Good Stuff Happens in 1:1 Meetings: Why you need them and how to do them well
2019 NxGen Emotional Intelligence IV
1. Emotional Intelligence IV:
Choose Yourself
March 13, 2019
Jim & Lynette Vaive
Regional Network Directors, North America
Spirit of EQ, Six Seconds Preferred Partner
3. What Are My Triggers?
– When you feel that you
have no choices or
options
– When other people lose
their tempers
– When you are in physical
or emotional danger
– When you are treated
unfairly
– When your intentions are
misunderstood
– When you are
disappointed with
yourself for making a
mistake
– When you feel
overloaded (‘the last
straw...’)
– When something or
someone gets in the way
of what you want to do
– When you feel someone
has violated your values –
for example, by lying to
you
13. How Do I Stop Reacting?
–Recite the 7 dwarfs in alphabetical order
–Remember 6 favorite places
–Think of the first line of 6 songs
–Identify 6 romantic places
–Say the multiplication tables out loud
–Push your chair back from the table
–Think of something funny
46. What Keeps Me from Making Those
Choices?
The giving up of personality traits, well-
established patterns of behavior,
ideologies, and even whole life-
styles…these are major forms of giving
up that are required if one is to travel
very far on the journey of life.
--M. Scott Peck
48. Thank You!!!
Jim Vaive
Six Seconds/Spirit of EQ
614-774-8048
jim@spiritofeq.com
Lynette Vaive
Six Seconds/Spirit of EQ
614-917-3342
lynette@spiritofeq.com