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GET YOUR
RESILIENCE
IN CHECK
Melissa Sassi
Chief Penguin, IBM Z
@mentorafrika
*Adapted from Harvard Business Review
WHAT IS RESILIENCE?
Resilience is the ability to
bounce back quickly when the
bad stuff in life stomps the
breath out of us & knocks us
down.
It's what helps us get back up
again...stronger than ever.
WE NEVER KNOW WHAT'S
GOING TO HAPPEN NEXT,
RIGHT?
I mean, who would have ever
thought we would experience a
global pandemic in our lifetime?
NOT ME! NOT YOU!
WE
PLAN
OR
WE TRY
TO
PLAN
But we have to be
ready to pivot, adapt,
accept change, cope,
realize there are things
we cannot control, and
recognize that change
is often hard and
trying.
WE HAVE NO
CHOICE BUT
TO GET
THROUGH IT
WE HAVE TO LEARN TO
EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED
The
Unpredictable
The
Uncontrollable
A Trauma or
Crisis
The only thing that stays the same is change.
RESILIENCE IS
THE KEY TO
handling unexpected blips in
the road
managing turmoil, crises &
trauma
embracing change, even
when it seems impossible
RESILIENCE HELPS YOU
MANAGE & ACCEPT
SETBACKS
It helps you
move forward
It helps you adapt to the changed in
your life
It even helps you grow as a person in
your journey to become your best self
NOT ALL STRESS IS BAD
I repeat. NOT ALL STRESS IS BAD
YOU HEARD IT!
Getting through painful trauma
& the bad stuff life throws at us
make us stronger in the end.
Cope using positive
mechanisms.
Unhealthy behaviors do
not create resilience.
STEP 1: Be positive.
Do not overthink the negative aspects of what you're
facing.
Look for the positives & opportunities available.
Enjoy the learning journey & see it as a time to grow.
STEP 2: Your values.
Follow your gut.
Look for something bigger than you, than the
situation & the greater good that come transpire.
Stick to your values, ethics, morals, and belief
systems, while still being open to change.
STEP 3: Be selfless.
Be empathetic.
Have concern for others around you without being
self-absorbed in your own circumstances.
Dedicate yourself and your time to volunteerism and
causes that bring you joy, community, and fulfilment.
STEP 4: Focus.
You cannot change everything, focus on what you
can influence.
Foucus on embracing the circumstance as an
opportunity for something different.
Focus on what opportunities could arise that might
not normally have been possible.
STEP 5: Purpose.
Find your purpose, your superpower, your secret
sauce.
Use this time to come up with a new mission in life
that brings meaning to you.
find the strength and courage by choosing to not let
chaos, turmoil, trauma, and change destroy you.
STEP 6: Squad.
Gather your trusted squad and text them often.
Use this time to come up with a new mission in life
that brings meaning to you.
Find the strength and courage by choosing to not let
chaos, turmoil, trauma, and change destroy you.
THANK YOU
HARVARD BUSINESS REVIEW!
for schooling me up on resilience & making me more
resilient this year.
Melissa Sassi
Chief Penguin, IBM Z
@mentorafrika

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Get Your Resilience in Check

  • 1. GET YOUR RESILIENCE IN CHECK Melissa Sassi Chief Penguin, IBM Z @mentorafrika *Adapted from Harvard Business Review
  • 2. WHAT IS RESILIENCE? Resilience is the ability to bounce back quickly when the bad stuff in life stomps the breath out of us & knocks us down. It's what helps us get back up again...stronger than ever.
  • 3. WE NEVER KNOW WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN NEXT, RIGHT? I mean, who would have ever thought we would experience a global pandemic in our lifetime? NOT ME! NOT YOU!
  • 4. WE PLAN OR WE TRY TO PLAN But we have to be ready to pivot, adapt, accept change, cope, realize there are things we cannot control, and recognize that change is often hard and trying. WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO GET THROUGH IT
  • 5. WE HAVE TO LEARN TO EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED The Unpredictable The Uncontrollable A Trauma or Crisis The only thing that stays the same is change.
  • 6. RESILIENCE IS THE KEY TO handling unexpected blips in the road managing turmoil, crises & trauma embracing change, even when it seems impossible
  • 7. RESILIENCE HELPS YOU MANAGE & ACCEPT SETBACKS It helps you move forward It helps you adapt to the changed in your life It even helps you grow as a person in your journey to become your best self
  • 8. NOT ALL STRESS IS BAD I repeat. NOT ALL STRESS IS BAD YOU HEARD IT!
  • 9. Getting through painful trauma & the bad stuff life throws at us make us stronger in the end.
  • 10. Cope using positive mechanisms. Unhealthy behaviors do not create resilience.
  • 11. STEP 1: Be positive. Do not overthink the negative aspects of what you're facing. Look for the positives & opportunities available. Enjoy the learning journey & see it as a time to grow.
  • 12. STEP 2: Your values. Follow your gut. Look for something bigger than you, than the situation & the greater good that come transpire. Stick to your values, ethics, morals, and belief systems, while still being open to change.
  • 13. STEP 3: Be selfless. Be empathetic. Have concern for others around you without being self-absorbed in your own circumstances. Dedicate yourself and your time to volunteerism and causes that bring you joy, community, and fulfilment.
  • 14. STEP 4: Focus. You cannot change everything, focus on what you can influence. Foucus on embracing the circumstance as an opportunity for something different. Focus on what opportunities could arise that might not normally have been possible.
  • 15. STEP 5: Purpose. Find your purpose, your superpower, your secret sauce. Use this time to come up with a new mission in life that brings meaning to you. find the strength and courage by choosing to not let chaos, turmoil, trauma, and change destroy you.
  • 16. STEP 6: Squad. Gather your trusted squad and text them often. Use this time to come up with a new mission in life that brings meaning to you. Find the strength and courage by choosing to not let chaos, turmoil, trauma, and change destroy you.
  • 17. THANK YOU HARVARD BUSINESS REVIEW! for schooling me up on resilience & making me more resilient this year. Melissa Sassi Chief Penguin, IBM Z @mentorafrika