Building and Building Bridges:
Lessons from five years of deep partnership
to redesign the Canadian welfare state.
Leadership & Business
Guru and InWithForward’s
lead of org change
dr Jennifer
Charlesworth
Sociologist and
InWithForward’s
social impact lead
dr Sarah
SchulmanDr. Sarah Schulman
Founding Partner
inwithforward.com
@inwithforward
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Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat
peoples. We honor their past, present and future
stories and learn humility from their resilience.
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Our mission
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Meet the Underhills
Shame Removal Displacement Low ExpectationsTrauma
“Coming to know also requires complex,
committed, consensual engagement.”
Leanne Betasamosake Simpson
An app A service
A
coordinated
hub
Isn’t enough…
{insert fancy
new thing}
What we know
Meaning, purpose, belonging 

& love come from relationships,
not from services.
Let’s take a look at the relational
history of the welfare state.
History of the welfare state
A medical immigration nurse is speaking
with an immigrant mother and her child
Library and Archives Canada, c1965
Helper
Beneficiary
1800s Power dynamic
Helper
Hierarchical
Paternalistic
Power divides
Charity meets
professionalization
Beneficiary
Professional Client
1900s Power dynamic
Manager Worker
1950s Power dynamic
Design accepts this relationship
1980’s Power dynamic
Manager
consultant Client ‘User’
Characteristics of these relationship types
Expert

driven
Non-
reciprocal
Invested in
means over endsCharacteristics
Positive deviants flip the script
Vulnerability Mutuality Shared endsCo-learner
Alternative relational basis
How do you codify & spread this
relational basis when it presents a
threat to status quo power?
Alternative relational basis
Processoriented
Solutionoriented
Situated in organizations
Situated in community
Grounded Data
WNH
We’ve experimented
Newcomers
Homelessness
Disability
Seniors
Justice system
Unemployment
Mental Health
Children & Youth
City
NGOs
Gov.
Sectors/topcis Initiatives
Partnerships
It starts with partnerships that
don’t replicate transactional,
top-down relationships
What this looks like
for us in practice
Three case studies
Ben books

& goes on
experiences as
a ‘Kudoer’
Frane is a
botanist & hosts
a nature hike
experience
Enabling growth interactions
Not passing time interactions
Through in-person experiences,
Kudoers build skills, natural
networks, and a greater sense
of self and future.
Meaningful
Employment
More inter-
dependence
Better
mental
health
The relational basisThe relational basis
LearnerLearner
To
Community
member
From
Disabled
person
The relational basisThe relational basis
LearnerLearner
To
Protector
From
Protected
What makes a meraki box?
novelty
connection
Many of the people who will
use your box have lives full
of things they enjoy! The
challenge is introducing NEW
things into their context.
We don’t want these boxes to
be generalized and watered
down- we want them to be
specific and enriching.
Boxes should always help the
users find a new pathway to
community.
This could be a meetup group, a
class or competition, a place
with a collection of content
about your topic, a Kudoz
experience, or maybe a group
challenge.
soul
Meraki boxes are soulful
because they capture the
passion and peculiarities of
their Muses.
When people open up your box
for the first time, we want
them to feel as if they’ve
opened a gift you made just
for them.
stretchchallenge
The relational basis
LearnerLearner
To
Service
provider
From
Person
served
Structure
It’s not just about process 

or solutions; it’s also about
stewardship and structure
Tension Compression TorsionShear
Structure
Best practice Next practice
Tension Compression Shear Torsion
sarah@inwithforward.com
@inwithforward
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