Charlotte Bronte provides advice to her friend Nell about passion and marriage in a long letter. She advises Nell to tell Mr. Vincent to directly ask Miss --- for her hand in marriage rather than continuing to send sentimental letters. She also tells Nell to caution Miss --- not to wait for "une grande passion" and to consider Mr. Vincent's offer rationally rather than being repulsed by initial dislike, as intimacy over time could change her view. Bronte argues that mediocrity and moderation in marriage are wise, and that a woman should not fall deeply in love with her husband or let her will be governed by his.