged from their jobs, including:
1) Two airline stewardesses who spent their time during the flight clipping coupons and complaining about their jobs instead of serving passengers.
2) An airline executive who was upset about being expected to work during a flight instead of sleeping.
3) Pilots who were more interested in surfing the internet than flying the plane.
4) An airport shuttle driver who was not actually picking passengers up from the airport on schedule.
The author concludes that being engaged with and finding meaning in one's work is important for career satisfaction and success.
Garlic Olive Oil, Craigslist Massages-and Doing Your HomeworkEmployment Crossing
Do not plunge into something as important as a new job before investing enough time in researching and learning more about the work required, the people you will work with, and the environment.
You need to decide for yourself which method works best for you. An alternate to this exists as well; you can choose to let things remain the way they are.
It is important for every individual to realize that nobody else is going to be as concerned for your career as you yourself. Because of this reason, it becomes much more important to protect your ability to earn your living.
Paying attention to details is one of the most important things for success. Successful people have an extraordinary ability to focus on even small details and are often obsessed with intricate knowledge about details. Details are important in every profession from law and teaching to business and athletics. Those who focus on details like remembering customer preferences, following up after a job application, or working to improve small weaknesses will achieve better results than those who do not pay attention to the small things.
The document discusses a man who attended a wedding rehearsal dinner and sat next to a wealthy businessman. The businessman revealed that he prefers using prostitutes to relationships because it is cheaper and less troublesome. The narrator was shocked by this viewpoint, which treats people as commodities that can be bought and sold. The document argues that to succeed in business and career, one must form emotional connections with others and understand their goals and dreams, in order to be seen as more than just a replaceable commodity.
You need to defend yourself against bullies and make sure they are not successful in their efforts. You are a valuable individual with special talents.
1. Creating a sense of urgency is an effective sales tactic that gets people to commit to purchases they otherwise may not have made.
2. When selling asphalt repair services door-to-door, the author found that telling customers he could only do the work the next day at a discounted price dramatically increased his sales.
3. In a job search, the author created a sense of urgency by implying that many other firms were pursuing him, resulting in a fast job offer. Creating urgency is a powerful tool in the job search.
Learnings from Successful Jobs SearchersBruce Bennett
Are you interested to know what actions help in a job search? This webinar is the summary of several individuals who discussed their job search journey for others to follow. You will learn there are common actions that helped them succeed in their quest for gainful employment.
Leadership Ambassador club Adventist modulekakomaeric00
Aims to equip people who aspire to become leaders with good qualities,and with Christian values and morals as per Biblical teachings.The you who aspire to be leaders should first read and understand what the ambassador module for leadership says about leadership and marry that to what the bible says.Christians sh
Joyce M Sullivan, Founder & CEO of SocMediaFin, Inc. shares her "Five Questions - The Story of You", "Reflections - What Matters to You?" and "The Three Circle Exercise" to guide those evaluating what their next move may be in their careers.
We recently hosted the much-anticipated Community Skill Builders Workshop during our June online meeting. This event was a culmination of six months of listening to your feedback and crafting solutions to better support your PMI journey. Here’s a look back at what happened and the exciting developments that emerged from our collaborative efforts.
A Gathering of Minds
We were thrilled to see a diverse group of attendees, including local certified PMI trainers and both new and experienced members eager to contribute their perspectives. The workshop was structured into three dynamic discussion sessions, each led by our dedicated membership advocates.
Key Takeaways and Future Directions
The insights and feedback gathered from these discussions were invaluable. Here are some of the key takeaways and the steps we are taking to address them:
• Enhanced Resource Accessibility: We are working on a new, user-friendly resource page that will make it easier for members to access training materials and real-world application guides.
• Structured Mentorship Program: Plans are underway to launch a mentorship program that will connect members with experienced professionals for guidance and support.
• Increased Networking Opportunities: Expect to see more frequent and varied networking events, both virtual and in-person, to help you build connections and foster a sense of community.
Moving Forward
We are committed to turning your feedback into actionable solutions that enhance your PMI journey. This workshop was just the beginning. By actively participating and sharing your experiences, you have helped shape the future of our Chapter’s offerings.
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Anthony Robbins | Work, Jobs, Careers, and Missions
1. There Have Been Only a Couple of Times in My Life…
When I was doing something I truly loved. The first
was when I was an asphalt contractor and was out in the
field each day doing asphalt work. It made me feel like I
was building something and truly making a difference. It
made me feel like I was free. I loved the smell of the tar.
I loved the sun on my face and body. I loved the people I
worked with. I loved going to the asphalt plant each
morning. I loved driving the trucks and operating the
machinery I did in my business. I loved the work so much
that I would find myself getting up each day at the crack
of dawn even if I had a few hours sleep the night before
so I could go out and work.
2. I Wanted to Work Seven Days a Week and Rarely Took a Day Off
I became very depressed on the days it was raining and I could
not work. When it was winter and I could not work, I would
look towards the spring with incredible enthusiasm. I simply
loved the work I was doing and was very enthusiastic about it in
so many respects. It was something that I literally lived for.
When I was out with people the work I did was all I could talk
about. I simply loved, with an incredibly contagious
enthusiasm, the work I did. I would sometimes be doing the
work and remind myself every few days that I had not even had
anything to eat! I had become so engaged in the work that
even eating was something that did not matter to me. My
heart, body and soul were so into the work it is difficult for me
to describe.
3. I Loved This Work So Much That People and Customers Sensed It
Everyone I came into contact with, knew I had a passion for asphalt. I dreamed about
asphalt at night. I talked about it everywhere I went. My business grew so fast I could
not believe it. The love of the profession and asphalt was like being swept up by a giant
wave. It was something I treated as a mission.
There is an incredible strength that can come to you when you treat your job and your
career like I thought about asphalt. I know that deep down within you there are
various times when you have found yourself incredibly engaged in something. I have
seen this so many times before and with so many people. Everyone gets engaged and
excited by something. There is something that lights up everyone of us. God has given
us this gift to be completely lit up and enthusiastic about something.
We all have it.
4. I Remember When I Was in High School…
One of the worst students in my school could not
pass most classes.
He had a lot of family pressure and it became almost all-
consuming. He felt like a failure and started using drugs, abusing
alcohol and doing all sorts of things to dull the pain. When the
time came to apply to colleges he did not even get into the
easiest state college to get into, despite the fact that his father
had endowed a large scholarship on the school. He was so
depressed about this he almost committed suicide and I
remember he literally disappeared for a few days and went to a
hotel in a bad neighborhood where he sat in a dark room alone
contemplating ending his life. He felt like he had no purpose and
that there was nothing he could possibly do with his life.
5. He and I Had Taken A Chemistry Class Together and…
I had barely managed to earn a C+ in the class. He, however, had easily gotten As in the
class without even studying. He loved the intricacies of the information and an
understanding of chemistry came naturally to him. He just understood it. He understood it
better than the teacher and he had some sort of gift. It was as if he knew what she was
going to say before she said it. He could not understand how others could not think this
way. He did not have to try and still did incredibly well in the discipline. He however, did
not think it was that big of a deal.
6. After My Second Year of College…
I was home for the summer and I was getting out of my car to go to a
party and I walked past him. I did not recognize him until he came up
to me. Since high school he had grown a beard. He was wearing beads
and had become a hippie of sorts. He looked like he had smoked pot
several times a day for the past few years and had a “burnt out” look
about him. He looked so different, in fact, that I did not even
recognize him when we passed each other. He recognized me and
came up to me and gave me a hug.
After the party that evening he and I went to a restaurant together to
eat and catch up. He had flunked out of college in Colorado and was
living at home. His life appeared to be a huge failure. I remember
sitting there and thinking to myself of the guy I had known five years
previously, who was so much more enthusiastic. Nothing was
becoming of him and it was a very sad thing. His life, to him and me as
well, felt like it had no purpose. He was on a path that was going to
lead to certain destruction.
7. As We Sat There Together, I Remembered How Well This Guy Had
Done in Chemistry
He had long since dropped out of
college. He was not working. He was
living in his mother’s basement and
spending most of his day smoking pot,
playing video games and being generally
unproductive. It was incredible to me
how run down he was and how little his
life had become. In the back of my
mind, however, I kept thinking about
how good he was at chemistry and how
much he liked and enjoyed it.
8. “You Need to Study Chemistry,” I Told Him
For the next hour or so a passion came over me and I told him in
hundreds of different ways why he needed to study chemistry
and how important this was for him and how it would affect the
course of his life and everything that happened to him from now
on. I told him that he had a gift and moreover that he loved it. I
told him that this gift and his extreme dislike for other subjects
at a natural, visceral level was God’s way of telling him this is
what he needed to be doing and this is what he needed to be
studying. I told him with everything I had that this is what he
needed to be doing and he needed to take action and do this
right now and start pursuing this direction with his life
immediately. Something overcame me and I was so enthusiastic
about this that I did not even myself understand it. I followed
him out to the car and said goodbye to him. I would not hear
from him or see him for another year.
9. One Year Later I Was With a Group of Guys My Age and Was…
Back from school again for the summer. We were making our way around,
picking people up and we made our way over to my old friend’s house to
pick him up. We all went inside to grab him and back downstairs into his
mother’s basement. When I got down there I saw sights I could not believe.
He had little plastic models of molecules all over and next to his bed. He had
huge chemistry textbooks spread around the basement. When he walked
out I noticed he had shaved his beard off and was wearing glasses. There
was an energy about him and he looked much happier. The “angst” that I
had seen about him for ages was gone. He looked happy for the first time I
had ever seen him. The basement was clean and there was no trash and so
forth scattered all around as there had been before.
He looked happy.
10. When We Went Out That Evening He Did Not Use Drugs…
And he sipped the same beer all evening. I could tell how happy he was. He told me that he
had gone back to school and was studying chemistry and loved it. He was also working in a
lab. He did not know exactly what he wanted to do for a living, but he really loved what he
was doing. He had taken organic chemistry and loved it and had done incredibly well in it.
His life had literally changed and he was now doing well. I was incredibly happy for him. He
told me that he had followed my advice and found something that energized him. He felt
like he was on a mission.
This episode is something that also changed the course of my life. In looking at what
happened to my friend, by finding a passion, I was convinced deep down in the body of my
soul and DNA that when we find something we are good at, and approach it like a mission,
everything changes. Our entire life can change and who we are can change in an instant.
Literally, our entire future can be altered by the type of work that we are doing and the
feedback we are getting.
11. My friend had sat in a small $20/night hotel in a bad area of
Detroit for two days contemplating ending his life. He had no
contact with the outside world during that time and no one
knew where he was. He sat there and felt like dying. I cannot
imagine how this must have felt for him.
12. He Felt Like Dying, I Believe, Because All of the Input He Had…
Received from the world had been almost entirely negative and his
passion was not ignited by anything.
•He was not an athlete and could not receive positive feedback from
this.
•He did poorly in every subject except for chemistry and received
horrible feedback for this.
•He could not get into colleges.
•He was considered a failure by his family.
All of these things conspired to make him feel as if his life had no
purpose. He felt like he was a complete loser and he felt this way
because of the fact that almost all of the feedback he was getting from
his environment was negative. He did not have a passion.
13. When I Was in High School, a Couple of Years Before I
Graduated…
I remember a student in my school with poor grades in virtually every subject and ok
test scores had amazed the school and everyone around them by applying to Harvard
College and getting in. It was something that I have heard people talk about even as
recently as a few years ago. It is absolutely legendary because by every stretch of the
imagination this student never should have been admitted. I even remember hearing
something about the fact that the school authorities did everything within their
power to dissuade him from applying because they thought he would never get in.
14. However, This Particular Student Had a Passion
And was on a mission. Since the age of five or six he had been collecting
bugs. He loved bugs and was fascinated by them. He went to conferences.
He wrote papers. He spent his summers traveling the world to study
different types of bugs. He had rooms of his parent’s house filled with bugs.
He was consumed with the study of bugs and thinking about them. He was
on a mission and Harvard knew it. Regardless of his grades, the admissions
officers of one of the toughest schools in the world wanted him. A mission is
much more powerful than being good at lots of things. A mission will take
down walls, open up opportunity and transform your life. You need a
mission.
Let me repeat: You need a mission.
15. I firmly believe, from the bottom of my heart, that this is the most important career
advice you will ever receive. A mission changes you and will transform your life and
career. There is nothing more important than a mission.
•We respect people with a mission.
•Employers want to hire people on a mission.
•A mission energizes you.
•A mission energizes people around you.
•A mission tears down walls.
•A mission gives your life purpose.
•A mission transforms you.
When I was an asphalt contractor I was energized with passion. It was the most
important job for me in the world and I loved it. I had a girlfriend at the time who
loved me more than anything. She wanted to get married and worshipped me. She
saw the mission in me and was attracted to it. She would have done anything for me.
Her father saw the mission in me and also gave me numerous opportunities. I
remember when I got into law school and I told her I was going to law school.
16. “That’s so sad,” She Told Me.
“Most people never find something they love and you are going to be just like the rest of
people if you do this. You do not belong behind a desk all day.”
I remember I was out one evening and having a great time and a bunch of young lawyers
from the top law firm in Detroit at the time came up and started talking to her and her
friends. When I was around these girls they appeared to light up. The lawyers did not
have the same passion I did and they also did not appear connected. It is hard to explain.
To a tee every one of the girls blew off the lawyers. They appeared almost disgusted by
them. I was still in college and went up to them and started talking to the lawyers. I
worshipped them because they had gone to the best law schools and appeared to have
achieved so much. They all told me they did not like what they were doing. None of them
were happy.
17. They were all quite negative not just about what they
were doing, but about life as well. It was a huge contrast
from where I was in with my life at the moment.
18. When I Went Away to Law School My Girlfriend Very Quickly Lost
Interest in Me
I received a couple of phone calls from her and on
the last phone call she had taken over managing the
career of a very famous rock star. All she talked
about was how he had “passion” and loved what he
did. She was attracted to the passion. She could tell
when she was speaking with me that I had no passion
for school and what I was doing. Despite her
incredible love for me at one point, she could not
bear spending her time with a man who was not
flowering inside and on a mission. We are all
attracted to people with a mission.
There are three stages in a development of
what you do with your productive time and you
need to get to the highest one. The first stage is
a job. The second is a career. The third is a
mission.
19. At the Outset I Want to Note That There Are Arguably Four
Stages…
And not three to what you do during your productive time. In the
first stage you could put “work” instead of job. Work, however, is
something that is so detestable and negative in its connotation
that I do not classify it as developmental at all. Work is
something you do in the short term and not because you are
interested in it or it excites you or even to make a living. Work
connotes short-term projects such as mowing a lawn for $10 and
doing something which takes you absolutely nowhere but to a
short term reward of a few dollars. Work is detestable and not
something that develops you the way you need to and want to
be developed. Work has a negative and not a positive
connotation in all respects. Work is hard. Work is reserved for
the most unfulfilled souls in society. Work does not lead
anywhere and we know it. Work is there because it is something
we have to do and gives us almost no fulfillment. We do not
think positively about work and we avoid work.
20. It Is For This Reason That I Do Not…
Refer to work as “developmental” in terms of what you do with your productive time. A
job, career and mission connote “showing up” every day. It is when we begin to “show
up” in either a physical or a mental sense on a daily basis that I believe your relationship
with your productive time transforms. You need to “show up” daily–or at least Monday
through Friday. If your relationship with what you do does not involve you showing up
on a daily basis, then what you are doing is “work” and not a job, career or a mission.
You need to be showing up and move away from work to a higher stage of development.
21. No One Should Have to “Work” because “Work” is Short Term…
Un-enjoyable and does not lead anywhere in the
way I define it here. Work is looking for short term
projects for hours, days, weeks or months to pay
the bills. Work is the guy standing with a group of
other workers on the corner hoping a contractor
picks him up to do some manual labor for the day.
Work is offering to do some work online that you
do not enjoy. Work is prostitution and selling our
body or time for something we detest. No one
should have to do work. Work is a horrible thing
because it does not take you anywhere and is
unfulfilling.
22. A Job Is Something That Most of the World Does
When you think about a job, an image you might have in
your mind is a man working mindlessly on an assembly
line all day. He shuffles this or that back and forth and
clocks in each morning. He does not particularly like what
he is doing but does the work because he needs to make
money. The work does not give him any particular
satisfaction one way or another, but he endures it. He
looks forward to going home each evening and getting off
work. He looks forward to his annual vacations. He calls in
sick from time to time just to get out of work. He does his
job because he needs to earn money. This is the saddest
part about this. He does not do his work because he loves
it. If he did not need money he would not do the job.
It is as simple as that.
23. One of the Greatest Fantasies of People Who Just Have “Jobs”
is…
That they may one day win the lottery. The fantasy and idea is that if
they win the lottery they will no longer have to do their job. There is a
fantasy of having to go tell their boss to “piss off” and moving on and
not having to worry about work anymore. There is no need to have to
work and they do not want to go to work particularly. They are putting
in time until they are allowed to retire. They look forward to their
lunch hour each day. They know when the next public holiday is
coming up. They do their work but have no real interest in it.
For example, people just doing a job will rarely, if ever, make any
effort to improve themselves for their work. They will not be studying
ways to improve themselves outside of work in order to improve and
get better at what they do. They will not take classes to understand
what they do. They will avoid thinking about their job when they are
not at work. The priorities of a person with just a “job” are the time
they spend out of work and not at work. They do a job because they
have to and not because they want to.
24. It Is Important to Note that People In An Incredible Number of
Professions…
Fall victim to just doing jobs.
For example, my dentist was telling me some time ago that most other
dentists that he knows are only doing the work they do for money. They
do not care about the work at all. They hate looking in mouths all day but
do it because they have to. They go to conferences to learn about the
latest developments in dentistry not because they want to, but because
they have to. Their priorities are being away from the office. They do the
work they do but are not all that enthusiastic about it.
25. Incidentally, Dentists Have One of the Highest Rates of…
Suicide among most professions.
Why do you think that is? It is due to the fact that they do not feel a passion for how
they are spending their time. The trap of a profession like dentistry as a job for
someone who does not like it is severe. People who go to school for years to learn how
to be a dentist and get out and build up a small practice where they may be making
$200,000 a year, suddenly finds themselves with expensive car and house payments,
perhaps private school tuition for their children and more. There is nothing else that
they know how to do, and they cannot quit because they have too many obligations.
They are literally stuck doing something which gives them no passion and makes them
unhappy. They feel like they have made a huge mistake with their lives. They report to a
job each day and feel trapped.
26. I Know Tons of Lawyers Who Are In This Trap
It is a horrible thing for them and they are incredibly unhappy.
They do things like fantasize about opening wineries. They
fantasize about buying the companies of their clients and doing
this. They get fat because they are trying to fill up with
something that they enjoy because they are not happy at work.
They cheat on their wives and husbands because they are
searching for glimmers of happiness and excitement in dull
lives. They very frequently abuse alcohol and drugs in an effort
to forget and escape something they detest.
27. My Mother Had a Job When I Was Growing Up
She called in sick every chance she got. She did not like going to
work every single day. She was not happy and the thought of
work made her extremely unhappy. She couldn’t care less how
she did at work for the most part. She was an incredibly
intelligent, attractive and capable woman, but she reported to a
job daily. The first day she qualified for a pension she quit her
job.
She did not want to be there. She did not like it.
There are so many problems with a job that it is difficult to
believe. A job just does not give you the satisfaction you are
entitled to and deserve in your life. I am sure you know people
who are just doing jobs. You may be one of these people. Why
are you doing a job? You should never do something you are
not interested in. There is a huge difference between this and
not doing what you want in life.
28. When I Was Younger I Remember I Was Fixed Up With a Girl
That…
Everyone thought had it all. People really liked her and all of the boys I knew
thought she was fantastic. I remember when I went out with her I felt zero
connection to her. For whatever reason, she was also pushed by her friends to go
out with me. We sat there in a restaurant on our first date with absolutely no
chemistry, making small talk. It was “work” for both of us being together but we
felt like we needed to make it work. There was no connection for either of us but
we both felt we needed to be there. We were there physically but not mentally.
So we went through the motions
of having an evening together
and at the end of the evening
had a long passionless kiss.
29. I Think We Both Did This Because…
We were “showing up” for something that we felt we
should. Then we started dating and going out with other
groups of people and it was the same thing. We would
only hold hands when others were looking. We would
talk on the phone at night and both almost felt like it was
work. We both knew it, but we were both showing up to
something that we did not really feel in our hearts was
for us.
30. This Is What Work Is
Have you ever felt passion for someone? Have you ever felt something just clicked for you?
Have you ever felt that something did not click but you did it anyway? It is when it does not
click that you are doing work. In the case of the lovely woman, we both felt no passion or
connection and we would not have been there had we felt like we did not need to be. We
were there physically in every sense but neither of us had the heart, soul and mind of the
other.
31. I Keep Coming Back to the Sexual Nature and…
The passionate nature of a job because it is this
“sexual” type charge that you need to have for your work.
When a man is committed to a woman and a woman is
committed to a man, they think about each other all the time.
There is a “charge” there that makes a massive difference.
The charge is such that they are one heart, mind and soul.
They want to be together all the time. We all know what this
charge is and we feel it when we are near certain people. It is
more than physical–it is emotional and comes from deep
within. It is this sort of charge that drives many men to
achieve to impress women and vice versa. It is this charge
that creates many marriages. It is this sort of charge that
creates new life and often brings children into the world.
There is nothing more important than this charge, and this
charge is a motivating force of life itself.
32. When you do not have this charge for your work, it is like being with someone
you have no feelings for. If you are heterosexual it is like trying to make love to
someone of your own sex. If you are homosexual it is like trying to make love to
someone of the opposite sex. There is no charge and attraction.
It is ass backwards.
This is why you need to move away from trying to do a job and move up and
away from this. Instinctually, we understand this in terms of our love lives and
follow it. Notwithstanding, very few people follow this in their choice of how
they spend their productive time earning a living each day.
33. A Final Thing to Understand About a Job is That…
Someone doing a job would quite readily and happily do something else if the
opportunity presented itself and the conditions were right. For example, my mother
seriously investigated taking all of her money and moving my sister and I to Wyoming
so she could operate a dude ranch. A lawyer doing a job will happily change what he
or she is doing many times if the pay is right. Dentists may quit what they are doing
once they have amassed enough money to live comfortably and then try something
else. People who do jobs are not committed to them, just as I was not committed to
the girl I was fixed up with.
34. The Next Step Up From A Job is a Career
There is more “attachment” to a career than there is to a job. A
career connotes a sense of commitment and something you will be
doing for a long term. I first heard the word career when I was in law
school. To give you a sense of the difference between a career and
job, I will repeat the episode here.
In my second year of law school many students were applying for
judicial clerkships. A clerkship is when you go to work for a judge and
work inside the judge’s chambers for one or two years helping them
make decisions on their cases. In the case of federal clerkships, they
are extremely prestigious and competitive to get. Because the
smartest students were doing this, I felt like I needed to do this too,
because they seemed to be taking applying for these extremely
seriously.
35. I Sent My Application to Around 10 Judges in Michigan Where I
Am From…
And two days later a judge called me and asked me to come see him
within a day or two for an interview. Less than a week after applying,
the judge called me and made me an offer and told me I had to let him
know whether I was accepting the offer within a few hours or he was
going to make someone else an offer. The job paid around $30,000 a
year at the time, and I also had another offer with a New York City law
firm paying $83,000 a year. It is easier to get a job with a New York law
firm paying this much than it is to get a federal clerkship. I was
confused, because I did not understand why I should take a job paying
so much less money.
I called the career services dean of my school.
36. “This Is A Career, Not A Job,” He Told Me
“If your plan is to practice law forever then who cares about how much money
the clerkship pays.”
This is the difference between a career and a job. We think of careers in terms of long
term. The idea is that we will be doing them forever. We want to be enriched in a career
and we think in terms of the long term. In my case I did not quite understand what the
career services dean of my school meant, but I took the clerkship. I realized there was
something profound in what he was saying and I am glad to this day that I listened to his
advice.
37. People Doing A Career Are Committed to What They Are Doing
There is a level of commitment that is not
present in someone who is simply doing a
job. The persons know that they are in
something for the long term, and they are
going to make it work.
In India to this day there are arranged marriages. I go to India quite often and virtually
everyone I know in India is in an arranged marriage. In an arranged marriage there is
typically very little contact between the bride and groom before marriage. They will be
introduced after a rigorous screening process by their families, and may not spend
more than an hour or two together getting to know each other before they are
formally married. However, in India there is almost no divorce and, incredibly, these
weddings work out much more than the average wedding in the United States or other
Western countries, for example.
38. The Reason I Believe These Marriages Work Out And…
What several Indians have told me is that the couples enter
the marriages committed. They treat the marriages as
something they have to work out. They do not consider
other options like divorce and marrying someone more
attractive, younger, wealthier and so forth. Their focus and
concern is on the fact that a marriage has been arranged for
them and they are likely to be together forever with the
person. They need to make it work out. Most Indians
believe that as the couples come to know each other they
come to love and respect one another and passion develops
out of this.
Because so much work is involved for both sides in
arranging the marriage, it is near blasphemy for either side
to not make the marriage work. Therefore, the couples do
everything within their power to nurture one another and
care about each other.
39. I Have a Great Deal of Respect For This System of Marriage For
Numerous Reasons
However, the largest lesson you can get out of the Indian system of
marriage is that it is like the difference between a career and a job. A career is
something you are committed to deep down and plan on doing forever. A job is
something you only do because you have to. When you do a career you are
willing to ride the ups and downs and make the most of everything no matter
what. You will do whatever it takes. You will try and make it work even if you are
not passionate about it. You will try and learn what it takes to succeed. You see
yourself doing this in the future. You try and fall in love.
40. This Is What People Do Who Have Careers
They do whatever it takes to make it work because they
see themselves doing this in the future and they have
committed to it. A career is much better and preferable to
having a job. You need to commit to something before it
can work. In relationships you generally need to commit to
the other person before they will reciprocate. No persons
in their right mind will marry someone not committed to
them. You should not do anything you are not committed
to. Commitment is a hugely important thing. You need to
be committed.
41. Far Too Many People Have Jobs and Not Careers
The reason for this is that they are doing work that is tiding them over. They are
doing something out of circumstance and looking and hoping for something better.
Despite being involved in what they are doing, they cannot necessarily see
themselves doing what they are doing five or ten years from now. I personally feel
that one of the largest problems in the world today is that far fewer people have
careers. They have jobs. Why should anyone simply do a job? A job is boring for
you, and will not lead anywhere. You need a career.
42. You Can Have A Career Doing Anything
You could be a floor sweeper and have a career. You could be a
teacher and have a career. You could be a salesperson and have
a career. You could be a doctor, lawyer, or dentist and have a
career. You literally can do anything and have a career. People
who have careers are so much more happy, well balanced and
better off in work and in their social and family lives than people
who have jobs. They key to having a career is that you are
committed in your body and mind, and you see yourself doing
something in the future.
43. I Love Going Into Companies And Meeting People Who Have
Careers
When you go into a company and find people who have been working there 10, 20 or more
years, you will find people who have careers. They are often well settled emotionally. They are
happier and there is a certain energy and enthusiasm around them. They could be doing
anything. They could work in a warehouse stocking boxes. They could be bookkeepers. They
could be doing any number of tasks in the company. The point is they have careers and they
see themselves doing something long term. People with careers generally have families at
home. They generally are well balanced and people like them. They are supportive of their
employers, and their employers are generally quite supportive of them.
44. Far Few People Have Careers
They are not emotionally connected to their work and believe they need
to be somewhere else. Persons with careers want to learn about what
they are doing often when they are not working. They adopt the
attitudes, mannerisms and ways of being of others in their career. They
take a certain amount of enthusiasm in what they do. They are generally
good at what they are doing. Everyone knows who they are and what
they do.
The next highest state of development after a job is a career. It is
far better to have a career than a job. A career is something you
always do and will always do. If you are currently doing a job, the
next best thing you can do is have a career.
45. I Recently Had the Privilege of Traveling to Australia From Fiji…
With the motivational speaker Anthony Robbins. We
took a small plane Tony chartered from Tony’s resort
in Fiji to Nadi, the capital of Fiji. We were in Nadi to
catch a flight to Brisbane, where Tony was on his way
to give a seminar called Date with Destiny. Tony is
the one who first told me about the distinction
between a career, job and mission about a week ago
over lunch at his resort and during a few subsequent
discussions. You may have heard Tony say things
before like “Live with Passion!” and understand his
true and incredible motivation. As we got off the little
plane in Nadi, I looked over at Tony and he was “in
state”.
46. His Entire Body Language Had Changed…
From what I had seen earlier and even
though his seminar was not for the next few
days, he was busy preparing for it in his mind.
He stepped differently. He pushed his chest out
when he walked. He was no longer smiling. The
second we had gotten on the small airplane he
opened his laptop and began preparing. You
could tell that something had come over him,
and it was a transformation I have never seen
in anyone. As we waited at the ticket counter,
Tony went into an incredible state where his
focus and passion were incredibly transparent
in his body language and energy, despite the
fact that he was not even speaking.
47. Tony Is An Incredibly Passionate Man
The first day of his seminar, he spoke for 11 and half hours straight, without a break
to eat, drink or use the restroom. He gets teary-eyed when he speaks. His body
language changes and he rises up. Tony is the “real deal,” and someone who is on a
mission to change peoples’ lives. And you can see it in the results of his. Thousands of
fans cheer for him and millions of people all over the world know who he is. Tony is
on an incredible mission, and his mission is so strong I predict people will be talking
about him hundreds of years after he dies. His mission makes him part of who he is,
and who he has become. In the coming weeks NBC will even be making a television
show documenting Tony on his mission to change lives.
48. If A Man Like Tony Robbins Had Chosen to be a Doctor, Lawyer,
or a Dentist…
Imagine what would have happened. His passion for changing lives
would never have been realized, and the incredible
accomplishments he has experienced in his life and for other
peoples’ lives never would have occurred. It is pathetic to think
about this–but this is exactly what most people do.
You need this passion, and your career needs to be a mission. You
need to go into “state” and you need to find something that takes
over your body and your mind, and that motivates you to an
incredible extreme. What is it that you could do that would make
you immortal? What is it that charges you up like being in love for
the first time? What is it you could do forever? What is it you would
do even if no one paid you to do? What is it within you that gives
you the most extraordinary charge you can imagine?
49. The Highest State of Work is When You Are On a Mission
You need to be on a mission. For me, my mission is getting the
world jobs. When I looked around me and saw the mistakes I had
made with my choice of work, being a lawyer and how unhappy, this
made me know the power of what we do for a living. I have seen so
many lives ruined by choosing the work someone does not like or
enjoy. I have seen so many people not being able to find missions
and be unemployed. I have watched people commit suicide because
they felt rudderless in what they did for a living. I have been in
loveless relationships and relationships filled with love, and gone
down my own path of destruction. The difference between having a
job, or career and having a mission is huge. Look at people like Tony
Robbins. Look at the people you respect most in the world and the
chances are, that they are on a mission.
A mission changes everything and it will propel you
forward.
50. When I Found My Mission of Getting Jobs For the World…
Everything changed. I have thousands of books I have read
about this. I have started companies and reached millions of
people in my mission. I think about my mission all the time and
it just keeps getting bigger and bigger. I love my mission and it
is the most meaningful thing in the world for me. It has
transformed my life and I am a completely different person
today. I even look different physically.
I have watched missions transform the lives of people
everywhere. But so few people ever find missions. You
absolutely, positively need a mission and it is going to change
your life. A mission will bring you everything you ever wanted,
help transform the world and take you to worlds and dreams
you cannot even comprehend- of the body, spirit and physical
world.