2. A bit of history
Parent Support Link(PSL) started in Southampton 1994
Was operated solely by volunteers for the first 10 years
Lots of good will from the statutory services and other
organisations
Received first external financial support after 2 years of
operation
3. Development of the Charity
To begin with, we just did what we did.
As well as the passion, there was a varied skill set
The catalyst was word of mouth
People phoned the number
They were asked what would help
They offered help
We acted on this information
We asked for help
Attended training... still do
Started to advertise
Did the work to become registered
4. Development of the support group
People said they wanted to meet others...
We recognised that PSL could not be all things to everybody...
Such a wealth of knowledge, understanding and empathy...
Different support mechanisms work for different people...
5. What did we try
Holding groups every week
2 groups in one evening
Groups every 2 weeks
Different groups on different days
Different days of the week
Morning groups, afternoon groups, evening groups
I group a month
6. What worked
Listened to those people who wanted a group,
involved those people in the planning and
the delivery of the group sessions
7. Is it that easy?
Not really
Find a venue, the right venue
Work -up the guidelines
Small details
Be sure everyone is safe
Right type of advertising
Keep motivated
8. And the rest...
Decide what kind of group
Will it be a support group,
What kind of support is on offer
Can you involve specific learning
Is the group to be peer led
Is the group to be facilitated
Is the group a directive learning group
Will you have invited speakers
What model of emotional support will you employ
What happens if facilitator is unwell
Who holds the keys
Who makes the coffee, brings the biscuits and washed up
And anything else you can think of
9. What people say.
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The group is my sanctuary: a place of refuge, a place of
protection from danger and trouble, some place to flee to.
•
A place where I can think: home is too full of stress,
memories and seems like a dead end
•
Without a word being spoken, we know all know why we
are here
•
There is a bond that grows around us: as we begin to
realise the meaning of the journey we are undertaking
10. Outcomes!
Need to be very clear on what you are trying to achieve
Need to be very clear on what your service users are trying to
achieve
Need to be very clear on what the funders expect you to
achieve
Make the outcome monitoring forms user friendly and easy to
record
Develop your own system
Or find one that works for you
11. Where are we now.
24/7 telephone contact line
Providing 1-2-1 support
Running an emotional support group for 20 years
Offering learning groups
Time-out project. Respite events and voucher system
Family and Friends support project in the treatment hubs in
Hampshire
Report to funders
Make applications for charitable funding
Involve the organisation in the wider community
Continually consult with our service users
Provide training, support and supervision to other groups
and organisations
Editor's Notes
Some of you might recognise this image, it's been around for a while. AND IT IS STILL RELEVANT. THE FEELINGS, THAT ARE ASSOCIATED WITH FINDING OUT, REALISING THAT SOME ONE YOU LOVE AND CARE FOR IS USING DRUGS . IS FOR MOST OF US TERRIFYING.
R EMEBER THE IMAGE AT THE BEGINING, WITH THE PARENTS ON THIER OWN. BY BEING PART OF A GROUP, WE GAIN SUPPORT, WE FIT TOGETHER This is a much better image to end with people working together to make things fit. We do know that we can only change ourself, but with support from othres the change can be supported and less like an impossible task.