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Is Technology Causing a Decline in Communication?
Technology is in the modern generation that cannot be avoided.
In these modern times, the mobile phone usage as means of
communication has become a norm, an essential means of
communication. Our lives have been forced to divert from the
traditional way of communication through letters or landline
telephones, and new rules are emanating to ease social
interaction. The technology of the cellphone is quite helpful
especially in a family setting where couples need constant
communication. In this era, where the couples are
geographically separated most of the times due to work related
issue then we cannot run away from this important technology.
Many will either call or use text messages. Mobile phones also
are used in different social network sites that include Facebook,
Twitter, and Instagram. These sites help in easy and constant
communication. Despite the many benefits brought about by the
use of mobile phone, the technology has deeply caused setbacks
in many families. These are in most cases where the technology
is misused or overused.
In a study done by Miller-Ott based on an expectancy violation
theory approach (Burgon 1978) to examine expectations that
romantic partners have on phone usage with college students
revealed that the couples expected total and undivided attention
on formal dates and when spending time together. On top of
this, the study also identified the individual expectations that
amounted to violation due to lack of proper communication.
Looking keenly at this research then it is clear that mobile
phone can cause break-ups in married or dating couples due to
overuse of
their time in mobile related sites and application like Instagram
or Facebook. Couples dating need this undivided attention
especially when they go out for dinner or a walk. As such when
these couples fail to put control as to when to visit the social
sites then it can easily lead to misunderstanding. It is quite
important that couples set clear guidelines on when to visit such
sites.
From research also, it’s clear that over 50% of the
communication that we do, a lot of it is communicated through
our nonverbal expressions. So when couples entirely depend on
communication via the phone, then they miss a lot of the
unspoken word and expressions. This brings on a lot of
uncertainty as there is the inability to predict or explains
someone’s attitudes and or behavior. To this regard then
couples live in fear as one cannot tell for sure his/her partner’s
true feelings. This has largely left many couples in distress or
psychologically stressed up especially when trying to resolve
family disputes. No matter how helpful the mobile phone is the
face to face talk presents one with not just the verbal but also
the nonverbal communication.
According to A.R, L. Duran (2012), romantic couples at times
get their relationships to problems brought about by the
technology since the phones are giving them more contact time
than necessary. He argues on the basis that the more you keep
on chatting, the more prone you become to making unnecessary
arguments. Before this technology emerged, people relied on
letters which took a bit of time from the sender to the receiver.
Due to this reason, the reply took time. As a result, couples
were eager waiting for the reply. As a result it was healthy and
made the divorce rate be at a lower rate than in modern days.
With constant communication, no one has that eagerness and at
most times that surprise is not there. Relationship flourishes in
such surprises and without it the relationship may become dull
ending in divorce thus the high rate of divorce experienced in
today’s world.
As a result of the unending calls and texts many people have
been forced to come up with rules on when should one call or
text. These rules, for example of calling twice or thrice a day
can result in either good relation or end up causing problems
due to lack of understanding from either partner. In such cases
where one partner’s job is too demanding, the other couple may
either feel ignored or unwanted hence creating family issues. To
some, the cellphone habit is too troublesome while to others it
is fun. If couples have this diverse point of view then their
relationship may be constrained and full of problems. This is
quite an area where even psychologists and counselors have
difficulty in even coming up with a solution! Phone addicts
have difficulties in socialization making it more difficult for the
young couples to live in sweet harmony. Other issues are
coming up due to the shift in the preexisting societal rules
which C.Marvin (1998) calls cultural innovation is that one
must declares their status in social networks. Due to this
mandatory attachment in our relationships then it results in a
conflict when one fails to connect via web. If one declares his
/her status wrongly in social networking sites, a bigger problem
may arise. Before the introduction of a mobile phone, people
did not have to go to this extent. Now the issues come in even
when the couple’s proposing to each other do it online. The
impact of such important occasion is lost and lacks tastes. Utz
and Beukeboom state that “… changing the relationship status is
a major step in a relationship and can also alter dynamics in the
offline relationship”(pg. 516) when one partner fails to update
their relationship status from ‘single’ to ‘in relationship with…’
the other partner may take it as a bad sign or deem it an assign
that their love is not being reciprocate, resulting in breakups or
divorce.
In former days, dating was defined by a series of face to face
talk. People met, talked and spent time with each other and with
their families more making them understand each other better
and evaluated their compatibility in person. Core relationship
majored on the face to face rather than
phone. In this modern time, there is a drastic shift in dating.
The technology through the phone which mostly acted as
supplementary in relationships now seems to have taken a major
role in the relationship. This has ended up causing people to be
strangers in families since dating and marriage become
technology oriented. A situation arises when even different
people in culture, race and from different continents ends up in
marriage due to the help of the phone. Their marriage in most
circumstances fails as the two did not fully interrogate their
character fully.
Into regards to texting, which has become a major source for
people in a relationship especially those aged 17-27 has become
quite rampant. This is more done the mentioned group than their
older peers. Grant (2011) sampled several students from
different colleges and reported that over 90% connected with
their romantic partners at least once in a day. Understanding
why people text finds different causes. In some research, it was
found that people it complicated to manage the demands of an
in-person conversation with saying hello, hugging, kissing,
smiling and keeping eye contact; hence prefer to text .texting
also helps those shy and nervous to avoid potentially stressful
encounters. Texting may help especially when testing waters for
first dating when you are not sure it’s a yes or a no. Despite all
this texting, it still has its effects on interpersonal
communication.
Texting is quite a time consuming as once it begins, it keeps on
going on. When one receives the text, he feels obliged to
reply.to some it will be okay, but those busy may feel like they
are being prevented from doing other activities hence end up in
misunderstanding. This brings about conflict among people and
in such cases of the family it may cause break up.
Texting is often filled up with confusion with confusion.
Without nonverbal expressions, text can be misconstrued ending
up in anxiety and uncertainty. On top it adds psychological
distance .this
distance may end up making one to say what he/she generally
cannot say when near. Weisskirch and Devi 2012) argues that
one in every five people who text say have received the dreaded
‘breakup text.' This Kind of text is better when told in the face
to face communication for at times it can even result in suicide.
A person easily absorbs the shock in a face to face chat than in
texts.
A big number of the supporters believe that the technology links
and maintains relationship in families. Research done on young
couples aged around 18-28 has a higher positive impact on 45%
as compared to the older group. The argument is that since the
technology is with us, we can only embrace it and learn how to
make it help the society but cannot run away from it. Mobile
phones help in linking people to different countries or
countries. Once linked the propellers of mobile phones believe
it’s the couple who should try and bring about the necessary
middle ground where the phone will not act as a distractor. Due
to the unavoidable separation of married or dating couples
mostly work related, couples stay much into contact. This
bridges the huge gap and the husband or wife presence is felt at
all times. This can be helpful to beat especially the saying ‘out
of sight out of mind’ which can easily cause the breakup. The
constant talking also reduces time and loneliness.
Looking closely at these arguments, then it is of realization that
when it comes to dealing with society and especially couples,
then it is only good for integration of both technology and face
to face talk. The technology will shorten the distance and save
time as the face to face helps one understands each other mood
and attitude. The face to face communications also reveals at a
great extend the behavior. Meaning the couple may not be
susceptible in bringing up a complete society and proper
socialization.
Works Cited
Beaver, Tiffany, David Knox, and Marty E. Zusman. "Hold The
Phone!": Cell Phone Use
And Partner Reaction Among University Students."
College Student Journal 44.3 (2010):
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Jin, Borae, and Jorge F. Pena. “Mobile Communication In
Romantic Relationships:
Mobile Phone Use, Relational Uncertainty, Love,
Commitment, And Attachment
Styles.” Communication Reports 23.1(2010): 39-51.
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Kingsbury, Mila, and Robert J. Coplan. “RU Mad @ Me? Social
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Of Ambiguous Text Messages.” Computers in Human
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Konrath, Sara, et al. “Can Text Messages Increase Empathy And
Prosocial Behavior?
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Maxwell, John. Everyone Communicates Few Connect.
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Miller-Ott, Aimee, Lynne Kelly. “The Presence of Cell Phones
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1Is Technology Causing a Decline in CommunicationTechnology.docx

  • 1. 1 Is Technology Causing a Decline in Communication? Technology is in the modern generation that cannot be avoided. In these modern times, the mobile phone usage as means of communication has become a norm, an essential means of communication. Our lives have been forced to divert from the traditional way of communication through letters or landline telephones, and new rules are emanating to ease social interaction. The technology of the cellphone is quite helpful especially in a family setting where couples need constant communication. In this era, where the couples are geographically separated most of the times due to work related issue then we cannot run away from this important technology. Many will either call or use text messages. Mobile phones also are used in different social network sites that include Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. These sites help in easy and constant communication. Despite the many benefits brought about by the use of mobile phone, the technology has deeply caused setbacks in many families. These are in most cases where the technology is misused or overused. In a study done by Miller-Ott based on an expectancy violation theory approach (Burgon 1978) to examine expectations that romantic partners have on phone usage with college students revealed that the couples expected total and undivided attention on formal dates and when spending time together. On top of this, the study also identified the individual expectations that amounted to violation due to lack of proper communication. Looking keenly at this research then it is clear that mobile phone can cause break-ups in married or dating couples due to overuse of their time in mobile related sites and application like Instagram or Facebook. Couples dating need this undivided attention especially when they go out for dinner or a walk. As such when
  • 2. these couples fail to put control as to when to visit the social sites then it can easily lead to misunderstanding. It is quite important that couples set clear guidelines on when to visit such sites. From research also, it’s clear that over 50% of the communication that we do, a lot of it is communicated through our nonverbal expressions. So when couples entirely depend on communication via the phone, then they miss a lot of the unspoken word and expressions. This brings on a lot of uncertainty as there is the inability to predict or explains someone’s attitudes and or behavior. To this regard then couples live in fear as one cannot tell for sure his/her partner’s true feelings. This has largely left many couples in distress or psychologically stressed up especially when trying to resolve family disputes. No matter how helpful the mobile phone is the face to face talk presents one with not just the verbal but also the nonverbal communication. According to A.R, L. Duran (2012), romantic couples at times get their relationships to problems brought about by the technology since the phones are giving them more contact time than necessary. He argues on the basis that the more you keep on chatting, the more prone you become to making unnecessary arguments. Before this technology emerged, people relied on letters which took a bit of time from the sender to the receiver. Due to this reason, the reply took time. As a result, couples were eager waiting for the reply. As a result it was healthy and made the divorce rate be at a lower rate than in modern days. With constant communication, no one has that eagerness and at most times that surprise is not there. Relationship flourishes in such surprises and without it the relationship may become dull ending in divorce thus the high rate of divorce experienced in today’s world. As a result of the unending calls and texts many people have been forced to come up with rules on when should one call or text. These rules, for example of calling twice or thrice a day can result in either good relation or end up causing problems
  • 3. due to lack of understanding from either partner. In such cases where one partner’s job is too demanding, the other couple may either feel ignored or unwanted hence creating family issues. To some, the cellphone habit is too troublesome while to others it is fun. If couples have this diverse point of view then their relationship may be constrained and full of problems. This is quite an area where even psychologists and counselors have difficulty in even coming up with a solution! Phone addicts have difficulties in socialization making it more difficult for the young couples to live in sweet harmony. Other issues are coming up due to the shift in the preexisting societal rules which C.Marvin (1998) calls cultural innovation is that one must declares their status in social networks. Due to this mandatory attachment in our relationships then it results in a conflict when one fails to connect via web. If one declares his /her status wrongly in social networking sites, a bigger problem may arise. Before the introduction of a mobile phone, people did not have to go to this extent. Now the issues come in even when the couple’s proposing to each other do it online. The impact of such important occasion is lost and lacks tastes. Utz and Beukeboom state that “… changing the relationship status is a major step in a relationship and can also alter dynamics in the offline relationship”(pg. 516) when one partner fails to update their relationship status from ‘single’ to ‘in relationship with…’ the other partner may take it as a bad sign or deem it an assign that their love is not being reciprocate, resulting in breakups or divorce. In former days, dating was defined by a series of face to face talk. People met, talked and spent time with each other and with their families more making them understand each other better and evaluated their compatibility in person. Core relationship majored on the face to face rather than phone. In this modern time, there is a drastic shift in dating. The technology through the phone which mostly acted as supplementary in relationships now seems to have taken a major role in the relationship. This has ended up causing people to be
  • 4. strangers in families since dating and marriage become technology oriented. A situation arises when even different people in culture, race and from different continents ends up in marriage due to the help of the phone. Their marriage in most circumstances fails as the two did not fully interrogate their character fully. Into regards to texting, which has become a major source for people in a relationship especially those aged 17-27 has become quite rampant. This is more done the mentioned group than their older peers. Grant (2011) sampled several students from different colleges and reported that over 90% connected with their romantic partners at least once in a day. Understanding why people text finds different causes. In some research, it was found that people it complicated to manage the demands of an in-person conversation with saying hello, hugging, kissing, smiling and keeping eye contact; hence prefer to text .texting also helps those shy and nervous to avoid potentially stressful encounters. Texting may help especially when testing waters for first dating when you are not sure it’s a yes or a no. Despite all this texting, it still has its effects on interpersonal communication. Texting is quite a time consuming as once it begins, it keeps on going on. When one receives the text, he feels obliged to reply.to some it will be okay, but those busy may feel like they are being prevented from doing other activities hence end up in misunderstanding. This brings about conflict among people and in such cases of the family it may cause break up. Texting is often filled up with confusion with confusion. Without nonverbal expressions, text can be misconstrued ending up in anxiety and uncertainty. On top it adds psychological distance .this distance may end up making one to say what he/she generally cannot say when near. Weisskirch and Devi 2012) argues that one in every five people who text say have received the dreaded ‘breakup text.' This Kind of text is better when told in the face to face communication for at times it can even result in suicide.
  • 5. A person easily absorbs the shock in a face to face chat than in texts. A big number of the supporters believe that the technology links and maintains relationship in families. Research done on young couples aged around 18-28 has a higher positive impact on 45% as compared to the older group. The argument is that since the technology is with us, we can only embrace it and learn how to make it help the society but cannot run away from it. Mobile phones help in linking people to different countries or countries. Once linked the propellers of mobile phones believe it’s the couple who should try and bring about the necessary middle ground where the phone will not act as a distractor. Due to the unavoidable separation of married or dating couples mostly work related, couples stay much into contact. This bridges the huge gap and the husband or wife presence is felt at all times. This can be helpful to beat especially the saying ‘out of sight out of mind’ which can easily cause the breakup. The constant talking also reduces time and loneliness. Looking closely at these arguments, then it is of realization that when it comes to dealing with society and especially couples, then it is only good for integration of both technology and face to face talk. The technology will shorten the distance and save time as the face to face helps one understands each other mood and attitude. The face to face communications also reveals at a great extend the behavior. Meaning the couple may not be susceptible in bringing up a complete society and proper socialization. Works Cited Beaver, Tiffany, David Knox, and Marty E. Zusman. "Hold The Phone!": Cell Phone Use And Partner Reaction Among University Students." College Student Journal 44.3 (2010): 629- 632. ERIC. Web. 14 Mar. 2016.
  • 6. Jin, Borae, and Jorge F. Pena. “Mobile Communication In Romantic Relationships: Mobile Phone Use, Relational Uncertainty, Love, Commitment, And Attachment Styles.” Communication Reports 23.1(2010): 39-51. Business Source Premier. Web. 14 Mar. 2016. Kingsbury, Mila, and Robert J. Coplan. “RU Mad @ Me? Social Anxiety And Interpretation Of Ambiguous Text Messages.” Computers in Human Behavior 54. (2016): 368- 379. Academic Search Complete. Web. 14 Mar. 2016. Konrath, Sara, et al. “Can Text Messages Increase Empathy And Prosocial Behavior? The Development And Initial Validation Of Text To Connect.” Plos ONE 10.9 (2015): 1- 27. Academic Search Complete. Web. 14 Mar. 2016. Maxwell, John. Everyone Communicates Few Connect. Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2010. Print. Miller-Ott, Aimee, Lynne Kelly. “The Presence of Cell Phones in Romantic Partner Face-To- Face Interactions: An Expectancy Violation Theory Approach.” Southern Communication Journal 80.4 (2015): 253-270. PsycINFO. Web. 14 Mar. 2016. Miller-Ott, Aimee E., Lynne Kelly, and Robert L. Duran. "The Effects Of Cell Phone Usage Rules On Satisfaction In Romantic Relationships." Communication Quarterly 60.1 (2012): 17-34. Humanities International Complete. Web. 14 Mar. 2016.