Ending a relationship can be really difficult and you don't want it to be any more upsetting than necessary. If you are considering ending a relationship you might be contemplating the best way to do it, but is there really a right way?
2. Ending a relationship can be really difficult and
you don't want it to be any more upsetting
than necessary.
3. If you are considering ending a relationship
you might be contemplating the best way to
do it, but is there really a right way?
4. Ideally it would be good to end a relationship
on good terms and without too much drama
and pain.
5. Unfortunately the ideal ending to a relationship
doesn't happen very often, but instead
relationships often end in a bad way leaving
behind feelings of anger and sadness.
6. When the break up is drawn out and messy it
can leave both parties furious at each other
and very bitter.
7. If you know in your heart that your relationship
is over and are just trying to find the right
way to end it, then keep in mind that this
person is one that you have loved and has
shared a big part of your life.
8. Find the right time to talk to your partner
openly and honestly and let them know
exactly how you feel.
9. Let her know your true feelings but don't go
blaming her for anything, as soon as you
start the blame game that is when it can turn
nasty.
10. If the breakup comes as a shock to your ex
then she will have a thousand questions
running through her mind, so the more that
you can explain to her the better.
11. By explaining your feelings and your decision
to your partner then it will also help you to
know in your own mind that you are making
the right decision.
12. If you have been in the relationship for a long
time then you really do want to take the time
to break it to her gently and not just walk out
leaving her wondering what happened.
13. You never know if you sit down and talk about
how you are feeling you might even come up
with another solution rather than just ending
the relationship completely.
14. Perhaps you can spend some time apart to
think things through and evaluate your
situation before making a final decision one
way or the other.
15. Or course this advice above is based on a
relationship that has been reasonably happy.
16. For example, things will be a bit different if you
are ending a relationship because your
partner is abusive.
17. If you make the decision to end a relationship
that is abusive then it is usually best that you
leave the relationship as soon as you can.
18. Some relationships can be so abusive that a
person is too scared to leave for fear that
their partner will find them, so you will need
to plan your departure carefully and you may
need to seek help.
19. Even if you are the person ending the
relationship, you can still feel sadness and
loneliness when it is over.
20. Just remember, that when one door closes
another door opens and although the end of
a relationship is a sad time, you are now
beginning the rest of your life, so enjoy every
minute of it.
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