The 7 characteristics of resilient relationships are honesty, flexibility, perseverance, decisiveness, active optimism, self-control, and calm, collaborative problem-solving. Honesty is the foundation of healthy relationships and signifies mutual trust, forgiveness and loyalty. Flexibility and acceptance of each partner's growth is needed for a relationship to survive long-term. Perseverance and decisiveness are important for maintaining and strengthening relationships through both successes and challenges. Maintaining optimism and finding cooperative solutions during conflicts also contributes to resilient relationships.