1. Upgrading Associations- How to Keep Your Relation Safe

2. Khalil Gibran magnificently narrated as: “No human relation gives one possession in
another, every two souls are absolutely different. In friendship or in love, the two side by
side raise hands together to find what one cannot reach alone.”
Relationship is a most important thing in ones life. You can’t ignore this factor because your
whole personality indulges with your relation. One thing that works a lot in relation is mutual
understanding and trust. Without it your relation cant works. It is much easy to say when two
souls get together they have a passion of trust on each other, to understand each other and
to tolerate each other.
Commonly misunderstanding starts from a misguidance and interfering of others. It’s up to
you how you can control on yourself in managing situation. Gather a confidence to face the
reality is extremely important in any relationship. There is no need to show arrogance in
your relationship.
There is a thoughtful divergence between ARROGANCE and CONFIDENCE. Arrogance =
douchebag status, where guys or girls think they are hot shim but really are just frustrating
and socially self-conscious.
Here it raises a question in mind can a girl or boy is just a good friends? Practically it’s
difficult to define because it may be a cause of so many troubles in our society but on the
other hand it has been seems pretty different.
Yes! It’s true a girl and a guy are good friends in fact they work together in strong bond of
relationship. I’m not going far away; there is a lead example in ISLAM. Hazrat Khadija &
Holy Prophet (PBUH) they work together and run their business… Islam gives a freedom to
woman, she can opt for a buisness that she wants to do. She can opt for her life partner.
It is much easy to think negative and spread out widely but we did not think about the
positive approach. In today’s era it’s most commonly seems everywhere if two buddies talk
with each other the third person definitely thinks about their personal relationship. From
here the gossiping has been start and frustration among the people.
If we do not like something about someone or they have done something to us we do not
like. We as human beings often react without thinking and become angry and even bitter
towards people it seems even in institutions, organizations, countries etc.
Due to our negative thinking our words and behavior become insulting for someone and it is
incredible to know how rapidly these negative behaviors breed and infect affect in our all
life. This is supplementary increases the gap damaging the relationship.

3. In all acts we first have to realize the behavior, when someone does something that we
don’t like or its bitter hart to tolerate. At a moment we can not understand the reason behind
his or her negative behavior. It does not mean he or she is wrong there must be a reason to
behave in such a way.
In such situation our one wrong step creates so many troubles. If we react to the other
person and respond in a same way in bad mood, it extends the distance between us and
there is create a frustration and the aggression among the two people.
To make a good relationship we just need to remember the best qualities of that person.
The most prominent thing is try to understand the issue and resolve it in an appropriate way.
Find out the reason of difference in opinion and clear all misunderstandings. This is much
helpful to have a life journey peaceful and full of love. No matter, what sort of relation is
whether its friends, colleagues, love birds, husband & wife whatever.
The real thing is understanding and trust. Trust is a thing that we can save from so many
destructions in life and we can save our relationships. Do not judge the relation with our own
assumptions and do not blame each other without any proof. If we do not have to
understand other feelings, it may be a cause of disputes and create so many issues to face
in their life. You just have to treat with a situation with calm and in a humble way.
Each individual has engaged in recreation in your life and your generosity, sympathetic
behavior, and learning is just like a leading path that is playing in their life. We are all
connected to each other as a strong bonding and we are all part of the same widespread
energy.
Boost up your all energy to fight against all misunderstandings and negative thinking. This is
your life you have to make it lively or hell. Choice is yours; we are just a guardian of love,
peace and humanity.
Whenever you think there is something wrong with your relationship or feels something
negative before react think twice. Everyone have to faced good days and bad days together
but do not forget the real relation always demands for purity and where it exists the relation
is safe and if truth be told their reaction is to do with them not you, and your reaction is
about you not them.
Article is published by author in “woman tribe”.
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