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What does that mean exactly?
It means that our ability to put up with the gruff and inconveniences
    cause by others can be an indicator of how much we love them.
    Love is slow to anger when inconvenienced. When we get in the
   trenches with people to endure difficulty or hardship, and we do it
         without complaining, we express our love for them.
What does this mean?
It means that grace is the capacity to accept people as they are and
     forgive them for the wrong they cause. As a component of love,
    grace is an act of the will, extended without condition or limitation.
       When we receive grace, it is always undeserved and usually
      unexpected. We come by it through no power of our own, but,
   rather, through the power of love extended from others. People who
    feel an overwhelming sense of appreciation are compelled to act
                              more responsibly.
What does this mean?
It means that sometimes the most loving thing we can do for people is
    tell them the truth–even when the truth hurts. Making decisions that
     hurt people in the present but help them avoid even greater pain
     and hardship in the future may be the kindest thing we can do for
     them. This is why love is tough and gutsy. The caveat, of course, is
       that our actions must be motivated by genuine love. Often we
    avoid telling people the truth because, in the name of kindness, we
    want to spare them the hurt. At other times, we avoid telling people
         the truth out of self-protection, we hate the thought of being
      disliked. In either case, we do them no favor. Our evasion of the
   truth enables others to continue operating with deficiencies that are
          detrimental to their success and well-being. That is not love.
Love is not proud? What does that mean? Often we think of pridefulness, as
     someone "struttin' their stuff," or thinking of themselves as better than
    others in very visible ways. Here is a definition of pride that will change
   your definition of pride forever, if you'll take hold of it; “Pride isn't thinking
             too much of yourself; It's thinking of yourself too much!”
  That's right. It's possible to be prideful even while you're putting yourself
     down, saying, "Woe is me. I'm just not worthy, just not good enough."
    Your focus is still on yourself! You're focused on yourself just as much as
   the person who thinks too highly of himself or herself. You're still thinking
    of yourself! You can't be thinking of another person's well being. You're
      too self-focused. That's pride! Never mind you're unworthiness. Love
   doesn't make junk. You're worthy because love makes you worthy. And
    guess what? You're no better than the next guy. You have nothing that
      your parents didn't give you, and nothing they can't take back in a
   moment. So you have nothing to focus on about yourself, either thinking
       too highly of yourself, or thinking too lowly of yourself. Quit thinking
    about yourself. It’s not about you! Love is not proud. It doesn't focus on
         self. It focuses on everything but, and the well being of others.
What does this mean?

Love believes all things. I think that is one of the greatest statements. There is
   such beauty, grace, and security in it. It isn't talking about being gullible.
   If you put it with the rest of the love statements people have made, you
   can see they’re talking about giving someone the benefit of the doubt.
   Instead of jumping to a negative conclusion, assume the best first. If the
       negative conclusion is the correct one, that truth will eventually be
    found out and can be dealt with. But a lot of people have done more
      harm thinking the worst about what someone did or said, instead of
   keeping an open mind and thinking the best. I know this looks like we're
     setting ourselves up to look like a fool. I personally think what makes us
      look foolish is if we behave badly when we discover we were wrong
      when we thought the best of someone. If we start ranting and raving
   about the other person and become nasty towards them, that will make
        us look foolish. But if we remain calm, and treat the situation in a
        gracious and polite manner, people watching the situation may
    develop respect for us and become interested in why we are being so
                                        gracious.
What does this mean?
I think love always hopes means that no matter what, when you love
      unconditionally you will never see fault. Love will always see and
     endure the greater good. Love never gives us up, but people do.
   Love is always optimistic in spite of what is apparent. When you love
      someone, you always have hope for them. Hence the reason so
      many people stay with a lover who mistreats them or cheats on
    them. Love always hopes that the other person will do better in the
                                next situation.
What does this mean?
It means that no matter what love will conquer all. Most people
     believe that “God” has the say in everything and he decides
  who we love, when we love, etc. I am not a person who believes
      such things as these. I’m not saying he doesn’t exist, I’m just
     saying I choose who I love, how I love, when and where I love
 and do all sorts of things. If you believe something different, good
 for you. We all have different opinions on the matter; which is why
   I chose to make this power point. I don’t really know what “love
      never fails” means. I’m hoping a few of you can put on your
  thinking caps and come up with a definition of what this means.

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What is love?

  • 1.
  • 2. What does that mean exactly? It means that our ability to put up with the gruff and inconveniences cause by others can be an indicator of how much we love them. Love is slow to anger when inconvenienced. When we get in the trenches with people to endure difficulty or hardship, and we do it without complaining, we express our love for them.
  • 3. What does this mean? It means that grace is the capacity to accept people as they are and forgive them for the wrong they cause. As a component of love, grace is an act of the will, extended without condition or limitation. When we receive grace, it is always undeserved and usually unexpected. We come by it through no power of our own, but, rather, through the power of love extended from others. People who feel an overwhelming sense of appreciation are compelled to act more responsibly.
  • 4. What does this mean? It means that sometimes the most loving thing we can do for people is tell them the truth–even when the truth hurts. Making decisions that hurt people in the present but help them avoid even greater pain and hardship in the future may be the kindest thing we can do for them. This is why love is tough and gutsy. The caveat, of course, is that our actions must be motivated by genuine love. Often we avoid telling people the truth because, in the name of kindness, we want to spare them the hurt. At other times, we avoid telling people the truth out of self-protection, we hate the thought of being disliked. In either case, we do them no favor. Our evasion of the truth enables others to continue operating with deficiencies that are detrimental to their success and well-being. That is not love.
  • 5. Love is not proud? What does that mean? Often we think of pridefulness, as someone "struttin' their stuff," or thinking of themselves as better than others in very visible ways. Here is a definition of pride that will change your definition of pride forever, if you'll take hold of it; “Pride isn't thinking too much of yourself; It's thinking of yourself too much!” That's right. It's possible to be prideful even while you're putting yourself down, saying, "Woe is me. I'm just not worthy, just not good enough." Your focus is still on yourself! You're focused on yourself just as much as the person who thinks too highly of himself or herself. You're still thinking of yourself! You can't be thinking of another person's well being. You're too self-focused. That's pride! Never mind you're unworthiness. Love doesn't make junk. You're worthy because love makes you worthy. And guess what? You're no better than the next guy. You have nothing that your parents didn't give you, and nothing they can't take back in a moment. So you have nothing to focus on about yourself, either thinking too highly of yourself, or thinking too lowly of yourself. Quit thinking about yourself. It’s not about you! Love is not proud. It doesn't focus on self. It focuses on everything but, and the well being of others.
  • 6. What does this mean? Love believes all things. I think that is one of the greatest statements. There is such beauty, grace, and security in it. It isn't talking about being gullible. If you put it with the rest of the love statements people have made, you can see they’re talking about giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Instead of jumping to a negative conclusion, assume the best first. If the negative conclusion is the correct one, that truth will eventually be found out and can be dealt with. But a lot of people have done more harm thinking the worst about what someone did or said, instead of keeping an open mind and thinking the best. I know this looks like we're setting ourselves up to look like a fool. I personally think what makes us look foolish is if we behave badly when we discover we were wrong when we thought the best of someone. If we start ranting and raving about the other person and become nasty towards them, that will make us look foolish. But if we remain calm, and treat the situation in a gracious and polite manner, people watching the situation may develop respect for us and become interested in why we are being so gracious.
  • 7. What does this mean? I think love always hopes means that no matter what, when you love unconditionally you will never see fault. Love will always see and endure the greater good. Love never gives us up, but people do. Love is always optimistic in spite of what is apparent. When you love someone, you always have hope for them. Hence the reason so many people stay with a lover who mistreats them or cheats on them. Love always hopes that the other person will do better in the next situation.
  • 8. What does this mean? It means that no matter what love will conquer all. Most people believe that “God” has the say in everything and he decides who we love, when we love, etc. I am not a person who believes such things as these. I’m not saying he doesn’t exist, I’m just saying I choose who I love, how I love, when and where I love and do all sorts of things. If you believe something different, good for you. We all have different opinions on the matter; which is why I chose to make this power point. I don’t really know what “love never fails” means. I’m hoping a few of you can put on your thinking caps and come up with a definition of what this means.