Young people bear witness to challenging or traumatic events in current events, media, and our local communities. Their thoughts, feelings, and reactions enter school spaces whether we introduce conversations or not. We adults have a natural instinct to protect our children from harsh realities and yet prepare them to navigate this complex world - is it possible to do both? What are ways to talk about identity, difference, and justice in age appropriate ways? How do you reinforce school values without shutting down perspectives? How do you facilitate authentic and respectful dialogue across difference? Engage in these questions and more through this interactive session.
St. Andrew's Episcopal School (Austin) Talking To Youth
1. St. Andrew’s Episcopal School
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Seattle Girls’ School
Talking to Young People
About Complicated and Heated Topics
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3. Agenda
Current Realities
Young People’s Experience
How to Talk to Youth
How to Facilitate Conversations
Questions and Answers
Resources
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4. Current Realities
Anthem Protests
Tax Reform
Nuclear Tensions
Russia Probes
Sexual Misconduct Allegations
Black Lives Matter
And More…
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5. Young People’s Experience
Increase in Anti-Group Sentiment
Increased Uncivil Discourse
Rise in Sadness, Fear, and Anxiety
Increased Acting Out
And More…
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6. How to Talk to Young People
About Current Events
What have you heard?
How do you feel?
What questions do you have?
How can I support you?
Here are our values.
What positive action can you take?
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7. How to Talk to Young People
About Hate and Extremism
Prepare Yourself
Be Alert
Listen
Reassure
Be Honest
Share Your Values
Take Action
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8. How to Talk to Young People After
Personal Incidents
“I want to help you feel strong.”
Affection, correction, protection
Emotions are always right; not all
action is always right
Avoid either/or thinking
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9. Helping Young People Talk to One Another
Create Safety and Courage
Express Feelings
Generate Questions
Share Facts
Learn More
Complicate Thinking
Take Action
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11. Sharing the Challenges,
Sharing the Wisdom
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A challenge we couldn’t strategize well
around was…
A great approach we discussed was…
I have a question about…
What if…
13. Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
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15. Sample Topic: NFL Protests
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What makes you nervous?
What makes you hopeful?
Your home is host to a sleepover. You notice
the kids in an argument. As you get closer you
overhear a jumble of comments. “Protesting
against flags is wrong!” “It’s free speech!” “My
favorite player is taking a knee!” “The President
says it’s wrong!”
– How do you intervene?
– What do you need to keep in mind?
– What do you want to avoid doing?
16. Takeaways
What did you learn today
that was new, helpful, or
thought provoking?
What are some goals or
strategies you would like to
apply with your
children/students?
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